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My husband has been sending pictures of himself in his underwear to a man, is planning to meet him, and has told me that it's none of my business!

Q.   I'm 27, and my husband's 29. We have two children, a 4-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter and have been married for 3 years. On Tuesday when I was checking our email to see if a bid I made on eBay was successful, an email came through fro...

A.   25 May 2008:  Your husband is obviously engaging in a activity, or relationship that is not to your liking. You have every right to question any external influence to your marriage, regardless of whether it is male or female in nature. There is some sound advi... (read in full...)

Sex with 67 men in the past, is that high or low in your opinion?

Q.   My wife had sex with 67 men before me...is that number too high or low for a woman?...

A.   21 May 2008: 67 you say? The poor girl is more than likely cursing God that she wasn't born a male so she could rack up these conquests and sit around the bar with the other studs comparing stories of daring do. I fell so incredibly lucky right now to be a male, ... (read in full...)

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

Q.   Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...

A.   20 May 2008: Anon, I never thought I would have the opportunity to finally meet the Lord High Protector of Morality. How many partners is a few to many????? I was unaware that there was a bag limit on sexual partners. Is the limit cumulative, or is it s... (read in full...)

I think I may have been date raped by my boss.

Q.   I think I was date-raped. I ran in to my boss in a bar after I had already been drinking, and he offered to get me a drink. I asked for a vodka orange, but he asked me if I would prefer vodka redbull, and got me that instead. After that drink, I...

A.   14 May 2008: To the poster, Please heed the advice of the majority of posters and get yourself to a doctors as soon as possible. I would ask in the interests of fairness: a. are you taking any other medications that may have acted ... (read in full...)

Unbearable truth....do I move on or wait for a cheater to reform?

Q.   I am 38 and my ex gf is 23 going on 24. We had been together for over a year and a half. Chance meeting at a bar and I wasn't looking for someone this young. Firstly, she's geniunely naive, stupid and weak. I slept with her the first night. I had ...

A.   12 May 2008: Hmmm, Firstly, she has a sexual past, just as you did, deal with it, unless you can't have sex due to not being able to drag your martyrs cross through the bedroom door. How very convenient that you were happy to take advantage of her ... (read in full...)

My brother abused me, now I've pressed charges and it's tearing me and my family apart. Please help me deal with this misery!

Q.   ok i really need some help here, so i need as many opinions as possable, whatever your veiw. ok, i was sexually, physically and mentally abused by my brother when i was about 9 years old and he was 15. my parents worked all the hours they could for ...

A.   11 May 2008: Laura1318, Please cease using double spacing to make your puerile and useless diatribe seem to be based on some form of fact and/or reasoning. The young lady in question has shown great courage to have reported this. She has acte... (read in full...)

Found out my ex-girlfreind was a swinger and had an open marriage before me. Too much drama for me, what'd you do?

Q.   First off my ex-wife and i both agreed that we would never bring any other person into our bedroom, no threesomes, foursomes, gangbangs or any other thing like that. We are both too jealous to do that I guess, but i know everybody on here has the ...

A.   27 April 2008: Danno38, This woman obviously enjoys her sexual lifestyle and is in no hurry to change this in the near future. She revels in sexual attention and will more than likely cheat on you. I would suggest that you cut your losses and f... (read in full...)

My wife may be interested in sex with another man. We have talked about guidelines but suggestions are requested.

Q.   my wife like to watch porn movies as a part of our foreplay. Recently she has developed a likeing to a particular series called PLEASE BANG MY WIFE! I know she gets turned on very much while watching this . I would do anything she wanted and we are ...

A.   27 April 2008: Rufus997, Have you ever heard the phrase, "No good deed goes unpunished"? Whilst it is very commendable you are trying to please your wife, I would be very sure of the rules and possible outcomes prior to rushing into this sce... (read in full...)

One side of my stomach is larger than the other, will this go away?

Q.   dear cupid i would like to know if this is something serious or not, my left lower side of my stomach is a bit bigger than my right side and i would like to know if it is something serious or not, because i asked my parents and they say that it...

A.   26 April 2008: Unknown male, Get yourself to the doctors as you may have a hernia. I am not a doctor but better to be safe than sorry. I have included a link for you to look at. Be safe. http://www.hernia.org/ ... (read in full...)

Is it me, or does he have a secret? He only wants anal sex!

Q.   My husband only wants anal sex. We'll start out making love vaginally, but then it seems he can't come unless he's inside my anus, or masturbating on my anus. He also prefers to be behind me, So i'm kinda starting to wonder if it's me, or if he's ...

A.   24 April 2008: You should ask yourself the question firstly, are you only doing this to appease your husband. Secondly, maybe your husband is suffering from a anal fixation which prevents him from being able to perform through more "traditional' bedroom ... (read in full...)

Under what circumstances is a slap justifiable during an argument between spouses?

Q.   Is it alright that a husband slaps his wife in the face during an argument? If so, under what circumstances is it justfiable?...

A.   24 April 2008: Laurin, It is sad that you are so willing to accept domestic violence in any form. I hope for the sake of all women out there that you are in a minority of one. For the record I have a lovely woman that I would never raise a hand to re... (read in full...)

My wife cheated after being married for 30years

Q.   been married for 20 years.had very wonderful sex life i never ever thought this could happen to me. we are not young.i m 52 and she is 48.we have three kids 18 yr. 16 and 12. she has been a house wife all her life.last year she told me that she...

A.   24 April 2008: Anon, The two of you need some time apart asnd to get some professional help. Playing games of he said she said are going to be counter productive as you have children to worry about. Seek help and make a decision on your future for all ... (read in full...)

We're expecting our first child and he's texting his ex to ask for naked picture "for fun" !

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years, we're expecting our first child! I have started to have some serious trust issues with him, it's driving me mad and it's all started with an ex of his i caught him texting her loads of ...

A.   24 April 2008: Hear, hear duskyrowe.... (read in full...)

I've been lying to my boyfriend about climaxing, any suggestions to help our sex life?

Q.   I have been gong out with my bouyfriend for 3 years now. I love him to bits anf he is the same with me When we got together we were quite younge and we have grown up with each other however when it came to sex i never managed to have an orgasm. ...

A.   24 April 2008: Anon, Communication is the key to a great sex life. I would suggest that sit and talk with your BF and discuss this matter. Here is a link you may find if help. Good luck. http://www.sexinfo101.com/ ... (read in full...)

Are other women built differently in order to feel prepared more easily during anal sex?

Q.   For Guys and Gals My boyfriend and I have sex daily. Dress up, role play,oral, sex in different locations, it goes on and on...The problem is he brings up anal sex a lot which we have done, but he says he loses patience with me because it takes...

A.   23 April 2008: Anon, You need to relax about this issue. Anal sex is not something is wham bam thank-you ma-am. Your boyfriend should be grateful that you are willing to experiment and try things with him and be prepared to take the time to ensure that... (read in full...)

I was his mistress and now we are together. Why am I still competing with the wife?

Q.   i am a 21 yr old who is dating a 33 yr old man. He left his wife for me and i believe he loves me very much as do i him. He has 3 kids who absolutely dispise me as well as alot of financial stuff from his past with his wife.I know his wife is still ...

A.   23 April 2008: Anon, I totally agree with Collaroy. You need to tell him to go home and then make yourself unavailable after that point. Yes it is going to hurt and there will be tears, but if he can't make the break himself from his past, you need to ... (read in full...)

During an argument he said he doesn't have this problem (soft erections) with other girls, could he be cheating??

Q.   I confused. my bf and I have been together for 7 years and for the last year or so hes been gettin soft during oral and vaginal sex.now its not every time but happens now and again and I don't complain or say anything. a day ago we got into an ...

A.   22 April 2008:  Anon, After reading your problem and the many and varied responses from the ladies (some of which require some more brain power and less emotion to be placed into them), I would agree with A Cappella, in that this could be the signs and symp... (read in full...)

Help, lack of intimacy with my husband is driving me toward another man!

Q.   I am 36 years old and my husband is 38. We have two children. One is 12 and one is 5. For the past 3 years my husband has lost all interest in having any type of intimacy at all. Including even words of endearment. i complain and then he puts a ...

A.   22 April 2008: Anon, It seems to me like you waiting for someone to tell you to leave him you can do better ect ect ect. It would appear from what you have described that your husband may be suffering from the effects of depression. Ask yoursel... (read in full...)

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