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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 2 May 2013: Pr3tty_in_pink86 said:
“Not sure if I entirely agree as they have been cleared up and not going to cause harm to the other person.”
No the cleared up STDS won’t cause harm but the BEHAVIOR that enabled the person to CATCH the STD may cause ha... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 1 May 2013: Here I go thinking like a man again. (I SWEAR I'm a woman)
STDs should be disclosed even if they are cleared up
But to be honest I agree with Cerberus on the porn issue.
IF porn BOTHERS a woman it's incumbent on HER to say somethin... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is chatting with a co-worker and has pet name for him. Am I right to be concerned?
Q. Recently discovered my long time girlfriend has been heavily chatting with a distant (2 hrs away) coworker. She's been very secretive about the whole connection but somehow her texts got onto my iPad. In one exchange this guy (who is married) asked ...
A. 9 January 2013: I agree she needed to take responsibility for her behavior.
Had she done that and been sorry I might have suggested giving her one more chance...
she didn't.
you are doing the right thing.
best of luck to you as lousy as this is.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his best female friend are too close for my comfort. What can I do?
Q. My Boyfriend and his best friend are really close, too close for my own comfort zone, she texts him saying she loves him and he does the same, at all hours of the night at that. They are both really touchy with one another and it drives me crazy an...
A. 8 January 2013: OP with your update it's clear he will choose her over you.
I agree I don't think he's sleeping with her... probably because she won't allow it..
I'd leave him to her to be honest. It sucks.... (read in full...)
Is this as sign that my husband is having an affair?
Q. My husband had a strand of hair wrapped around his penis. It wasn't mine. He says that our daughters hair that gets everywhere including our brushes in our room, has got caught in his clothes and worked its way down there. And that this is a common ...
A. 8 January 2013: Well I'm a woman.
I used to have very large (130 pounds) long haired double coated dogs.
I would find their hair in intimate places and trust me I never got intimate with my dogs... Heck i never got NAKED with them in the room
I would... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
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A. 8 January 2013: To HappyPlace, I've never had a man lie to me about porn. They watch it. I'm ok with it. Why LIE?
MEN who have to lie about porn are with women who find it unacceptable. Since there are men out there that do not watch porn, and there ar... (read in full...)
I slept with my friends boyfriend 2 days before their baby is due. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've had this friend for 3 years. Me and her met because I hooked up with her boyfriend unknowingly. He split with her before I found out, but still cheated on her with me. Then cheated on me with her. So me and her became friends, long story sh...
A. 7 January 2013: do what you want.
you already do.... (read in full...)
What did he mean when he told me not to get too attached?
Q. I've liked the same guy for almost 3 years now. He's a good friend as well. Basically the whole time of when I've liked him he's had girlfriends too though. Recently he just split up with his girlfriend whom he has been going out for for almost 2...
A. 7 January 2013: he means he's using you for sex.
... (read in full...)
My relationship doesn't seem to be moving forwards. I don't want to push him but should I keep on waiting for him to decide what he wants?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly three and a half years. We lived together for about six months early last year but I left because he asked for space, so fair enough. But we have stayed in the relationship since. But I am looking to ...
A. 7 January 2013: at your age, with the length of the relationship, I can pretty much tell you that you are not his special one..
he's with you until someone who truly lights his fire comes along.
I would not wait.
I would not move in with him.
I would get ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and his best female friend are too close for my comfort. What can I do?
Q. My Boyfriend and his best friend are really close, too close for my own comfort zone, she texts him saying she loves him and he does the same, at all hours of the night at that. They are both really touchy with one another and it drives me crazy an...
A. 7 January 2013: you are talking to the wrong person.
you need to be talking to your supposed boyfriend.
truth is honey I think you are going to have to cut him off.
he's not respecting you if you have told him it bothers you.
I'm an easy going per... (read in full...)
He blames me for everything. Any advice on how to alleviate the tension and reduce the stress in our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend says that I don't take responsibility for anything and that I blame him for everything. I personally feel the oppposite. He refuses to see when something IS his fault and immediately jumps on the "Oh, so I'm the bad guy" train. ...
A. 7 January 2013: His behavior will get old fast... trust me.
BTW it's a PUPPY you need to watch it 24/7 till it knows to tell you it has to go out... LEASH the dog to your jeans through a loop it will learn to walk on the leash and follow you...
IF the bo... (read in full...)
He thinks of me as his little sister but I love him. What do I do?
Q. This summer I met a guy at a camp (he was one of the staff) and we really get on well. I'm 15 and he's 22. We lived together in a residence with some other few people. He calls me his little sister, so I call him by big brother. I know he cares ...
A. 7 January 2013: I would be very concerned that a MAN of 22 would WANT to have a relationship with a young lady (a girl really) of 15.
that speaks to a probable lack of maturity on his part. Which at the age of 15 works but by 18 you will have probably outgrown... (read in full...)
I'm just afraid that down the road, we (or mainly I) will get sick of the same ol' same ol'
Q. Okay so my boyfriend doesn't like to be very spontaneous or do exhilirating things I like to do... such as riding rollercoasters, ice skating, carnivals, etc. And I've grown up with all of these things as a big part of my life, and they matter to ...
A. 7 January 2013: then you do what I do and find friends to do them with.
I love going to museums. My hubby hates it... I just go with other friends.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is chatting with a co-worker and has pet name for him. Am I right to be concerned?
Q. Recently discovered my long time girlfriend has been heavily chatting with a distant (2 hrs away) coworker. She's been very secretive about the whole connection but somehow her texts got onto my iPad. In one exchange this guy (who is married) asked ...
A. 7 January 2013: If you asked and she denied then she's lying to you
yeah I'd be concerned.... (read in full...)
My BF has been messaging another girl for 2 months. What should I do?
Q. So I'm on here because I don't quite know what to do. I just found out yesterday on New Year's Day that my boyfriend has been messaging some girl, trying to get into her knickers for the past 2 months. The girl in question sent me the proof. I'm n...
A. 7 January 2013: I can't see any reason to remain friends with him....
I would be friendly and civil if you run into him but
a. do NOT take him back or else you teach him it's ok to even try to cheat on you...
b. being friends still gives him all but ... (read in full...)
Lack of experience and concern about my size is holding me back from forming relationships.
Q. I am a virgin and I am interested in sex and relationships but I am afraid because I am in experienced and i have a small penis. The internet forums I have been on I have seen women talk about not being able to stay with otherwise great guys who...
A. 7 January 2013: I'm just going to tell you my story.
I left a man who had NO SELF ESTEEM who had a decent size penis and THE BEST ORAL SKILLS EVER found on this earth for a small guy with a small penis and no ability to perform oral sex but who thinks he's god... (read in full...)
He thinks of me as his little sister but I love him. What do I do?
Q. This summer I met a guy at a camp (he was one of the staff) and we really get on well. I'm 15 and he's 22. We lived together in a residence with some other few people. He calls me his little sister, so I call him by big brother. I know he cares ...
A. 7 January 2013: Honey at this point in your life 22 is too old for you.
7 years is not a lot after age 21 but at 15 you are a bit too young to be with a grown man.
is his trip at Easter JUST to visit you? or are there other things going on for him as well?... (read in full...)
Am I over thinking this? Or is this something that everyone else would be worried about too?
Q. Hey everyone! I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year now, we are both 18 and I have some worries. My girlfriend likes to go out and have fun, go clubbing, go to party's and what not and I really do get worried when she is out clubbing...
A. 7 January 2013: sorry but that is NOT something to joke about
how about you say "i have to tell you something..."
and when she says "what?" you say 'I have to break up with you for hooking up with some other guy"
Just KIDDING.
I don't believ... (read in full...)
How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And how long after that did you tell your significant other?
Q. Here's just a general question for all of you out there: How long did it take you to know you were in love (the first time)? And for good measure, how long after that did you tell your significant other? I'm only curious because my boyfriend of ...
A. 7 January 2013: he may truly feel it at this point but over time our definition of love changes.
I think two weeks is a bit soon to be honest... but it may just be jumping the gun and not lying.
I usually knew within three months....... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is chatting with a co-worker and has pet name for him. Am I right to be concerned?
Q. Recently discovered my long time girlfriend has been heavily chatting with a distant (2 hrs away) coworker. She's been very secretive about the whole connection but somehow her texts got onto my iPad. In one exchange this guy (who is married) asked ...
A. 7 January 2013: have you asked her about it at all?
is your concern that she's keeping a secret?
if so then yes you have the right to be concerned that she's lying by omission (in that she did not tell you she was carrying on a long distance flirtation with ... (read in full...)
I was expecting him to visit 2 days ago and haven't heard a word! I don't know what it means or what to do?
Q. Really confused by this guy's actions. We met on a dating site about a month ago. Really seemed like we hit it off. We started talking every day and we went on a several dates. We went out to dinner and I met his parents. He wanted me to hang ...
A. 7 January 2013: I have to be honest, I know of at least two stories like this where the person on the way to see someone was detained or injured and the other person (the waiter) did not know...
call him or his family home to verify he is ok.
if he is ok... (read in full...)
I know hes married, but is he attracted to me?
Q. Ok soo, i really like this married man. i think he may like me. He's always lingering around when he picks his child up(i work at a daycare) and he introduced himself to me. After our brief chat he says, "its nice to meet you, finally!" So i know ...
A. 7 January 2013: Sounds to me like he's happily married being kind to the young woman that cares for the child he created with his wife.
you like his look so you have built up in your brain the idea that just because he looks at you (he's married NOT DEAD) an... (read in full...)
I want sex more than my girlfriend and she told me I can have a F buddy
Q. i'm in a relationship with a girl i love.my problem is i want sex too much.we do everything everywhere and have sex once everyday for at least two hours. sumtimes i have to masterbate a couple of times around this.she recently told me she wont say ...
A. 7 January 2013: Deep sigh... sex two hours a day? EVERY DAY?
wow. even with my high sex drive that would kill me.
let's see: up at 7 am
at work at 8 am
home at 5 pm
dinner at 6 pm
bedtime at 9 pm
sex from 9-11
watch the news and eat ice cream
... (read in full...)
Worried I cant get pregnant when I'm older, help?
Q. Had unprotected sex on 4 different occasions since I lost my virginity, I was really worried I'd get pregnant but I've just got my period like normal... Now I'm really worried that one day when I want kids I won't be able to have them?? Is there so...
A. 7 January 2013: you got lucky
there is a very brief window every month when you release an egg where you can get pregnant.
stop taking chances.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has not treated me right since he discovered I had a one night stand before dating him. Do I end things?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years and we are getting married soon. At the beginning, he was really sweet, caring and understanding. The kind of guy that I have always wished for. However, one day, I told him that I had an one ...
A. 7 January 2013: Interestingly enough, I am unable to locate a professional definition of retroactive jealousy.
EVERY site that talks about it is something someone created. There is NO professional commenting on RJ. Yes it’s probably a form of OCD but I can’... (read in full...)
Met him on online gaming site. What should I keep in mind? Is this too good to be true?
Q. I met this guy on an online game site and he is 3 years older...I really like him but I just got out of a serious relationship and I don't want to move to fast and mess it up. He is really great and he gets me but he lives 3 states away. he alre...
A. 7 January 2013: I’m going to be honest here and tell you I doubt this will work in the long run as a romance. It may be a great online friendship however.
LDRs are very hard.
LDRs when you have never met face to face…. Just a dream till you meet and spe... (read in full...)
Broke up due to his use of dating sites. Not civil either. So why does he try to deny or hide that he has a new GF?
Q. My ex went on a mid life crisis spree..we split up because he was on the dating sites and setting up relationships with them every month......why ? He has stopped communication with his kids....and as far as facebook everytime he comes on he deact...
A. 7 January 2013: You split two years ago…. Why are you
a. Stalking him on facebook (and honey if you are checking on him so much you are stalking him in some way)
b. letting her “creep you on facebook”
c. Getting information on her about her HAIR COLOR from ... (read in full...)
If I can sleep through my husband's nocturnal fondling could I not also sleep through a home invasion?
Q. I found out one morning my husband was rubbing my butt in the middle of the night to attempt to wake me but I was sound asleep through the whole rubbing ordeal. He told me the next morning but it worries me that if when he's working one night an...
A. 6 January 2013: I have had FOUR husbands and every single one of them has tried to wake me from sleeping this way.... I don't think it's a fetish think... There's even a video by Trace Adkins that ends with a hubby trying to wake his sleeping wife pretty much ... (read in full...)
My BF of 7.5 years, father of our son, won't propose! I want us to be married, but he says he's not ready now.
Q. I am 29 years old and live with my boyfriend, who is 31 years old and we have been together for over 7 years. Together we have a son of 3 1/2 years old. We have lived together most of our relationship. We fell in love fast and knew immediately we ...
A. 6 January 2013: He will never marry you. I am in agreement with CaringGuy on that.
Sadly marriage will not ensure that he stays with you either.
This past year I married a man who until he met me (he was 37) swore up and down right and left in and out that... (read in full...)
I think I want to split with my BF of 3 years but I'm scared I won't meet anyone else and doubtful about ending it. Any thought?
Q. I think I'm having a bit of a quarter life crisis right now and I'm looking for some advice. I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Recently I have come to realise that I don't think I can't see myself marrying him. He is quite a ...
A. 6 January 2013: I married at 21. I had two kids before at age 29 I had to get out of what was not a bad marriage but I was not happy. I had no job (I was a SAHM) I had no single friends. I had two small children. I took the leap and never looked back.
Y... (read in full...)
I am so bloody angry at my dad!
Q. I'm really angry at my dad. He is so bloody annoying. I'm like 22 and I can't enjoy my bloody life. My parents want me to live life the way they think is right. They want to stuff me with goodies and fatty food and sit at home and join the fucking ...
A. 6 January 2013: OP said: "And he authorizes my relatives to dispense random advice about the kind of friends I should make and how I should not let "drunk guys drop me home" I mean, seriously? "
OP are you getting in a car with drivers who have been drinki... (read in full...)
Are public displays of affection at work OK or not? In disagreement with my BF over this.
Q. Hello! Hope you can help with some advice on this small issue. How much physical contact is OK/to be expected from your partner when at work? We work in different departments and when we met up for lunch he wanted to walk with his arm arou...
A. 6 January 2013: I work with married couples... you would never know they were married. and I work in a very casual comfortable office.
I can see a quick peck when saying goodbye in the morning or hello at the end of the day... but nothing else. It's not pro... (read in full...)
Does my GF's behaviour mean she's not interested? Should I talk to her or break it off? I'm falling for her!
Q. Thank you for you time and help. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 months, but my problem is, I don't think she loves me back as I do. I would do anything for her, anything, but she never has the time or is busy. As long as we have been ...
A. 6 January 2013: Honey she's not as into you as you are into her...
Have you asked her how she feels? Why do you consider her your girlfriend... did you ask her to be your girlfriend?
... (read in full...)
Should I leave my boyfriend for his best mate?
Q. I've fallen for my boyfriends best mate and I don't know how to handle it. They play on the same football team locally and as I wash all the kits, we got to know each other without my boyfriend there. We have a lot in common and just clicked....
A. 6 January 2013: your cheating everyone here
you are cheating on your boyfriend with his best friend
you are cheating yourself by staying with a man you are no longer in love with
you are cheating the new man by not giving yourself to him fully.
... (read in full...)
Why will my girlfriend not stop going on dating sites?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend just short of two years. She has been going on dating sites like it`s a habit for at least the past year. She has lied and lied about it, but she surely knows that I know different. We have been broke up over Christmas ...
A. 5 January 2013: It sounds to me like a compulsion on her part. That does not excuse it, merely explains it.
I would just keep it over with her.... (read in full...)
Me and my FWB were both in committed relationships but I think I love him. Why has he distanced himself from me?
Q. Hi. I was involved in FWB relationship for a year, it's someone that used to always be there for me, we enjoyed each others company and only started sleeping together after 9 months. I feel so much for him but we are both in relationships where I'...
A. 5 January 2013: He has opted not to be a liar and a cheater and go back to the girl he adores.
You need to focus on why you are engaged to a man you need/want to cheat on.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has not treated me right since he discovered I had a one night stand before dating him. Do I end things?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years and we are getting married soon. At the beginning, he was really sweet, caring and understanding. The kind of guy that I have always wished for. However, one day, I told him that I had an one ...
A. 5 January 2013: I agree with person12345 that it's not evolutionary at all AND CindyCares took the words right out of my mouth.
I had NEVER heard of RJ before coming to DC and I started having sex at age 14 (back in the 70s thank you very much) and have had many... (read in full...)
Guys: Do you judge girls by their shape and appearance?
Q. I'm so horny lately... I'm 19 and never had boyfriend before which i believe its my weight, i've always been over weight as child and i started doing gym recently and lost 6kg but need to loose 50 more !! but i can't wait untill i get the perfect ...
A. 5 January 2013: Dear OP,
good for you for getting it under control at a young age.
Please make sure to take enough calcium and vitamin D to protect your bones.
And lose weight the healthy way.
I don't doubt you have lost 6 and need to lose 50 more.... (read in full...)
He treats me like just another friend! I question how deep his feelings are for me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been having problems. We've been fighting all day and night because of it. I feel like I'm putting my all into our relationship (quit talking to ex's for him, tell him everyday how much he means to me, ect.) I have got ...
A. 4 January 2013: my husband never says "I love you"
he never texts me
he never wakes me in the middle of the night to say sweet things to me
but I know he loves me.
you and the current beau are a mis-match.
you can't change him.
you can't make hi... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 4 January 2013: do NOT do this to please him.
Tell him to go fuck off to be honest.
if you do not think you can handle it then by all means terminate the pregnancy. I support that for the right reasons.
DOING it to please an asshole is not ... (read in full...)
My girl friend is bi-curious and wants a three-some.I'm not sure. Can I have advice on this?
Q. Hi everyone, new member here in need of some help! Background: Me (22), GF (19) Been together since Nov 2012, already in love. Lost my virginity to her (saving myself for someone special, she didn't know I was), she has now had 6 sexual partner...
A. 4 January 2013: I am a bisexual woman.
I've had threesomes with previous partners (both ffm and mfm) and I really think that if one partner does not feel comfortable with it then it should not be done.
FWIW, even though I am bisexual I am only with my curr... (read in full...)
Should I break up with him, so I can stop obsessing about who he might be with?
Q. Hey everyone I'm 23 years old,and I'm dating an actor here, due to which I get to know know everything he does,even if I don't want to..sometimes things are written about him with pictures and when I ask him about it,he says I'm over reacting.. I ...
A. 4 January 2013: Yeah I think you should break up.
IF you are not secure enough with yourself to not bug him about stuff the tabloids write you are only going to make both of you crazy.
It takes a special kind of person to be the partner of a celebrity.
... (read in full...)
Am I more than just a booty call?
Q. I've known this guy for 10 years now, starting back in elementary school. We went separate ways in middle school, but reunited in high school. We hung out a lot and then one day we kissed. I started to like him from then on, but he kept sending me ...
A. 4 January 2013: if by hanging out you mean having sex or doing sexual things and then you do nothing else...then yes you are a booty call.
just because a boy likes you enough to have sex with you does not mean he likes you enough to have a relationship with you... (read in full...)
How can I deal with his constant baseless accusations?
Q. My boyfriend constantly accuses me of the smallest stupidest things. For an example, today we were supposed to get out of the house, and go out to eat. He decides to bring along his friend. We're in the restaurant have out food and I looked at ...
A. 4 January 2013: what you do if you are unhappy is end the relationship.
if he doesn't want to be with you, then make it so.
go home.
call mommy and daddy and ask for a bus or train ticket and go.
and yes you can just pack up and leave. do not stay... (read in full...)
Why does me ex try his best to make me sad? He says we can be friends, but never marry
Q. I want to said thank you for letting me ask a question on this site. I am gay latin man that I was in a relationship for almost 2 year, and my ex put condition on me that I have to get along with his friend. His friends are his EX-boyfriend and...
A. 4 January 2013: I agree with blonde30s
if you want more and he only wants friends for your peace of mind and growth you need to end the friendship.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has not treated me right since he discovered I had a one night stand before dating him. Do I end things?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years and we are getting married soon. At the beginning, he was really sweet, caring and understanding. The kind of guy that I have always wished for. However, one day, I told him that I had an one ...
A. 3 January 2013: I agree that he's holding on to the past and punishing you for falling of that perfect pedestal he had you on and that you will probably have to move on.
I do not agree with lying in the future... RATHER I suggest finding a man who does NOT have... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 31 December 2012: and if he falls in love with the baby but still hates you?
it's NEVER going to be a happy family honey...
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I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 31 December 2012: I have kept my mouth shut on this but I'm going to give you my POV...
IF you have this child you will forever be tied to this man via the child. He may change he may not.
He may pay CS he may not. You may have to go to court and get a garn... (read in full...)
Porn discretion for men, how to prevent porn ever becoming an issue in your relationship.
Q. (Disclaimer: This article is not about lying to your partner. If you using porn in a relationship is a deal-breaker for her and has become a problem then this is not an article for you to break the conditions of your relationship by using these tips ...
A. 14 December 2012: Person12345, with all due respect (and when it comes to this topic I bow to you as the expert here at DC) isn't this lie of omission only going to occur if the woman does not take responsibility for her feelings and let the man know early on in the ... (read in full...)
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