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*utterflyfly

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I am a 28 yrs old woman who loves anything related to frienship - common projects, getting to know other people, getting to know more about other people, understanding the misterious ways of human mind. I live in London and I've had 3 major changes of career until now , which is a bit unsettling -the first career started when i was 12. At present I am passionate about wines and learning about them as much as i can. Although I've had an unsettled life, I don't regret anything that I've done and any decisions that I've taken. I love to feep a diary with all my important experiences. I hope to live until im 148 and if I'm still lucid to re read my life's adventures and reflect on them. I am a bit of an eccentric and I get enthusiastic quickly. But i'm the most down to earth person I know as well. Or a chicken.

I love music - all kinds and i recently have discovered classical music- Beethoven , oh my god! Divine...

I'm also an ex-smoker - very proud of it, because ciggies have been a very comforting company for a long time..and now i can do without them. And the coughs.

I love sports and I'm into running long distances. I am inlove with the volleyball game. It's like quick chess. It's the best game ever to keep you on your toes mentally and physically. I believe i've drawn all my life's skills from playing volleyball to a high level until --well, some time ago.

I love talking about myself BUT!! I also love to listen to other people and find out how they work.

When I get down or moody or lonely I try to make myself laugh. If i dont succeed, I know it's a serious problem and seek advice from friends.

Jeez i could go on and on.

Oh. something else.

If i was granted 3 wishes, i will not want to have a magic wand again. I would like instead:

1.friends. more friends.

2.being in touch with myself at all times

3. better time management, or equally a 25 hour day

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Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   14 August 2007: how can i not want to hear your opinion, you were one of the few who were consistently assisting me in this situation with advice so i am grateful for your time taken to give me your views. it's been a journey and i cant complain i couldn't turn ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   12 August 2007: hlskitten, what an interesting reply as well, from you. i don't feel lonely in all this mess at all anymore. i'm so glad i bumped into this website, and have quality interractions and discussing issues with others. these liars, heh? what a waste of ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   12 August 2007: I've met this guy for a drink this saturday night with a 'what's gone is gone, let's not look in the past' attitude. he's been extremely reassuring and nice to me and been saying he wants me back etc for the last weeks. I'm really not up for it, ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   25 July 2007: Danielepew that is a good question you ask and I had to narrow my dilemma down to that. You mentionned the positive side of all this trouble (that this experience revealed things that have to be improved in order for a relationship to be good). Then ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   20 July 2007: Another well, small dilemma hehehow else. I'm getting lazy thinking for myself and I chuck anything at this site for everyone to help me solve.. This guy has called me last nighti n the middle of the night and as i was halfway between sleep and ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   16 July 2007: Just thought I'd update he stopped all the texting and calling for 2 days now. Things ARE movign on :).... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   14 July 2007: yeah and there's nothign sweeter and lovelier and conforting and interesting and exciting that 2 or more smart women meeitng up for a coffee and chat and having a great time together focusing on themselves rather than men or shall i say themselves ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   14 July 2007: An explanation... why i perhaps went too far. I had to be heard. Say i confronted him earlier, it would have turned on in a messy array of accusations, reasonings from both parts, stuff like 'you did that /no i did not/but you did/no i didn... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   14 July 2007: Andy00 thanks for your reply, yes hell yeah you;re right it was a bit too extreme... but my intention was a definite closure so i am ok with it. i did feel sorry for him the next day. but then i am thinking,he did sweet talk me and embarked... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   14 July 2007: for the guy that said these tests are little stupid tests.. they may be, they may be, but how else to get the peace of mind that i have now? a man is suffocating not when he is honest and loves you and makes sure you know that, a man is suffocat... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   13 July 2007: Andy, I respect your reply. But the feeling of being cheated on and lied face to face is unbearable, precisely because the cheated one had a good impression and opinion of the other one. You say you would never put yoursefl in this position - to be ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   13 July 2007: LOL that's so funny you printed off th e ltexts just to piss him off lol. wel the meeting happened last night...!! i can;t tell you how sweet it was.. it can;t be encompassed in words. he came there with his best mate. they were waiting. then they ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   13 July 2007: LOL... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   12 July 2007: tonight is the big night.. the meting happens at 9 pm. it's 5 pm now here.. the real me saw himt he other day, pretending to know nothign and my stomach turned inside out when i was seeing him lieing through his teeth and being as lovable as he ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   10 July 2007: Danielepew, as to my next 'love', i think I will have to do some hard thinking and focus on a different cathegory of men altogether... this one looks and behaves so macho and a 'ladies man' - i personally dont buy all that thats why i had him hangin ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   10 July 2007: Peterk5699 you're got a schemer's mind too!! I love the third option I justlove it! I did save most of the texts, the most relevant ( as the memory of this phone is almost full with this convesration!! ). I dont think i will take even more time and ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   9 July 2007: An answer to the anonimour reader.. Guys you shoud really register to this site so I can put names to your replies! so an answer to her... it is evening here, the misterious girl texted him, he replies promply lookin forward for living life to the ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   9 July 2007: ANother touch.. just to eliminate any possibility of doubt or insight coming into his mind, i will get my best friend to text him from this unknown number at the same time i'm with him. that would settle it solid 4 him he wont get burnt by pranks..... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   9 July 2007: Danielepew, I am going to be at the date. By my calculations it is the best soothing I can get for my anger. It is the best way I can ge thim to understand what he has done. NO accusations, just saing hi :-) and going soon after :). SInce I had made ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   8 July 2007: So the meeting is supposed to be this thursday evening. they have planned to have a drink and if all goes well, spend the night together having some fun. open mindedness and fun is their motto. shortly after this, we tried to establish our next ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   8 July 2007: words can't express how grateful i am for all your replies. i guess you know how it feels not knowing where to reach because of clouding emotions... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   8 July 2007: he's also told this other lady he's up for anytign and he likes women who are 'alive'. thakn you very much. after me finally 'giving in' to him in real life. see where i come from?... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   8 July 2007: Jess ----'This guy clearly cares for you a great deal so i don't understand why you felt you should try to prove him wrong.'. That's exacly what i was trying to do. I've got a kinda masochistic satisfaction out of this. I have had this sort of pain ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   8 July 2007: YOu guys are very helpful and I can see the truth in all your replies! It's a soothing feeling to get some understanding! Danielepew, you are on my wavelenght, this is what I 100% think too. He's just been so so so into me, that finally has got ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   8 July 2007: Thank you for your quick reply! That in itself is helpful enough... But my distrustful mind thinks, he seems up for anything, because the texts have been very implying on both parts... The image that he's always been projecting to me was exactly ... (read in full...)

Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!

Q.   I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...

A.   8 July 2007: Thank you for your quick reply! That in itself is helpful enough... But my distrustful mind thinks, he seems up for anything, because the texts have been very implying on both parts... The image that he's always been projecting to me was exactly ... (read in full...)

The distance is causing trouble. How do I get through this?

Q.   i have been in a relationship for 3 years.my boyfriend loves me and i do the same.but for the past 1year we are sharing a long distance relationship.so i feel lonely at times when he's not around me!as a result i get irritated over small things and ...

A.   8 July 2007: Distance relationships can turn into turmoil.. Your going out for a refreshing laugh with your pals or friends doesn't mean you cheat or are bad to him, it means that you;re taking care of your sanity.. That's my best antidote anyway, when things ... (read in full...)

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