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... Send *utterflyfly a private message | | | *utterflyfly's profile:I am a 28 yrs old woman who loves anything related to frienship - common projects, getting to know other people, getting to know more about other people, understanding the misterious ways of human mind. I live in London and I've had 3 major changes of career until now , which is a bit unsettling -the first career started when i was 12. At present I am passionate about wines and learning about them as much as i can. Although I've had an unsettled life, I don't regret anything that I've done and any decisions that I've taken. I love to feep a diary with all my important experiences. I hope to live until im 148 and if I'm still lucid to re read my life's adventures and reflect on them. I am a bit of an eccentric and I get enthusiastic quickly. But i'm the most down to earth person I know as well. Or a chicken.
I love music - all kinds and i recently have discovered classical music- Beethoven , oh my god! Divine...
I'm also an ex-smoker - very proud of it, because ciggies have been a very comforting company for a long time..and now i can do without them. And the coughs.
I love sports and I'm into running long distances. I am inlove with the volleyball game. It's like quick chess. It's the best game ever to keep you on your toes mentally and physically. I believe i've drawn all my life's skills from playing volleyball to a high level until --well, some time ago.
I love talking about myself BUT!! I also love to listen to other people and find out how they work.
When I get down or moody or lonely I try to make myself laugh. If i dont succeed, I know it's a serious problem and seek advice from friends.
Jeez i could go on and on.
Oh. something else.
If i was granted 3 wishes, i will not want to have a magic wand again. I would like instead:
1.friends. more friends.
2.being in touch with myself at all times
3. better time management, or equally a 25 hour day
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Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 August 2007: how can i not want to hear your opinion, you were one of the few who were consistently assisting me in this situation with advice so i am grateful for your time taken to give me your views. it's been a journey and i cant complain i couldn't turn ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 12 August 2007: hlskitten, what an interesting reply as well, from you. i don't feel lonely in all this mess at all anymore. i'm so glad i bumped into this website, and have quality interractions and discussing issues with others. these liars, heh? what a waste of ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 12 August 2007: I've met this guy for a drink this saturday night with a 'what's gone is gone, let's not look in the past' attitude. he's been extremely reassuring and nice to me and been saying he wants me back etc for the last weeks. I'm really not up for it, ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to figure out your sexuality issues?
Q. What is the best way to figure out your sexuality issues, and whether you're gay, straight, or Bi, when you're from over protective, anti gay family who expect you to be perfect, and live under the same roof till you get married, and talks about ...
A. 25 July 2007: i think you should take it in easy stepts and move out first to get some space to relax and explore on your own without feeling daunted by family.... (read in full...)
I'm straight and love men, but when I come, I think of women--what does it mean?
Q. Hi, I'm a straight girl but as long as I remember whenever I masturbate or have sex I can only come by thinking about girls having sex with each other or with me. I've never fancied a girl in my life, I love men and I've always felt satisfied in ...
A. 25 July 2007: maybe you picturing women is a way of you thinking about yorself and your sexuality as a woman, not necessarily another persons..... (read in full...)
My girlfriend told me she's had many flings in the past; what is a fling exactly, as opposed to a serious relationship? I'm worried our relationship might turn into one now
Q. hi, this question might sound pretty basic but it's been bothering me for some time. When I asked my girlfriend (of 2 months) how many relationships she's been in prior to ours, she said that she's been in 2 serious relationships and had a whole lot ...
A. 25 July 2007: i think the fact that she mentionned them is a good thing, cos if you two keep up at developing your relationship yo can always ask her details and she can explain to you whatever you would want to know about them.. and i'm glad you took a more ... (read in full...)
My Russian girlfriend is going away on holiday with another guy
Q. Hi, I have a Russian girlfriend who is about to go away on holiday with a male long term friend! Do you think that I should be cool about this? ...
A. 25 July 2007: why would she go on holiday with another man and why would she tell you about it. to keep you on your toes? it sounds pretty superficial to me. how long have you been together? it sounds like she is playing as much as she can and probably she doesnt ... (read in full...)
I catch her looking at me and it sends shivers down my spine her gaze is so intense... do you think she fancies me?
Q. Has this ever happened to you: I recently met at work this girl who is sooo like me, personality wise, sense of humour that I GET, and we clicked like that from the first day, and had such a laugh together and at the moment we're at the stage of ...
A. 25 July 2007: hah thinking abou tthis i just remembered she told me she likes to go to gay places cos people there are so friendly and cool, and we should go together for her to show me and to have a laugh.
she just texted me (i'm on holiday away atm) to tell ... (read in full...)
I found out he cheated on me, so now i check his phone and emails.
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 and half years. i recently found out that he cheated on me in the first year we went out whilst out with friends. i felt really hurt by this and he didnt understand why as it was so long ago. but i feel like i ...
A. 25 July 2007: it's pretty silly to categorise people but I too suscribe to the view that once a cheater always a cheater.. But you have to allow for the possibility that he is good now and hoping to be with you and not wanting to do those mstakes again.. ... (read in full...)
Whats the difference of being in love and just loving someone?
Q. what are the definate signs that you love someone. and what are the signs that you are in love with someone, i ask b/c i dont know if i simply love him or if i am in love with him and i dont want to hurt him....
A. 25 July 2007: Loving someone ---no matter what that person does you will still care abou them and want their best and you understand them and the way they are with their goods and bads and you still care about them and want their best.
you can be upset with some... (read in full...)
What shall i do with my husbands online cheating?
Q. My question is 'what should I do with my husband'? He was caught in December meeting women online then calling them and then actually meeting in person two of them. He did not have sexual relations, but just the same it hurt. He promised...
A. 25 July 2007: My ex hubby was an 'accomplished' chatter before and after we got married. I was hurt at the beginning when i found out about those real women havin real intimate conversations with him and he was all up for it. i confronted it but he just hid his ... (read in full...)
When is it time to leave?
Q. I keep going round in circles and need help in knowing when 'enough is enough' in a relationship. I have been with the same guy for 12 years and I am not happy - the things that make me unhappy are not always dramatic things but they are ...
A. 25 July 2007: I've been unhappily married for 4 years. The last 3 were hell because although we were unhappy and talking about it(and things didnt work out in the end) we just couldn't pull out.
That was a complete waste of time..
If you forgot how to laugh wi... (read in full...)
I dont believe in giving cheaters second chances, but I kind of want to with him
Q. okay well firstly i have quite a harsh perspective of realationships if someone ceats on me then its over with them offcourse it takes time for me to get over them but i can. if someone ceats on me with a mate of mine then i get make out with them ...
A. 25 July 2007: Everyone deserves better than 2nd guessing a friend or partner or anyone else...
If you really want to give him a second chance I think you MUST have your eyes wide open concerning his behaviour . I think that not keeping a cool head might ta... (read in full...)
I want a confidence boost in order to find a boyfriend.
Q. I'm pretty shy around people i don't know and i think i have a bit of a low self esteem...guys are never really interested in me and now i just assume they won't be and are out of my legue anyway. im tall, blonde hair, hazel eyes and really ...
A. 25 July 2007: Just relax (yeah I know it's easy to say that!!) and try to have fun, rather than focusing on finding a boyfriend... Because looking for one like that it's easy to set yourself up for dissapointment, because you only notice things related to getting ... (read in full...)
I am having such a hard time after our breakup!!
Q. ok, longest story ever, but i feel myslef just falling into depression need some help..... My boyf and i broke up 2 days ago, for religous differences. He suddenly felt that we have been kidding ourselves, nobody would accept us and, if acceptan...
A. 25 July 2007: Or if not forget about it, also discover other new and good things about yourself and other new people... life really goes on!... (read in full...)
I am having such a hard time after our breakup!!
Q. ok, longest story ever, but i feel myslef just falling into depression need some help..... My boyf and i broke up 2 days ago, for religous differences. He suddenly felt that we have been kidding ourselves, nobody would accept us and, if acceptan...
A. 25 July 2007: It takes time, but every day will heal you, gradually, you will see. The intensity of your feeligns will fade away and sooner rather than later you will look back wondering wether it was really you going through such torment. it seems unbelievable ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 25 July 2007: Danielepew that is a good question you ask and I had to narrow my dilemma down to that. You mentionned the positive side of all this trouble (that this experience revealed things that have to be improved in order for a relationship to be good). Then ... (read in full...)
I catch her looking at me and it sends shivers down my spine her gaze is so intense... do you think she fancies me?
Q. Has this ever happened to you: I recently met at work this girl who is sooo like me, personality wise, sense of humour that I GET, and we clicked like that from the first day, and had such a laugh together and at the moment we're at the stage of ...
A. 20 July 2007: we're always havin a good b++tchin session about men and we resolved in OUR next 'date' together we should really shave our legs lol ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 20 July 2007: Another well, small dilemma hehehow else. I'm getting lazy thinking for myself and I chuck anything at this site for everyone to help me solve..
This guy has called me last nighti n the middle of the night and as i was halfway between sleep and ... (read in full...)
I catch her looking at me and it sends shivers down my spine her gaze is so intense... do you think she fancies me?
Q. Has this ever happened to you: I recently met at work this girl who is sooo like me, personality wise, sense of humour that I GET, and we clicked like that from the first day, and had such a laugh together and at the moment we're at the stage of ...
A. 20 July 2007: AHHHHH thank you guys I thought so too...!! ;-). Gosh I'm in fits with giggles now I mean I think she is great. we're texting eachother now cosim on holiday and cant wait to catch up when i go back. THose stares are just great, in a harmless way, i ... (read in full...)
Are you single? Please reply here!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here.. Just doing a poll to see how many visitors to the site are SINGLE and would be interested in a (free, of course) DearCupid dating service. Just reply to this post. Thanks! A....
A. 19 July 2007: A separate site would be cool. Leave us the tormented ones here and not mix the purposes... It seems liket he new site will be a cool one as there are quite a few real nice people around here already. Having it free is another bonus.... (read in full...)
Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy?
Q. Should a guy stay with his girlfriend if she has faked a pregancy? ...
A. 19 July 2007: I'd get out.. That is a bit freaky, pregnancy is a serious hting and your reaction to it is a serious thing too. Why should she play God anyway. I htink it's kinda freaky watch out for the next bit of 'news' from her..... (read in full...)
I just don't believe him because why would he give this chick his telephone number and speak to her 3 times on the phone?
Q. Hi, I'm 23 and have been with my fiance for 2 years in the beginning of our relationship he cheated on me 2 times and just last week I found out he met some girl in San Francisco when he was away on business. He swears up and down that they just ...
A. 19 July 2007: Frank I think you;re right! You girl.. go with your gut instincts trust me! Gut instincts are bad when you're being defensive but I don;t think you're being defensive I think you know deep inside he isn't playing a fair game with you, so to speak. ... (read in full...)
How can I motivate myself to get my GED?
Q. How can I get my self motivated to go to school and get my ged. I started to and then I all of sudden got lazy. I know I have to do it but what can I do to make sure I go since I am so lazy. Plus its from 5-8 at night....
A. 19 July 2007: And also, there are zillions of people your age in the same mind set, struggling away! If they can get through it I dont see why you couldn't@!!... (read in full...)
How can I motivate myself to get my GED?
Q. How can I get my self motivated to go to school and get my ged. I started to and then I all of sudden got lazy. I know I have to do it but what can I do to make sure I go since I am so lazy. Plus its from 5-8 at night....
A. 19 July 2007: Just do it, imagine all the trouble or headache if you don't do it and how you'll gonna be hard on yourself! this motivation thing might only be lack of energy, so maybe a bit of exercise , a clear head or a strong coffee before study could help! ... (read in full...)
He said he needed to clear his head, and now I havent heard from him
Q. i was seeing a guy. he acted like he realy liked me. everything was going real good. one day i was with him, and the next day he called and said he needed to clear his head . i havnt heard from him and i was wondering if he will call again or if i ...
A. 19 July 2007: I think too you shouldn't linger here... Given that you didn't have a long relationship perhaps, there is no need for a definite closure.. I hope you can move on swiftly. All the best.... (read in full...)
He is texting other girls and complimenting them. I dont THINK I have anything to worry about, but why is he doing this?
Q. Ive got 2 questions Ive been with my boyfriend 2 1/2 years who works in a hospital,where there are lots of female workers.He says he wants to make new friends, I know he chats to these women at work,which is harmless,because I know he loves me.Howev...
A. 19 July 2007: Besides.. I dont know about you guys but when I'm with someone and I'm interested in that person the thought of playing games with other people doesnt even cross my mind. As for the ego driven business... these people who need validation from ... (read in full...)
He is texting other girls and complimenting them. I dont THINK I have anything to worry about, but why is he doing this?
Q. Ive got 2 questions Ive been with my boyfriend 2 1/2 years who works in a hospital,where there are lots of female workers.He says he wants to make new friends, I know he chats to these women at work,which is harmless,because I know he loves me.Howev...
A. 19 July 2007: Reading all these replies is very reassuring to me, and I agree 110% with Irish49. I think you should go in definite stepts from here on tell him everythign that makes you feel uncomfortable with him and why, and request from him an honest ... (read in full...)
He is texting other girls and complimenting them. I dont THINK I have anything to worry about, but why is he doing this?
Q. Ive got 2 questions Ive been with my boyfriend 2 1/2 years who works in a hospital,where there are lots of female workers.He says he wants to make new friends, I know he chats to these women at work,which is harmless,because I know he loves me.Howev...
A. 19 July 2007: Jeez you have almost the same dilemma that i;d had! I tested my ex bf with texts from a mistery admirer and he was up for it.. eventually i ended the relationship- you can check my question to see the feedback that ive got. Bu tim i nterested what ... (read in full...)
Are her e-mail 'kisses' ..a true sign she fancies me?
Q. I really fancy a female colleague of mine, and we have been flirting quite strongly for a couple of months now. The other day we exchanged email addresses and the other night i sent her a mail, and at the end of what i wrote i put a kiss next to my ...
A. 19 July 2007: Yeah I think she is giving you green light big time. Also the xxx is a way to get in the same boat with the ones you;re texting/emailing. YOu wouldnt xxx someone whom you aren't really interested in. Their meanign range from camaraderie to well, ... (read in full...)
I'm lonely. All I do is work, then come home to an empty flat, watch tv, read and go to sleep
Q. I'm lonely. All I do is work, then come home to an empty flat, watch tv, read and go to sleep. Day after day after day. What worries me is that I'm getting used to it. I still miss my family and friends (all of them thousand of miles away) but I ...
A. 19 July 2007: I htink you need a good pal to 'give you a slap', so to speak :-). Try to 'be' something else, more upbeat even when you;re by yourself, and you;ll see with time you'll get used to that 'better for you' you . Please dont get complacent and stuck in ... (read in full...)
Should I date a guy with less formal education than me?
Q. I was wondering, does it matter whether I date a guy who has had less formal education than me? He recently asked me out. He's not been to college and I have.I wonder if that will have any effect on our relationship...help!...
A. 19 July 2007: Yeah hapiness matters the most and there are some clever cookies outthere who havent been through too much formal education yet have done well for themselves so don't judje that too much.. If you get bored together and you're the only one who ... (read in full...)
Why do men look at other women?
Q. Why do married men--or any man for that matter--stare at other women when they want to be with you and they love you and all that stuff? Men are so confusing sometimes I'm surprised I have nerves left....
A. 19 July 2007: Yeah I find this puzzling too. To some obviously their present woman isnt's grabbin all their attention. But it's kinda rude to do a bit of window shopping with your lady right there by your arm, her seeing everything. But it can be a fun game too; ... (read in full...)
Is the perfect man out there for me?
Q. I'm 21 and got the perfect job and soon to be getting a lovely little cottage, hopefully.. only thing I'm missing is the man of my dreams. I'm not hunting for one but when I look around all i find is Unsuccessfuls. Is he out there? I'm beginnin...
A. 18 July 2007: I think not actively looking for a man will help learn about you, what /whom you like and why, and it will also help 'bumping into' someone special. I wouls say get some exposure - like going out, take classes, meet loads of people, and you get more ... (read in full...)
How do you make a man feel guilty when he gets in an aggresive/attackig mood?
Q. Is it true that some women are good at making the man feel guilty when they get in to aggressive / attacking mood, even when it is for the right reasons? What should be done to deal with them? ...
A. 18 July 2007: But agression is nothing to put up with, right? You are not putting up with it, are you?... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to make my hair more thick and glossy?
Q. I'm fed up with my hair!!!!!! how can i make it thick and long and glossy? it grows quickly and is naturally fairly thick, by now partly down my back, but gets straggly/looks think and lanky very easily! help! i wanna look sexy! arrrrrrrgh!...
A. 18 July 2007: have you ever tried an olive oil mask for about 30mins before you wash it out? but when you wash it out make sure you use at the beginning very little water and a lot of shampoo and keep rubbing at it, otherwise if you try to rinse it out with lots ... (read in full...)
She's really confusing me, she wants me then she doesn't.
Q. My case's sorta complicated... We started hangin' out a couple months ago, things were going fine 'till she complained to me that she thought I was 'kiddin around' with her. ok things were solved. Things were going well again.. but a little tim...
A. 18 July 2007: If she's giving you mixed signs it may be that she's just that, confused. If she wasn't interested you would not hear a whisper from her, trust me. But also watch out for the possibility of her using you, playing you like an yo=yo. I dont know your ... (read in full...)
He is texting an emailing other girls and lying about it!
Q. Hi there....I dont know how to put this across. I think my bf of 2n half yrs might be cheating or has been cheating on me. A few months back, he got a txt late at night so i asked him who it was from, he told me " its Kyle from work" so i believed ...
A. 18 July 2007: You have been upfront with him and he knows you dont feel comfortable withthis texting. your next step is to take some time away from him, you dont deserve this torment!! his attentin is obviously somewhere else and it sounds that he wont even ... (read in full...)
Guys always ask me out when I just want to be friends and then it ruins the friendship
Q. Hey guys, I need some advice. The thing is that every time I want to be mates with a guy they always end up asking me out and I hate this. When they ask me out I say no or whatever and then our friendship seems to always end there and I can't be the ...
A. 18 July 2007: I agree with penta too and I'm taking that advice as well. I have the same problem ! I hate getting bad vibes because they feel rejected or some can't even carry out seeing me when I used to love all the time we used to hang out together. It may... (read in full...)
How do I catch a cheater?
Q. Dear Cupid, Do you think it is alright to accuse someone if they recently started not coming home from work and coming home late when they have not done it before? What should I do stop accusing him until I get proof. Any advice on how to catch ...
A. 17 July 2007: Hey I've been in a similar situatin - meaning that I always did not trust this guy i used to see ( have a look at my posted question and see what I've done! that was a bit too exptreme, I know that myself, but i suppose you dont have to go all the ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 16 July 2007: Just thought I'd update he stopped all the texting and calling for 2 days now. Things ARE movign on :).... (read in full...)
Does porn bother you?
Q. Hi everyone I would just like to ask for several minutes of your time to ask for your opinion on the folllowing. It MAY affect women more than men (as already confirmed. How do you all feel about your partner (male/or female, again it may...
A. 15 July 2007: watchin porn is just a way to well, get hot and bothered and thenget rid of that hotness and bottheredness lol. im a woman but it only bothered me when i was 16 and did not make the difference between love and sex. now its cool i dont get jealous as ... (read in full...)
He is now saying that he wants to have babies with me and to be honest I do want his children but will it make things worse than they are?
Q. My ex boyfriend says that he wants to work things out after he had found out that I cheated on him, I'm happy that he wants to take me back but how do I handle him being nice to me one minute and nasty the next? He is now saying that he wants to ...
A. 15 July 2007: from the top of myhead, from what you said here I think he is attached to you and desperate not to lose you and would do anything to secure having things back the way he liked them. i think he is terrified of you leaving him... he may believe he is ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: yeah and there's nothign sweeter and lovelier and conforting and interesting and exciting that 2 or more smart women meeitng up for a coffee and chat and having a great time together focusing on themselves rather than men or shall i say themselves ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: An explanation...
why i perhaps went too far. I had to be heard. Say i confronted him earlier, it would have turned on in a messy array of accusations, reasonings from both parts, stuff like 'you did that /no i did not/but you did/no i didn... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: Andy00 thanks for your reply, yes hell yeah you;re right it was a bit too extreme... but my intention was a definite closure so i am ok with it. i did feel sorry for him the next day. but then i am thinking,he did sweet talk me and embarked... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 14 July 2007: for the guy that said these tests are little stupid tests.. they may be, they may be, but how else to get the peace of mind that i have now? a man is suffocating not when he is honest and loves you and makes sure you know that, a man is suffocat... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 July 2007: Andy, I respect your reply. But the feeling of being cheated on and lied face to face is unbearable, precisely because the cheated one had a good impression and opinion of the other one. You say you would never put yoursefl in this position - to be ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 July 2007: LOL that's so funny you printed off th e ltexts just to piss him off lol. wel the meeting happened last night...!! i can;t tell you how sweet it was.. it can;t be encompassed in words. he came there with his best mate. they were waiting. then they ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 13 July 2007: LOL... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 12 July 2007: tonight is the big night.. the meting happens at 9 pm. it's 5 pm now here.. the real me saw himt he other day, pretending to know nothign and my stomach turned inside out when i was seeing him lieing through his teeth and being as lovable as he ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 10 July 2007: Danielepew, as to my next 'love', i think I will have to do some hard thinking and focus on a different cathegory of men altogether... this one looks and behaves so macho and a 'ladies man' - i personally dont buy all that thats why i had him hangin ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 10 July 2007: Peterk5699 you're got a schemer's mind too!! I love the third option I justlove it! I did save most of the texts, the most relevant ( as the memory of this phone is almost full with this convesration!! ). I dont think i will take even more time and ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: An answer to the anonimour reader.. Guys you shoud really register to this site so I can put names to your replies! so an answer to her... it is evening here, the misterious girl texted him, he replies promply lookin forward for living life to the ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: ANother touch.. just to eliminate any possibility of doubt or insight coming into his mind, i will get my best friend to text him from this unknown number at the same time i'm with him. that would settle it solid 4 him he wont get burnt by pranks..... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 9 July 2007: Danielepew, I am going to be at the date. By my calculations it is the best soothing I can get for my anger. It is the best way I can ge thim to understand what he has done. NO accusations, just saing hi :-) and going soon after :). SInce I had made ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: So the meeting is supposed to be this thursday evening. they have planned to have a drink and if all goes well, spend the night together having some fun. open mindedness and fun is their motto. shortly after this, we tried to establish our next ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: words can't express how grateful i am for all your replies. i guess you know how it feels not knowing where to reach because of clouding emotions... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: he's also told this other lady he's up for anytign and he likes women who are 'alive'. thakn you very much. after me finally 'giving in' to him in real life. see where i come from?... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Jess ----'This guy clearly cares for you a great deal so i don't understand why you felt you should try to prove him wrong.'. That's exacly what i was trying to do. I've got a kinda masochistic satisfaction out of this. I have had this sort of pain ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: YOu guys are very helpful and I can see the truth in all your replies! It's a soothing feeling to get some understanding!
Danielepew, you are on my wavelenght, this is what I 100% think too. He's just been so so so into me, that finally has got ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Thank you for your quick reply! That in itself is helpful enough... But my distrustful mind thinks, he seems up for anything, because the texts have been very implying on both parts... The image that he's always been projecting to me was exactly ... (read in full...)
Tested my boyfriend with texts from a "mystery admirer"... and he's arranged a date with her!
Q. I've been seeing on and off (cos of lack of time) this guy for 3years. He was and says he is so into me loves me very much; in the past i found 'his love' a bit suffocating. However recently I decided that i will give a good go to a relationship ...
A. 8 July 2007: Thank you for your quick reply! That in itself is helpful enough... But my distrustful mind thinks, he seems up for anything, because the texts have been very implying on both parts... The image that he's always been projecting to me was exactly ... (read in full...)
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