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Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   29 December 2008: ....Hi there, Well it took a good while, but we have a success story. Good for you, now don't look back. Keep moving forward, and thank your lucky stars that you saw the light. Take care. Happy 2009. All the best to you and yours.... (read in full...)

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   29 December 2008: ....Hi there, Well it took a good while, but we have a success story. Good for you, now don't look back. Keep moving forward, and thank your lucky stars that you saw the light. Take care. Happy 2009. All the best to you and yours.... (read in full...)

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   29 December 2008: ....Hi there, Well it took a good while, but we have a success story. Good for you, now don't look back. Keep moving forward, and thank your lucky stars that you saw the light. Take care. Happy 2009. All the best to you and yours.... (read in full...)

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   29 December 2008: ....Hi there, Well it took a good while, but we have a success story. Good for you, now don't look back. Keep moving forward, and thank your lucky stars that you saw the light. Take care. Happy 2009. All the best to you and yours.... (read in full...)

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   29 December 2008: ....Hi there, Well it took a good while, but we have a success story. Good for you, now don't look back. Keep moving forward, and thank your lucky stars that you saw the light. Take care. Happy 2009. All the best to you and yours.... (read in full...)

7 years, 2 kids and he still isn't quite ready to marry??

Q.   Me and my fiance have been together for 6 years and we have a 2 year old son and currently Im pregnant with our second child which is due in march. We have been engaged for about 9 months and just recently within the past month started premarital ...

A.   13 December 2008: Hi there, Now unless I am mistaken, I did not see the word love in yur letter. Do you love this man? Do you want to marry him because you have been together for the years that you have, or do you want to marry him for the children's sake? Why do you ... (read in full...)

A coworker has a crush on my man. Why doesn't she get the idea he is taken?

Q.   I just went to a work Christmas party. My partner was perfectly attentive as usual and gave me some kisses in front of people as he usually does. There was one girl who was prickly and I commented. He told me it is because she fancies him (or did ...

A.   12 December 2008: Hi again, I have to apologize for putting you in a marriage, it seems as though it is, but I am not rushing you, I just misspoke, so forgive my error. I do still think your relationship has a strong foundation. Take care.... (read in full...)

A coworker has a crush on my man. Why doesn't she get the idea he is taken?

Q.   I just went to a work Christmas party. My partner was perfectly attentive as usual and gave me some kisses in front of people as he usually does. There was one girl who was prickly and I commented. He told me it is because she fancies him (or did ...

A.   12 December 2008: Hi, hi, First, he is with you, he must be content, in a way because he has gained weight, or he likes your cooking :o). Next, men like to be liked, even if they are married, it's good for their ego, as long as it stays within certain boundaries. ... (read in full...)

Sex with his dad to get a baby?

Q.   My husband wants children, and so do I, and we have been trying for a baby, but without success. Nothing we have tried seemed to work. Me and my husband were having a conversation about the issue one night, and trying to think of ways to have chi...

A.   11 December 2008: Hi there, I am in sync with everyone else. How did your husband come to this place, it sounds as if he is dealing with fantasies of some kind, having nothing to do with a baby. No one wants to think of their child learning that his father is his ... (read in full...)

Husband confesses to an affair 40 years later

Q.   My husband had a nervous breakdown some months ago and is under the care of a psychiatrist.Some days ago he informed me he had something to tell me regarding an affair he had with a work colleague some 40 years ago He said the psychiatrist told him ...

A.   11 December 2008: Hi there, I have never been in such a situation, and maybe some or one of the other Aunts will reply to you as well. But in the meantime, it is a shame that your husband had the nervous breakdown, but it also tells you something, very deep about ... (read in full...)

I am perfectly satisfied being the mistriss and don't want to take him away from his wife.

Q.   I am madli in love with a man. But he has family. He is a very responsible husband and a father. He also loves me very much. We have a great sex life.But he told me before starting that he is not powerfull to spoil his wife's life. I also feel the ...

A.   8 December 2008: Hi there, This is your life and you will live it as you will. But would you tell me why you think so little of yourself, that you will allow a married man to use you, when he can get away from his family? Women do amaze me when they become so ... (read in full...)

I'm soon to be married to a she-devil.

Q.   Dear Cupid, I'm a 28 year old man from India. I'm an investment banker and about to be married to a lawyer in about 60 days time. In the last 150 days of our engagement, we have gottent to know each other a little, even confessed love. But...

A.   8 December 2008: Hi there, It appears to me, that you have the answers you need. Why would you marry a person who you don't trust? One who participates in one sided conversations, and what do you mean, they don't pay her? This is very bad situation you are trying to ... (read in full...)

Should I have responded to a love letter I received from this guy in my office?

Q.   Hey there! A guy at work from a different department passed me a note recently telling me how he felt about me (i.e. positive stuff!) and that because he has suddenly realised that I'm actually seeing someone else in the office he has decided that ...

A.   5 December 2008: Hi, I need to get clarification on a point you made. Is there another person at the same office that you are involved with? If so, do you care for this person? If you do I would not answer the gentleman, who wrote you the letter, that only opens the ... (read in full...)

I used to avoid his parents who don't like me but now we're invited over for X-mas, any advice?

Q.   my problem might seem a bit silly. i lived at my boyfriends parents house for about 5months but i would always avoid his parents, i wouldnt talk to them and wouldnt come out of his bedroom until they went out. i have had some problems with his dad, ...

A.   5 December 2008: Hi there, If it were me, I would go over for the occasion, wearing a very nice subdued outfit, not a lot of make-up and my most charming smile. Be as talkative as need be, with something interesting to say, I would be engaging, and show the best ... (read in full...)

Am I right to hope that this man really cares about me and that in the future our friendship will develop into something more?

Q.   Hello, I would like some advice please since it is years since I last dated (my relationship of 9 years ended at the beginning of this year). I have been friends with a colleague for 3 years - just friends - but my feelings for him have become r...

A.   4 December 2008: Hi, Thanks for responding, to us. Good luck to you, and remember, slow and steady as she goes. All good wishes, keep in touch. Happy New Year to you and yours. ... (read in full...)

Am I right to hope that this man really cares about me and that in the future our friendship will develop into something more?

Q.   Hello, I would like some advice please since it is years since I last dated (my relationship of 9 years ended at the beginning of this year). I have been friends with a colleague for 3 years - just friends - but my feelings for him have become r...

A.   3 December 2008: Hi there, If someone kissed me on the lips, and gave me a long hug, I would definitly feel that they liked me, more than a little. In fact that same thing happened to me, a long time ago at a class, we lived in different states so it was not ... (read in full...)

Has your husband ever left you to be with his mistress?

Q.   Has your husband (or long term boyfriend) ever left you to be with her (the mistress)? Did they work out? Mine left me 18 months ago and has now brought a house with her. We were together for 10 years and have three children together but he ...

A.   1 December 2008: Hi, Feeling very bad for you, but I agree with everything Blue Angel has advised. Let him go, seek your own happiness and take care of your children, we can't explain chemistry sometimes. Just know this, as I always say, I do not want to be with ... (read in full...)

How can I tastefully approach this young woman?

Q.   Hello everyone! I have known a young lady, Vivian(22) in September who works in the same field as I do(we met at a trade exhibition). I recommended her to some students for lessons(she tutors privately), and we see each other on a weekly basis ...

A.   30 November 2008: Hi there, I am happy that you are going to take the chance. My own thought is, in trying to read body language, if she has a boyfriend, it must not be serious, because she is flirting a bit with you, and she would not have been as dissappointed, ... (read in full...)

Why is the news of my ex being engaged bringing me down?

Q.   I broke up with my ex of 5 years a few years ago. She broke up with me and got together with the guy she was cheating on me with. Just found out recently they got engaged. I have a great girlfriend now and we have such a good time together so why is ...

A.   30 November 2008: Hi, Everything that has been said is good advice. I would just like to add, that we are all human. You had a long relationship with your ex, you trusted her and she betrayed that trust. Now you hear that she has is engaged to the guy she cheated ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his brother?

Q.   I think I love my boyfriend's brother, and I don't know whether I should tell him or not?? I want to so bad, cuz I hate hiding my feelings, BUT I do not want to cause drama between family. Its getting to the point where I really dont care though... ...

A.   30 November 2008: Hi, You have these feelings for your boyfriend's brother, okay now what? I totally agree with qcumbr, break the relationship off with your boyfriend, and go on your way. Your boyfriend's brother could never find it in his heart to take up with you, ... (read in full...)

Should I wait to go to the hospital or do I go now?

Q.   I have searched the web trying to find an answer to my question. 7 days ago I was almost at the end of my period. Went to work as usual, but when I came home there was no string??!! I tried to find it, then I was questioning if I used one or not. So ...

A.   30 November 2008: Hi, Just to add my voice to all the others, as a woman, very important to get to the hospital emergency room for an x-ray or whatever they will do to determine, if you do have the tampon inside. As everyone else has said, go now! Take care. Good ... (read in full...)

How can I tastefully approach this young woman?

Q.   Hello everyone! I have known a young lady, Vivian(22) in September who works in the same field as I do(we met at a trade exhibition). I recommended her to some students for lessons(she tutors privately), and we see each other on a weekly basis ...

A.   29 November 2008: Hi there Mr. Well Groomed, you are funny, I am not making fun of you, but that was humorous and cute. Is the lady mature for her age, and not the gigglely type 22 year old, if so, then why not ask her out? It is apparent by your words, that she is ... (read in full...)

He's offering his friendship back. Should I take it even though I feel more for him?

Q.   A mate and I were really close (friendship wise only) I fancied him at first. I didn’t know he had a gf till 2 weeks after we first met. Thought it a stupid reason to break a potential good friendship over, gambled and stayed friends. Was hard but ...

A.   28 November 2008: Hi, There is not too much to add to the advice given by Irish, but you have all the information needed, to decide what to do. What I say to individuals who relly like a person, but the person they like is unavailable emotionally or otherwise, is to ... (read in full...)

Other than diets, exercising and starving myself how else can I lose weight?

Q.   Hello, I'm new to this site and just had one main question if you could help I would really love it. Well to start I'm 16 years old. I weigh 130 About. I'm just under 5 ft. To me I'm am fat although my family and friends say I'm normal. Plus for...

A.   28 November 2008: Hi there, Thanks for getting back to us with your intentions. Just want to tell you something else. If you are going to starve yourself, you might want to check with your gynocoligist, to see whether or not you could damage your reproductive organs, ... (read in full...)

Should I break up with her before I go to the university?

Q.   Hi me and my girlfriend have been going out for 1 year now and i'm going to university in 2 years time. I keep thinking i want to break up with her when i'm at uni. I know its a long time off but i'm gunna be miles away and i'm always thinking ...

A.   27 November 2008: Hey, Now if it is going to be two years before you attend University, and you are trying to make plans to break up with her now, then I agree with the other Aunts, why not do it now? I would. You are seemingly not happy in this relationship, ... (read in full...)

Is it okay to feel contempt for the man that is dating my ex?

Q.   Is it okay that I feel great contempt for the man that is now dating my ex-girlfriend? They had been together before she met me, but had separated because he had 'a lot of baggage' (her words). We started dating and then he comes crawling back 'a ...

A.   27 November 2008: Hi, Hi, Firstly, who is the feeling of contempt hurting more, him, her, or you. You have answered that in your letter. What good is that doing you. Lose the contempt, if helps you in no way. What you are feeling is a reflcetion of the fact that she ... (read in full...)

Help...hot tempered girlfriend!

Q.   My girlfriend is kinda hot tempered...she blews off for unwanted things..even if its her fault?? there is one time where she lied to me and blew off at me as though it was my mistake..but we did talk it over..my question is why.?? How can you blew ...

A.   27 November 2008: Hi there, Well, from everything you wrote, I would think that your girlfriend, is in need of an anger management class. She has a defensive personality and she wants it to be her way or no way. She also loves to dominate, it is not respectful of ... (read in full...)

Should I give up on my marriage or keep trying?

Q.   Hi My husband has left almost three months now. We have a 14 year old daughter. I want so badly to have my family back. He says he doesnt love me anymore. I have found out he has slept several nights at another womens house that use to work with him ...

A.   27 November 2008: Hi, The hard thing to realize is that the person you are married to, does not always express how they feel while they are feeling it. This leaving you was not something that happened overnight, he was leaving over a good long time. He just made the ... (read in full...)

Other than diets, exercising and starving myself how else can I lose weight?

Q.   Hello, I'm new to this site and just had one main question if you could help I would really love it. Well to start I'm 16 years old. I weigh 130 About. I'm just under 5 ft. To me I'm am fat although my family and friends say I'm normal. Plus for...

A.   27 November 2008: Hi there, First of all, let's start with looking in the mirror, and saying at least five times, "I Love myself". This is where it should begin, we are who we are, and you must love who and what you are, physically and otherwise. Once you make peace ... (read in full...)

Female advice wanted please

Q.   So, I recently got back together with an ex-girlfriend. This has only been going for about a month though. We have been dating on and off for the past year and a half. In that time, she got back with her another ex-boyfriend for a very short period ...

A.   25 November 2008: Hi there, Good advice from taina. I would just add that a relationship needs time and space to develop. You are going to be gone for a while, long distance is complicated. She did tell you that she wanted to see you again, but did not want a ... (read in full...)

I'm so in love with another man...

Q.   I have been married for 9 years wif my husband for 11 and I don't love him, I have been having an affair solid for the last year with a man I was once in love with as a teenager although I have been seeing him on and off for 4 years, I am not proud ...

A.   18 November 2008: Hi there, You were very young when this man, who you are sure you love, introduced you to sex, I am assuming. This is a very powerful lock, on a young person's psyche, he was more experienced and if I might say so, took advantage of your youth and ... (read in full...)

Can you tell me what's going through her mind?

Q.   I need advice about a situation I'm in. There's a woman I work with that is very out-going, whom I'm very attracted to. I few days ago I invited her out for a drink after work. We had a wonderful time. The conversation came easy, there was a lot of ...

A.   15 November 2008: Hi, It is my opinion that she is embarrassed, perhaps she was attracted you before, you were out together. She is probably afraid as well, that you might want more, and you do work together, which could be tricky. She wants her job, and no gossip, I ... (read in full...)

Was I destined to be miserable?

Q.   I need help, I feel lonely and isolated in my school. I feel like I can't connect with people and I feel like they always avoid me.... was I destined to be miserable?...

A.   14 November 2008: Hi there, I agree with everything that has been said. One more thing I would like you to do, is to build your own self-esteem. If you like reading, find some library books on building your self-esteem. You could also find things that you are ... (read in full...)

Should I be more open minded and not show him that I'm jealous and interested?

Q.   The man I'm dating likes to go out together when he has time and he likes to communicate but he doesn't say to me about a serious relationship. He has told me that he doesn't want a commitment and he just wants to have good time. Although I am ...

A.   14 November 2008: Hi, I will be the next one to say to you, that this is a waste of your time. he is openly showing you what he wants between the two of you, and that is basically a casual friendship, if that. He is not boyfriend material. Fish and birds can not hang ... (read in full...)

Whats a good way to calm nerves?

Q.   I'm just wondering if anyone knows any good ways to calm nerves down. My biggest problem is my nerves and i get stomach aches because of them. I need a way to calm down my mind and relax. but i just have so much trouble trying. I need a way to get ...

A.   14 November 2008: Hi there, You should go to the grocery store and get something called Chamomile Herb Tea, it is soothing to the body, and relaxes you. Good to drink it before you go to bed. The other larger thing to do for long tem effect, is to learn how to ... (read in full...)

I told him I liked him, he kissed me, then he backed off because he's been hurt before! What can I do?

Q.   I had an amazing weekend with a guy that I've liked for a while. I finally got the courage to admit to him that I liked him, and after chatting about the situation he kissed me. I was over the moon and thought that eventually it might turn into ...

A.   14 November 2008: Hi, I agree with Sharraie. This potential relationship depends on him. You cannot carry the whole thing on your side. He is going to have to come to a point of trusting you. When that would happen, who knows? So you would have to decide if you can ... (read in full...)

Ex boyfriend has turned up again but I'm with someone else!

Q.   My ex boyfriend with whom I was with for eight months, decided one day he would leave me without telling me and go back to his ex-wife. Since he left me I have met a really nice guy, the problem now is that my ex boyfriend has come back into the ...

A.   8 November 2008: Hi, It seems you are interested in staying with your current boyfriend, which I think would be the best thing. Your ex is only interested in what he wants, notice what he said to his sister. What about you? He doesn't care if you want him or not,... (read in full...)

Husband cheated on me while we were dating.

Q.   My husband and I have been married for two years. We dated for three years before we got married. Anyways he use to live with another couple and I never use to suspect something happened between them. But I felt it in my gut there was something ...

A.   2 November 2008: Hi there, let's think about this, it would seem that something was wrong in the woman's relationship, since they eventually got divorced. Now she is jealous that you are with your husband and she is not with hers, so what does she do. She calls you ... (read in full...)

He's hurt me terribly but I love him! What do I do?

Q.   Okay, so I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and throughout our relationship there have been a few things that have been rough, but what couple doesn't have that? We managed through it...or I managed through it. About a month ago, I j...

A.   2 November 2008: Hi there, In this life we all experience disappointment in people. Especially those we love at times. But the most important thing, is, that we love ourselves, and respect ourselves. Otherwise if we don't, others will find it easy to disrespect us. ... (read in full...)

Is friendship all that's on offer here?

Q.   Hey, I've met this girl I really like at my college. I've liked her since we first met and I really really want to be with her, but I can't tell if she likes me the same way or not. One day she practically ignores me but the next she'll ask me if I ...

A.   31 October 2008: Hi there, Sometimes, girls are reading the book of "Rules". She is young to be doing that, but maybe it is her own way. That would be to act as if she is not interested, when she actually is interested. Don't give up, because if you don't try, ... (read in full...)

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   17 October 2008: Hi there, We have all tried to help you deal with your problem. But sometimes, people love to feel pain. So it goes, you are going to have to decide what is the best thing for you to do, to make your life the best that it can be. If you love this ... (read in full...)

I'm a self proclaimed clingy girlfriend. How do I stop doing all these? How do I make my relationship better? How do I make myself better?

Q.   Hey everyone... I am in desperate need of help. I am a self proclaimed "clingy girlfriend." I have been with my man for two years and some, and I have always been that girl who needs to know where he is, who he's with, what he's doing, what time...

A.   14 October 2008: Hi, First of all, all us have problems making relationships work, so don't beat yourself to death over it. Next, you have to ask, why are you like this? Is it because, it gives you comfort to know that your boyfriend is some place, that you are ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hides everything from me, the computer is more entertaining then me, but he loves our daughter. Do you think we can make it?

Q.   What do you think about my relationship... Can we make it? I've been with my man for 4years we havent gotten married but we do have a two year old.... Any how where can I begin... Well it's come to a point in our relationship where I cant tak...

A.   14 October 2008: Hi there, My first question would be, could you get him to go to couple counseling sessions with you? If not, you have to decide, can you go on without any emotinal support? Even if he loves your little girl, and it seems he does, if you are ... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend likes his brother's girlfriend!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and I think he is into his brother's girlfriend. She has been dating my boyfriend's brother for 4 years now and she is at his house everyday to see her boyfriend. I understand that they have a ...

A.   30 September 2008: Hi there, Hope you are doing well otherwise. This woman is going to continue her skankiness, so now you didn't say whether or not you spoke to him, to let him know you were not going to put up with the flirtation, which she is going to continue to ... (read in full...)

When I woke up my sister in law was in her underwear. Does she want to have sex with me?

Q.   I'm trying to figure out if my SIL wants to have sex with me. I work at night so I've get off in the early morning hours. Sometimes before I go home(1hour 30min Away) I sleep at my SiL's house for about an hour or two. So one night she says I forgot ...

A.   11 September 2008: Hi, Thanks for responding. Great, it sounds like you have you head on straight, good for you. Sometimes siblings will have rivaries that carry over into adulthoop, now that I know the relative status. Your sister-in-law is competing with her ... (read in full...)

When I woke up my sister in law was in her underwear. Does she want to have sex with me?

Q.   I'm trying to figure out if my SIL wants to have sex with me. I work at night so I've get off in the early morning hours. Sometimes before I go home(1hour 30min Away) I sleep at my SiL's house for about an hour or two. So one night she says I forgot ...

A.   11 September 2008: Hi there, Is that the only place you can find to sleep? I don't know what kind of place you work , but why not put your head down on a desk or something, for the time you spend over there. This is going to lead to a lot of problems, for you and, if ... (read in full...)

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   15 July 2008: Hi, Although you may not realize it, you are staring to heal just a wee bit, because you feel the pain. Go through it, cry a little bit if you have to, but move on, everything has a time and a place, now is your hour to put things in perspective and ... (read in full...)

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   14 July 2008: Hi there, Alas, you are coming around to the fact of life, that you have to be you own best friend. She has a problem, you can't make it better, she has to realize it and change it herself. Don't know if I gave you this website, but take the time to ... (read in full...)

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   13 July 2008: Hi, Good luck to you, try to find happiness somewhere else. There are a lot of people in the world, hope you find a good one next time. Take care.... (read in full...)

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   12 July 2008: Hi, If she doesn't want to talk to you, won't pick up her phine etc., you should look to the heavens and be thankful. Try to get over this and move on, you putting yourself through such a strain, trying to figure all this out. There has to be ... (read in full...)

Am I the "other man" in my girlfriend's life?

Q.   Hello dear friends!. I have a question! Background! My ex wife saw 8 men in a year and I eventually divorced after hanging in there for my kids. So..then I met a new girl via a dating site. She told me she can never lie. I believed her. ...

A.   10 July 2008: Hi there, I am going to ask you one very important question, I think you know what it is going to be. Do you trust your lady? If you do not, you will forever be looking and listening for signs of whatever you think she is doing or not doing. This... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend likes his brother's girlfriend!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and I think he is into his brother's girlfriend. She has been dating my boyfriend's brother for 4 years now and she is at his house everyday to see her boyfriend. I understand that they have a ...

A.   2 July 2008: Hi there, Based on what you have told us, I would say at the least, your boyfriend is somewhat infatuated with his brother's girlfriend. He may not want to admit it, but people are not always in control of their emotions, and body language will show ... (read in full...)

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