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writes:I'm just curious as to how often people see their bfs/gfs each week on average?And on the days that you do not see your bf/gf do you always contact them by phone/email/text message to see how they are going? Thanks for the replies in advance :) Reply to this Question
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reader, nandisa  +, writes (3 June 2008):
it depends on the relationship that you guys have, usually in the first months you will see much of each other but there is no rule, when you miss him you call him,if you miss him you also ask to see him, but dont get too attached it gas got long term effects, give each other space and time to mis each other as well as time to value each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): i am at uni and so is my bf, and we see each other maybe once a week or maybe 3 times if we are lucky. we talkin to each other on msn everyday unless he is out with mates or im out with the girls.used to be a problem but we talked and we dont need to keep telling each other things we already know ie i miss u...i love u, it can wait till night. hardly txt or call...only when in need of somethingevery1 is different and has different standards
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): When I'm at college I see my boyfriend nearly everyday except for every second weekend when he goes home and at the holidays... In which case we ring each other at least once everyday.
During the summer holiday it's hard to see one another but we try to see each other for a about four days to a week every two weeks.
And of coarse the calling... It never ends :P :D!!!
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reader, Mandy01  +, writes (3 June 2008):
I see him every day apart from 1, unless I have plans with my girlies and I go out with my friends usually 1 night at the weekend but come home to his after. Oh and we txt and call every day :) What can I say... I can't help it hehe
Mandy Xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): in the first year of r realtionship we contacted eachother all the time, it was a bit over the top i admit. then we went thru a patch when we spoke perhaps once or twice a day. allthough we r close 4 years on we dont feel the need to constantly be in contact, since we both hav lives outside r relationship. we always speak before bed time,and maybe 2wice during the day, but only a quick 5 min phonecall to see how eachother is. it varies with everyone. dont think ur relationship is failing just because u spk constantly or maybe every other day!!!
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reader, Upenn_09 +, writes (3 June 2008):
 hello anon,
I don't have a bf currently but in most of the past relationships I only called them about once or twice a week, that allowed me to actually have something to say, not the regular "hmmm, so what are you doing today?/what class do you have?"
At the same time I don't like it when guys call me everyday because they don't give me the chance to "miss" them.
Howeva' I think that it largely depends on the couple, my bff and her bf call each other several times a day and they are both ok with it.
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reader, Aeval +, writes (3 June 2008):
 I live with him. See him every day, call every day and we email........... oh dear are we one of "those" people?? LOL ahh well I love it, wouldnt have it any other way
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2008): I see him every day usually, as we generally spend all night with each other, as long as we have no other commitments. And text during the day to check each other's okay. Lol :D attached? Paranoid? MEE? Noooo...
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (3 June 2008):
 Id have to say me and my boyfriend see each other 3 maybe 4 times a week and we text constantly...my poor phone bill :(
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 June 2008):
There is no "normal amout" every couple is different. Some can't be apart for more than an hour, some are more independent and so don't need constant reassurance.
Some people get offended if the other stays out of contact for a day, some would feel really annoyed if the other one was sending texts all the time as they need space.
It also depends on your circumstances, how far apart you are, how much time you get together etc etc etc.
You just need to work out how needy you both are and then both try and work on making sure they other's needs are met, by giving more space or more contact.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Tremor +, writes (3 June 2008):
 We text each other pretty much every day, and I see him about four days out of every week. We're quite attached to one another. =)
But of course, it varies, and I'd assume it'd be different for every couple.
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