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I am a people person, I love to help people when I can. I am always being asked for my opinion on any number of things.

I live on the East coast.

What makes me tick is my insatiable curiousity and my eagerness to learn new things and meet new people.

I am currently happily single, and not looking. I like to make new friends.

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When I woke up my sister in law was in her underwear. Does she want to have sex with me?

Q.   I'm trying to figure out if my SIL wants to have sex with me. I work at night so I've get off in the early morning hours. Sometimes before I go home(1hour 30min Away) I sleep at my SiL's house for about an hour or two. So one night she says I forgot ...

A.   11 September 2008: Hi, Thanks for responding. Great, it sounds like you have you head on straight, good for you. Sometimes siblings will have rivaries that carry over into adulthoop, now that I know the relative status. Your sister-in-law is competing with her ... (read in full...)

When I woke up my sister in law was in her underwear. Does she want to have sex with me?

Q.   I'm trying to figure out if my SIL wants to have sex with me. I work at night so I've get off in the early morning hours. Sometimes before I go home(1hour 30min Away) I sleep at my SiL's house for about an hour or two. So one night she says I forgot ...

A.   11 September 2008: Hi there, Is that the only place you can find to sleep? I don't know what kind of place you work , but why not put your head down on a desk or something, for the time you spend over there. This is going to lead to a lot of problems, for you and, if ... (read in full...)

What does the phrase "I did love you but I am in love with you" mean to a guy?

Q.   I have heard men say " i do love you but im not in love with you" but what does it mean opposite of that " I did love you but I am in love with you" What does that phrase mean to a guy? ...

A.   10 September 2008: Hi, My thought is that if a person loves you, they care about you, what happens to you, want you to be well and healthy. If they are in love with you, all those things previously mentioned are a patrt of it, but there is also passion, and sexual ... (read in full...)

I was almost hit by my boyfriend - where do we go from here?

Q.   I am in an overwhelming state of mind and don't really know what to do next. Here is what happened... A couple nights ago my boyfriend (of six years) and I had a casual night out. Dinner with his mom, and then we rented movies - but before we we...

A.   10 September 2008: Hi there, if you two are still going to buy this house together, then that will be a binding factor. What I think is this, if as, I said you are going through with this house purchase, the two of you, after the closing, should find a therapist and ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her my reaction about her comment?

Q.   The girl I like said something to me that really hurt. I realise why she said it but I cannot agree with it. I am sure she didn't mean to hurt me so deeply but it is affecting me. Simply put: I was having a bad day and I decided to delete my fac...

A.   10 September 2008: Hi there, First of all, I am not sure that she knows that you cared for your grandfather, if you told her, alright, that's very admirable of you and she knows it. But she is very careless in what she said to you. I don't think that you should ... (read in full...)

Obama for president?

Q.   Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...

A.   6 September 2008: Hi anybody, I think we can all be adults and agree to disagree, if we want, nothing personal. We all believe in something, which doesn't have to be about anybody else, we all have views, the fact that there is vanilla, chocolate and strawberry is ... (read in full...)

Obama for president?

Q.   Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...

A.   5 September 2008: Hey there, If people are happy, dappy with the past eight years then go Palin. She is a lively choice, but this sequestration of her, so she can't face the press is very interesting. Also the investigation of Governor Palin, on charges of abuse of ... (read in full...)

Should I be considering divorce? I'm at a loss!

Q.   how would you describe a woman, married for 10 years,hasn't wanted sex for the past 2, only likes to watch t.v, only participates if coerced but never initiates plans, is cheerful when people are around but when we are alone, barely wants ...

A.   31 August 2008: Hi there, You have received good advice from the other Aunts. I would like to ask you, if you still love your wife? If you do and you want to try to save the marriage, then I would suggest to her that you both go together to see a therapist. It take... (read in full...)

Ever since we married it all went downhill. Is the love lost?

Q.   Hello, I've been looking through this board and I see a lot of great responses to peoples questions. Well here is mine.... I started dating this gal about 1 and a month ago. Things got really hot really quick and we ended up getting married about ...

A.   30 August 2008: Hi, You are in a very complicated situation. People can enjoy sex with another person, and be disconnected at the same time, sometimes sex is just that, sex. You as a man can surely understand where I am coming from, so she enjoys having relations ... (read in full...)

He told me I was boring! Should I continue with this relationship?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. We don't see each other too often because we both have busy schedules, when we do, however, it'r very great and fun. But sometimes we talk on msn. The problem is, he gets bored and usually le...

A.   29 August 2008: Hi there, Do you two like each other? I am thinking that this is not the only thing that he has said to you about you. Is he a nice person, you have been together for two years, if you are boring, he has been satisfied with boring for a long time. ... (read in full...)

My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?

Q.   Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...

A.   29 August 2008: Hi there, Well, she is showing you what she will be doing for the rest of his life, if she can. The child between them is the binding force. What does it matter that she has kids by someone else, she wants this man. Again, this is your life, if you ... (read in full...)

How can I stop my obsession with her? I want to move on!

Q.   I'm still obsessed with a girl I dated months ago. Things really didn't work out between us, there was an age difference and we had almost nothing in common but for reasons I can't understand I was devastated when it ended. She's moved on now but ...

A.   28 August 2008: Hi there, Sometimes it is not the person, we are obsessed with, but the obsession with love and companionship. Which can be quite powerful, if we feel that a person represents that, then we are very fearful if they are leaving us alone. It is almost ... (read in full...)

Ever since we married it all went downhill. Is the love lost?

Q.   Hello, I've been looking through this board and I see a lot of great responses to peoples questions. Well here is mine.... I started dating this gal about 1 and a month ago. Things got really hot really quick and we ended up getting married about ...

A.   28 August 2008: Hi there, Tough one. If is very hard to rebuild trust, once you lose it in someone, it takes more than a little time to get it back. You always look at them strangely, trying to figure out, if they are telling you the truth or lying to you again. ... (read in full...)

How can I get over this jerk?

Q.   How do I get over a guy? This guy I, for some unknown reason, really like, disrespects me, lies to me, ignores me and is currently secretly seeing someone else. He has had 6 women in the past 10 months and I dont think this new relationship wil...

A.   28 August 2008: Hi there, The only thing I am going to say that I second, everything that bubbloo said, follow those words that she gave you. Move, and move fast away from this man, Find a person with better values. This man, that you want to habg aaround with... (read in full...)

Why is my mom doing this? Is she in denial or something?

Q.   my mum has totally baffled me! she WILL NOT, as in no way hozay! never ever ever let my boyfriend in my bedroom, which is fair enough, its her house and i do abide by her rules, she pays for it so she says what gos etc.. but i have been with him now ...

A.   28 August 2008: Hi there, I am not a mother, but mothers try to protect their daughters from what they preceive as too much, too fast. That includes having sex at a very young age, and especially pregnancy. Drinking too much too young. Putting yourself in dangerous ... (read in full...)

How do I help my boyfriend get through the first anniversary of his last girlfriend's death?

Q.   Its me, again. Crickey, my life is really complicated these days! Im not usually like this, just the past few months have been crazy. Well, im happy now, in a relationship with a new man, (the same man of the last post!). However.... next week is ...

A.   27 August 2008: Hi there, Thanks for responding. Stay in touch with him, keep trying to draw him out. If he is really depressed, Omega-3 is a good natural substance to held stop the depression, recommended by a good doctor, whose patients were helped greatly by it. ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   26 August 2008: Hi, Good, the medicine is working well. You don't know what to do, well there are two paths. First path, you cll her, set a date for lunch, not dinner. Short and sweet, if she blows you off for this weekend, ask her for the next feasible date. Talk ... (read in full...)

My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?

Q.   Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...

A.   26 August 2008: Hi again, Now I am going to write this and hopefully you will come to an understaznding of what we are all trying to tell you. Find your own man, who is not tied to another woman and child! Period! What is wrong, that you feel that he is so great ... (read in full...)

Is there a special exercise or diet that will make my boobs bigger?

Q.   i have small boobs r there some tips i should do to get bigger ones r there any exercises or food that can make them bigger ...

A.   26 August 2008: Hi there, I can only remember in exercise places that I have been a member of, that you raise your arms, bending your elbows, hands over your chest, and keep moving your arms back and forth to each side over your chest. What I would suggest is ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   26 August 2008: Hi there, You are closer than I am and so you know what is going on better than I. I want you to think which is better texting her or telephoning her, mythought is thatif you call her, you probably should ask her out to talk and not just ask her the ... (read in full...)

My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?

Q.   Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...

A.   25 August 2008: Hi there , Good to hear from you. Remember, peace of mind is the best thing for anyone. This young man with all his good traits, has too much hanging on to him to be able to give you what you need in a partner. If he was with you, every phone call ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   25 August 2008: Hi, Thanks very much for the update. I was wondering how you were doing. Very interesting texting. Here's my suggestion, do not ask her out to lunch or dinner, tell her "I want to ask you someting, I want to do what will make you happy, because I ... (read in full...)

How can I get my boyfriend to let go of my sexual past?

Q.   Hey all! Right im 16 and ive been with my boyfriend for around 8 months, ive nown him since i was around 7. When i was 15 years old i did some bad things, i went on holiday and got in with the wrong crowd, it was 4 weeks of alcohol and boys,...

A.   25 August 2008: Hi, I am sorry that you boyfriend is having a hard time with your past. I do hope that you two can work it out, he is having a problem, because he is wondering if he can trust you. It is a bit late with him, but my feeling is, though you are very ... (read in full...)

Can I continue to sleep over at a male friend's house after I get married?

Q.   i am a 22 year old woman who has a guy friend for about 8 years. my boyfriend knows that i see him. my boyfriend and i want to get married. My guy friend and i say i love you all the time, we hold hands, we cuddle, though, i sleep over his house. Is ...

A.   25 August 2008: Hi there, Are you sure you want to get married. It appears to me that you and your "play boyfriend", that would be my name for your friend. if you are ready to get married, you would not want to be cuddling with another man, perhaps you should just ... (read in full...)

My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?

Q.   Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...

A.   24 August 2008: Hi there, thanks for responding, and glad to know that we helped you a bit. No, I don't think it is ever wrong to pray for someone, it is a very generous thing to do, and you should be blessed for caring enough to do that. But I caution you, stay ... (read in full...)

My guy was going to marry his baby's mom so I dumped him, but now I can't get him off my mind. How can I move on?

Q.   Hi! I was dealing with a guy that i NOW love for over 5 years. He is Now involve with his Babymom for the Thousand times. Well some how she found out about me and pressure him to marrie her. She set a date and made some arrangment. He finally told ...

A.   24 August 2008: Hi there, If I were you, I would think about the fact that if you are going to be with him, be it as girlfriend or as his wife, the mother and the child are always going to be somewhere in his life. Most people don't like to share, I know that I ... (read in full...)

How do I help my boyfriend get through the first anniversary of his last girlfriend's death?

Q.   Its me, again. Crickey, my life is really complicated these days! Im not usually like this, just the past few months have been crazy. Well, im happy now, in a relationship with a new man, (the same man of the last post!). However.... next week is ...

A.   23 August 2008: Hi there, This is a very tricky situation, as time goes on it will be a little better for him. My thought is that you do everything you can prior to this anniversay to make him laugh as much as possible, or at least smile, do things that would make ... (read in full...)

I'm very skinny and I feel very depressed because of my thin figure.

Q.   Ever since I was a small child I have been extremely slim. I have always looked slim! I have always been made fun out of because of this, people used to call me (and still do) twiggy, skinny, flat, a LINE (!), even a STICK. I always used to ask m...

A.   23 August 2008: Hi there, Just remember, people are also attracted to how you a0re on the inside, are you a good person, are you kind, do you try to help others, These are all things that make up who you are. Now, if you want to gain, weight, this has been my ... (read in full...)

Too much too fast! Anything else we can do instead of having sex?

Q.   Hi everyone. I dont no what to do. I'm 18 [virgin and proud!] But my boyfriend who I love keeps giving me sighns that he wants me to have sex and we'v only been going out for 3 mounths! We were bestsfriends for 2 years but we fell in love. I dont ...

A.   22 August 2008: Hi there, Thanks for the response, now I can try to answer as best I can. Postively, absolutely, you can be closer without having sex. It is called being intimate, you learn more about the person, their inner thoughts, where they want to go in life, ... (read in full...)

I came home and found my husband in bed with our doctor! What now?

Q.   My name is Christina and I am a 30-year-old woman, my husband is 32, and we've been together for 10 years, married for the last 5 out of those 10 years together. I came home from work one night about a week ago to find him in bed with our GP/doct...

A.   22 August 2008: Hi there, I am in agreement with all the other Aunts. Lawyer fast, transfer any money to a single account for yourself, and change the locks on your home as quick as possible. Please do not feel sorry for yourself and do not take this arsehole back, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated, I forgave him, I didn't cheat but he's split up with me!

Q.   A little while ago i asked for help because my boyfriend got another girl pregnant and didnt want to tell him that we were together well he did tell the girl but now we are arguing he found some messages that i have been writing to my ex but they ...

A.   22 August 2008: Hi there, Thanks for writing back. Find someone who is deserving of you, and try not to settle for less than you deserve. Life is too short to be miserable and wondering what someone is doing around the corner. It is always best someone told me, to ... (read in full...)

Too much too fast! Anything else we can do instead of having sex?

Q.   Hi everyone. I dont no what to do. I'm 18 [virgin and proud!] But my boyfriend who I love keeps giving me sighns that he wants me to have sex and we'v only been going out for 3 mounths! We were bestsfriends for 2 years but we fell in love. I dont ...

A.   22 August 2008: Hi, I have to ask you, when you say what should be the next step, specifically what do you mean? The next level of your relationship? Is that your question, if it is not, please be as specific as you can be. Yhank you. I await your response. Thanks. ... (read in full...)

Too much too fast! Anything else we can do instead of having sex?

Q.   Hi everyone. I dont no what to do. I'm 18 [virgin and proud!] But my boyfriend who I love keeps giving me sighns that he wants me to have sex and we'v only been going out for 3 mounths! We were bestsfriends for 2 years but we fell in love. I dont ...

A.   21 August 2008: Hi there, I can feel for you. No pun intended. Your boyfriend feels that the way to express love and other things is to have sex. It is up to you to take him some place neutral, not the bedroom, and explain to him why you are not ready to have sex ... (read in full...)

I want to have a baby to my boyfriend but I'm scared of how my dad will react

Q.   Hi im 18 and i really want a baby. The problem is i live in my dads house. My boyfriend of 5 years who is turning 21 in oct wants a baby to me too but is afraid my dad will shoot him and im afraid my dad will hate me. I have even been thinkin of ...

A.   21 August 2008: Hi there, This is all well and good to want to have a baby, nice and cozy. Does your boyfriend have a job, where will you and the child and your boyfriend live? Children cost money, have you ever had a pet, took care of a dog, cat, anything that ... (read in full...)

Obama for president?

Q.   Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...

A.   21 August 2008: Hi, Hi, Nice to hear from you again. Remember, do your reserch, if you want to find the truth on any subject. At least find different opinions, then sort it out for yourself. Can say this, you certainly prompted a lively discussion. :o). Take ... (read in full...)

Obama for president?

Q.   Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...

A.   20 August 2008: Hi there, Well I can say one thing you've got good taste. For one thing Obama is a bit too smart for most people. He has naunced positions and he talks on two diferent levels, sometimes three, so people who really don't like to think get a bit lost ... (read in full...)

Is he playing me for a fool?

Q.   Am i being used?? There is this amazing guy that i work with who is 25 im 21 and i really really really REALLY like him! I have felt this way for a while now! it all came out in work about how i felt about him because i told someone i though...

A.   19 August 2008: Hi , I am in total agreement with Askoldersister, This man has a large, large ego, and the fact that he learned that you liked him, was just what he needed, to toy with your emotions. He told you he didn't want a relationship, so that he would ... (read in full...)

How did I get myself into this? I have to choose between two women.

Q.   Hi everyone... I'm in this really, really bad situation. I have to choose between two women. Yes, I know...how did I get myself into this?? And to most of the women out there, their first thought...I'm a chauvinistic pig!! To tell you the tru...

A.   19 August 2008: Hi, I agree that you have received very good advice, from the other Aunts. Love can grow, and sometimes it's better to be very good friends and let the love find you. My one point of advice would be this, if you are sure you want both these women ... (read in full...)

I can't talk to people and I'm a loner... how can I change that?

Q.   Well it's time to be honest....I'm 21 and am a loner. I have never had any real social life up till now nor experienced any type of meaningful youth. I stay in my room night after night and my mum is right when she says I don't know how to tal...

A.   19 August 2008: Hi there, Well for starters, because I believe in books, I would go to your nearest bookstore, and look for a book that deals with social interactions, not so much being popular, but just how to connect with people. Speak to the clerk so that they ... (read in full...)

I'm too shy to ask a doctor about this discharge!

Q.   hey, i have a LOT of discharge i am a virgin and so i won't have any STD's, i've been having this discharge for years now, ever since i was about 11, and i'm now 14,and it's really concerning me, what if it could last for another 2 years, please h...

A.   18 August 2008: Hi there, Females have certain discharges that are normal. But if it is discolored, or has too strong an ordor, then there may be a problem. We do have healthy yeast in our systems. I would want to make sure that it is nothing to be concerned ... (read in full...)

Are there any natural remedies for depression?

Q.   I think I may be suffering depression. I feel like there is a constant black cloud over my head. Most of the time I feel down, tired and tearful for no reason. I no longer have any desire to go out, like I once did. I just want to stay in bed all ...

A.   18 August 2008: Hi there, Much good luck to you, please don't forget about extra light in your room, especially in the winter time. Take care. Please stay in touch. ... (read in full...)

Cheating: It just happened so what do I do?

Q.   I have just recently found out my boyfriend has cheated on me.We have split up but i really want him back.He says that he doesn't know who he loves me or her.I know im acting stupid and should try and forget about him but i cant.I think i love this ...

A.   17 August 2008: Hi, We all at one time or another, feel that we just have to be with a certain person, because we care so much about them. But think about this please, does it not matter that they care about you as well, and not just themselves. I feel it is a ... (read in full...)

Are there any natural remedies for depression?

Q.   I think I may be suffering depression. I feel like there is a constant black cloud over my head. Most of the time I feel down, tired and tearful for no reason. I no longer have any desire to go out, like I once did. I just want to stay in bed all ...

A.   17 August 2008: Hi there. I once saw a doctor on a health program on television, who strongly advocated the use of Omega-3 capsules for depression. He said that he was treating his patients with it, and they had very good results. You could research it or ask your ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   12 August 2008: Hi again, Sorry but I wanted to explain something. The reason for trying to keep the lunch or whatever you ask her to do, short, is that you want to stir up a need in her to see you, not always being available for her at any turn. If you get out of ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   12 August 2008: Hi there, I think it was good judgment on your part to wait until she gets back to ask her to go out to lunch. When you do ask her, you might preface, by asking if she has time to have a cup of tea, coffee, or I wan't finish the clique, but you want ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated, I forgave him, I didn't cheat but he's split up with me!

Q.   A little while ago i asked for help because my boyfriend got another girl pregnant and didnt want to tell him that we were together well he did tell the girl but now we are arguing he found some messages that i have been writing to my ex but they ...

A.   8 August 2008: Hi there, Did you ever stop to think that he is doing you the biggest favor, by letting you go your own way, Why would you want to hang on to such a, I am sorry to say, loser. Don't you want someone who will be, or try to be true to you. Is there a ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   6 August 2008: Hi there, Sounds positive. Going to see the doctor is a good thing. That you are less anxious is a very good thing, keep it up. It is probably good that you did not go to happy hour, especially if you were going to be kooking for her. Lighen up a ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   6 August 2008: Hi, I was sitting here waiting for your response to how your Friday evening happy hour went? Was she there and did you have a good time? I hope so, let me know. Hope you are doing well. Take care.... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   31 July 2008: Hi there, In answer to you going to play golf, and being there for Happy Hour. I would go, why stop your life? Go and have fun, don't go looking for her, that's the last thing I would do. You have to let her know that you have a life beyond her, if ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   30 July 2008: Hi there, I am going to allow you to absorb what askoldersister and Tisha, have given you. I agree with everything Tisha said. Her advice is spot on, and covers areas that we did not touch on. So stay in touch, but re-ead Tisha's reponse and try to ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   28 July 2008: Hi, there, Nice to hear from you. Good thing, the card, send the card only, if you would, do not send the gifts, wait on those. I would write in the card, something like hope you have a good time. Stop. No calling, no texting. The thing you have to ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   26 July 2008: Hi there, Thanks for sharing what you did. The response from her was positive, but like I mentioned before, let that positive contact sit now. The card will be a good thing, but you have the right idea about controlling yourself. You are reaping the ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   24 July 2008: Hi there, I would like you to perk up. Why do you feel she is slipping away? If two people care about each other, time and space don't necessiarly make things change. She has a favorable impression of you, she cares about you, and she enjoys your ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   23 July 2008: Hi there, You should be enjoying yourself, instead of fretting about her, for the umpteenth time, calm down, hope you are taking your medicine. Since I am assuming she knows, that you know she is going on vacation, find a card that wishes her a ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   19 July 2008: Hi there, I thought your vacations were at almost the smae time, call her after your vacation, and ask for a short sit down, just to get it straight about her wishes. Good luck, as I said calm down, it's going to be fine, fine, fine. Just don't ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   18 July 2008: Hi there, No you are not wearing me down. What I would like is that you get some direction. You must know where you are going. You said you wanted to know the answer to your questions, which she had not answered to your satisfaction. You can't kn... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   18 July 2008: Hi, thanks for writing back. Alright, if you really feel that you do not know what she wants, then call her and ask her if the two of you could have tea, lunch or something with a short time span, so she understands that you are not trying to have ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   16 July 2008: Hi, Now listen up. You are doing well, keep it up, think postively , but not only to be with her, for yourself and your..... your future. The other thing is, forgive my bluntness, stop trying to talk yourself into some reason to contact her, you are ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   14 July 2008: Hi, What she told you was that she wanted space, she didn't say how long, or how much space. So virtually she is putting you in limbo. This is is where you are, as far as being with her anytime soon, we would have to wait to see. Now if it were me, ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   14 July 2008: Hi there, I would like you to take her at her word, that it is hard for her, when she does not see you, but do not act on it. Write down those words that she said and the date she said them. Hang on to that, put the paper the words are on, in your ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   13 July 2008: Hi there, thanks for responding. She is probably going through the same feelings you are, but on top of everthing else she has on her plate, something has to be put on the backburner, and I think with her, that includes any relationship. You have to ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   12 July 2008: Hi, Right now, you will have to use a whole lot of self discipline. If you go in to try to persuade her, you will ruin what is a fairly good relationship. When you saw her, she responded to you, you don't want her to tell you to leave her completely ... (read in full...)

I'm smitten with this woman, but she says she needs space.

Q.   Two months ago I started dating a woman who is six months into a separation and is getting divorced. She has 3 young children (I have not met the children). Yesterday she said she is not ready for a relationship. She has too much "stuff" to take ...

A.   8 July 2008: Hi there, The best thing that I think you can do, is to listen to her. She tells you she needs space, you know enough about, what is going on in her life, to realize that she could be a bit overwhelmed. If you push the issue, you will, I think turn ... (read in full...)

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