Remembering our baby boy angel!!!
Q. I was wondering if anyone could help me. I had a miscarriage in january and my and my boyfriend are wanting to do something on what would have been my due date in a few weeks to remember our little boy. I am having a really hard time and the closer ...
A. 5 June 2008: I was in a similar situation a few years back, I am sorry for your pain, I understand exactly how you feel.
The simple fact is nothing is going to seem good enough, however I planted a tree and paid for a little sign at my local botanical gard... (read in full...)
Freaked out! I kissed my cousin and now I'm in love!
Q. I kissed my cousin and now I'm in love! We have kissed before but it freaked us out. I really want to tell him how i feel but don't know how....
A. 4 June 2008: Will your family be supportive of this?
Maybe just cool off for a little while and see how you feel then?... (read in full...)
Sad and confused
Q. Hi all, just wanted to share my story, and maybe get some advice, or new views on this So I can deal with the hurting… A year ago, I met a girl and we became rlly good friends. However, after a few weeks of hanging out a lot we started to get a ...
A. 4 June 2008: ooooh dear,
Thats awful, she is an awful awful woman. There is really not much I can say except I pity the man she is with. It sounds like you are a great guy and I am sure the perfect woman is just around the corner for you. Don't get sucked back... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and a virgin my boyfriend want's sex!
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend. He always asks me to have sex with him. but i really don't want to. I'm only 13 and I want to keep my virginity for a while. I've told him no so many times and I keep telling him no. It's so annoying. What sho...
A. 4 June 2008: Do not under any circumstance give into this boy, If he loved you he would wait. You are doing the right thing, sex is a really really big step and you need to be sure that you are 100% ready for it and the responsiblity that comes with it...(What ... (read in full...)
Should I give my husband a second chance after he cheated and had a child behind my back?
Q. March of this year was the worse month of my life. I found out my husband of 5 years, had cheated on me 3 years ago. During that affair they conceived a child. The child is now around 3 years old and I never knew anything about her. I received a l...
A. 4 June 2008: oh dear, that is an awful situation to find yourself in.
I would advise you to leave him, its a huge betrayal and by staying you are sending a message to your children that it is ok to do that to someone.
Your children will be fine because you... (read in full...)
I want to leave my partner, and this country, but our children complicate things!
Q. I want to leave my partner , but what makes it so difficult is that I’m from a different country and we also have two young children with a third on the way. When I leave my partner I don’t wish to stay in Australia. I have no social network here ...
A. 4 June 2008: Where are you from? I think Aust is about to change our laws so that you can't have Duel citizenship. Don't quote me on that but someone in my office was discussing it.
Have you tried to make friends? What area of Aust are you in? Some areas ar... (read in full...)
My girl has suddenly changed, is she going to split up with me?
Q. Ok i've been with my girlfriend for over a year and a half, And during the past few month she has been increasingly getting annoyed with me at being lazy around the house(she dosnt live with me).For example she works hard, long hours and i sit on my ...
A. 3 June 2008: She could jsut be really really really stressed out at work?
I am a bit confused, do you work or do you really just sit about playing video games? if it is the games than maybe she is tired of workig her fingers to the bone whilst you don't do anyt... (read in full...)
How often do people see or contact their boyfriends and girlfriends each week on average?
Q. I'm just curious as to how often people see their bfs/gfs each week on average? And on the days that you do not see your bf/gf do you always contact them by phone/email/text message to see how they are going? Thanks for the replies in advance :...
A. 3 June 2008: I live with him. See him every day, call every day and we email........... oh dear are we one of "those" people?? LOL ahh well I love it, wouldnt have it any other way... (read in full...)
Lots of signs by boyfriend is cheating. What should I do?
Q. I'm a 22 year old female, my boyfriend of 3 years is 27. I need help figuring out if he has been cheating on me. He a tow truck driver and works all the time, the problam is when i go to my parents he doesn't answer the phone most of the time i call ...
A. 3 June 2008: hmmm could have been bought as early as last week I guess.
These signs sound very strange, it sounds to me that you already know the answer. I am sad to say that all this points in the direction that yes he is cheating on you.
I hope you will be ... (read in full...)
A long and complicated breakup.. desperately need advice and support please
Q. being dumped is hard. here goes :( so me and my (ex) bf had been on a rocky road for a long time, ever since i went off to college and we tried the long distance thing. after many arguments, many about him smoking - i have a problem with thi...
A. 3 June 2008: hmmm sounds to me that this man is being very unfair to you.
Ok so yelling at him in front of the little brother was bad but so is lying to you and making you feel terrible.
I see that you have two choices at the moment
1) Just wait,he once tol... (read in full...)
Why cant she get pregnant?
Q. My girlfriend and i are trying to have a kid. We have had sex so many times so why wont she get pregnant?...
A. 2 June 2008: IF your age is wrong then maybe you need to see a doctor, If your age is correct then it could be that your too young and your bodies are not ready yet.... (read in full...)
Problems in my polyamorous relationship with one partner. I need advice.
Q. Hi can anyone help me? Im in a polyamory relationship, but my one partner is driving me to dispair. He thinks that because i were with him 1st he should take priority over my other lover. His jelousy is pushing us apart not bringing us clos...
A. 2 June 2008: DiovanLestat,
I accept your apology and I offer my own apology for stating that an English Law is outdated, I am glad we had a chance to chat, I understand your protectiveness of your countrymen /women as I feel the same way on my own.
I admire y... (read in full...)
Is this rape or sexual assault?
Q. i have a problem with my boyfriend - he wants sex and every time he tries to put his penis inside of me it really hurts. Last time we tried to do this he would not stop trying and I ended up crying - he then became violent and covered my mouth up ...
A. 31 May 2008: Listen to the previous poster (lawyer from the UK). Press charges and get some professional help.
I wish you all the best of luck, if you need someone to talk to feel free to PM me.
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Younger married man keeps coming back for more and I can't help myself
Q. I've been having an affair with a married younger man (alot younger)for 18 months and he is always breaking it off but then comes back for more. I'm hooked on the excitement of the affair (the sex is just so so)and am more than happy to go back. I ...
A. 31 May 2008: Woops sorry, Just realised that it is him who is the married one... easy, tell his wife, you won't see him again i assure you.
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Younger married man keeps coming back for more and I can't help myself
Q. I've been having an affair with a married younger man (alot younger)for 18 months and he is always breaking it off but then comes back for more. I'm hooked on the excitement of the affair (the sex is just so so)and am more than happy to go back. I ...
A. 31 May 2008: Simple, Cut contact with this man or risk loosing your husband
... (read in full...)
Been sleeping with my friends father. What do you think I should do?
Q. Hi cupid, I am in a really hard situation. ok my best friend and I are really close we do everything together. I am 16 and she is 17. I really don't have much of a family of my own my dad left us and my mum spends more time at the pub getting ...
A. 31 May 2008: I know you must feel very confused at the moment. I think it would be best for you to talk to an adult. Someone away from this family that you trust and not involved in the situation.
What is happening is not right, you seem to be a nice girl who ... (read in full...)
Problems in my polyamorous relationship with one partner. I need advice.
Q. Hi can anyone help me? Im in a polyamory relationship, but my one partner is driving me to dispair. He thinks that because i were with him 1st he should take priority over my other lover. His jelousy is pushing us apart not bringing us clos...
A. 30 May 2008: Anon
This will be my last post to you as I am sick of your disgusting drivel. There are many other people out there with genuine problems. I am starting to think this entire post was a wind up anyway. For the record I don't have to google t... (read in full...)
Problems in my polyamorous relationship with one partner. I need advice.
Q. Hi can anyone help me? Im in a polyamory relationship, but my one partner is driving me to dispair. He thinks that because i were with him 1st he should take priority over my other lover. His jelousy is pushing us apart not bringing us clos...
A. 29 May 2008: " 2face ppl like you that know nothing about love!! "??? Lord give me strength.... How am I being 2 faced? I am not talking about you behind your back I am telling you straight up.
There are many people who think that what you are doing is mora... (read in full...)
Argh! My boyfriend is planning to go out partying when I'm teaching!
Q. My boyfriend is so... argh! I can't quite describe just how angry he makes me! See, I broke his trust, because last year I told him I wouldn't talk to this certain guy who used to have a crush on me anymore. But the thing is said guy is in my cla...
A. 28 May 2008: Your BF sounds like a control freak, not to mention behaves like a child. You didn't cheat you only spoke to this guy he needs to grow up, Do whats best for you and get rid of this looser!
Best of luck... (read in full...)
I hit my wife how do I make it up to her?
Q. I Hit my wife four months ago and can't forgive myself. We were in a heated argument and I lost my temper and slaped her in the face. I would never hurt her she is the best thing that ever happened to me and I love her and can't live without her. ...
A. 28 May 2008: maybe take yourself off to councelling? show your wife that you are totally commited to change so this wont happen again.
Work on gaining her trust back, very hard thing to get back once lost.
Best of luck... (read in full...)
Problems in my polyamorous relationship with one partner. I need advice.
Q. Hi can anyone help me? Im in a polyamory relationship, but my one partner is driving me to dispair. He thinks that because i were with him 1st he should take priority over my other lover. His jelousy is pushing us apart not bringing us clos...
A. 28 May 2008: Didn't you already post here not long ago? Talking about having your cousin's baby??
Sorry to be harsh but it's not going to work. You will loose your husband soon enough and then with time your cousin, I suggest you brace yourself for some hars... (read in full...)
How do I pleasure him?
Q. i feel like im not pleasuring "him" so..other than the regular on top and hittin it from the back positions. what else can i do to make "him" more interested? what gets guys excited? and how do i keep then excited?...
A. 27 May 2008: Too young for sex advice indeed. I suggest not having sex. You are far too young. Calling sex "hitting it" just shows that you have little respect for yourself and the situation that you have found yourself in.
You should take your time when it c... (read in full...)
He's a millionaire but won't give me money for a deposit, how can I make him regret this?
Q. I am a 25 year old female who has been involved with a married man for 3 years. We have an okay relationship, I dont ask him for much or expect much from him at. I respect his private life, and know where not to cross the line. He is a millionaire, ...
A. 23 May 2008: Your a sad little person, he is married. Work hard and get your own money like the rest of us. He is not your BF, you are his bit on the side. Women like you give the rest of us a bad name.
I doubt if you left he would even care. Why would he? He h... (read in full...)
My daughter's friend keeps showing up at my office for help, seems like she developed a crush for me! How should I handle this?
Q. Hey, I'm having a problem with one of my daughter's friends and I'm unsure of what to do about it... so any advice is much appreciated. I work at my kid's school as I.T. support staff and one of my 13-year-old daughter's friends keeps showing up...
A. 23 May 2008: Keep proof of EVERYTHING!!! From what I have seen, today young girls are far more cunning than we give them credit for, I know that sounds awful but its true. When she pops into your office make sure someone else is always with you, If she sends ... (read in full...)
Should I let him be or keep trying?
Q. i need help on this one.. me and my bf split up 2weeks ago and yet i still dont know what to do!!i was with my bf for 7months and ive fell for him big time.. he got into abit of trouble in the past is due up in court soon and this was part of his ...
A. 22 May 2008: Darlingheart, I may sound harsh but I say leave. Go and have some fun in your life, your too young to worry about this type of thing now! It sounds like he has unresolved issues with his ex and with going to court ect. Let him sort those issues out ... (read in full...)
I want so much to be more than just friends with her! Help me out please.
Q. Hi all i'm back again thanks all for the help on my last Q but that is not why im here i have a new problem. I have known a girl just over 2 years now, she is younger than me and we met through a friend, we get on a like a house on fire. She cou...
A. 22 May 2008: Have you got her number? Try to get it and give her a call, I suggest just ask her out. Don't scare off by comming on too strong or by trying to start a relationship too fast. Just ask her out as mates for a drink and see what happnes!!
Best of luck... (read in full...)
I can't get over my ex-boyfriend but I don't want him back!
Q. Hey guys, I officially broke up with my boyfriend in December. Reasons: i didnt feel like i loved him anymore. I never felt like doing anything with him and was completely disinterested. i dreaded him touching me for some reason...
A. 22 May 2008: Stop talking to him, stop letting him run your life, its your choice at the end of the day if you want to let him in your life and how much you do.
It sounds like you need closure,easy. Tell him you don't want to see him anymore and change your numb... (read in full...)
My teacher is amazing I like him.. HELP!
Q. help! I am a 17 year old female and my teacher is in his mid-30s and I like him. I can't stop thinking about him. I want to know if he likes me, he used to be really cool with me and treat me normally (sometimes kinda weird.. but I guess he's jus...
A. 22 May 2008: Well said , Collaroy. I agree.
There are thousands of these types of questions on this site, have a look and you may well find your answer.... (read in full...)
How did you proposed or were proposed to?
Q. I kno there's a lot of married people on dear cupid. So I want to know how did your husband propose to u or guys did your wife ask u. Just curious...
A. 22 May 2008: My fiance asked me on the steps of Sydney Opera House.
I don't really recall much of the day before that but I remember every little detail of that moment and the ones following.... (read in full...)
How can I break my Father's heart by telling him that my Mom is cheating?
Q. HI all, This question is not directly involving me, but even though I can not control it, I reap the consequences of the problem. All of my life, I have believed that I had the "perfect homelife." My parents always told my siblings and I th...
A. 22 May 2008: Sounds similar to a situation I am faced with and its awful. My mother has been doing the same type of thing (not the burning down of the house) but the playing around (not just with one but with mulitple!)I can't talk to my father about it without ... (read in full...)
My first breakup... how can I get over him?
Q. How can I get over - fast - my first ex boyfriend, who was also my first love, and I thought I was going to be with him forever? I made mistakes. Well, that's why he broke up with me. He blames me for having ruined a perfect relationship, be...
A. 22 May 2008: First loves are always hard to pass... but that is why we call them "first" because there will be a second and a third...and maybe more, things seem hard now, the only thing you can really do is feel sad. Let yourself feel sad for a week or two. ... (read in full...)
My husband caught me having sex with my cousin
Q. Im married with kids but not long ago my husband caught me having sex with me cousin. I realise that i love my cousin, an that i have tried to ignore my feelings an so as he, but we can't. We love each other, i'm older than he is (by 14yrs)an family ...
A. 19 May 2008: YUCK! YOur freaking realated!! YOur kids will come out deformed....more so than you!!
Stop and think about what you are doing, its illigal!!!!!
God I hope this kid is 21 and not 16, ... (read in full...)
I am so horribly confused - I cannot bear to see him hurting so badly.
Q. Ralph and I were married in 2001 - then divorced in 2004 because he moved in with his ex-wife and daughter. Early 2005, he moved back in with me. We lived together as man and wife in all ways except the bedroom. We slept in different rooms and ...
A. 16 May 2008: I agree with eyeswideopen. Don't let him use you as an emotional pillar. Suggest professional help (I think this may be more than you can handle on your own). If you know one of his friends maybe talk to them and warn them out, so they can step in ... (read in full...)
This is just soo confusing! Which type of friends should I pick??!!!
Q. Well skool is really differnt now.. secondary skool is such a stressy time for everyone... like everyone changes nice to mean, happy to moody etc i have loads of friends in skool even da geeks one (but they were my first friends) in yer 7 they were ...
A. 14 May 2008: Sorry Aunts and Uncles... I am not going to be nice here, Bullies all over the world are out of control and it's a terrifying thing for kids....leads into all sorts of nasty problems. I am sorry if I offend any of you.
Now to the poster! ... (read in full...)
Could unprotected sex cause dizziness?
Q. havin unprotected sex with your boyfriend could that be a problem for the fermale a little bit of dizness each time they have sex?...
A. 14 May 2008: not sure about making you dizzy you could just be excited as the other poster stated...however here are a few things that unprotected sex can give you.
1)AIDS - will kill you. Not may kill you but WILL.
2)Children - if not ready for them c... (read in full...)
I think he is head over heels in love with me, what about u?
Q. Iam dating this guy he really likes me,infact I think he is head over heels in love with me.Iam starting to think he is obsessed with me.At night when Iam sleeping he sleeps really close to me and rubs against me and rubs my back or couresses me in ...
A. 14 May 2008: I had one like that once....he did those things and he cried lots....and I mean lots!!
It got a bit too much for me and I tried to end it with him in a nice way. Long stroy short he became a bit of a stalker. I almost had to contact the police to g... (read in full...)
I fell for him, he's married - she's pregnant, now I'm heart broken
Q. Hi.....iam 21 years and iam in a heartbreaking dilema...i started seing this guy ( @ the time 32) when i was 19.... The thing is that it all started so sudden @ work...you know the passing by the office..the eye contact...then one day he took me ...
A. 14 May 2008: I agree with Collaroy. It hurts but you need to move on now, try and find a man who is not married and closer to your own age next time... it will be lots easier
good luck ... (read in full...)
Which one should I choose??
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years going on 4 and he's proposed to me and has my named tattooed on his chest i love him with all my heart. but we've been having problems and he hasnt called me like he should. i dont get to see him that much ...
A. 14 May 2008: Sorry I am with banditsmom1124, have fun your still young don't be so weighed down by relationships... you have your whole adult life for that!... (read in full...)
My wife discusses our personal problems with friends. I can't face them now.
Q. Can you help? I've been married for three years and everything as been going pretty well, but recently i've found out my wife as been discussing our personal problems with her friends, some of which are married to friends of mine. Now i can barely f...
A. 14 May 2008: Its a terrible thing what your wife did. I share everything with my girlfriends........except what happens with my partner and I on an intimate level! I would also never tell them anything that is personal to my partner . I respect and love him far ... (read in full...)
I want to believe him but I have doubts about his relationship with his ex!
Q. Hi, I am having an incredibly hard time figuring out what to do about my bf and his ex. They are best friends, and although I love that, I have been having second thoughts. I recently asked him if he wasn't dating anyone and if ex would have hi...
A. 14 May 2008: ooooh this has bad signes all over it, Try talking to him however I suspect that it will be about as useful as talking to a brick wall..
If they were in a relationship then became friends with benifits right up to you then that is a very hard bond... (read in full...)
He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant
Q. Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex ...
A. 13 May 2008: Sweetheart,
You are far too young in the head to be contemplating this.
You actually thought you were not a virgin because your sister was raped in the same bed????
Go and speak to an adult. If your sister got in so much trouble for getting preg... (read in full...)
I am so horribly confused - I cannot bear to see him hurting so badly.
Q. Ralph and I were married in 2001 - then divorced in 2004 because he moved in with his ex-wife and daughter. Early 2005, he moved back in with me. We lived together as man and wife in all ways except the bedroom. We slept in different rooms and ...
A. 13 May 2008: Well if Ralph has hurt you time and time again you can be sure that he will continue to do so. I know its hard to let someone go after a huge history,. He has had a long long time to make things right with you. I say leave Ralph and try to make ... (read in full...)
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