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Hi...I'm Norma!

I live in the great state of Texas - born and raised in Houston. I have been divorced for 13yrs and have no children.(nor any plans - giving birth that is!) I am 43yrs young and enjoy my everday life! I have an excellent career as a VP & Branch Manager.

I can only say that any advise coming from me, would be an honest one. Mostly, it's from the heart, added with a touch of brains, common sense and compassion. I think everyone has done "something" in their life and has learned from it. For those of us who have, if we can help someone else not make the same mistake or maybe we might have first hand experience in, what a blessing that can be.

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Till Death Do We Part - A True Story

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30 June 2007: Doesn't anybody stay together anymore? In this day and time, it is so easy to get a divorce or even better...just live together to "see if it works out" first. Don't get me wrong, I personally believe there are good reasons to divorce, and I know I ...

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A. 29 March 2007: I wish you all the luck in the world and it sounds like you are going to be just fine!!!! You will get through this, it just takes time. As hard as if may be, stay strong and know we are an email away!!! Good Luck!!!... (read in full...)

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I'm worried that my husband is cheating! We've had trust issues recently, but am I just being silly?

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A. 21 February 2007: I remember always being told go with your gut feeling. That doesn't mean he is having an affair, it just means maybe you should have a talk with him...a real one and explain to him about why you feel this way. Many times when you have "that" talk, ... (read in full...)

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