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She told me she needs at least 6"

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Question - (27 April 2010) 12 Answers - (Newest, 7 May 2010)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Huge problem. I have small penis 4in when fully react. I had two previous girlfriends tell mr when can't feel anything it's too small. I know the foreplay part but doesn't work. Now I been with a sweet girl for 6 months she say im her everything. But when we were "gullying around and fell my penis" she suddenly was turned off.

She's been with three other guys before me and told she needs at least 6in. I am worried now and don't want to loose another girl.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010):

do sex with her aggressively, she will enjoy it. length does not matter really

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A male reader, Undisclosed Canada +, writes (1 May 2010):

Undisclosed agony auntIn my opinion, you should stay away from a pump!! That's changing who you are. It's unnecessary and nothing destroys self-esteem more than going down that path. She doesn't need 6", she needs satisfaction. She doesn't need 6" she just needs satisfaction and luckily your penis isn't the only head she appreciates on your body. Use your other head to get her smiling.

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A female reader, rockwell United States +, writes (30 April 2010):

Try a penis pump! I have a friend that made her boyfriend get one cause she was used to bigger guys. Pumps will enlarge your penis. I would look more into it cause I'm not sure how much it will enlarge it by. If you really want to take a route of making her happy then this might be a start. Good luck

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A male reader, Undisclosed Canada +, writes (27 April 2010):

Undisclosed agony auntWell when it comes to intercourse, you can get her on her back with her knees together against her abdomen. Entering from this position will make you feel bigger. Other positions will make you feel smaller.

When it comes to foreplay (and I realise said know this part but it doesn't hurt to mention...), talking dirty can certainly accentuate things. If you tease her endlessly and talk dirty in her ear (whisper) about her ummm *needing* you, her pussy muscles will repeatedly clamp down on the emptiness in her channel before you enter her. Also, keeping just the head of your penis there as you do so will (in a sufficiently aroused partner) make her muscles try to suck you inwards and these are the muscles you want to start working and contracting before you enter. There's so much you can do...

She doesn't need 6", she needs to be satisfied -- pure and simple. You're eager, you like this girl, you want to satisfy her so keep thinking exactly that as you make love to her. Get her up in the heavens and smiling before your rocket enters her starry skies.

Have fun!

Also, don't have a nice talk about it over a cup of tea. This is sex, not the fodder for a rational conversation. Just go and do it amigo!

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A male reader, Mr Doctor United States +, writes (27 April 2010):

So she meeting with you or your penis?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010):

its not how big it is but how you use it thats important!!

best sex i ever had was with a guy who's penis didnt look that impressive

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A male reader, bruce lee Nigeria +, writes (27 April 2010):

bruce lee agony aunt Oh well, at least you're more mature than her. Maturity is an important virtue. Women laugh at me for all sorts of reasons including very personal information I tell them.

I had to have a mastectomy because I had hormone problems and grew breasts. It doesn't stop people from being cruel even if you've suffered a lot. Some people (male or female) love to make nasty comments. But they don't like it when it's served up to them. They're called idiots.

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A male reader, Brunel Wallis and Futuna +, writes (27 April 2010):

Tell her to f--- off as she is a heartless bitch with little or no style. Your well shot of her sort!

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (27 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntYou have got to prove to her that your 4" is better than the 6" one's.

The trick is to make her orgasm first through orals and manual stimulation's and she would not know if yours is 4" or 6" unless she has a ruler nearby.

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (27 April 2010):

If she really likes you, she'll be willing to work with it; not tell you, "I need at least 6 inches." I'll be honest, most girls do care about size; however, if a girl likes the guy enough besides his size, she'll be okay with it and find other ways for you two to please each other.

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (27 April 2010):

Not My Name agony auntYep, I agree with C Grant.

If a girl is really interested in you rather than what is in your pants then you will find ways to give and recieve pleasure to each other.

Penetration is not everything, ... you can explore different types of sex, eg: oral, manual, toys, etc, etc.

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (27 April 2010):

C. Grant agony auntI've never been with a girl who got out a ruler.

Simply put, you're with the wrong girls. If they're telling you that all the foreplay, all the oral, all the other stuff doesn't do it, then you're with the wrong girls. I'm willing to bet you a twoonie that some women are going to chime in on this post and concur.

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