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I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 26 August 2008: Hi, Good, the medicine is working well. You don't know what to do, well there are two paths. First path, you cll her, set a date for lunch, not dinner. Short and sweet, if she blows you off for this weekend, ask her for the next feasible date. Talk ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 26 August 2008: Hi there, You are closer than I am and so you know what is going on better than I. I want you to think which is better texting her or telephoning her, mythought is thatif you call her, you probably should ask her out to talk and not just ask her the ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 25 August 2008: Hi, Thanks very much for the update. I was wondering how you were doing. Very interesting texting. Here's my suggestion, do not ask her out to lunch or dinner, tell her "I want to ask you someting, I want to do what will make you happy, because I ... (read in full...)
Health question: Cyst/ovary pain. What should I do?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, I come with a question mainly for the females and anyone else who, well, has ovaries! Since I was 18 (gonna be 27 next month), I have had moderate to severe pain in my left ovary. I had gone to the emergency room at least tw...
A. 13 August 2008: Hi again, Good for you, hopefully your problem will be solved. Take very good care.... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi again, Sorry but I wanted to explain something. The reason for trying to keep the lunch or whatever you ask her to do, short, is that you want to stir up a need in her to see you, not always being available for her at any turn. If you get out of ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 12 August 2008: Hi there, I think it was good judgment on your part to wait until she gets back to ask her to go out to lunch. When you do ask her, you might preface, by asking if she has time to have a cup of tea, coffee, or I wan't finish the clique, but you want ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi there, Sounds positive. Going to see the doctor is a good thing. That you are less anxious is a very good thing, keep it up. It is probably good that you did not go to happy hour, especially if you were going to be kooking for her. Lighen up a ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 6 August 2008: Hi, I was sitting here waiting for your response to how your Friday evening happy hour went? Was she there and did you have a good time? I hope so, let me know. Hope you are doing well. Take care.... (read in full...)
After several, awful relationships, I met and moved in with a very nice, caring, wealthy man, but he has changed, no sex drive, no romantic overtures, I am unhappy, but with four kids, I can't leave, what do I do, he tries to change but then reverts,
Q. I moved in with my partner last year and since living together, he has changed from someone who was romantic affectionate to someone who sleeps and has a low sex drive. My past relationships were awful, i was married for 13 years to a man who always ...
A. 4 August 2008: Hi, Thanks for writing back, very good luck to you, remember, it could be worse. Fight for your right to be happy. Talk to him and see if he will be receptive, to change, explain to him how you feel and ask him to please try to understan, ask him ... (read in full...)
After several, awful relationships, I met and moved in with a very nice, caring, wealthy man, but he has changed, no sex drive, no romantic overtures, I am unhappy, but with four kids, I can't leave, what do I do, he tries to change but then reverts,
Q. I moved in with my partner last year and since living together, he has changed from someone who was romantic affectionate to someone who sleeps and has a low sex drive. My past relationships were awful, i was married for 13 years to a man who always ...
A. 3 August 2008: Hi, I can understand your needing affection, and sex sometime, depending on your libido. But this is a tricky situation, you told us about your past, this man that you are with now sounds like a dream, compared to the others who you were with. So I ... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this very long, very comfortable relationship safely?
Q. I need help!!! I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 years and I love him. I am not in love with him though, this I know. It's not that he is a bad person, he's generally good. One thing though, I'm afraid of what his reaction will be if ...
A. 3 August 2008: Hi there, My first question would have to be why
are you afraid of his reaction? Has he physically or verbally abusde you in any way? If not, then you just explain to him, that you do not have the same feelings you have for him in the begi... (read in full...)
Health question: Cyst/ovary pain. What should I do?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles, I come with a question mainly for the females and anyone else who, well, has ovaries! Since I was 18 (gonna be 27 next month), I have had moderate to severe pain in my left ovary. I had gone to the emergency room at least tw...
A. 3 August 2008: Hi there, i sympathize with you, pain is not good. Since what they have told you in the past, does not seem to be working, I would agree completely with gabberjackranch, that you should find a new doctor. Specifically a woman gynocologist, she would ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with someone older than me!
Q. Hi my name is Katie and well I like this guy who is 5 years older than I am. I think that he likes me too but he seems to act differently when he is around his family than when he is alone. See, I think that the reason I am even attracted to him ...
A. 1 August 2008: Hey, If you think you are in a pickle, you will be in one, if you think you are not, then you will not be, preception
often becomes reality. One thing I have learned over time, we have to analyze why we think we love or luv people, it's because we s... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with someone older than me!
Q. Hi my name is Katie and well I like this guy who is 5 years older than I am. I think that he likes me too but he seems to act differently when he is around his family than when he is alone. See, I think that the reason I am even attracted to him ...
A. 31 July 2008: Hi there, I am sure you are wondering what is going on and feeling good, right? Well you have a right to be, you never know what goes through people's minds, but for one thing, anytime you ignore someone they want to find out why and they try to ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 31 July 2008: Hi there, In answer to you going to play golf, and being there for Happy Hour. I would go, why stop your life? Go and have fun, don't go looking for her, that's the last thing I would do. You have to let her know that you have a life beyond her, if ... (read in full...)
He won't talk to me!! How do I find closure from such a wonderful thing when I don't even know what it is that ended it?
Q. I am one of those young women who doesn't date much, I like to be really careful about who I let into my life, but when I decide to give my heart, I give it fully, and its hard for me to let go. Fairly recently, I fell for someone who became extre...
A. 31 July 2008: Hi there, thank you for updating the situation. Yes, you
know and you deserved to know, perhaps he just left without telling you, to avoid any face to face confrontation. Or he didn't not want to know that he had hurt you, and wanted to avoid that... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hi there, I am going to allow you to absorb what askoldersister and Tisha, have given you. I agree with everything Tisha said. Her advice is spot on, and covers areas that we did not touch on. So stay in touch, but re-ead Tisha's reponse and try to ... (read in full...)
We constantly fight, I am losing interest, he blames me for almost everything, it's getting on my nerves, we are to move in together, what do I do?
Q. I can't stop fighting with my boyfriend. We've always fought, at least once every other day, for the entire time we've been together. And I mean that, even before we were boyfriend and girlfriend, we were fighting. So now we've been togethe...
A. 29 July 2008: Hi, Have you ever thought that your boyfriend has a big problem sharing his emotions, or that there is some underlying problem, that has not been resolved between the tow of you. It seems to me that he is fighting the urge to allow you to have the ... (read in full...)
I get a lot of sleep, but I'm always tired, how do I get my mom to take me to the doctor?
Q. this isn't about love or sex or any relationships.. But I still need some help.. I sleep A LOT and I'm not sure whats wrong with me, my mom wont let me go to the doctor or anything to get checked because she just thinks it's the way I sleep...
A. 29 July 2008: Hi there, It may not be your sleeping habits, you are young enough that whatever amount of sleep you get daily, should be sfficient. It might just be that you are suffering from iron deficency anemia, a fancy term for a shortage of iron in your ... (read in full...)
I fought with his ex. Will I ever hear from him again?
Q. This is a guy who chased me for a year only for me to find out he was still sleeping with someone who was suppose to be his ex. then he supposedly told her it was over but would still stay down her house on the weekend end it drove me crazy. so i ...
A. 29 July 2008: Hi there, Seems as though you want to try to have a relationship with this man. My question would be why?
He was probably playing both of you, as some men do. Me, I call that cheating, and dishonest. How do you trust him again, or are you will... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 28 July 2008: Hi, there, Nice to hear from you. Good thing, the card, send the card only, if you would, do not send the gifts, wait on those. I would write in the card, something like hope you have a good time. Stop. No calling, no texting. The thing you have to ... (read in full...)
Do you think he'll ever change his mind about not wanting to marry me?
Q. I have been with my bf for 1 yr, 8 months now. I know its probably still soon, but I do love him. The thing is.. I think we want 2 seperate kind of lives. He dated an older woman [whom already had kids by someone else] before me [his onl...
A. 27 July 2008: Hi there, Well there are a few things here that are interesting about your boyfriend. First of all , did you ask him to marry you? If not why did he out of the blue say he would never marry you? Sounds as if, in this instance, he is rejecting you, ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 26 July 2008: Hi there, Thanks for sharing what you did. The response from her was positive, but like I mentioned before, let that positive contact sit now. The card will be a good thing, but you have the right idea about controlling yourself. You are reaping the ... (read in full...)
Is there someone out there for everyone? What if they live in another country?
Q. Hello. I'm 25, English and never had a proper girlfriend. I'm also a virgin. The truth is nobody wants me. People say you'll meet someone but I know I won't. I know this question gets asked more times but I would like some help. The problem is I ...
A. 25 July 2008: Hi there, Thanks for considerig some of the good advice, offered to try to help you. It is the inside that counts, I have seen people who are not what society would call your "beautiful people", be so charming and seriously concerned about their ... (read in full...)
My best friend is going out with my brother. I feel like I've lost her.
Q. O Ok i still have a problem. I had a problem with my brother going out with my best friend and you guys give me great answers but know my best friend does not spend no time with me she always with my brother!! I try to spend time with her i show ...
A. 24 July 2008: Hi there, A very large part of being a friend, is sharing that friend with others. I am sure you miss her as it appears you were very close, but why not make new friends to fill the void. There are certianly other people around you that you could ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 24 July 2008: Hi there, I would like you to perk up. Why do you feel she is slipping away? If two people care about each other, time and space don't necessiarly make things change. She has a favorable impression of you, she cares about you, and she enjoys your ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to lose faith in relationships.
Q. I'm losing all faith in relationships. My last girlfriend cheated on me with my best friend of 8 years. I've now been dating a girl for the last year and we've had our ups and downs like every relationship some of it to do with jealousy on both ...
A. 24 July 2008: Hi there, Not to be insulting or anything, so take it with a grain of salt. You sound like you are as old as Moses, you are giving up on relationships. You are barely out of short pants. Now give me a break, what you have to do first is not date a ... (read in full...)
Is there someone out there for everyone? What if they live in another country?
Q. Hello. I'm 25, English and never had a proper girlfriend. I'm also a virgin. The truth is nobody wants me. People say you'll meet someone but I know I won't. I know this question gets asked more times but I would like some help. The problem is I ...
A. 24 July 2008: Hi there, First of all, when I read further down into your letter, something distrubed me. Please do not resort to self hurting , there is definitely nothing wrong with you. I would like you to find a good book store and purchase a book, on building ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 23 July 2008: Hi there, You should be enjoying yourself, instead of fretting about her, for the umpteenth time, calm down, hope you are taking your medicine. Since I am assuming she knows, that you know she is going on vacation, find a card that wishes her a ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me before, now he is acting strange... what do I do?
Q. I have been w/my bfriend for 2 years,and have found last year he had been cheating on me for 4 months while wking out of town. Since then things have not been the same, but i have forgave him. But lately he has given me the impression he is talking ...
A. 22 July 2008: Hi, Thanks for writing back. Being that there is a third element in your relationship, his previous marriage, and a child. That makes it complicated. I don't know who decided to divorce whom in his previous marriage, but sometimes their is a ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me before, now he is acting strange... what do I do?
Q. I have been w/my bfriend for 2 years,and have found last year he had been cheating on me for 4 months while wking out of town. Since then things have not been the same, but i have forgave him. But lately he has given me the impression he is talking ...
A. 21 July 2008: Hi there, First of all, if you definitely know he cheated the for four months, and you forgave him, did your trust return. Once someone breaks down your faith in them , by doing something that does harm to the relationship, it becomes very hard to, ... (read in full...)
I think my girlfriend is cheating on me - how should I go about finding out?
Q. Ok, I think that my girlfriend of 1 1/2 years is cheating on me for several reasons, one of my friends said that they saw her out with another girl(one of her friends who i don't like) and 2 other guys when she told me she would be working late that ...
A. 20 July 2008: Hi there, Well based on what you wrote, I think you know what is going on. Her text message was to her girfriend, who probably needed the extra girl, or they all had been out before, and she wrote her back confirming. The fact tht you got it makes ... (read in full...)
We've recently gotten into ugly fights to were he kicks me out of the house, should I leave him?
Q. I have a boyfriend who I've been with for three and a half years. I had our first son In January 2007, and a little after that it's been weird. I have a son from a previous relationship who is now 5 years old. But my current boyfriend has be...
A. 19 July 2008: Hi there, You both are dealing with a few stressful things. Him with the financial problems, and the thyroid condition. He is under a lot of stress, he needs to talk to someone, about anger management, and stress reduction or control. One stressful ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 19 July 2008: Hi there, I thought your vacations were at almost the smae time, call her after your vacation, and ask for a short sit down, just to get it straight about her wishes. Good luck, as I said calm down, it's going to be fine, fine, fine. Just don't ... (read in full...)
My friend went out with a guy she knew I liked. Now he's interested in me, but I'm afraid it will upset my friend.
Q. so. my best friend went out once with a guy that she knew i really liked him, but i told her i was ok because i wanted them both to be happy. she also really liked him but recently he has been talking to me alot more and has implied that he likes ...
A. 18 July 2008: Hi there, As I understand it, you knew him and liked him first, she began to like him and you told her that it was alright. Now he wants to talk to you, after she went out with him , though she knew you liked him, but you gave over to her, is this ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 18 July 2008: Hi there, No you are not wearing me down. What I would like
is that you get some direction. You must know where you are going. You said you wanted to know the answer to your questions, which she had not answered to your satisfaction.
You can't kn... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this dysfunctional relationship?
Q. I keep getting pulled/putting myself into a relationship i consider dysfunctional relationship. I can't tell right now whether i'm in love or just plain obsessed with him, but i can't seem to let him go no matter what he does. I've been trying...
A. 18 July 2008: Hi there, You should be very proud of yourself for trying to put your life in a better place so that you can move forward and find a healthy relationship, to be involved in. There are men out there who would be happy to love and care for you and ... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this dysfunctional relationship?
Q. I keep getting pulled/putting myself into a relationship i consider dysfunctional relationship. I can't tell right now whether i'm in love or just plain obsessed with him, but i can't seem to let him go no matter what he does. I've been trying...
A. 18 July 2008: Hi there, thanks for writing back. These are all good things you point out about yourself. Everyone who starts a relationship where things are good between the two, and then things change after a time, believe deep down , that the person whom they ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 18 July 2008: Hi, thanks for writing back. Alright, if you really feel that you do not know what she wants, then call her and ask her if the two of you could have tea, lunch or something with a short time span, so she understands that you are not trying to have ... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this dysfunctional relationship?
Q. I keep getting pulled/putting myself into a relationship i consider dysfunctional relationship. I can't tell right now whether i'm in love or just plain obsessed with him, but i can't seem to let him go no matter what he does. I've been trying...
A. 17 July 2008: Hi there Thanks for writing back. I know it is hard, and especially when he is the first real man that you have had a relationship with. But tell me that you feel good about the situation, it has to hurt like heck, I would think. So why are you ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with someone older than me!
Q. Hi my name is Katie and well I like this guy who is 5 years older than I am. I think that he likes me too but he seems to act differently when he is around his family than when he is alone. See, I think that the reason I am even attracted to him ...
A. 17 July 2008: Hi there, Take care and much good luck to you.... (read in full...)
How can I get out of this dysfunctional relationship?
Q. I keep getting pulled/putting myself into a relationship i consider dysfunctional relationship. I can't tell right now whether i'm in love or just plain obsessed with him, but i can't seem to let him go no matter what he does. I've been trying...
A. 17 July 2008: Hi there, First of all you have to try to realize that you have the strength to do what you want to do. You don't want to leave him alone deep down, that is why you keep going back to him or you keep allowing him to pull you back into the ... (read in full...)
What can I do to show her that I want her? I was too afraid before...
Q. 3 years ago i met this most amazing lady,i was instantly attracted to her in every way not my usual thing as its normaly a particular something that get my attention.she was just so diffrent and challenging and that i had never seen before, anyway i ...
A. 17 July 2008: Hi, I think you realize a little too late, what you did to
to drive her away. You have to be willing to change and to grow emotionally, so as to not be afraid of intimacy. I think you realize this. Trusting someone makes you vunerable, and can be p... (read in full...)
Is this normal that he doesn't really call me?
Q. I've been with (lets say) Max for almost 4 months. For the past month and half our relationship has been long distance. I'm eventually meeting Max in end of August. When Max was here, we had such an amazing relationship and now that Max is gone, he ...
A. 17 July 2008: Hi, It does appear that you are making the effort to keep the relationship going, and he is AWOL. If he is not calling you back, I would think that if if were me, then there seems to be a message there. He has either lost interest or he is just too ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's memory problems... are they a sign that he's not interested in me or something medical? For example, he completely forgot that I had been in hospital!!!
Q. I am feeling upset and that my boyfriend doesn't care about me because he has forgotten some things which have been important to me. I love him so much but I feel like I am getting little in return at times. I am starting to worry that he has a ...
A. 17 July 2008: Hi, It is my opinion that the excessive drinking is quite possibily affecting his brain, I could be wrong, but that amount of drinking that you described, can burn out your brain, and your liver. I don't know his age, but in addition, as we age, our ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 16 July 2008: Hi, Now listen up. You are doing well, keep it up, think postively , but not only to be with her, for yourself and your..... your future. The other thing is, forgive my bluntness, stop trying to talk yourself into some reason to contact her, you are ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and is she? What to do???
Q. Back in Feb. I met a wonderful woman and we started on the journey of a long distance relationship. It worked for a while and then she couldn't deal with the distance. We decided to just be friends. The unfortunate thing, I fell in love with her. We ...
A. 16 July 2008: Hi, Thanks for writing back. Then you go with good luck and many wishes for success. I think you have your feet on the ground. Take care always. ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and is she? What to do???
Q. Back in Feb. I met a wonderful woman and we started on the journey of a long distance relationship. It worked for a while and then she couldn't deal with the distance. We decided to just be friends. The unfortunate thing, I fell in love with her. We ...
A. 16 July 2008: Hi there, Well it does appear, that there was activity for her on the site, but suppose it was all talk, and she never dated anyone. It also could be that she likes to flirt, I see that from how she approaches you, there is a flirtatious spirit, ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with someone older than me!
Q. Hi my name is Katie and well I like this guy who is 5 years older than I am. I think that he likes me too but he seems to act differently when he is around his family than when he is alone. See, I think that the reason I am even attracted to him ...
A. 16 July 2008: Hi there Katie, I have to admit, I have never heard of a bone age, I love it, thanks for the information. I take your point. It is truth that age is a number, some of us are very mature, at an earlier age than others, due to maturity levels, ... (read in full...)
I love my husband, but I still have feelings for a highschool sweetheart. I feel terrible.
Q. I am 26 years old. I have been married for two years, and I have a 1yr old son. Im currently pregnant with me second child. I love my husband, and he's a good man. He works hard, never raises his voice to me, nothing to complain about, and yet I ha...
A. 16 July 2008: Hi there, You feel you still care for your highschool
sweetheart. You have been married for two years, you have a one year old child, these are major changes in a person's life. Your old boyfriend has had changes in his life as well. As we get olde... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hi, What she told you was that she wanted space, she didn't say how long, or how much space. So virtually she is putting you in limbo. This is is where you are, as far as being with her anytime soon, we would have to wait to see. Now if it were me, ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hi there, I would like you to take her at her word, that it is hard for her, when she does not see you, but do not act on it. Write down those words that she said and the date she said them. Hang on to that, put the paper the words are on, in your ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 13 July 2008: Hi there, thanks for responding. She is probably going through the same feelings you are, but on top of everthing else she has on her plate, something has to be put on the backburner, and I think with her, that includes any relationship. You have to ... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 12 July 2008: Hi, Right now, you will have to use a whole lot of self discipline. If you go in to try to persuade her, you will ruin what is a fairly good relationship. When you saw her, she responded to you, you don't want her to tell you to leave her completely ... (read in full...)
He won't talk to me!! How do I find closure from such a wonderful thing when I don't even know what it is that ended it?
Q. I am one of those young women who doesn't date much, I like to be really careful about who I let into my life, but when I decide to give my heart, I give it fully, and its hard for me to let go. Fairly recently, I fell for someone who became extre...
A. 10 July 2008: Hi there, Thank you for answering. I am glad that the advice
was of some help to you. Always remember that you are stonger than you think you are. Believe in your self and let no one make you doubt. Take care always. Love and light back to you, nice... (read in full...)
I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.
Q. Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...
A. 8 July 2008: Hi there, The best thing that I think you can do, is to listen to her. She tells you she needs space, you know enough about, what is going on in her life, to realize that she could be a bit overwhelmed. If you push the issue, you will, I think turn ... (read in full...)
He won't talk to me!! How do I find closure from such a wonderful thing when I don't even know what it is that ended it?
Q. I am one of those young women who doesn't date much, I like to be really careful about who I let into my life, but when I decide to give my heart, I give it fully, and its hard for me to let go. Fairly recently, I fell for someone who became extre...
A. 8 July 2008: Hi there, It will be kind of impossible for you to know what it was, that changed your relationship with him so completely, if he will not say what it was. But I would give it one last shot, if you do not have a problem with it. Find him, if you can ... (read in full...)
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