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My first time lesbian sex came and I wasnt ready, now gf is feeling horrible.

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Question - (22 September 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Lesbian girlfriend is feeling guilty about our first time sex. I didn't want it but she did so she ate me out. I'm okay with it, at the time almost a year ago I wasn't ready to be intimate with her bc I thought she was just another person trying to sex me n leave. Now she is feeling horrible about it and about herself. How do I encourage her to let this go?

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2011):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntYou need to sit down and tell her that it is all in the past and that you do not hold any bed feelings towards her about that situation.

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