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Should I be worried that he didn't orgasm from my blowjob/handjob?

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Question - (15 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Today I gave the boy I liked a blowjob/handjob. It was for 10 minutes. And at the end he said, "That's good." and so i stopped. and he was kissing me and caressing me alot. I asked him if he orgasmed. and really quickly he said no. And i was like, "oh sorry". and he smiled and said, "oh no don't worry about it!" and like laughed a little bit.

Then we got up and walked around and later he fingered me. Should i be worried that he didn't orgasm? Will he not like me anymore? Should i try again? Any suggestions? I really like this guy alot..

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A female reader, supersquirrel United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2007):

supersquirrel agony auntthat is absolutely nothing to be worried about, maybe he too was nervous and couldn't relax properly.

use your mouth to focus on the tip of his penis(especially just underneath), and use your hand further down; start slowly, and ask him to tell you if he wants you to go faster or slower, squeeze harder or relax slightly. if you feel up to it, every now and then take his penis as far down your throat as feels comfortable-i'm told most (if not, all) guys love that.

make sure you're both relaxed and he tells you what he likes, what he wants you to do again, where to focus, just generally how it feels best.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (16 August 2007):

hlskitten agony auntNot all men cum through oral. I remember at least one guy that didnt, he said he never had, but there was nothing wrong with our sex life i can tell ya! hehe

Dont panic.

C xxxxxx

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A female reader, beautifultrustnlover United States +, writes (16 August 2007):

beautifultrustnlover agony aunthe probley had one and said no because hes prideful plus he said it to quick but when he came did it last long

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