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14, never made out and don't know how to use my tongue

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Question - (25 April 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl and I've never made out with a guy. I'm single right now, but when I get another boyfriend and if we get to that point to where we want to make out, I don't want to be all scared and embarrassed. I want to be confident. So, how do I make out and do I use my tongue?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

Don't worry, If you have a boyfriend and he wants to make-out with you then if your comfortable with him do it, and go with the flow of it, Thats how i did it when i first made out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

if a guy likes you he is going to enjoy making out with you, it shouldnt matter, do whatever you are enjoying, not making out for the sake of making out.

that all comes natural. making out is not

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

At your age,

i do not advise you to worry about it. It is all ok if you do not know any thing. joy of suspense is lot better than all knowledge some times.

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A male reader, numpty United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2010):

hi

first of all dont be nervous - guy you are with will be nervous as well. Most inexperinced guys will just shove their tongues down your throat which is not nice and not enjoyable.

You should kiss naturally and then when it is right - you just gently slip your tongue inside is mouth and then take it out - as you become more comfortable you should touch his tongue with yours and the gently circle his while still kissing gently - you just take it from there - the more you do this the more you will experience and decide what it is you like and how you like to do it -

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

We've all been here. When you do makeout with a guy next, the tongue will come instinctively. You will catch on after a couple of seconds as to what to do

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

Relax I didn't have my first kiss until I was 17, why you in such a rush? Also don't worry, at your age no one is really good at making out, so take into consideration that if you're afraid you're not a really good kisser, well your boyfriend might not be either considering you find someone in close proximity to your age.

I wouldn't stress over it, these sort of things come naturally with time as experience.

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A male reader, Brunel Wallis and Futuna +, writes (25 April 2010):

Firstly 'making out' is not a game nor a right of passage. Look for a bit of guidance on web sites. Not withstanding you could get pregant or catch something?

Why are you in such a hurry and Miss you are under age. Get on with your life and studies and only do something when you are 16 + and have been dating with a number of people, once you have sex for the first time you cannot turn the clock back if it is crap.

When it is right you will know for now be patient and get on with academic issues?

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