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... Send *utterflyfly a private message | | | *utterflyfly's profile:I am a 28 yrs old woman who loves anything related to frienship - common projects, getting to know other people, getting to know more about other people, understanding the misterious ways of human mind. I live in London and I've had 3 major changes of career until now , which is a bit unsettling -the first career started when i was 12. At present I am passionate about wines and learning about them as much as i can. Although I've had an unsettled life, I don't regret anything that I've done and any decisions that I've taken. I love to feep a diary with all my important experiences. I hope to live until im 148 and if I'm still lucid to re read my life's adventures and reflect on them. I am a bit of an eccentric and I get enthusiastic quickly. But i'm the most down to earth person I know as well. Or a chicken.
I love music - all kinds and i recently have discovered classical music- Beethoven , oh my god! Divine...
I'm also an ex-smoker - very proud of it, because ciggies have been a very comforting company for a long time..and now i can do without them. And the coughs.
I love sports and I'm into running long distances. I am inlove with the volleyball game. It's like quick chess. It's the best game ever to keep you on your toes mentally and physically. I believe i've drawn all my life's skills from playing volleyball to a high level until --well, some time ago.
I love talking about myself BUT!! I also love to listen to other people and find out how they work.
When I get down or moody or lonely I try to make myself laugh. If i dont succeed, I know it's a serious problem and seek advice from friends.
Jeez i could go on and on.
Oh. something else.
If i was granted 3 wishes, i will not want to have a magic wand again. I would like instead:
1.friends. more friends.
2.being in touch with myself at all times
3. better time management, or equally a 25 hour day
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My girlfriend is a stripper and it is driving me crazy!! Is lap dancing to be considered cheating? I don't want to loose her, how do I deal with this?
Q. heres my question im in love with a woman who ive been with for the last three years on and off, we are talking again. the problem is that she is a stripper. i have mixed feelings about the whole thing, she has quit for me in the past but this tim...
A. 23 December 2007: what leanne has said fits in with what i know about strippers. i have a very good friend who is a stripper and to her her job is her job, she is extremely professional about it. she's 'catering' for a gullable crowd of men and sells a fantasy. every ... (read in full...)
I seem unable to organize my room and I feel like I'm unconciously choosing to leave it messy, what is wrong with me, is it a mental disease or something?
Q. Is there like a mental disease or something happening to me? I'ts been more than a year now and I can't seem to get my room organized. I'm an adult, I graduated for college and all and I live with my parents. I have my own room which is quite small ...
A. 23 December 2007: i was a spoiled brat when living with my parents, my mum effectively catered for me. i had the same problem when i was living on my own, i think you nailed it, it;'s about motivation. if you don;t see any good coming out of it that will please you, ... (read in full...)
I'm worried she will be scared after our chat about the future.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have only been together a month and yesterday we were talking about out futures, she told me what she wanted out of life and i told her what i wanted, but then we ended up talking about kids..... which i thought was too soon. ...
A. 23 December 2007: if she said she wasnt' scared then i think she wasn't.if she didn;t intend to be with you she would set the boundaries straight away and told you to forget about it cos it's too soon for talks like that. to her it must feel like a vote of confidence ... (read in full...)
He's black, I'm white and my parents are racist! What should I do?
Q. A while ago a guy in my class started flirting with him. But cos guys at school never flirt with me a did not believe it and always took it as a joke. We have been chatting on a local chat site alot and have gotten to know him and start gettin...
A. 22 December 2007: please dont stop relationships only because of pressure form other people!! your parents will present you with only the negative repercusions of your future with him, if they are racists! in these days society is very very diverse and there are ... (read in full...)
A Christmas present adequate for a recently started relationship?
Q. So I have been with my bo for about a month now and he is quite the sweetheart. I really want to do something special for him as a Christmas present, but I don't want it to be something too serious, but I also don't want it to be lame or cheesy ...
A. 22 December 2007: You can get away with anything general,because you've only know him for a little while, enough to justify a christmas present. So don;t be afraid of being 'cheesy', i;m sure he will appreciate your thought. Men' fragrance, maybe something funny, or ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to ask a guy out??
Q. Is it wrong to ask a guy to go out with you or should you just keep it old fashioned? ...
A. 30 November 2007: No, it's quite empowering to ask a guy out. It puts you i control. Even if he says no, you'll see you won't die, just like many many guys dont get devastated when they are refused. If anyting, you'll learn to look at the fun side of it and you can ... (read in full...)
I want to lose weight but don't want to be muscular . . .
Q. i want to loose weight. im eating good and exercising. but i dont want muscles to show but i want to loose weight off my legs but i think the only way of doing that is to exercise but then i wont have lady like looking legs. help...
A. 8 October 2007: WHat fit and slim ladies have you seen around that are 'bulked up', really muscular? Unless you are on a specific training program for developing muscles size ( like the body-builders), or muscle power ( like the proffessional sports players), you ... (read in full...)
Does anyone else think this guy is taking things too fast?
Q. Hi! Sorry...this may be a bit long but I just want to give everybody a bit of bakground info :) I met this amazing guy over the summer. Let me start by stating that I’m 24 and he’s 22, so this isn’t some high school summer love. He was just pass...
A. 29 September 2007: I agree with rcn. Spot on.... (read in full...)
Why do people stay with someone they don't love?
Q. just a quick question. Why do people stay with some if they are not in love with them? I have a female friend who lives with her partner but wont leave him even though she doesnt love him and a male friend who lives with his girlfriend of 12 years ...
A. 23 September 2007: rhythmandblues i love your answer. it's stunning and so true. ... (read in full...)
Can someone who is in love cheat on you?
Q. my byf cheated on my but says it was a mistake and he really loves me. I wont take him back. Is it possible that someone who is in love with you could cheat on u? i reckon he's lieing about his feelings cus the other girl didnt want him in the end. ...
A. 23 September 2007: But loving or being inlove with someone is such a special feeling that would make easy any decision regarding doing intimate stuff with someone else! I believe that if you love someone or even fancy them very much you couldn't just fool around with ... (read in full...)
Would getting in shape and getting a job make me more attractive?
Q. Looking for a womans advice here... I'm not in the best of shape (I'm not fat, but I ama bit above average), and I'm unemployed atm, I was wondering if I would appear more attractive to women if I got into bettr shape and landed myself a job. ...
A. 13 September 2007: Any man that shows he has a good degree of control over his life and that he can take good care of himself is very attractive!!!... (read in full...)
I have no interests anymore, and no motivation. Please help!
Q. Hello everyone, I need some help from anyone willing to give me advice. In the past I have made many bad decisions in life. My parents have never been a very good influence in my life at all, and still aren't, and I have not many friends, as I move ...
A. 11 September 2007: Uff there is so much to say about the meaning of life.. to cut my long story short, the shortest i can i will say the meaning of life is what we want it to be... you have to discover what makes you happy, or you have to discover how it is to be ... (read in full...)
Would you stay in a relationship for convenience?
Q. Hi aunts, I would like your opinion on this question please. Would you stay in a relationship for convenience? My asshole of a husband has been committing adultery for the last 3 years and constantly lies to me, I don't know why because I always ...
A. 6 September 2007: gather evidence for his abuse on you. talk to friends or acquaintances and drop subtle hints that things are dangerous for you at home. keep a diary ( online or well hidden in hour home) with your daily activities and interractions withim, ... (read in full...)
Is falling in love with someone..a want or a decision?
Q. Do you fall in love because you want to, because at some level in your mind you decide to do it, or do you fall in love exclusively because of the effect you think someone else has on you? ...
A. 6 September 2007: I agree with the last post.... (read in full...)
I am so in love with two differant girls. Neither is interested, but they are both so perfect in differant ways.
Q. Hi there! I won't name the girls I'm in-love with so I'll only put the first letter of their names. I have so much in common with E, me and her always have endless conversations for hours together but she cheats, lies and betrays so I don't trust ...
A. 6 September 2007: Meet more girls and see if you're still attracted so much by these two! Neither of these two seems up for a relationship with you.... (read in full...)
I am so in love with two differant girls. Neither is interested, but they are both so perfect in differant ways.
Q. Hi there! I won't name the girls I'm in-love with so I'll only put the first letter of their names. I have so much in common with E, me and her always have endless conversations for hours together but she cheats, lies and betrays so I don't trust ...
A. 6 September 2007: Meet more girls and see if you're still attracted so much by these two! Neither of these two seems up for a relationship with you.... (read in full...)
How do I know when people hate or dislike me? Do I look at their reactions, gestures, or body movements? I can't tell? help please!
Q. How do I know when people hate or dislike me? Do I look at their reactions, gestures, or body movements? I can't tell? help please!...
A. 6 September 2007: Why would anyone hate you? WHy would anyone dislike you? WHat is so bad about you, in your opinion? I think that's the place where you need to dig first before second guessing all the world....... (read in full...)
How do I know when people hate or dislike me? Do I look at their reactions, gestures, or body movements? I can't tell? help please!
Q. How do I know when people hate or dislike me? Do I look at their reactions, gestures, or body movements? I can't tell? help please!...
A. 6 September 2007: Why would anyone hate you? WHy would anyone dislike you? WHat is so bad about you, in your opinion? I think that's the place where you need to dig first before second guessing all the world....... (read in full...)
I just want to know why my girlfriend doesn't know when she reaches climax...
Q. I just want to know why my girlfriend doesn't know when she reaches climax, she always say "I don't know if I'm done or not" That makes me crazy. What is this and what can I do to make her feel that sweet thing?...
A. 6 September 2007: yeah duce is right, get creative and give her a 'mental' orgasm too, one that would take her by surprise and like duce00 said again, 'knock her socks off' :):):):).i wonder what HE has in mind!!!!! lol ::):):)... (read in full...)
Would you stay in a relationship for convenience?
Q. Hi aunts, I would like your opinion on this question please. Would you stay in a relationship for convenience? My asshole of a husband has been committing adultery for the last 3 years and constantly lies to me, I don't know why because I always ...
A. 6 September 2007: I agree with Mandy, be clever, get some space in your mind to think things through, do your homework, and aim high. If you;re determined and keep your cool you can get the best deal for you and your kids. Start gathering some infortmation and advice ... (read in full...)
Would you stay in a relationship for convenience?
Q. Hi aunts, I would like your opinion on this question please. Would you stay in a relationship for convenience? My asshole of a husband has been committing adultery for the last 3 years and constantly lies to me, I don't know why because I always ...
A. 6 September 2007: I agree with Mandy, be clever, get some space in your mind to think things through, do your homework, and aim high. If you;re determined and keep your cool you can get the best deal for you and your kids. Start gathering some infortmation and advice ... (read in full...)
I feel that most people out there are going to hurt me in some manner. Please advise...
Q. I feel quite at distance from my emotions and people in general. I want to stay away from getting hurt as much as possible and i feel that most people out there are going to hurt me in some manner. Please advice......
A. 6 September 2007: I feel that if you're too cautious not to get hurt , you're only building yourself up a solid mental prison form which is hard to escape.. take the risk of getting hurt, go through that learning process, open yourself up to more people, see if it's ... (read in full...)
How do we bring the spark back into our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend of over a year just recently told me that he doesn't feel anything when we kiss anymore. However, he doesn't want to break up with me. We're best friends, I'm crazy about him, and we love each other deeply. Neither of us can see ...
A. 6 September 2007: by not worrying about it, and enjoying your time together and have enough strenght to accept that after all things could go in a zillion directions and you may fall out, but meanwhile enjoy eachother and get creative and cheecky, try out new things ... (read in full...)
Is it common for people to stay in touch with their ex's like this? Should I stop being a fool and do something about it?
Q. I love my boyfriend very much but I am so afraid he is going to leave me. He and his ex have a very messy past and I know he talks to her all the time. I try not to let it bother me, but it really does. I don't understand why he needs to talk ...
A. 6 September 2007: The ex is, beyound everything, is a very very familiar person, that has been an important part of our lives. Some split up couples can keep contact based on a platonic friendship. The hting with these platonic friendhips is that many things in them ... (read in full...)
My guy is going through a tough divorce and is saying we're now taking a break. Was I just a passing fancy or should I just wait it out?
Q. I'm 28 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. When we first started going out he told me that he was int he middle of a divorce. The soon to be ex and him seemed to have an okay relationship for the sake of the kids. When we ...
A. 3 September 2007: He could be lieing to you that the divorce is that devastating or he could be tellign the truth. in my experience divorce, even on the most peaceful terms, is still a very very sad experience. I think you should take it as a break, there is not ... (read in full...)
Still living with my ex and want to move on, but my new boyfriend hasnt suggested we live together
Q. Hello beautiful people, please help me to see the truth, here is my problem…… I am divorced for one year but still living with my husband. We have been unhappily married for 3 years. It’s a camaraderie relationship with no other feelings involve...
A. 31 August 2007: Thank you for your input, somewhat anonymous. You shed a positive light over my dilemma and that's nice since I am always prone to assume the worst things. Perhaps it's not the time yet to move in together, like you say. BUt we have been around ... (read in full...)
Should I wait around or should I just leave and forget about him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have lived together for about 2 years. I love him dearly, and we have had some trust issues lately. He has lied to me a few times about dumb things so it made me be a little paranoid. He doesn't like the fact that I snoop through ...
A. 31 August 2007: Walk out... not it;s his time to do a bit of good convincing,, if he is worth his salt and really wants you, that is. If he fails at it, then you nkow for sure you were right to back off. Take care x... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he's cheating on me when he lives 40 minutes away?
Q. Hi I am currently in a relationship and he lives about 40 minutes away from me. We get to see each other about once a week and speak by text quite frequently. We have just booked a trip away together and he tells me he likes me all the time but I ...
A. 31 August 2007: Hi i've been in a similar situation. just sniffed somehting was dodgy to me and i HAD to test the guy. Have a look at my question 'tested my boyfriend with a mistery admirer... and he's arranged a date with her'. my outcome was painful but it did ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he has been conversing with another woman. How do i confront him about this?
Q. I desperately need advice. I am in a relationship with someone that I am truly in love with. we have been together for two years. He says he loves me and we have plans for the long road. I recently discovered that he has been conversing with anot...
A. 26 August 2007: I think you should tell him about your worries. If he is here for the long run then this kind of honesty is needed for a relationship to work. If he tells you he is uncomfortable or suffocated by your 'irreasonable' worries and you should guard your ... (read in full...)
Is it over or does she really just want space?
Q. I need to know the truth I have made an honest mistake and me and my girlfriend are very understanding about it, but at the same time she has come up with other ideas in her head. She says that she needs a little space and time to think I am trying ...
A. 22 August 2007: In my experience when i tell a guy i need space it's either because:
1. i have outgrown him
2. i am confused about my feelings
3. i am not too sure about being with him
4. i met someone else and i'm more interested in purusing that chase rathe... (read in full...)
From talking to her friend it looks as though she wants to stay in touch.
Q. Hi all. Something troubles me. *For those of you who don't know my situation, go to my profile, it explains everything there* So, as you know, me and my long distance girlfriend of 2 years broke up about 2 months ago, and within the past couple ...
A. 22 August 2007: If your ex truly wants you she will let you know.. dont waste your time in this whirlpool of tormenting thoughts... if she wants you but she only gives you this sort of clues , is she really worth the salt? how can you want someone in your life but ... (read in full...)
How can I get aquainted with a girl at work
Q. I am a 40 year old male and work with a 30 year old Asian female. She began being friendly but I was not sure how to respond because other co-workers were getting nosey. How can I reacquaint my self with this female? Row...
A. 22 August 2007: I too say be friendly with her, build a sort of common base together. Then take it from there. And forget about other people... at the end of the day when you go to bed at night you have only yourself to anwer to and not other people.. don't waste ... (read in full...)
I want to leave my husband, but dont have a clue how to get started
Q. hi there.. i am in deep trouble again...i want to leave my husband but i do not know where to start or where to get help. i also have a child to consider as i am not willing to leave her with my husband. i want to start a new life possible far away...
A. 22 August 2007: sounds like you definately want to do it... or do you? aren't youjust upset with him for whatever reason? moreinformation needed.. we can't tell much from what you posted now. ... (read in full...)
He lied about kissing another girl! Now I feel like I can't trust him.
Q. hi there, i was wondering if i could have some advice about my current relationship. Basically, my boyfriend almost kissed a girl with whom he works with a few weeks ago. He said that they become very good friends and that he regreted what happened, ...
A. 16 August 2007: i say you have all the right in the world to pu thim on the spot to make a decision: her 100% ( no MAtter how serious or stupid their relation can/will be),or you 1000%.if he comes with you he will need to prove it and take your doubts away evry ... (read in full...)
What does it mean to be in a commited relationship?
Q. What does it mean to be in a committed rlationship?...
A. 16 August 2007: it means you will do your outmost best for that relationship to work, to develop and to last. it's easy to say it or think you are commited but usually it takes time to be ready for commitment. ... (read in full...)
People say size doesnt matter if you use it the right way. So what is the right way?
Q. what is the "right way" to use a small penis. I'm talking like 5.5 inches. I was looking at some of the other articles and people always say size dosent matter if you use it the right way. So whats the right way?...
A. 16 August 2007: i too thought i was the luckiest girl around when i discovered this guy i'd been seeing was bigger than average. but soon sex was boring, and the foreplay almost nonexistent, these guys with big ones just want to park it somewhere without too much ... (read in full...)
He admitted he cheated
Q. Recently my boyfriend and I decided to take a break after 5 years. And just the other night, while I was visiting, he dropped the biggest bomb on me. He confessed to have cheating on me with 2 different girls (that I was always suspicious of) for 3 ...
A. 16 August 2007: a little story relevant to your question here... i have a VERY VERY VERY good male friend, the best friend in the world , we been supposrting and confessing to eachother for the last 2 years, he is a really good guy. today he told me something. he ... (read in full...)
What is the difference between confidence, over-confidence and arrogance
Q. Hi there Can anyone tell me: What is the difference between confidence, over-confidence and arrogance? How can you tell if a person is over-confident, not just confident? How can you tell when someone is confident and when someone is...
A. 15 August 2007: arrogance is hiding your insecurities. confidence is not needing to do more than necessary to sort out a situation, etc. ... (read in full...)
Why do i feel insecure?
Q. me and my lover are agemates both 25yrs been together for 5yrs. why do i feel insecure? how can i get his attention?why is he not calling me often even to tell me if he got my letter?what should i do to make him call me? tho i recently met his mum ...
A. 15 August 2007: why not ask him these questions. he could either put your anxieties at bay and reassure you, or he woun't have straight answers for you. Then you can decide how can you move on and in what direction. but dont torment yourself, take it out of your ... (read in full...)
He admitted he cheated
Q. Recently my boyfriend and I decided to take a break after 5 years. And just the other night, while I was visiting, he dropped the biggest bomb on me. He confessed to have cheating on me with 2 different girls (that I was always suspicious of) for 3 ...
A. 15 August 2007: I too am suspicious of people who cheated, kept it secret for a long time, then told oyu. until recently i saw a guy who cheated on me so probably i am bitter about it.why, why lie . i'll be damned if i can figure out why not have the balls to be ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 August 2007: how can i not want to hear your opinion, you were one of the few who were consistently assisting me in this situation with advice so i am grateful for your time taken to give me your views. it's been a journey and i cant complain i couldn't turn ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 12 August 2007: hlskitten, what an interesting reply as well, from you. i don't feel lonely in all this mess at all anymore. i'm so glad i bumped into this website, and have quality interractions and discussing issues with others. these liars, heh? what a waste of ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 12 August 2007: I've met this guy for a drink this saturday night with a 'what's gone is gone, let's not look in the past' attitude. he's been extremely reassuring and nice to me and been saying he wants me back etc for the last weeks. I'm really not up for it, ... (read in full...)
Is falling in love with someone..a want or a decision?
Q. Do you fall in love because you want to, because at some level in your mind you decide to do it, or do you fall in love exclusively because of the effect you think someone else has on you? ...
A. 10 August 2007: Do you think it's possile for someone to tell you 'I love you' when they don't mean it -they say it as a means to get in your pants or soemthing like that?
Aren#t the 'I love you ' words the heaviest ones around?
Has it ever happened to you ... (read in full...)
Is falling in love with someone..a want or a decision?
Q. Do you fall in love because you want to, because at some level in your mind you decide to do it, or do you fall in love exclusively because of the effect you think someone else has on you? ...
A. 9 August 2007: i think it's a decision, a want.. when i was younger i thoght it was definately the other person's input, but now after deliberating a lot im pretty surre we decide to do it, when and with whom, and with what reasons(acknowledged or not...... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 25 July 2007: Danielepew that is a good question you ask and I had to narrow my dilemma down to that. You mentionned the positive side of all this trouble (that this experience revealed things that have to be improved in order for a relationship to be good). Then ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 20 July 2007: Another well, small dilemma hehehow else. I'm getting lazy thinking for myself and I chuck anything at this site for everyone to help me solve..
This guy has called me last nighti n the middle of the night and as i was halfway between sleep and ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 16 July 2007: Just thought I'd update he stopped all the texting and calling for 2 days now. Things ARE movign on :).... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: yeah and there's nothign sweeter and lovelier and conforting and interesting and exciting that 2 or more smart women meeitng up for a coffee and chat and having a great time together focusing on themselves rather than men or shall i say themselves ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: An explanation...
why i perhaps went too far. I had to be heard. Say i confronted him earlier, it would have turned on in a messy array of accusations, reasonings from both parts, stuff like 'you did that /no i did not/but you did/no i didn... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: Andy00 thanks for your reply, yes hell yeah you;re right it was a bit too extreme... but my intention was a definite closure so i am ok with it. i did feel sorry for him the next day. but then i am thinking,he did sweet talk me and embarked... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: for the guy that said these tests are little stupid tests.. they may be, they may be, but how else to get the peace of mind that i have now? a man is suffocating not when he is honest and loves you and makes sure you know that, a man is suffocat... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 July 2007: Andy, I respect your reply. But the feeling of being cheated on and lied face to face is unbearable, precisely because the cheated one had a good impression and opinion of the other one. You say you would never put yoursefl in this position - to be ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 July 2007: LOL that's so funny you printed off th e ltexts just to piss him off lol. wel the meeting happened last night...!! i can;t tell you how sweet it was.. it can;t be encompassed in words. he came there with his best mate. they were waiting. then they ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 July 2007: LOL... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 12 July 2007: tonight is the big night.. the meting happens at 9 pm. it's 5 pm now here.. the real me saw himt he other day, pretending to know nothign and my stomach turned inside out when i was seeing him lieing through his teeth and being as lovable as he ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 10 July 2007: Danielepew, as to my next 'love', i think I will have to do some hard thinking and focus on a different cathegory of men altogether... this one looks and behaves so macho and a 'ladies man' - i personally dont buy all that thats why i had him hangin ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 10 July 2007: Peterk5699 you're got a schemer's mind too!! I love the third option I justlove it! I did save most of the texts, the most relevant ( as the memory of this phone is almost full with this convesration!! ). I dont think i will take even more time and ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: An answer to the anonimour reader.. Guys you shoud really register to this site so I can put names to your replies! so an answer to her... it is evening here, the misterious girl texted him, he replies promply lookin forward for living life to the ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: ANother touch.. just to eliminate any possibility of doubt or insight coming into his mind, i will get my best friend to text him from this unknown number at the same time i'm with him. that would settle it solid 4 him he wont get burnt by pranks..... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: Danielepew, I am going to be at the date. By my calculations it is the best soothing I can get for my anger. It is the best way I can ge thim to understand what he has done. NO accusations, just saing hi :-) and going soon after :). SInce I had made ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: So the meeting is supposed to be this thursday evening. they have planned to have a drink and if all goes well, spend the night together having some fun. open mindedness and fun is their motto. shortly after this, we tried to establish our next ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: words can't express how grateful i am for all your replies. i guess you know how it feels not knowing where to reach because of clouding emotions... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: he's also told this other lady he's up for anytign and he likes women who are 'alive'. thakn you very much. after me finally 'giving in' to him in real life. see where i come from?... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Jess ----'This guy clearly cares for you a great deal so i don't understand why you felt you should try to prove him wrong.'. That's exacly what i was trying to do. I've got a kinda masochistic satisfaction out of this. I have had this sort of pain ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: YOu guys are very helpful and I can see the truth in all your replies! It's a soothing feeling to get some understanding!
Danielepew, you are on my wavelenght, this is what I 100% think too. He's just been so so so into me, that finally has got ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Thank you for your quick reply! That in itself is helpful enough... But my distrustful mind thinks, he seems up for anything, because the texts have been very implying on both parts... The image that he's always been projecting to me was exactly ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Thank you for your quick reply! That in itself is helpful enough... But my distrustful mind thinks, he seems up for anything, because the texts have been very implying on both parts... The image that he's always been projecting to me was exactly ... (read in full...)
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