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... Send *utterflyfly a private message | | | *utterflyfly's profile:I am a 28 yrs old woman who loves anything related to frienship - common projects, getting to know other people, getting to know more about other people, understanding the misterious ways of human mind. I live in London and I've had 3 major changes of career until now , which is a bit unsettling -the first career started when i was 12. At present I am passionate about wines and learning about them as much as i can. Although I've had an unsettled life, I don't regret anything that I've done and any decisions that I've taken. I love to feep a diary with all my important experiences. I hope to live until im 148 and if I'm still lucid to re read my life's adventures and reflect on them. I am a bit of an eccentric and I get enthusiastic quickly. But i'm the most down to earth person I know as well. Or a chicken.
I love music - all kinds and i recently have discovered classical music- Beethoven , oh my god! Divine...
I'm also an ex-smoker - very proud of it, because ciggies have been a very comforting company for a long time..and now i can do without them. And the coughs.
I love sports and I'm into running long distances. I am inlove with the volleyball game. It's like quick chess. It's the best game ever to keep you on your toes mentally and physically. I believe i've drawn all my life's skills from playing volleyball to a high level until --well, some time ago.
I love talking about myself BUT!! I also love to listen to other people and find out how they work.
When I get down or moody or lonely I try to make myself laugh. If i dont succeed, I know it's a serious problem and seek advice from friends.
Jeez i could go on and on.
Oh. something else.
If i was granted 3 wishes, i will not want to have a magic wand again. I would like instead:
1.friends. more friends.
2.being in touch with myself at all times
3. better time management, or equally a 25 hour day
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Is falling in love with someone..a want or a decision?
Q. Do you fall in love because you want to, because at some level in your mind you decide to do it, or do you fall in love exclusively because of the effect you think someone else has on you? ...
A. 6 September 2007: I agree with the last post.... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 August 2007: how can i not want to hear your opinion, you were one of the few who were consistently assisting me in this situation with advice so i am grateful for your time taken to give me your views. it's been a journey and i cant complain i couldn't turn ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 12 August 2007: hlskitten, what an interesting reply as well, from you. i don't feel lonely in all this mess at all anymore. i'm so glad i bumped into this website, and have quality interractions and discussing issues with others. these liars, heh? what a waste of ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 12 August 2007: I've met this guy for a drink this saturday night with a 'what's gone is gone, let's not look in the past' attitude. he's been extremely reassuring and nice to me and been saying he wants me back etc for the last weeks. I'm really not up for it, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me I was superficial, have no personality, hide my emotions and so many other negative things... could he be right?!
Q. Today, my new boyfriend, told me what he thought about my personality. He told me I was superficial, have no personality, hide my emotions and so many other negative things. It hurt and now I can't stop thinking about it. Six months ago I ended a ...
A. 11 August 2007: Hello.. people will always say things to you, good and bad, out of spite or to help you. Obviously this guy doesn't really give 2 pennies on you and how you feel if he's constructed such a negative image of you. Could it be that he is upset or hurt ... (read in full...)
What kind of game is this guy playing with me?
Q. I dont Understand him at all...A couple days ago he wanted me to sneak out of the house so I could spend the night with him...I didnt sneak out of the house because I wuz to afraid...SO today when I check my myspace friends I find out that he had ...
A. 11 August 2007: yeah I agree with Danielpew, hoe's he;s behaving now is the best feedback you can need from him.... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Please beware of private messages from strangers asking for money or promising riches!
Q. Hi everyone We've had a couple of scammers posting private mails through the site. Please everyone use your common sense and keep yourself safe. This goes for all sites, not just this one! * Never give anyone your phone number or home em...
A. 11 August 2007: yaayy i got one too! from baby2love who is a sea apart from me but he ( she?) still bets we're soul mates. sigh.. i wish my real life darlin would even consider BEING like that..... (read in full...)
If muscle weighs more than fat...then how am I to loose actual weight?
Q. i want to loose weight and im on a dieting site but its best to exercise aswell whilst eating better foods but then i will develop more muscle and muscle weighs more than fat and i have a goal to reach but by doing exercises muscle will develop and ...
A. 11 August 2007: do you wanna lose weight or do you wanna look your best possible stunning shape? i'd go for the way i felt in my body - fit and energetic rather than lethargic and having trembling legs and not being able to run after a bus or get to 2nd floor ... (read in full...)
I have several untrustworthy relationships, does that say something is wrong with me? If so, how do I fix it?
Q. Okay, I previously asked a question about how to tell if someone is a player. (thanks to all those who responded). I have since discovered that yes, the guy I was seeing and thinking about taking it to the next level was indeed a player. First of ...
A. 10 August 2007: I think if you feel paranoid or you smell something's wrong, don#t burry that feeling, there's nothing wrong with it. If the guy's to be wiht you, he will either not make you feel paranoid, or he will reassure you and make a point of washing your ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions for removal of acne.
Q. How do i get rid of my acne. I have blackheads, pimples, a lot of red markings and scars on my face. How do i get rid of it naturally? Are there any creams i could buy that won't break my budget, and won't make me breakout b/c i have very sensitive ...
A. 10 August 2007: i dont have acne ut eveytime i get a pimple ( is that how u call'em? or a skin infection ) i put some aloe vera cream on and that dried the life out of'em in a couple days/... (read in full...)
Is falling in love with someone..a want or a decision?
Q. Do you fall in love because you want to, because at some level in your mind you decide to do it, or do you fall in love exclusively because of the effect you think someone else has on you? ...
A. 10 August 2007: Do you think it's possile for someone to tell you 'I love you' when they don't mean it -they say it as a means to get in your pants or soemthing like that?
Aren#t the 'I love you ' words the heaviest ones around?
Has it ever happened to you ... (read in full...)
I can't afford to leave my partner. We rent a place together but he is never there and when he is there we argue.
Q. Hi Everyone, please help me. I can't afford to leave my partner. We rent a place together but he is never there and when he is there we argue. I can't stand it anymore, I have no family or friends to turn to. I don't wanna be with him anymore but I ...
A. 10 August 2007: I agree with Polly try to get a flatshare. I live in London and have so many girlfriends who're happily sharing flats together. Are you working atm? why not get a job, that would help get you ot of your usual environment , meet new people, and help ... (read in full...)
I feel this amazing attraction to this guy, like a lightning bolt
Q. Hi, I'm 33 and attached. I recently met a man who is also attached. It was clear we were very strongy attracted to each other immediately, but being "attached" we kept a certain amount of distance between each other. Then one night we happened to ...
A. 9 August 2007: so what happened ?:)... (read in full...)
Is happiness to be found or within ourselves? And if it's within in ourselves how the hell do you find it because I can't!
Q. Is happiness to be found or within ourselves? And if it's within in ourselves how the hell do you find it because I can't! Any suggestions?...
A. 9 August 2007: hapiness is in whatever you recognise it in.. get creative and make a list with 100 things that make oyu happy! i found this idea on 43things.com, and i went for it, it was hard after the first 10, then i had to really think about the positive stuff ... (read in full...)
I have a massive probem, I can't trust anyone.
Q. I have a massive probem, I can't trust anyone, I was seeing this lad about 3 months ago and then split with him, his mate has been coming on to me recently and I have kissed him and really like him. I have found out that the one I have kissed is ...
A. 9 August 2007: I think you should adjust your expectations, some people are going to dissapoint you in life, and some aren't, it's hard to tell ones from the others, but with a keen eye and more perspective you can learn to 'read' their minds.. but i still think ... (read in full...)
Is falling in love with someone..a want or a decision?
Q. Do you fall in love because you want to, because at some level in your mind you decide to do it, or do you fall in love exclusively because of the effect you think someone else has on you? ...
A. 9 August 2007: i think it's a decision, a want.. when i was younger i thoght it was definately the other person's input, but now after deliberating a lot im pretty surre we decide to do it, when and with whom, and with what reasons(acknowledged or not...... (read in full...)
He's has problems since his wife died. He wants to date me but I am relunctant. Should I?
Q. I work with people.. I've known this customer for 3 years. He is in his 60s, retired after a highly paid job, and we've always had a cordial relationship. He is a very nice man who's always had time for other people and he was one of my favorite ...
A. 8 August 2007: hi skye, thank you for your advice, it makes sense and i dont feel guilty anymore for not wanting to meet him up. meanwhile ive done my best to subtly convey to him ( body language, mentioning i am sooo very busy etc) that im very uncomforable to ... (read in full...)
Got asked out (in Tesco), got embarrased and told him I had a boyfriend, which I don't... now I regret it!
Q. I was shopping in Tesco last week and was asked out by a lad.He was so polite and friendly but Im such a very shy person that I got embarrassed instantly and told him I had a boyfriend(even though I dont).Now I regret it so much and wish I had taken ...
A. 5 August 2007: Well now you know to go for it when the opportunity arises no ifs and buts!!! there's nothing wrong with meeting people in all scenarios, they can turn to be even good friends, you just never know... damn HOpe you'll get lucky and bump into him ... (read in full...)
I am female and over six foot tall! I'm insecure about it. Tell me-- Do men find tall women attractive?
Q. This is a stupid question, but I am very insecure as I am so tall. I am six foot and tower over people, especially when I wear heels. I am very slim and used to be a model so everyone thinks I am so confident, but the truth is I hate it so much. I ...
A. 4 August 2007: i'mn 5.11 and love it and also love to wear high heels! whoever tells me 'jeez you're soo tall' i reply back 'wow, you so short, sorry, hope you ok with it' haha ... (read in full...)
On one hand I'm afraid of ending things because we are so compatible. On the other, I'm afraid to stay in it and end up feeling like I "settled" in some way.
Q. I have been dating a guy that I met on-line for about 11 months. We've seen each other at least once a month for a week at a time. He is in love with me. I am not. Because he is so wonderful I keep trying, but I think the problem is either a ...
A. 4 August 2007: I know what you mean, and it depends wether you will be happy with the emotional comfort he offers you. if you break up you might 'realise' out of a sudden the relationship with him was good, but if you stay and are not fully convinced you want him, ... (read in full...)
Need perspective on what to do about this other long distance girl I still like.
Q. Hello everyone. Things finally seem to be settling down a little, at long last. It's been over a month since my long distance girlfriend of 2 years split with me, and I feel a little easier about the situation right now. We are still in cont...
A. 2 August 2007: Given all that you said until now and how frustrating your break up with your ex must have been, I think you deserve a breath of fresh air. Maybe it's too soon to throw yourself into another relationship and internet chat does speed things up a lit... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend and he failed! Still want him though...
Q. Hiya, Recently I've been thinking that my feelings for my boyfriend aren't as strong as they used to be. So, my friends decided to test him, see whether he truly liked me, he was talking dirty with them, and stripped off on webcam. He then denied it ...
A. 31 July 2007: Hi I understand why it crossed your mind to test him. I used to see a guy until recently but somehow I never fully trusted him so I tested him chatting him up through text messages, pretending to be a mistery admirer. He took the bait and more.. I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend refuses to say sorry when he's in the wrong
Q. why is it so hard for a man to say sorry especailly when he knows that he was in the wrong? it always seems to be me that has to approach him when he has done wrong and he will wait it out weeks and months, even when he knows he was in the wrong!...
A. 28 July 2007: hey sweetie if they so refuse to admit they're wrong ,then they definately KNOW they're in the wrong, they're just being defensive. someone who KNOWS they're in the right are happy to let the argumetn drop cos they are secure with what they know ... (read in full...)
I have the 'hots' for her bf! How do I break them up?
Q. I know its wrong but I have the ''Hot's'' for my friends boyfriend... What can I do to break them up???...
A. 28 July 2007: friends are there to stay no matter the boyfriends/girlfriends.. this sounds like an ambitious whim.. are these the kind of things that make you tick? because in the long run you could end up quite lonely without many true friends ..... (read in full...)
What really happens to the soul when we die???
Q. I know someone who commited suicide. Now that I am dealing with ok - she had a pretty hard life; I often thought - I wonder how she copes and carries on with life. So that I do not need advice or counselling for - I am ok with it. What I am conc...
A. 28 July 2007: I like the buddhist approach. all things are one, just different shapes and forms. that's pretty metaphisical but quite soothing and being such a general 'rule', it includes all the possibilities :). so your friend exists now in your mind, and ... (read in full...)
In a relationship, what do guys like and not like?
Q. Please someone tell me, what do guys want out of a relationship? do they like to be kissed alot? do they sometimes just want to be left alone? how do they like their girl to act? and what do guys not like? ...
A. 28 July 2007: depends on the person.you can always bring this up subtly in a good humoured conversation to find out what makes the one you 've chosen tick, by 'confessing' your 'do's and 'do not's :). ... (read in full...)
At first sex was fine and wasn't an issue but now she dosen't seem interested in it at all.
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend for going on 2 years now but somthing's not right at all. At first sex was fine and wasn't an issue but now she dosen't seem interested in it at all. We still get on really well and are very much in love but ...
A. 28 July 2007: It sounds like platonic love... she probably feels she knows you too well or she's got all she could out of the relationship with you. maybe you need to spice things up and help her see you with some new eyes.. think about what she likes and ... (read in full...)
Im so confused who to pick, guy number one or guy number two!
Q. Need help ASAP! I have two very great men that both love me. I was in a relationship with a guy for around 5 years, my first high school love. I am now 23 he is 26. We broke it off a couple years ago but still never stopped talking and doing ...
A. 28 July 2007: it although sounds like none jumps out in your mind now.you wrote more positive htings about guy no 2 than guy no 1 tho. think about more good and bads or what makes oyu happy with both of them and what you can do without at both of them,... (read in full...)
Mum won't let me out.
Q. Hey, i am 14 and my mum keeps me in all the time. She won't let me go out to any of my freinds house or sleep over, she wont even let me stay at my best mates house when she know's we both won't do anything bad. Then when people come round she alwa...
A. 28 July 2007: try to talk to her about it.. dont get defensive just tell her how upset this makes you and how weird it's gonna be for you when you do eventually get out not to be able to have friends, be part of a good group, learn from other people, how isolated ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and dating my 25 year old teacher
Q. Hi. my names lindsay and im going out with a 25 year old. im only 14... but i love him and he loves me...what do u think? but if anyone finds out like in my school he could like lose everything cause hes a teacher...what do u think?...
A. 28 July 2007: How do you know he loves you.. this is such a dangerous situation for noth of you and it will end up ungly... if he really loved you he would have thought at the consequences and advised you to cool off or something and meet up when you're older.. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's upset that I slept with someone while we were on a break! How can we both deal with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I started dating about four years ago. Over a year ago, we decided to end things, or take a break, because of pressure and disapproval from family and friends. We've since worked through those obstacles and are now closer than ever. ...
A. 28 July 2007: Separation or taking a break means being separated and having a brreak with all that involves.. just because you are more flexible and were able to meet someone else instead of feelign all miserable doesn't make you a bad person . the fact that you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's upset that I slept with someone while we were on a break! How can we both deal with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I started dating about four years ago. Over a year ago, we decided to end things, or take a break, because of pressure and disapproval from family and friends. We've since worked through those obstacles and are now closer than ever. ...
A. 28 July 2007: something else came to my mind, maybe doing somethng practical would help him. for example dedicating an weekend together, or going away somewhre, having a good time and be close,as a sort of make-up thing..... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's upset that I slept with someone while we were on a break! How can we both deal with this?
Q. My boyfriend and I started dating about four years ago. Over a year ago, we decided to end things, or take a break, because of pressure and disapproval from family and friends. We've since worked through those obstacles and are now closer than ever. ...
A. 28 July 2007: You two had problems together and it's a good hting you got closer and back to being an item. But what if things ended a different way? I understand he is upset but hey it was you who told him about the whole thing and that's very important because ... (read in full...)
I feel this amazing attraction to this guy, like a lightning bolt
Q. Hi, I'm 33 and attached. I recently met a man who is also attached. It was clear we were very strongy attracted to each other immediately, but being "attached" we kept a certain amount of distance between each other. Then one night we happened to ...
A. 27 July 2007: then go for it :).... (read in full...)
Is ten years too big a difference?
Q. There is 10 years difference between myself and my girlfriend. She is 47 and I'm 37. She has been married and divorced but has no kids. I'm not sure if I still want kids. I do care for her and enjoy being with her, but don't know if 10 years is...
A. 26 July 2007: I don;t think age matters either, you've both have had a good share of experiences until now to know how to make this one work well xxx.... (read in full...)
I feel this amazing attraction to this guy, like a lightning bolt
Q. Hi, I'm 33 and attached. I recently met a man who is also attached. It was clear we were very strongy attracted to each other immediately, but being "attached" we kept a certain amount of distance between each other. Then one night we happened to ...
A. 26 July 2007: Attractions, whims, what you shuld do, what you shuldnt do..
The attraction feeling, well that's the real thing and something worth 100000000000 dollars, it's just so great. Have you felt that sort of intensity/attraction often in your life? What... (read in full...)
How long before my feelings for him wear off?
Q. Just been dumped. Okay it was like 2 almost 3 weeks ago. But i still love him which i hate. I see him everyday coz my mates are his mates and so we're out together everyday. It breaks my heart, bcoz i love him still so much and its taking me so lo...
A. 26 July 2007: Parting ways with someone is bad enough, but how can you get over it when you still see him regularly.. there is no space for you to forget.. i thikn avoiding his company as much as possible and spendind time with new people more often, doing new ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but not the sex.
Q. Hi i am a 32 year old woman married for 12 year to the only man i have ever been with we have 2 children. All my friends fancy him and probably think we have a excellent sex life but the truth is i think its not. I went out with some friends a couple...
A. 26 July 2007: I too think that if you told him what and how you like him to do things, and just be mindful to not shape it as a criticism to him, well then he will know how to please you.. and it's a learning process. Also you yourself experiment on your own and ... (read in full...)
My fiancee asked me to move out saying she needed space
Q. I am 47 I have a 27 year old woman who I was engaged too and living with til a week ago than I was told to stay away she needed space. What does one do when a woman needs space and you are what seems hopelessly in love with her. Do you move on? sit ...
A. 26 July 2007: I've been in a similar situation (I'm 28 and he was 46, madly inlove at the beginning, but after a while i needed my space because he was so decided and 'full on'/ to me needing my space meant that i was through with him..but to your girlfriend it ... (read in full...)
How do I fill the void after being dumped?
Q. What does someone do to fill the void after being left,I don't want to fall into the addiction trap and where besides a bar can someone meet refreshing happy people? This must sound so lame but I feel completely lost....
A. 26 July 2007: Some people dont ever leave a relationship or procastinate leaving precisely because they are so afraid of dealing with the life after, on their own.. It seems like there is no life after, especially when we get so used to knowing there is someone ... (read in full...)
I feel stupid for saying goodbye.
Q. Okay, this is a strange question. I had a crush for many years, and just recently I said good-bye to this man who gave me such joy and insight. I said good-bye because I know that we cannot be together, and it was just the right thing to do. I love...
A. 26 July 2007: Why feel stupid.. It sounds like you have taken a decision based on facts.. and it's your decision and you've taken it because of your reasons. and that is quite a mature thing to do. we don;t know details of your relationship i can only guess it ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to figure out your sexuality issues?
Q. What is the best way to figure out your sexuality issues, and whether you're gay, straight, or Bi, when you're from over protective, anti gay family who expect you to be perfect, and live under the same roof till you get married, and talks about ...
A. 25 July 2007: i think you should take it in easy stepts and move out first to get some space to relax and explore on your own without feeling daunted by family.... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 25 July 2007: Danielepew that is a good question you ask and I had to narrow my dilemma down to that. You mentionned the positive side of all this trouble (that this experience revealed things that have to be improved in order for a relationship to be good). Then ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 20 July 2007: Another well, small dilemma hehehow else. I'm getting lazy thinking for myself and I chuck anything at this site for everyone to help me solve..
This guy has called me last nighti n the middle of the night and as i was halfway between sleep and ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 16 July 2007: Just thought I'd update he stopped all the texting and calling for 2 days now. Things ARE movign on :).... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: yeah and there's nothign sweeter and lovelier and conforting and interesting and exciting that 2 or more smart women meeitng up for a coffee and chat and having a great time together focusing on themselves rather than men or shall i say themselves ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: An explanation...
why i perhaps went too far. I had to be heard. Say i confronted him earlier, it would have turned on in a messy array of accusations, reasonings from both parts, stuff like 'you did that /no i did not/but you did/no i didn... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: Andy00 thanks for your reply, yes hell yeah you;re right it was a bit too extreme... but my intention was a definite closure so i am ok with it. i did feel sorry for him the next day. but then i am thinking,he did sweet talk me and embarked... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: for the guy that said these tests are little stupid tests.. they may be, they may be, but how else to get the peace of mind that i have now? a man is suffocating not when he is honest and loves you and makes sure you know that, a man is suffocat... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 July 2007: Andy, I respect your reply. But the feeling of being cheated on and lied face to face is unbearable, precisely because the cheated one had a good impression and opinion of the other one. You say you would never put yoursefl in this position - to be ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 July 2007: LOL that's so funny you printed off th e ltexts just to piss him off lol. wel the meeting happened last night...!! i can;t tell you how sweet it was.. it can;t be encompassed in words. he came there with his best mate. they were waiting. then they ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 July 2007: LOL... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 12 July 2007: tonight is the big night.. the meting happens at 9 pm. it's 5 pm now here.. the real me saw himt he other day, pretending to know nothign and my stomach turned inside out when i was seeing him lieing through his teeth and being as lovable as he ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 10 July 2007: Danielepew, as to my next 'love', i think I will have to do some hard thinking and focus on a different cathegory of men altogether... this one looks and behaves so macho and a 'ladies man' - i personally dont buy all that thats why i had him hangin ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 10 July 2007: Peterk5699 you're got a schemer's mind too!! I love the third option I justlove it! I did save most of the texts, the most relevant ( as the memory of this phone is almost full with this convesration!! ). I dont think i will take even more time and ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: An answer to the anonimour reader.. Guys you shoud really register to this site so I can put names to your replies! so an answer to her... it is evening here, the misterious girl texted him, he replies promply lookin forward for living life to the ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: ANother touch.. just to eliminate any possibility of doubt or insight coming into his mind, i will get my best friend to text him from this unknown number at the same time i'm with him. that would settle it solid 4 him he wont get burnt by pranks..... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: Danielepew, I am going to be at the date. By my calculations it is the best soothing I can get for my anger. It is the best way I can ge thim to understand what he has done. NO accusations, just saing hi :-) and going soon after :). SInce I had made ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: So the meeting is supposed to be this thursday evening. they have planned to have a drink and if all goes well, spend the night together having some fun. open mindedness and fun is their motto. shortly after this, we tried to establish our next ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: words can't express how grateful i am for all your replies. i guess you know how it feels not knowing where to reach because of clouding emotions... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: he's also told this other lady he's up for anytign and he likes women who are 'alive'. thakn you very much. after me finally 'giving in' to him in real life. see where i come from?... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Jess ----'This guy clearly cares for you a great deal so i don't understand why you felt you should try to prove him wrong.'. That's exacly what i was trying to do. I've got a kinda masochistic satisfaction out of this. I have had this sort of pain ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: YOu guys are very helpful and I can see the truth in all your replies! It's a soothing feeling to get some understanding!
Danielepew, you are on my wavelenght, this is what I 100% think too. He's just been so so so into me, that finally has got ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Thank you for your quick reply! That in itself is helpful enough... But my distrustful mind thinks, he seems up for anything, because the texts have been very implying on both parts... The image that he's always been projecting to me was exactly ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Thank you for your quick reply! That in itself is helpful enough... But my distrustful mind thinks, he seems up for anything, because the texts have been very implying on both parts... The image that he's always been projecting to me was exactly ... (read in full...)
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