I wake up with bruises, why is this happening?
Q. welll, my problem is more medicalll. i wake up and i have bruises of my hips. my mom jokingly said that i do that to myself cuz i hate my big waist. im curvy, :] but then she said not to worry. but i think she might be right? help!...
A. 25 August 2007: go to the doctors asap and explain to them what is going on that cant be good and i dont think your mom should joke about that kinda thing... (read in full...)
In love with my recent girlfriend but my longtime platonic friend suggested a no-strings-attached relationship, what should I do?
Q. I have a girlfriend that I love. We have been dating for months and all that we have done is kiss and make out. This is fine with me because I really like her. It can be frustrating, though. Meanwhile, my longtime platonic friend Kim has made it ...
A. 25 August 2007: no mater what, if you really care for your gf than you wont cheat on her and you'll wait until she's ready to make that step! if you do sleep with this friend it will mess things up for you and your gf so i advise you to keep it in your pants or... (read in full...)
Nervous about my job interview
Q. hi. ive just been for a job interview on wednesday. iv not had any experience of a real job interview before. the job im in, i got i think because my mum knew people and i felt my boss wasnt reli interested in interviewing me. his attension was ...
A. 24 August 2007: you'll just have to wait it out and see what happends theres nothing eles you can do but i think that maybe you didnt do as bad as you may think... (read in full...)
Why is it such a turn on to watch my wife having sex with another man?
Q. why is it such a turn on to watch my wife haveing sex with another man...
A. 22 August 2007: i cant answer that for you just keep asking your self that just maybe you like the thought of your wife getting off... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and I want to have anal sex with my girlfriend.
Q. I'm 19 and I want to have anal sex with my girlfriend. We have done it before and she liked it but now she won't. It is my favorite by far and I really really like doing it. Like 1 or 2 times a month would be great but she just says I'm sorry. I ...
A. 22 August 2007: talk to her about this if you want to know something ask her and try to mix things up try going down on her out of know where to get her going good luck ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend when a guy asks me for my phone number?
Q. I have a boyfriend and I wanna be faithful to him. I tell him when boys ask for my number. Yesterday, he acted weird, I didn't know why, until he told me that 'a boyfriend doesn't wanna know if his girlfriend's are getting numbers' well.. I just ...
A. 21 August 2007: long as your not doing anything and he doesnt ask i dont think you have to tell him, it probley makes him jealious thats all i know your trying to be open with him but try keeping that to your self it may cause problems ... (read in full...)
Do you think i might be pregnant?
Q. hi Im 17 years old and i think im pregnant I have sore breasts, my period is a month late, my stomache hurts all the time,, i cant eat certain things, it sounds good then it hurts my stomache, im always tired... please help me if its possib...
A. 20 August 2007: i say take a test and thats the best answear to your question and if it says yes than get it double checked by the doctor and also get check for stds there so comon this days and those are the last things you want ive a lil boy and i am pregnant so ... (read in full...)
Could he go to jail for getting me pregnant?
Q. I am 15 almost 16 and I'm pregnant but will be 16 before the babies born and my boyfriend is 21 will he go to jail even though I'll be 16 before the babies born? And say I didnt put his name on the birth certificate and later on I do, can they still ...
A. 20 August 2007: frist of all my lil sister who is now 21 with a 5 year old had her baby at 16 and her husband is 31 now and was 26 and they did not put him in jail whatsoever but my parents didn't press charges either but also my siter inlaw was 16 and had sex with ... (read in full...)
I think they are having text sex.
Q. Hi I've been with my partner for 3 years ( started living together early this year)He's been married before ( she left him) and lived with another girl for 2 years . We have so much in common in every aspect of our lives. We are planning to buy ...
A. 20 August 2007: first your not asking for to much out of wanting that in your relationship thows are simple things but some times the hardest things to go by for sum and i for one cant figuar out why.
okay well you have said they have been having text sex?
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My 12 year old daughter is viewing graphic porn!
Q. My 12 year old daughter looks at porn on the internet. I already talked to her about it. But I'm worried. She's been going on some really nasty sites. Sites that use the F word, P word, and c word. She's been going on quite alot of them to. She does ...
A. 20 August 2007: install something on the computer that you can view anything she goes to and talk to her again and let her know its wrong to look at thoses sites.
im not telling you to tell her sex is bad or to give her a sex talk or anything just explain that isnt... (read in full...)
My professor winks at me
Q. Hello! So there is this professor who started winking at me a couple of months ago. The first time he winked i was with a friend of mine so i didn't give any attention to that. I thought it was his "way' of saying hello. The next day he w...
A. 20 August 2007: yes he is intressed in you but STAY FAR FAR AWAY hes married and you dont need that trouble thats for sure enjoy going to school and having friends and have a good time dont worry about this man ignore hes winking hes just wants attention from a ... (read in full...)
I always helped her financially and this time when she asked me for money I couldn't help her since I had financial problems myself. So she decided to break up with me saying that she needed someone who could help her with her problems.
Q. PLEASE HELP AGE 21 WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 2 1/4 YEARS AND NOW SHE BROKE UP WITH ME. We had been together, soo happy and this was a serious relationship we were planning on buying a house end of year but before all that happened we broke up. We ...
A. 20 August 2007: i say this she was with you yes but she also wanted things from you like money alot right? well that just shows how mature she really is and not much at all, your young get out there meet new people and socialy go out to a club make your self ... (read in full...)
Can my mum put him in jail when we have had no sexual or really physical contact what so ever???
Q. ok I am 16 years old, I hate guys my age they're too immature... I recently started dating this 20 year old guy and me and him have done nothing but talk but my mom called him up threatening to put him in jail for just talking to me...the funny ...
A. 19 August 2007: fyi in the usa if your 16 and hes 20 he can get jail time for sleeping with you if she can prove it my sister inlaw im married to her brother slept with her bf shes 16 and hes 20 and he got 4 months in jail a felony on hes record and probation and ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to go from being gay to straight?
Q. I'd love to hear from a guy who has turned from being gay to straight. I think that might be happening to me and its driving me absolutely insane. Can it really happen?...
A. 19 August 2007: well before i was married i had a one night stand with a man that was gay we were drunk and the next day he told me he has never been with a woman turning out a few weeks later he wasn't a virgin as i thought a close friend of mine who is gay said ... (read in full...)
A friend of mine fooled around with another friend's fiancee... should I tell?
Q. My friend is getting married in two days and the night of her bachlorette party another friend of mine fooled around with her finance. I am not sure what to do with this information, I know that if I tell my friend what happened she might not ...
A. 18 August 2007: well how bout getting your friend something that will show her!! remember actions speak louder than words!!! first did you catch them or know for sure or is this hear say??? if you indeed dont know for sure than i wouldnt say anything, but if you... (read in full...)
Could i be with child?
Q. i had my tubes done may of 99,i had my last period around july 23,for the past few days my breasts have been tender,left side overie pain at times,also queasy at times,not having any cramping or any other signs that my period is coming,could i ...
A. 17 August 2007: check with your obgyn doc and also get a test first my mother had her tubes tighted and still got pregnant with me so there is a chance best of luck... (read in full...)
I want to give my husband the best blow job ever, but i dont know how.
Q. My husband and i have been trying new things i want to give him the best blow job ever but not sure how he is the only man i have done this to. He would tell me it was good even if it wasn't Come on guys help me out....
A. 17 August 2007: first take his dick in your hand then slowly lick around the head as you lightly jack him off then start sucking on the head and as it's in your mouth blow on it a lil bit as you grab his balls, start rubbing them in your hand as you lick down the ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm cheating and had the nerve to ask if our daughters were even his!
Q. I have had a boyfriend/fiance for almost 4 years now and we ahve two small children together. He is a very jealous type. we went to counsleing over it but now im about to start school its starting up again. He has been accussing me of cheating cuz i ...
A. 17 August 2007: oh honey tell him this if he has no trust in you and really thinks your two lil girls are not his than get the test make him pay for it tell him you have not been cheating and also explain why you dont want sex all the tim talk with him and if he ... (read in full...)
Are we too young to be engaged?
Q. Im 16 my boyfriend is 17 we have been together a while now and are very much in love. We are considering moving in together at the start of next year. We were talking last night and he said next time we go shopping he wants me to point out some ...
A. 17 August 2007: do you think its best do what you want its your life and please dont let anyone tell you differnt if your happy than go for it your not to young just make the right choices and everything eill be fine... (read in full...)
She's paying for dates and he's not initiating sex... what does it all mean?
Q. My friend would like me to find out if it is good sign that she has been going out with this man for a month, and she nearly always pays for him and her, or just her portion of what they do on a date? In other words he rarely pays for his share or ...
A. 17 August 2007: tell her to dump this cheap man unless she wants to be treated this way he is trash now CAN HIM!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I'm 14 with inverted nipples.... will I grow out of this?
Q. I'm 14 with inverted nipples.... will I grow out of this! I hate it as I have so many other problems as well so this just makes me feel more bad about myself... and do guys hate them?...
A. 17 August 2007: just relax give it time all differnt guyd have differnt opions so if thingd don't change just your mr. right could tell you but they will in no time just love who you are for now your beautiful no mater what ... (read in full...)
She doesn't ever flirt with me but my girlfriend thinks she will make a move on me. Am I wrong to talk to her? What should I do as I like her as a friend?
Q. Hi, I'm new here so be kind! Well, I'm 20 years old and have had a girlfriend for almost a year! We're really close, still both live with our parents but spend most of our time together. We do virtually everything together and share only a few...
A. 17 August 2007: kinda but its just talking just show your girl friend how much you care and would never do anything like this to her ever and make her feel special and talk to her saying she isnt anything like her you like her as a friend nothing more nothing less ... (read in full...)
Before leaving for school he hit and killed a little boy in a car accident...
Q. I have a big relationship problem. I have known this guy for several years and we have dated on and off... Last summer it got very serious and then he went away to college. Before leaving for school he hit and killed a little boy in a car accident. ...
A. 17 August 2007: he may feel guilt from what has happend but just be there for you it always has to get worse before it gets better just let him know your always there for him if he wants to talk listen but dont make him and you should take things slow and just show ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend's girlfriend, what do I do?
Q. I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend, what do I do? This is probably the worst situation I have ever been in, at least in the terms of love. Let's start out with this, my best friend and his girlfriend have been going out for 3 years now ...
A. 17 August 2007: she needs to leave him asap and talk to her about it let her know she isnt alone and be there for her as a FRIEND intill she's over him ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make him more relaxed and comfortable about sex?
Q. I'm 16 and me and my boyfriend have been sleeping together for the past month and everything's been fine apart from one big problem, he hasn't cum and I told him I had but in fact I hadn't. I dunno what to do cos he's getting really worried about ...
A. 17 August 2007: well do some thing fun and sexy together but also try having sex in the dark and telling him how good he feels and moan for him if you want to what i am saying is that maybe if he doesnt think hes doing it wrong than he'll be okay that or try oral ... (read in full...)
Why do I keep bleeding like this?
Q. I keep on bleeding each time my boyfriend pokes me.I thought it would be my hymen breaking, but does blood come out every time after that? It's pretty embarassing... but I need help!...
A. 17 August 2007: well i agree with all the others go get it checked out and see whats up it may be something and it maybe nothing but only a doctor can really tell you ... (read in full...)
I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her...
Q. I'm worried! My boyfriend says he loves me, he always has and he still does but I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her but this was a ...
A. 17 August 2007: dump him before he dumps you and let him know why and walk away before you get hurt worse!!!
plus if he leaves you for her, instead of crawling back to her after you leave him it will be like hes incontroll which he shouuldn't be YOU are so leave... (read in full...)
Am I being messed about or does he like me?
Q. theres a boy who i really like, and i think i love him. well, we've been friends for a few years now, and i know him from school. i still see him quite a bit, but whenever i do see him, we end up doing sexual things. he knows i really like him,...
A. 17 August 2007: first you want a chance with him than stop making your self so EASY for him he is taking advantage of the fact you like him, so he may not like you but so what that just means you shouldn't waste anymore time with him being that he keeps you as a ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that he didn't orgasm from my blowjob/handjob?
Q. Today I gave the boy I liked a blowjob/handjob. It was for 10 minutes. And at the end he said, "That's good." and so i stopped. and he was kissing me and caressing me alot. I asked him if he orgasmed. and really quickly he said no. And i was like, ...
A. 16 August 2007: he probley had one and said no because hes prideful plus he said it to quick but when he came did it last long ... (read in full...)
Is it a bad trait?
Q. My boyfriend always wants me to give him head. Is that a bad trait in a man?...
A. 16 August 2007: well i think that maybe he just is being a guy and well guys tend to use there head more than there brain and well that thing can be kinda selfish but if your okay with it and getting pleased to than i dont see a problem but if your not than maybe ... (read in full...)
Should i change myself for him?
Q. I am 17 years old and fell for a friend of mine (23 years old). i just recently found out that he has feelings for me too. i have liked him for a long time and would really like for us to start a relationship together. the reason i fell for him in ...
A. 16 August 2007: NO NO NO NO NO NO NO you shouldnt have to change your self for no man your 17 so what are you post to act like 30?? yeah right enjoy being young sweetheart life will be hard and mature soon enough you should always find some one that loves you for ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but I haven't talked to him in ages. Does he have another gf?
Q. I have an internet bf (dont protest against that bit) ive just got a new phone and i cant ring him or antything so i canty talk to him because of the time differences and the fact that he can only use his m8 computer talk to me.I know that he reall...
A. 15 August 2007: you cant really tell since you do not talk to him that much your just going to guess that one for your self but in a few years do you see this going any where?... (read in full...)
I always seem to get attached so quickly in a relationship, why does this happen?
Q. I feel like I get attached so easily either in relationships or even meeting a guy for the first night and developing feelings. I don't understand how it happens but is there anyway that I can become not so attached. I'm really starting to think ...
A. 15 August 2007: well try being selfish in a sence and thinking about you too and also go have a good time with your gfs and just keep your mind busy and be cool youll be fine just try other things than giving your self all the time in the world to be complete and ... (read in full...)
I'm the only girl in my class who's single, and everyone else has a boyfriend so I feel a bit left out.
Q. I may be wrong about this, but I think you may be able to help me. You see, I'm the only girl in my class who's single, and everyone else has a boyfriend so I feel a bit left out. Funny thing is, the guy I like is also single too and shows signs of ...
A. 15 August 2007: well talk to him and maybe flirt a lil bit and see if he flirts back show him your intressed in him and he'll lighten up and probley ask you ... (read in full...)
I'm on birth control but there was about two days in a row that I didn't take it. Could I get pregnant on those days I didn't take it?
Q. I'm on birth control but there was about two days in a row that I didn't take it. Could I get pregnant on those days I didn't take it and what is the likelihood that I can get pregnant on the pill. I'm always hearing stories about how women got ...
A. 15 August 2007: my sister did get preg. on birth controll but i think that you need to take a test and if its neg. your find and if you didnt have sex on those day than im thinking that youll be okay... (read in full...)
I cum after I get into the girl and do about 4-5 pumps. It sucks. How can I last forever?
Q. I cum after I get into the girl and do about 4-5 pumps. It sucks. How can I last forever?...
A. 15 August 2007: well sweetie guys tend to do this and if you can pull out for a few mins and try again the second time you always last way longer but also try to mental relaxing before and now getting your self way worked up over getting it on ... (read in full...)
I love her so much but I know I need to give her some space.
Q. I have been getting used to not seeing my girl as often as before. I am bothered sometimes by the fact that I make every effort to see her. I mean sometimes it just feels like I really really want to see her but those feelings are going away ...
A. 15 August 2007: well listen hun you need to give her space but at the same time go hang out with your boi or homies which ever and give her some room and be cool when you hang out if you show a girl too much it may turn her off like get on her nerves but also dont ... (read in full...)
We are thinking of moving in with each other for conveniece purposes and we would love to give our daughter a "complete family".
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been divorced from my ex husband for 8 years. Since then we have remained in each others lives either as friends or parents to our daughter. We have had many fights but have always forgiven one another. We have both had relation...
A. 15 August 2007: no not really if thats what you both want than do it but be careful not just for your self but your daughters sake indeed and open relationship can be a riskful thing she take care luv and i hope all works for the best but i do think you too should ... (read in full...)
If he has a kid then it changes things, why can't he be honest with me?
Q. I'm 20, I had a boyfriend, were still 6 months in the relationship and I've learned to love him... it so happened that one day when we were in his uncle's house, I found something that I was never really sure of..... and it's killing me! I gave ...
A. 15 August 2007: you need to chill how does a child change anything ???
yeah he may be lien and thats a reason to talk to him and get things together or can him stright out the door but even thow he has a child he isnt asking you to play mommy or anything you come... (read in full...)
My girlfriend loved me sooooooo much but after 6 months she suddenly said that she is not intrested in me and I really don't know why...? I didn't do anything bad...
Q. My girlfriend loved me sooooooo much but after 6 months she suddenly said that she is not intrested in me and I really don't know why...? I didn't do anything bad... ...
A. 15 August 2007: I think that she may need some space and give your self some time to breath and rebuild your heart.
you seem heart broken poor thing but the best thig to do is ot run after her but give her time and maybe talk and see whats up with you and her from... (read in full...)
She told me to break up with him so I did but I really love him and I want to get back with him.
Q. dear cupid.. Me and my godsister like the same guy, and he likes me and her. I asked him out and he said yes, then my godsister was mad at me. She told me to break up with him so I did but I really love him and I want to get back with him. What ...
A. 15 August 2007: well frist your young and at this age well things like that happen just hope you get over it if you have to crushes come and go but also do what you want not just because she told you so because you dont have to but what ever step you go from now ... (read in full...)
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