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Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 29 December 2008: ....Hi there, Well it took a good while, but we have a success story. Good for you, now don't look back. Keep moving forward, and thank your lucky stars that you saw the light. Take care. Happy 2009. All the best to you and yours.... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 29 December 2008: ....Hi there, Well it took a good while, but we have a success story. Good for you, now don't look back. Keep moving forward, and thank your lucky stars that you saw the light. Take care. Happy 2009. All the best to you and yours.... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 29 December 2008: ....Hi there, Well it took a good while, but we have a success story. Good for you, now don't look back. Keep moving forward, and thank your lucky stars that you saw the light. Take care. Happy 2009. All the best to you and yours.... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 29 December 2008: ....Hi there, Well it took a good while, but we have a success story. Good for you, now don't look back. Keep moving forward, and thank your lucky stars that you saw the light. Take care. Happy 2009. All the best to you and yours.... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 29 December 2008: ....Hi there, Well it took a good while, but we have a success story. Good for you, now don't look back. Keep moving forward, and thank your lucky stars that you saw the light. Take care. Happy 2009. All the best to you and yours.... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 17 October 2008: Hi there, We have all tried to help you deal with your problem. But sometimes, people love to feel pain. So it goes, you are going to have to decide what is the best thing for you to do, to make your life the best that it can be. If you love this ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 26 August 2008: Hi, Good, the medicine is working well. You don't know what to do, well there are two paths. First path, you cll her, set a date for lunch, not dinner. Short and sweet, if she blows you off for this weekend, ask her for the next feasible date. Talk ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 26 August 2008: Hi there, You are closer than I am and so you know what is going on better than I. I want you to think which is better texting her or telephoning her, mythought is thatif you call her, you probably should ask her out to talk and not just ask her the ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 25 August 2008: Hi, Thanks very much for the update. I was wondering how you were doing. Very interesting texting. Here's my suggestion, do not ask her out to lunch or dinner, tell her "I want to ask you someting, I want to do what will make you happy, because I ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi again, Sorry but I wanted to explain something. The reason for trying to keep the lunch or whatever you ask her to do, short, is that you want to stir up a need in her to see you, not always being available for her at any turn. If you get out of ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi there, I think it was good judgment on your part to wait until she gets back to ask her to go out to lunch. When you do ask her, you might preface, by asking if she has time to have a cup of tea, coffee, or I wan't finish the clique, but you want ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi there, Sounds positive. Going to see the doctor is a good thing. That you are less anxious is a very good thing, keep it up. It is probably good that you did not go to happy hour, especially if you were going to be kooking for her. Lighen up a ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi, I was sitting here waiting for your response to how your Friday evening happy hour went? Was she there and did you have a good time? I hope so, let me know. Hope you are doing well. Take care.... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 31 July 2008: Hi there, In answer to you going to play golf, and being there for Happy Hour. I would go, why stop your life? Go and have fun, don't go looking for her, that's the last thing I would do. You have to let her know that you have a life beyond her, if ... (read in full...)
He won't talk to me!! How do I find closure from such a wonderful thing when I don't even know what it is that ended it?
Q. I am one of those young women who doesn't date much, I like to be really careful about who I let into my life, but when I decide to give my heart, I give it fully, and its hard for me to let go. Fairly recently, I fell for someone who became extre...
A. 31 July 2008: Hi there, thank you for updating the situation. Yes, you
know and you deserved to know, perhaps he just left without telling you, to avoid any face to face confrontation. Or he didn't not want to know that he had hurt you, and wanted to avoid that... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hi there, I am going to allow you to absorb what askoldersister and Tisha, have given you. I agree with everything Tisha said. Her advice is spot on, and covers areas that we did not touch on. So stay in touch, but re-ead Tisha's reponse and try to ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 28 July 2008: Hi, there, Nice to hear from you. Good thing, the card, send the card only, if you would, do not send the gifts, wait on those. I would write in the card, something like hope you have a good time. Stop. No calling, no texting. The thing you have to ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 26 July 2008: Hi there, Thanks for sharing what you did. The response from her was positive, but like I mentioned before, let that positive contact sit now. The card will be a good thing, but you have the right idea about controlling yourself. You are reaping the ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 24 July 2008: Hi there, I would like you to perk up. Why do you feel she is slipping away? If two people care about each other, time and space don't necessiarly make things change. She has a favorable impression of you, she cares about you, and she enjoys your ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 23 July 2008: Hi there, You should be enjoying yourself, instead of fretting about her, for the umpteenth time, calm down, hope you are taking your medicine. Since I am assuming she knows, that you know she is going on vacation, find a card that wishes her a ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 19 July 2008: Hi there, I thought your vacations were at almost the smae time, call her after your vacation, and ask for a short sit down, just to get it straight about her wishes. Good luck, as I said calm down, it's going to be fine, fine, fine. Just don't ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 18 July 2008: Hi there, No you are not wearing me down. What I would like
is that you get some direction. You must know where you are going. You said you wanted to know the answer to your questions, which she had not answered to your satisfaction.
You can't kn... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 18 July 2008: Hi, thanks for writing back. Alright, if you really feel that you do not know what she wants, then call her and ask her if the two of you could have tea, lunch or something with a short time span, so she understands that you are not trying to have ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 16 July 2008: Hi, Now listen up. You are doing well, keep it up, think postively , but not only to be with her, for yourself and your..... your future. The other thing is, forgive my bluntness, stop trying to talk yourself into some reason to contact her, you are ... (read in full...)
I love my husband, but I still have feelings for a highschool sweetheart. I feel terrible.
Q. I am 26 years old. I have been married for two years, and I have a 1yr old son. Im currently pregnant with me second child. I love my husband, and he's a good man. He works hard, never raises his voice to me, nothing to complain about, and yet I ha...
A. 16 July 2008: Hi there, You feel you still care for your highschool
sweetheart. You have been married for two years, you have a one year old child, these are major changes in a person's life. Your old boyfriend has had changes in his life as well. As we get olde... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always backs off when we are close to having sex.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 and a half months and we're really close, closer than i've ever been to anybody. The thing is that I want to have sex, but he doesn't. the other thing is that we're both virgins! i understand where he comes ...
A. 16 July 2008: Hi there, Thanks for taking our advice, we try to help. Take it slow if you can, you will understand why later.
Take care.... (read in full...)
Please tell me ~ how do I deal with my insecurities and learn to relax?
Q. My guy likes everything about me...but I am so insecure with how I look, coming up with intelligent conversations, and speaking my mind...so how do I deal with my insecurities and relax?...
A. 15 July 2008: Hi there, The first thing I would say is that, if your
boyfriend likes everything about you, that's a great starting place to build upon. It seems that he sees in
you a lot of qualities that you have, that you are not giving yourself credit f... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 15 July 2008: Hi, Although you may not realize it, you are staring to heal just a wee bit, because you feel the pain. Go through it, cry a little bit if you have to, but move on, everything has a time and a place, now is your hour to put things in perspective and ... (read in full...)
My GF is on contraception injection and bleeding all the time!
Q. my gf is on the contraception injection that you take every 3 months. It goes in the bottom! She`s on her second injection now and her third one is coming up soon. Ever since she has started taking this injection our sex life has died because ...
A. 15 July 2008: Hi there again, As long as the doctors are aware of what is going on, with her system, and by your letter, what is happening to her is to be expected. What I mentioned before about the time released iron pills should be considered, because her ... (read in full...)
My GF is on contraception injection and bleeding all the time!
Q. my gf is on the contraception injection that you take every 3 months. It goes in the bottom! She`s on her second injection now and her third one is coming up soon. Ever since she has started taking this injection our sex life has died because ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hi, It really sounds as if her body is going through changes with this injection process, that does not seem to going right, or this is the way it will go until her body stablizes. She, hopefully is letting her GYN know about these bleeding ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hi, What she told you was that she wanted space, she didn't say how long, or how much space. So virtually she is putting you in limbo. This is is where you are, as far as being with her anytime soon, we would have to wait to see. Now if it were me, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend always backs off when we are close to having sex.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 and a half months and we're really close, closer than i've ever been to anybody. The thing is that I want to have sex, but he doesn't. the other thing is that we're both virgins! i understand where he comes ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hi, You have a boyfriend, who is trying to wait until you are both older. I do not know for sure his age, but if he is your age or close to it, there should not be any knid of legal ramification. You have to answer that one. but he seems to want ... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hi there, Alas, you are coming around to the fact of life, that you have to be you own best friend. She has a problem, you can't make it better, she has to realize it and change it herself. Don't know if I gave you this website, but take the time to ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hi there, I would like you to take her at her word, that it is hard for her, when she does not see you, but do not act on it. Write down those words that she said and the date she said them. Hang on to that, put the paper the words are on, in your ... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 13 July 2008: Hi, Good luck to you, try to find happiness somewhere else. There are a lot of people in the world, hope you find a good one next time. Take care.... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 13 July 2008: Hi there, thanks for responding. She is probably going through the same feelings you are, but on top of everthing else she has on her plate, something has to be put on the backburner, and I think with her, that includes any relationship. You have to ... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 12 July 2008: Hi, If she doesn't want to talk to you, won't pick up her phine etc., you should look to the heavens and be thankful. Try to get over this and move on, you putting yourself through such a strain, trying to figure all this out. There has to be ... (read in full...)
Before our three-way relationship even starts I know I want him to myself. How?
Q. Just to start off I have a deep love for my ex and now we're planning to get back together but there's a catch. You see he doesn't have much trust towards women due to what many have done him wroung including myself. So he's been talkin to someone ...
A. 12 July 2008: Hi there, thanks for getting back to us. If this was your idea and not his, you do need to rethink it. Suppose the other woman wants to have kids by him, are you ready for all this? What confusion this could be for all of you. Take the time to think ... (read in full...)
We are on a team together, she treats me terribly, I don't know why, any suggestions, as to why she behaves this way towards me?
Q. Thanks in advance to any help anyone can give me here as I am at the end of my rope. There is a woman on my volunteer'team' who is giving my quite the run for my money. She can be pleasant but can turn on a dime and she is more apt to do it in ...
A. 12 July 2008: Hi there, Now this is only my opinion, but to me there seems to be some sort of attraction here, from this woman to you. She is either gay or bi-sexual, and does not know how to let you know that she is attracted to you for fear of being rejected. ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 12 July 2008: Hi, Right now, you will have to use a whole lot of self discipline. If you go in to try to persuade her, you will ruin what is a fairly good relationship. When you saw her, she responded to you, you don't want her to tell you to leave her completely ... (read in full...)
I need opinions - does he like me?
Q. Hi, Once a week, I go shopping in my favorite store. Well, you see, there’s a guy that works there and I really like him. He doesn’t look too much older than myself. He always says ‘hi’ and I smile and say ‘hi’ back. I’m quite shy, and I think...
A. 11 July 2008: Hi there, You are cute, the best way, I feel to find out what is on his mind, is to find something in the store, the next time you are there, to ask him about. Formulate real questions, and go up to him and pose the questions. As he answers the ... (read in full...)
Before our three-way relationship even starts I know I want him to myself. How?
Q. Just to start off I have a deep love for my ex and now we're planning to get back together but there's a catch. You see he doesn't have much trust towards women due to what many have done him wroung including myself. So he's been talkin to someone ...
A. 11 July 2008: Hi, What we have here, in my opinion only, is a man who wants to have it his way. He wants you, at least sexually, but he does not want a commitment of marriage. He wants the other girl for variety only, because he doesn't want a commitment with her ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a friend who doesn't find my type attractive.
Q. Hey basically i've realised over the past yr i am unfortunately inlove with one of my best friends who does not find girls of my physical attributes attractive and has said so, but i still get occassional "moments" where i feel we really connect and ...
A. 10 July 2008: Hi there, If it were I, the thing I would want to do, would
be to continue, to be best friends with him. Sometimes, best buddies are more intimate than boyfriend and girlfriend, without the sex, because they share so much. I know you want more, but ... (read in full...)
My husband and his ex are chatting on-line. Is it innocnet?
Q. I have recently discovered that my husband is chating to an ex via an online social network.he says the conversation are innocent but im not so sure.i have never had any reason to doubt him before but im doing my own head in thinking the worst.any ...
A. 10 July 2008: Hi, If he is chatting with her on line, I would think anyone would want to know why. He is your husband, she is
his ex, if they don't have children together, then what are the issues they are talking about? If you and your husband talk to each othe... (read in full...)
Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?
Q. Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...
A. 10 July 2008: Hi there, I am going to ask you one very important question, I think you know what it is going to be. Do
you trust your lady? If you do not, you will forever be looking and listening for signs of whatever you think she is doing or not doing. This... (read in full...)
He won't talk to me!! How do I find closure from such a wonderful thing when I don't even know what it is that ended it?
Q. I am one of those young women who doesn't date much, I like to be really careful about who I let into my life, but when I decide to give my heart, I give it fully, and its hard for me to let go. Fairly recently, I fell for someone who became extre...
A. 10 July 2008: Hi there, Thank you for answering. I am glad that the advice
was of some help to you. Always remember that you are stonger than you think you are. Believe in your self and let no one make you doubt. Take care always. Love and light back to you, nice... (read in full...)
I can't stop contacting my ex and thinking he is having fun and not missing me - how can I stop the pain?
Q. my boyfriend of over 2 years and i recently broke up. i know why we broke up and everything but i cant f---ing pull myself together. for the first few weeks i was fine, but now 2 months later, it's kicking in and i feel freaking miserable. i...
A. 9 July 2008: Hi there, If you cared about a person, loved them, went through changes and it didn't work out, it will be painful, if you break up. It is virtually like a death, you need to realize that. You will have to go through the various stages of grief to ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have missed out sexually, I'm now in a long term relationship
Q. I have been with my Gf for 1year and 6months. We both gave our virginity to each other. However, when we first began to go out she told me about her past she hadnt dun much. All she did was kiss and have dry sex. But incomparison to me that was ...
A. 9 July 2008: Hi there, I think, remember, this is my opinion, that a person's private sex life before two people meet, should be
just that, private. What good is it to know, you only worry yourself to death, wondering, were they better than me, does she comp... (read in full...)
What should I do next? Have I royally screwed it up?
Q. So, I havent seen or really heard from a guy I've recently been seeing in a week, save for a Happy Fourth! text message. After calling once and leaving a message on Sunday, I sent the following: "So, should I go through your secretary to schedule a ...
A. 8 July 2008: Hi, I think in this case, you have to take your cues from him. He appears to be the kind, from your letter, who enjoys being totally engrossed in his work. It can be a hiding place for him, as you indicated, he was once heavier, so he is probably ... (read in full...)
He keeps pushing me to have another threesome. Does he really love me?
Q. i have had threesomes with my partner in the past but i have said that i dont want to do this any more but he keeps on asking me i am now confused as to wheter he loves me to keep pushing this subject....
A. 8 July 2008: Hi, You have the right to say no, if you are uncomfortable
with the situation. Do not allow yourself to be forced into a situation, where you are not completely ok with what is going to take place. It is going to negatively impact your feelings towa... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 8 July 2008: Hi there, The best thing that I think you can do, is to listen to her. She tells you she needs space, you know enough about, what is going on in her life, to realize that she could be a bit overwhelmed. If you push the issue, you will, I think turn ... (read in full...)
He won't talk to me!! How do I find closure from such a wonderful thing when I don't even know what it is that ended it?
Q. I am one of those young women who doesn't date much, I like to be really careful about who I let into my life, but when I decide to give my heart, I give it fully, and its hard for me to let go. Fairly recently, I fell for someone who became extre...
A. 8 July 2008: Hi there, It will be kind of impossible for you to know what it was, that changed your relationship with him so completely, if he will not say what it was. But I would give it one last shot, if you do not have a problem with it. Find him, if you can ... (read in full...)
How can I still be his friend without hurting?
Q. dear cupid, recently i was hanging out with this guy, we got pretty close and became alittle physical too. however when i said lets get together he didnt want to as he claimed his not ready for a relationship. i then was really confused to why ...
A. 8 July 2008: Hi, I think you have to decide here, what it is you want from him, I thought that he was still with his fromer girlfriend. He is talking to you, as a friend and you want more. Why are you worrying yourself about his ex, talk to him, get an ... (read in full...)
How can I still be his friend without hurting?
Q. dear cupid, recently i was hanging out with this guy, we got pretty close and became alittle physical too. however when i said lets get together he didnt want to as he claimed his not ready for a relationship. i then was really confused to why ...
A. 7 July 2008: Hi there, Well these things happen, don't they? You care more for him, than he does for you, at this point for you. Honestly, I don't think he knows who he wants, his relationship with his girlfriend could be out of habit, I am not trying to give ... (read in full...)
He's my soulmate and I was his until I broke his heart with words I didn't mean. How do I put it right?
Q. My partner and i of 5years broke up 1month ago after i said mean things to him, but i didnt mean them. I had depression but im on tablets now and am better. The question is im inlove with him-always have been but my partner said i hurt him so much ...
A. 7 July 2008: Hi, I have to say, that if he still lives with you, there must be something deep inside of him, that still cares for you. You hurt him terribly emotionally, that could be very hard to fix. But what I would do, would be to sit down and contruct a ... (read in full...)
He keeps pushing me to have another threesome. Does he really love me?
Q. i have had threesomes with my partner in the past but i have said that i dont want to do this any more but he keeps on asking me i am now confused as to wheter he loves me to keep pushing this subject....
A. 7 July 2008: Hi, It is possible that he loves you, but also that he enjoys having three in a bed, the two things do not have to be mutually exclusive. But, you are the ultimate decider, as to whether or not you participate in the activity, this is your life, and ... (read in full...)
Confused about who my baby's father is...
Q. hi my name is valsha and i am 18 weeks pregnant if i messed with my friend on feburary 24 is it possible that my baby is his....
A. 7 July 2008: Hi there, I am no expert, but a woman could have sex with two different men within a close period of time, and have two different, active sperm within the reproductive area, and have one of the sperm impregnate an active egg, and the other sperm not ... (read in full...)
My number 2's are often messy...How can I have normal poops??
Q. Not a love question, more related to health... Ok, this is going to sound really gross. But I can't ask anyone else. Whenever I do a number 2, it's always really soft and messy. How can I have normal poo's?? I'm fit and healthy, have...
A. 7 July 2008: Hi there, don't get too worried , when I was younger and started to drink coffee, I found that it was a natural laxative for my body. You are consumming too much coffee, I think. Also, try to add wheat germ to your diet, only a teaspoon or so every ... (read in full...)
My guy is losing interest in me!
Q. I am 20 and I'm dating a 48 year old man. when we first met we had sex all the time like on command but now that were approaching our year anniversary he's all of a sudden uninterested in sex and getting out the house meeting new friends, or getting ...
A. 5 July 2008: Hi, Now I am going to ask you a question, don't be offended, this is life, and life has its ups and downs. Do you and your friend or lover, talk? By that I mean,do you have meaningful conversations about things that interest you both? A relationship ... (read in full...)
Underage and involved - What should I do?
Q. I really need some advice. This is the shortened story. Last week school got out and something really bad happened. I have a really big crush on this 25 year old hall monitor - Martin and he liked me too. So the last day of school I asked for his ...
A. 5 July 2008: Hi, You are young in age, but you do know the consequences of what went on, if someone told the authorities or something, the two men could very well go to jail. I do not know how close you are to seventeen, but I would take a breather here and date ... (read in full...)
Why would he cry over me asking if he's cheated?
Q. hello everyone, The other day, i asked my boyfriend, if he has ever cheated on me or even thought about cheating on me. For some odd reason he started crying, and said he would never ever cheat on me. But for some reason i cant help to think th...
A. 5 July 2008: Hi there, First of all, I would like to know why you asked him the question? Do you feel that he is cheating on you, or do you think he will, why? How is your relationship, do you care for each other, are you both trying to build the relationship, ... (read in full...)
The only way I'll be with her is if she's willing to have a healthy relationship but she won't leave me alone!
Q. i've been seeing a girl on and off for about 3 years. first it was in a casual format. i first wanted her to be with me but she couldn't decide to let go of her other ongoing relationships she'd had stringing on. there was about 3 mont...
A. 5 July 2008: Hi there, Have you ever heard of the phrase, "toying with my emotions"? This lady is having the time of her life, going from man to man, getting what she can from all, while stringing them all along. She loves the game, she is not going to commit to ... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can say or do so that my b/f doesn't cheat on me while I'm gone?
Q. I'm going on vacation for a week and I'm wondering if there's anything I can say or do so that my b/f doesn't cheat on me while I'm gone. We both work together and I feel threatened by this other girl. Please help!!!...
A. 4 July 2008: Hi there, To be honest, if you do not trust your boyfriend, then you will be forever worrying about what he might do, with whomever. There are vampire women out there, but if the two of you love each other, and are committed, to being in the ... (read in full...)
Is it rational to end the current relationship I'm in, for the girl I'm still in love with?
Q. I'm going to try and make a long story short, or at least as short as possible, so bare with me. I moved to Alabama a year ago last June. I moved my entire life from Georgia, to chase love. Quit my job, left my friends, my home, my comfort zone - e...
A. 4 July 2008: Hi, It may be that, you really need to stand down, as they say, and give yourself some space from both these women.
It seems to me that there is something missing, in the curent relationship that you are in perhaps, or just maybe, you do not know... (read in full...)
Is it rational to end the current relationship I'm in, for the girl I'm still in love with?
Q. I'm going to try and make a long story short, or at least as short as possible, so bare with me. I moved to Alabama a year ago last June. I moved my entire life from Georgia, to chase love. Quit my job, left my friends, my home, my comfort zone - e...
A. 4 July 2008: Hi, It may be that, you really need to stand down, as they say, and give yourself some space from both these women.
It seems to me that there is something missing, in the curent relationship that you are in perhaps, or just maybe, you do not know... (read in full...)
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