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i hate it when people think they are better than evryone else and have to bring other's down just so they can be happy with themselves
my relationship status is well idk.
i love chocolate chip ice cream
like dogs more than cats
i like meeting new people
i like helping people who need my help
i love excitement and getting a taste of some danger
i like to take risks and live up to a challenge
im loyal and will stick by my friends through anything
i can keep any secret told to me
im trustworthy and am not judgemental
im a good listener
im outgoing and dont care what people think of me
im young and love the night
i like to hang out and chill with friends
i like to try new things
im a very curious person
im not scared to speak my mind and defend myself or other's
plus i love being a little scared.
also i like huge scary roller coaster's!!!!
and i like italian , chinese, mexican,and cuban food.
im also a person who has goals and always sticks to what i want
im determined
im very independant
i dont like being told wat to do. i HATE tht.
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I am in a cycle of disappointment. How do I get out of this cycle?
Q. Hi. I have never gotten what I wanted in terms of love. I've always jumped for the stars, but landed even harder for it. I continually go for the girl who is my dream, rather than reality. I am in a cycle of disappointment. How do I get out of this ...
A. 31 January 2009: its just something we all go through. i know whats its like to want someone, try and go after them, then suddenly fall and get hurt. its something we have to push through. the girls who let you go, are the ones who never really deserved you. you ... (read in full...)
I always end up giving my friend oral sex!
Q. I really need some help. For the past year there is this guy that I used to work with. When working together we would run off after work and fool around. Now that I don't work there any more we still talk and I'll go see him on his lunch hour and I ...
A. 31 January 2009: Ok, if this isn't something you want then don't do it any more. It sounds to me this is just a using kind of relationship. It doesn't mean anything to either of you and it definitely doesn't mean anything to him. Take a break from each other. Stop ... (read in full...)
Help me have more confidence with the ladies.
Q. Hi, I have a little problem with my friend. We know each other for 2 years now and she likes me very much. So do I, but i don't know how, I think i love her.. I need advice what to do, how to behave etc. I didn't have much luck this year with gir...
A. 20 January 2009: so you really like this girl and may love her. well she returns your feelings so thats a good thing. you dont have to act a certine way or do over the top things. you will find it helpful to show her you care about her, tell her sweet things, that ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me and I want her back!
Q. Hey Agony aunts and Uncles ;P i am 14 and i have been going out with a girl ( i'm a guy btw) her friend hooked me up with her and 8 of us went out as friends and she broke up with me a day after we started going out but now i love her. Basica...
A. 23 December 2008: Now, i hope you are feelng better. Im glad I helped. Good luck :)... (read in full...)
Should I go out with my best boy mate?
Q. I am 16 years old and have a friend called Trey. We are really close and he always comes to mine every saturdaay. We have never kissed or anything and just see each other as mates but when we are together everything just seems perfect. We hold hands ...
A. 24 November 2008: YES!!!!! Go for it. U never find a great guy like that anymore. Just promise that u guys will b friends still, if anything happend that way u guys wont lose eachother. so if he is a great guy to u right now, then he will be a great boyfriend. So go ... (read in full...)
Women: Would you be more or less attracted to a guy that saving sex for marriage?
Q. Would you be more or less attracted to a guy that was saving himself for marriage? Please be honest....
A. 24 November 2008: Well, we woman are all diffrent. most of us are attracted to a guy who will wait untill we are really ready. some of us want to wait untill marrige. it depends on the girl. but we usually get carried away. but like i said, it depends on the girl. ... (read in full...)
Women: Would you be more or less attracted to a guy that saving sex for marriage?
Q. Would you be more or less attracted to a guy that was saving himself for marriage? Please be honest....
A. 24 November 2008: Well, we woman are all diffrent. most of us are attracted to a guy who will wait untill we are really ready. some of us want to wait untill marrige. it depends on the girl. but we usually get carried away. but like i said, it depends on the girl. ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me and I want her back!
Q. Hey Agony aunts and Uncles ;P i am 14 and i have been going out with a girl ( i'm a guy btw) her friend hooked me up with her and 8 of us went out as friends and she broke up with me a day after we started going out but now i love her. Basica...
A. 24 November 2008: hun, its hard to love someone who wont love u back. i understand that. im going through that right now. the best thing to do is to , with all ur might, let go. she dosent have feelings for u and she was messing with your feelings. shes the type that ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he fell for me or if it's just my impression.
Q. Im 13 and one of my best friends is 16. Ive fallen for him but he dosent know. He says he dsnt want to get attached tht way since theres an age diffrence. Yet my gut feeling tells me he is already starting to fall for me. How can i tell he did or is ...
A. 24 November 2008: me and him are really good friends. im going thru this depression stage and he is sticking by my side. i was worried tht he hated me because of something i did. he said he culdnt hate me. he never culd. and said tht he understands. he said he has ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he fell for me or if it's just my impression.
Q. Im 13 and one of my best friends is 16. Ive fallen for him but he dosent know. He says he dsnt want to get attached tht way since theres an age diffrence. Yet my gut feeling tells me he is already starting to fall for me. How can i tell he did or is ...
A. 6 November 2008: nothin really helped. im just goin to back off and make space. thnks for trying u guys. already had my heart broken. im still goin thru the pain. thnks again.... (read in full...)
I'm too young to be stressing and worrying!! Please help me!
Q. Hey, I seem to be uncomfortable, with worrying, should I be worried about what might or might not happen in the future. I am still young and have a ton of problems in my mind. I'm just wondering if my worrying is carrying to much stress for my a...
A. 3 November 2008: Its hard not to worry about the future. People ae age do this because we still have a long time untill it comes time for college. But we just have to take everything one step at a time and try not to worry. I do the same thing u do and its called ... (read in full...)
How can a 13 year old find the right guy?
Q. Hi. Im 13 and fell in love for the first time. the guy i love broke my heart and we went out five times. each time i fell for his tricks. and im trying not to again. i dont understand why i dont feel the agonizeing pain like i did before. and i can ...
A. 23 September 2008: thank u guys for all the advice. its not th i dnt have fun wit my girlfriends or i dnt concentrate on my studies its just tht im so scared tht if i dnt find a nice guy tht il always be used. but im young so ur all right. i have my whole life ahead ... (read in full...)
Dealing with the end of a destructive relationship: why do we keep coming back to each other, even though things are so messed up?
Q. Dear Cupid. I'm looking for some unbias advice. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost five years now. Our relationship was going good, aside from the insane fights we would have, or so I thought. This past January she broke it off with...
A. 18 September 2008: Its hard isnt it? to love someone yet they cant love you in return. to have your heart broken and fall without them there to catch you. I know how it feels . even though its hard , you have to move on. there is someone out there that can love you ... (read in full...)
We have been together 4 months, when is the right time to have sex?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now and I was wondering when is the right moment to have sex or if we should wait a little bit longer?...
A. 5 August 2008: im going to put it like this, when you guys are sure you both want this, you are both ready , use protection , and if the bond and realtionship is strong enough. if this didnt help then im really sorry. i hope i helped you in an easy way. ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?
Q. I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...
A. 5 August 2008: sweetie , dont do this. you may think you want to but your going to regret it later on. he is a guy so you hav to think : is he really going to care about me after i give him what he wants? : your still soooo young so dont do this . you should wait ... (read in full...)
She keeps taking her friend's advice, what should I do?
Q. Me and my girl friend have been friends for like 3 months before we got together. When we got together we were really happy until she told her friend about us, an she kept on talkin about our problems. My girl never came to me with any of the ques...
A. 5 August 2008: well being a girl too , she probally is just nervous to tell you these things. she is probally fraod that you may get mad or even hurt by what she thinks or has to say. you need to tell her that she can talk to you and that she can always tell you ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I fantasize about my best friends cousin who I don't 'like'?
Q. Hey. I liked this girl in primary/junior school for about two years. It just so happens that I became best friends with her cousin (a boy) by pure coinsidence a few years back and still are. Now, I stayed around his house last night where she also ...
A. 5 August 2008: now you should open your eyes and see that you probally do have feelings for this girl. alot of people deny feelings or just dont realize it yet. and no its not weird to fantasize about her , it is natural. speaking from expeirience. though im a ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know I love him. What should I do? He has a girlfriend.
Q. I am love with my friend and i dont know how to tell him. we already have a sexual relationship, but he has a girlfriend. What should i do about this? i am single and we have been seeing each other for about 3 years....
A. 5 August 2008: its hard to tell someone you love them when they have someone else. trust me i know what your goiing through. but if you have been seeing eachother for three years , then he also has some type of feelings for you.
The best thing to do is to tlk ... (read in full...)
Why would he cry over me asking if he's cheated?
Q. hello everyone, The other day, i asked my boyfriend, if he has ever cheated on me or even thought about cheating on me. For some odd reason he started crying, and said he would never ever cheat on me. But for some reason i cant help to think th...
A. 5 July 2008: i can easily say he is probally emotional. is the bond strong between you? can you trust him? talk to him about this. look into his eyes. the eyes are what tell the most tht is hidden. he probally is hurt tht you would think tht or mabey its an ... (read in full...)
Nobody wants to get to know me - Why?
Q. I have been out into the city tonight, and haven't managed to find anybody to keep me company. My night started with friends in a pub. They had been in most of the day, but I hadn't been there for very long. After about an hour and a half, they...
A. 5 July 2008: People can be judgamental before they even know someone. and that really burns our self-esteem and confidence. Just because people don't approach you does not always mean they don't want to get to know you. What i would do is start approach... (read in full...)
Married young and we don't enjoy sex!
Q. My question is simply what would you do in my situation and my situation is this.... I am 19 years old about to be 20, last October I married my high school sweetheart of 3 years. We had a long distance relationship for the majority of its ...
A. 5 July 2008: ok , first things first what you need to do is to sit him down and have a searious converstaion about the distance between you two. the one thing tht's important in a realtionship is to have communication. honestly if there is no real feelings you ... (read in full...)
Why do I itch and have pinkish discharge?
Q. Why do I keep getting an itchy watsit!!! What causes itchy girl bits and a pinkish discharge, I already know he has cheated but what should I tell the doctor next week when I go to see her about itchy bits and pink discharge?...
A. 5 July 2008: I can't really say anything. I can't give you medical advice because I or anyone else that isn't a specialist can be wrong. that can be dangerous. so just tell the doctor what you think you have. Until then take it easy and be careful at least. ... (read in full...)
The only way I'll be with her is if she's willing to have a healthy relationship but she won't leave me alone!
Q. i've been seeing a girl on and off for about 3 years. first it was in a casual format. i first wanted her to be with me but she couldn't decide to let go of her other ongoing relationships she'd had stringing on. there was about 3 mont...
A. 5 July 2008: OK , it sounds like she is playing a game. Like cat and mouse. But also that she has at least some type of feelings for you. Talking to he obviously has no effect. So basically try to wait at least a month to see if there is any pattern to what she ... (read in full...)
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