G/f and I sometimes have uncomfortable quiet spells..is there something wrong with that?
Q. Hey, I've been with my girlfriend for just under four months now and everything is great, in general. We are pretty much always on the same wavelength and we're not totally obsessed with each other, both lead our separate lives and because of t...
A. 30 April 2010: Yes I think you are. You must accept that it is cracy to always be talking and not quiet at times. Try to be comfortable saying nothing and maybe lisson a bit more?... (read in full...)
I wake up in the middle of the night thinking about my wife having sex with other men
Q. When I was 15 and my wife Susan was 16, we were lovers and I was the first one to ever have sex with her. After a couple of years we drifted apart and later when I was 18 my room mate and Susan became friends and wanted to date, he asked my ...
A. 30 April 2010: I think if you cannot talk to Susan about this and gain her reassurance you may have to go to a counsellor. That helps but is not 100% b y any means.
I think you need to record on paper all the dreams/ things that go through your mind during t... (read in full...)
Is there a way to make my hair grow faster?
Q. I'm 13 and have no penis hair or under arm hair is there a way to grow my hair faster?? Plz help....
A. 30 April 2010: No No No again!
Just wait like we all have to it is not as though you walk round naked?
There are more importany issues in your life than this?... (read in full...)
Can I trust my girlfriend again after she left me for another man?
Q. do i trust my girlfriend again my girlfriend left me for another guy, she slept with him , then a week later told me she had made a big mistake...she was working away with him, so it took her 5 months to finish her contract and return to me..in t...
A. 30 April 2010: No! No! Tell her to p--s off and you take control of your life and find someone worthwhile?
Remember she is a 'liar , cheat and a fraud'? Is that the g/f youi want?
I do not think so!... (read in full...)
How can I build a relationship with my mother?
Q. Okay, here it goes.. I've offten wondered.. am I wrong?.. IS all of this my fault?.. Am I bringing all this on myself?..Am I just emotional?.. I keep doubting myself.. and now I wonder..am I broken?.. I've had just the worst relationship with my ...
A. 30 April 2010: I am not sure you can talk to her. From what you have said I fear she cannot get over the fact you were a mistake. She must feel lkie a complete s--t much of the time as she has excluded you from her life - fir so many reasons which you nor I can ... (read in full...)
I'm leaving college in 2 weeks, how can I keep in touch with my teacher?
Q. So I'm leaving college in two weeks for study leave and exams, and hopefully, if I don't have to resit a year, I'll be leaving for good. I've liked one of my teachers for almost the entire two years I've been in college, and have reason to believe ...
A. 30 April 2010: Why would they say go fot it? I think they would probably say go and get on with your life?
It is not the age issue which means nothing but you are at an age when you are susceptible to those authority figures around you. How do you know if ... (read in full...)
I'm leaving college in 2 weeks, how can I keep in touch with my teacher?
Q. So I'm leaving college in two weeks for study leave and exams, and hopefully, if I don't have to resit a year, I'll be leaving for good. I've liked one of my teachers for almost the entire two years I've been in college, and have reason to believe ...
A. 30 April 2010: Please please 'you are 17 and you only live once' that is a load of tosh. You have a crush! That is fine now move on? Like you said 'you only live once' so get on with your life and forget that teacher? ... (read in full...)
She likes it better without a cover!
Q. when my girlfriend and i have intercrouse, with no condom she likes it more cuz she can feel the head more and during it, my penis feels like its getting squeezed, like her vagina is getting tighter and such and her eyes are closed and looks like ...
A. 29 April 2010: well that is fine hope she feels the same when your both baby sitting?... (read in full...)
I love my husband but not this forced celibacy!
Q. Im an totally sexually deprived. My husband does not have any sex drive. We tried to fix this problem , but never got better. But now, I realized, if I dont want to leave ,its better just leave him alone.He is nice guy,I don't know what happened to ...
A. 29 April 2010: Gosh I should have gone to be it is 0030 hrs. What can I say you are indeed young and as a woman have maybe as much sex drive as ever. You are most certainly not dirty just normal, and lonely?
Two quick points Doctors and counselling? If this ... (read in full...)
Is their brother-sister relationship abnormal?
Q. Brother- Sister situation My boyfriend (27 years old)and his sister (24 years) have a relation that makes me very uncomfortable because- 1. They don't mind walking in to each other when one of them is actually using the bathroom like in the tub...
A. 27 April 2010: Sounds very strange to me?
Move on!... (read in full...)
Am I just a game to him?
Q. Help!! This is alittle confussing and may be long..Sorry..I am a married women of about 19 years and have kids. A couple of years ago a old friend of mine came home for and we ran into each other. We exchanged numbers and then things started t...
A. 27 April 2010: Come on! Where are you at I feel so annoyed at ladies like you that fall for this type of action. He is not married - CSI expert are we now? He is secretive - well of course he probably has a wife and children that is why? What of you family an... (read in full...)
How do I get over the relationship when he made me chose between "all or nothing"
Q. Hey! So my question is how do you get over someone? Like i was in an on and off relationship for about 3 years we were closer than close i even lost my virginity to him. The reason our relationship ended is because i wasn't willing to make the type ...
A. 27 April 2010: Poor you, sadly this is part of the downsides of relationships. You have been very mature in ending it now when you knew it was not right for you! Move on change your hairstyle, wear a new style of cloths and find things that are very different f... (read in full...)
Did I open Pandora's box?
Q. I find myself in a bit of a jam. I have been dating my man for some time now. We have had threesomes in the past, however I do not want to do that anymore and I want to be in a committed relationship with him. A.K.A. monogamous. Thing is he knows ...
A. 27 April 2010: Yes there is no future for the two of you and that is the problem with 3 or more in a bed. You cannot turn the clock back. You reap what you sew, I fear you need to move on?... (read in full...)
She told me she needs at least 6"
Q. Huge problem. I have small penis 4in when fully react. I had two previous girlfriends tell mr when can't feel anything it's too small. I know the foreplay part but doesn't work. Now I been with a sweet girl for 6 months she say im her everything. ...
A. 27 April 2010: Tell her to f--- off as she is a heartless bitch with little or no style. Your well shot of her sort! ... (read in full...)
I feel fatter every time I eat even a bite of food!
Q. is there something wrong with me? i feel like the fattest person in the world at 48 kg, i know that's not fat or over weight, but everytime i look in the mirror i see a horrible, ugly, disgusting fat creature. my mom says i have a regular body but i ...
A. 27 April 2010: Now this is merely part of growing up and I want you to go to your Doctor or School counsellor to discuss it. If not checked the mindset may lead to problems in the future. Please do not be afraid to discuss with your parents as well.
You a... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't move out of the house he shares with is ex because of his child! Help!
Q. Hi Guys, I'm new to the site and I need a bit of advice. I have been with my boyfriend for approx 6 months (doesnt sounds long I know), We were friends before and it grew into a relationship. I knew that this guy lived with his ex and 5 y...
A. 25 April 2010: Well there in lies the trap. If he cared enough about you he would have no concerns in moving up a gear in the relationship. I fear as he can have you and his kids mum, it is time for you to call a halt today this evening!
Find someone who want... (read in full...)
Fiance thinks he might be missing something by having sex only with me!
Q. me and my boyfriend been together for 5 years and we are getting married this summer i have been his only girlfriend his entire life he feels insecure because of that and he is constantly wondering what it would be like to be with another female ...
A. 25 April 2010: Then you will need to discover what other males do?... (read in full...)
I want more than friendship and I think she does too but she has a very low self esteem
Q. I have really liked this one girl for about 6 or so months now, and we have got to know each other quite well. But i want more than just friends. i have tried hinting to her, but we are both rather shy and she has really low self esteem. My frien...
A. 25 April 2010: Good on you and I complement the mature comments you have made. You are thougthful and mature.
I think you have to tell her what you have told us? That is a problem when girls /boys can not see things for themselves nad have confidence issues? ... (read in full...)
14, never made out and don't know how to use my tongue
Q. Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl and I've never made out with a guy. I'm single right now, but when I get another boyfriend and if we get to that point to where we want to make out, I don't want to be all scared and embarrassed. I want to be confident. ...
A. 25 April 2010: Firstly 'making out' is not a game nor a right of passage. Look for a bit of guidance on web sites. Not withstanding you could get pregant or catch something?
Why are you in such a hurry and Miss you are under age. Get on with your life and stud... (read in full...)
I was strong enough to leave, but don't feel strong now I have.
Q. Hello everyone I have recently left my b/f of 4 yrs. He kept writing sexual messages to other women and he did eventually cheat on me. It has been 2 months now and I am holding up. But I just found out my friend has a bf now. She is in ontario ...
A. 25 April 2010: Poor you I am in a similar state but I am 58 so by comparison you have 100% chances of new relationships I have about 10% on a good day and there has not been many of them in the last year.
I know to an extent how sad and tearful we become a... (read in full...)
I'm convinced my ex-boyfriend still loves me even though he says otherwise
Q. hi I meet the guy on a webisite italiansingles in october we talked online then we started to talk on the phone we talked everyday and night we fell in love but we never meet but we saw each other on webcam. we talked all night on the phone. ...
A. 25 April 2010: Oh no he doesn't you are making a nuisamce of yourself!... (read in full...)
He wants to be friends, I want more. How can I change his mind?
Q. I was seeing this guy for about 7 months...after going away on vacation for about a couple of weeks, he became distant and a bit withdrawn. I should also mention that there is a 7-year age difference between us. I am 24 and he is 31. I brought up ...
A. 25 April 2010: No! No! and No! again. Move on and get rid it is clear to me that whatever there was has gone. Anyway there is busy time ahead for you make the most of your between now and school.
It may be better to keep clear of relationships as you will be ... (read in full...)
I get excited by other boy's bums more than I do over girls
Q. hi, im sorry if this gets a bit long. so im very very confussed about my sexuality. everyday i go to college and i cant help my self i look at all the bums of the boys. i imagine them naked, and in sexual situations. but with girls i dont do ...
A. 24 April 2010: Gay - my arse! You are merely in the process of identifying sexuality and where you are in the big plan of things? Just let life take its course, it is not about bums,tits, cocks or fannys, it is really about the emotions that the partner frie... (read in full...)
When we're apart I just don't feel happy!
Q. After two years together and a couple weeks without communication, we decided to stay together. He talked to some friends, and he came to the consensus he should stay. On the night of our talk this song immediately came on, "You're my Best Friend",...
A. 24 April 2010: Yes! Yes! Of course you will? You are so young anyway surely you need to find out a little bit more about life? It is not all about 'beer and skittles'you must experience as many emotions as you can the more the better you well get from life. ... (read in full...)
I know he's going to ask me out but I still love a guy who ignores me!
Q. so basically this guy in my class start to talk to me an were pretty good friends now an he has a crush on me an we kissed, i know hes going to ask me out next time we chill an i want to say yes but i still love this other guy who lives 2 hours away ...
A. 24 April 2010: Miss calm down niether bot has proposed marriage yet! Just do a relationship with the new guy? How on earth do you know what the other fella is upp to 2 hours away anyway? Please do not over complicate things already? There will be plenty of s--... (read in full...)
Was my husband having lustful thoughts?
Q. myself and my husband we had been out for a picnic with a group of friends and their was a female who had worn revealing clothes my husband would look at her in breaks as we were together all the time eating and drinking does this show he was ...
A. 24 April 2010: Not exactly but it is a man thing. We men assume that every woman out there lusts after us. Sadly that is not true at all, well not for most of us? He was being normal, was it not you that are maybe a little jealous of this hussy. Try bein... (read in full...)
Fiance thinks he might be missing something by having sex only with me!
Q. me and my boyfriend been together for 5 years and we are getting married this summer i have been his only girlfriend his entire life he feels insecure because of that and he is constantly wondering what it would be like to be with another female ...
A. 24 April 2010: I think you know the answer, you said it? You split up I fear, his wunderlust will only be satisfied by a n other females? Would he feel better if he had sex with one other girl? ten other girls ? a hundred other girls? If you feel in charge c... (read in full...)
Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old when I'm 16?
Q. Is it ok to go out with a 12 year old girl when im 16. No its not about sex thats completely retarded at this age. She admitted she liked after her mom told me....
A. 24 April 2010: No, find someone your own age?... (read in full...)
Can you REALLY forgive someone after they cheat?
Q. Is it ever possible to have someone cheat in a relationship, and then really forgive someone? If you really forgive that person in your heart, can you still live happily ever after?...
A. 24 April 2010: NO NO and No again!... (read in full...)
I have only ever had 3 girls interested in me! How do I get my self-esteem up off the ground?
Q. im a young adult, have been in a relationship for 3 years and my self esteem is the lowest it has ever been. i feel soo ugly its eating me up and there is very little i can do about it. it never used to bother me before it was just something i could ...
A. 24 April 2010: Only three arn't you the lucky one. You need to step outside the box and take up any new interest. Sod the gym it is all our USA cousins can think of. Look at a couple of local clubs cycling, amdramatics, adult activities. Go and work in a ... (read in full...)
Confused and hurt with a holiday on the way!
Q. Hey everyone, My girlfriend and i have been together for over 2 and a half years and its basically both of our's first proper relationship... We had booked a holiday around 3 months ago and fully paid it off together for our first holiday together...
A. 24 April 2010: Get shot she is a slapper. There I have said it you deserve much better. Holiday go if you feel OK with it sleep with her and then when you return - tell her to F--- Off. Do not be bitter it is not worth it, it shows that the relationship was... (read in full...)
Only friends and sex after divorce, or is it more?
Q. I am a divorcee (no kids) experiencing a very "odd but comfortable" relationship with a workmate who is also divorced (has kid of 6 yrs). I'd like to know if this relationship can work in the long run, or if we are risking our friendship. It dev...
A. 24 April 2010: No more wierd than the rest of us? If you are both content with this level relationship that is fine. However, I think you would like a little more from it. That is perhaps when a problem may occur or oi he felt he wished to enhance your ... (read in full...)
I'm not in love with her but she doesn't want an abortion.. I don't want to hurt her.
Q. ok here goes. im from scotland and i got my american girlfriend pregnant. at the moment both of us are living and working in south korea ware we met about 7 months ago. our contracts run out in august and she wants me to move to america with her. i...
A. 23 April 2010: A bit late for 'hurt' is it not? Consciense troubling you (wish I could spell), you do not want her, the child or the USA!
Well there ain't no other way but to hurt her you must tell her all this today without delay! You must add that it was a... (read in full...)
I'm married, but confused by another man that I like?
Q. A year and a half ago a long lost friend came back into my life. We started texting and I found myself falling in love with him. I'm married and but there is something about him that I don't want to let go. he told me on a few differant occassions ...
A. 23 April 2010: You said it, you are acting like a teen although I am sure you are lovely and look like a teen anyway. This is just an infatuation and the one at risk here is you as clearly it is taking on a large significance in your thoughs and deeds.
Sit d... (read in full...)
My online friend...
Q. I met a man online four months ago. We have been communicating steadily. We are meeting in two weeks. After we exchanged pictures of each other and started getting to know one another the sparks were flying. I have not had sex in years as I am ...
A. 22 April 2010: Not straight away I think he is a bit forward?... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a life and be happy after everything that has happened?
Q. I have a very sad story. I have two son, who are addicted to crack,or other drugs. 3 other children are doing ok. But our life is ruined,because,I can never stop worry ,and feel, I have no right for happiness. We tried to help them many ways,but it ...
A. 21 April 2010: I trhink it is time you started to look for what you want from your life, It must evry parents nightmare but in the end our kids always do what they want, not what we want? Go to your doctor or seek help or a support group. You cannot get over ... (read in full...)
What can I do to be good at sex?
Q. Ok me and my boyfriend been together for 5 years on Saturday and he is very good in bed and I feel like I'm not it some times hurt and when I'm on top I stop a lot is there any thing I can do to be good @ sex like him please help me...
A. 19 April 2010: Nonsense! has he ever said this after 5 years he guess he is in love with you I would be! Have a relaxing evening doing something you both like and tell him what you want?... (read in full...)
Friends vs lovers - you women mix us guys up!!
Q. What is it with you women? I know it's a woman's option to change her mind, but.... Poor guys on here get so mixed up by you lot! Half the time you tell us to "hang in there, be their friend" when we like someone but the other person is with s...
A. 19 April 2010: Well I agree with you but I think it applys to both genders? When we mean Yes = No and No = Yes: to confuse things we say well mnot at the moment I am just getting over ?????????? Once again that I fear means 'No'?
ANY ADVANCE ON THESE VIEWS?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend had sex with another guy, but she says she was too drunk to realize what was happening.
Q. Hey everyone. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years now. We went through a rough patch about 1 year into our relationship that I rationalized as her "waking up" and maturing. She was in love with alcohol, like so many young ...
A. 19 April 2010: Well she would say all this wouldn't she, she is not going to admit anything.
Go slowly and take your time we are all entitled to make mistakes, it is part of the pattern of life?
What you must do is fight or flight, if you take the former ... (read in full...)
I think my ex's brother wants sex?
Q. i have a dilemma. Lately my exs' brother has been coming around to visit my spouse. Their cousins. I had an affair with the brother a longtime ago and it ended bad. But now recently the cousins mom passed away and the two brothers basically despise ...
A. 19 April 2010: No disrespect but you are old enough to know better. This will end in tears if you proceed and it will be your tears in my opinion.
It will leave you with other issues to resolve?... (read in full...)
It's a solid marriage but I miss sex
Q. Can a marriage survive without sex? My husband and me are totally not sexual anymore.. I feel,my sexuality is dead. He is impotent , not medical. He is healthy,was checked out.. And never looks at me as a man,looks at a woman. But he says he loves ...
A. 18 April 2010: If you want sex then No! it is going to get worse. You want sex as otherwise you would not have asked the question.
Why does he not want sex - you Madam are in your prime and its a fairly natural thing. Do not dismiss counselling or anything... (read in full...)
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