What is with men being attracted to teenagers?
Q. I've seen a few questions on here about this. Guys if you're in your twenties why don't you want to date someone your own age? Why do you want to be with someone who hasnt even finished school? Is it because it's forbidden?...
A. 1 December 2011: It's because the younger girls are likely to be less worldly (less experienced) so won't see through our almost-transparent facade.... and will put out for us....
Girls in their 20's start to get pretty smart!!!!
Why do you ask????... (read in full...)
He's gone from callimg me "hot and sexy" to "beautiful and gorgeous," does it mean anything?
Q. Hi Guys, I realise this isn't a serious thing and it isn't a problem, I am just wondering and don't have anyone I can ask. Thanks for your responses in advance. I have been seeing a guy for a while now, he was my friend before hand and he has...
A. 1 December 2011: How much older than you is he????
If he's much older, then perhaps he's experiencing early onset dimentia.... and doesn't remember that you are "hot and sexy"....but does remember that you are, actually, "beautiful and gorgeous"....
F'r cry... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want me the way I want him?
Q. For the last six months or so, I have been really aroused because of my husband. Not that I wasn't before, but lately he's just all I can think about, and I can't wait to rip his clothes off. Here is my problem, whenever I try to start something ...
A. 1 December 2011: Your not "the problem".... HE IS!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Would it be better to not get married and disappoint our families?
Q. I am due to get married in three months. For the past two years I have been catching my soon to be wife in darting chat rooms. She has been clumsy and left things around,including guys phone numbers. I have never been able to get past this as she ...
A. 1 December 2011: Your families have NOTHING to do with your decision.....
Your intended sounds like a real conniver.... and I can't - for the life of me - imagine WHY you would want to be married to her.....
The final decision is your's.... ... (read in full...)
It used to be sooo amazing until we moved in together.
Q. I have been dating my fiance for 4 1/2 years. We were that disgusting couple that every one who walked past us probably thought we should get a room. Ever since we moved in with eachother, our love life and sex life went down the drain complete...
A. 30 November 2011: Did you provide half the funds to buy the house? ... or does she own it by herself, funded by herself?
If the former, then chalk this up to a very expensive lesson that you should promise yourself that you'll never repeat. If the latter, ... (read in full...)
Why would a girl ask a guy why he doesn't flirt with her when she knows that he is in a serious relationship with a live-in girlfriend?
Q. Why would a girl ask a guy why he doesn't flirt with her when she knows that he is in a serious relationship with a live-in girlfriend? I find it strange and rather disrespectful. Is this something that people generally do? Because I don't think I ...
A. 30 November 2011: Yes, it's strange and disrespectful... but a woman who is a strumpet will do that, nonetheless..... The greater question is whether or not the guy will fall victim to the request that he flirt. If he does, then he really isn't all that serious ... (read in full...)
Not sure I want to officialyl end the marriage, but I definitely want to make it legal. Any advise?
Q. I live in the state of New Hampshire and my husband and I have had a rocky relationship for quite sometime now. We have been married 14 and 1/2 yrs now. He doesn't seem to understand or want to believe that if things don't start to improve then the ...
A. 30 November 2011: Staying married, or initiating a divorce is not something that you dabble at.....
Sit his ass down, some time when you and he are getting along, and tell him what you do not like about your marriage and how you and he are - or are NOT - getting ... (read in full...)
He likes "alone time". It's a source of conflict. why do I miss him more than he misses me?
Q. How should I react? Sometimes my bf likes to have his space...there are days when he just wants to be by himself...this hurts my feelings because I can spend 24 hours with him, no problems It is a source of conflict...he says I dont trust him and ...
A. 29 November 2011: Thiese phrases are the crux of your submittal:
1. "...am I unreasonable?" Yes.
2. "I feel if someone loves you they want to be with you all the time!" That is not necessarily "love"... it is "welded together"...... and many people do NOT ca... (read in full...)
We were never anything to each other. Will this ever pass?
Q. I can't forget him...and we were no one to one another. We were really nothing to one another. i was a really awkward, inexperienced senior in college and he was a party boy. Opposites attracted, he freaked out, defended his image by bringing mine...
A. 27 November 2011: Yes... it will pass. Meanwhile, throw yourself in to studying for your tests...... No guy is worth compromising your studies/tests.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Boyfriend wants to have sex but I know he'll tell everyone!
Q. So I was faced with 2 problems this past weekend..first..my boyfriend told me that his mom doesn't like me...she use to but I don't talk to her in public..so she thinks I'm being like a snob or something which is absolutely not the case...I have ...
A. 27 November 2011: First: Tell your "boyfriend" to F*** off, since you know that he will blab that you put out for him and THAT "proves" that he's just an immature child out to make his "Mr Happy" feel good.....
Now that I think of it,.... there is no "also, o... (read in full...)
How do I prove to her that I've changed and want her back?
Q. Dear Cupid, 3 weeks ago I broke up with the most beautiful, perfect girl a boy like me could ever hope to meet. We had been going out for a year and a half and in the last few months I completely lost track of how much she meant to me and what was ...
A. 27 November 2011: I suggest you go to your local Hallmark (or whatever "stationery" store you have over there in jolly old England)... and buy an "I'm sorry" card.... Make a copy of this submittal, and add IT in to the card along with the most heartfelt apology that ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so bad about leaving him??
Q. hi it's my first time posting here! i just wanted to ask is why am i feeling so bad for leaving my boyfriend? we were going out for almost 2 years and i endured his lies secret conversation with girls, secret outings with his immature friends...
A. 27 November 2011: What an ironic submittal....
First, you write, "...why am i feeling so bad for leaving my boyfriend?"
THEN, you list about a dozen reasons why you SHOULDN'T feel bad for leaving the rat!!!!
Keep reading your second paragraph until it sinks... (read in full...)
My girlfriend fantasizes about women and lesbian sex. Please help.
Q. My girlfriend is bisexual. And I'm a male. We have the best sex and she always convinces me we have the most wonderful sex, and it really is. But one time she mentioned she missed the lesbian sex and that she fantasised about women while masturba...
A. 26 November 2011: What's to "help"???? Either you accept this aspect of your girlfriend's personality, or you don't....
In case of the former, you and she need to sit down and determine how it (her bi-sexuality) is going to fit in to your's and her relation... (read in full...)
Is it just sex to him? Or does my ex really want us back together?
Q. my exbf broke up with me 3 months ago. Tuseday morning he sent me a message said he wanted to talk and apologize, and he insisted he's not drunk. so we went out and grab some coffee that night. and he apologized to me about what he did before a...
A. 26 November 2011: He just wants to have sex with you......
Good luck....... (read in full...)
He's controlling. How can I get him to not control my life?
Q. X is someone I recently met. He's fun to talk to and we started seeing each other more often. We hung out for a few week and really liked each other. When he was younger he never had a serious relationship except one for 6 months. All the other gi...
A. 26 November 2011: YOU can't "fix" his controlling personality. All you CAN DO is stay away from him.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Do I still want him and does he want me?
Q. I've been exclusive with this guy for 6 months now and our relationship has been progressing. I've been recently contacted by a guy I used to see on and off. We would Have a good time then disappear from each others lives. We've been speaking ...
A. 22 November 2011: I'm guessing that you and he have been intimate in the past.... and that he's probably not "seeing" anyone now... (maybe has just gone through a breakup) AND he's horny.... and he's checking to see if you're will to sell your soul (and any ... (read in full...)
How can this happen?
Q. I was dating the girl of my dreams for almost 4yrs and the wasn't a fairy tail ending as we had issues(losing a child) and then she got raped and that was the turning point......She started falling in love with her rapist and she had an affair with ...
A. 22 November 2011: I'm sorry to hear that you have contracted HIV.... that is plenty of a problem in intself...
Meanwhile,... why bother even thinking about this girl who betrayed you? ... then put you in jeopardy?....
Get on with you life.... and good luck...... (read in full...)
What's an appropriate level of intimacy to have with male friends when you're in a relationship?
Q. I met my wonderful boyfriend during my gap year (2010) but now we're LDR. I love him to bits and I couldn't imagine being with anyone else, but since starting college, I've been finding it tough not to be at least a teeny bit flattered by the sudden ...
A. 22 November 2011: When you're REALLY "in a relationship" then ALL your intimacy is reserved for you partner in that relationship...
IF you compromise THAT then you really AREN'T "in a relationship" after all... Instead, you have a good and close L/D friend w... (read in full...)
My fiance is turning into groomzilla! How do I handle this?
Q. Hi there! I have an interesting case of gender role reversal for you all! I'm getting married for the first time next July. I was over the moon when my boyfriend asked me: I am really committed to him and I want to spend the rest of my lif...
A. 22 November 2011: You and he need to talk this out SOON... since this is really representative of some important differences in your backgrounds.... AND, potentially, in how you (both) look at life. You're learning that people really can't detach themselves comp... (read in full...)
I feel jealous when others find love so easily while I'm still single...
Q. I'm 24 and my cousins are all getting married and have kids. My co workers are always asking me if I've met anyone yet. I have taken a break from dating as I feel disillusioned. I got out of a really bad relationship last year. I have dated a couple ...
A. 22 November 2011: Get in line with the rest of us losers who feel the same way.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
I know he's not interested in me and I just need to put him out of my head but I'm finding it difficult....
Q. I would really appreciate some advice how to put someone out of my mind. Last month I was spending time up in my home town and was seduced by a local guy who is a couple of years younger than me. I was reluctant at first but spending a bit m...
A. 22 November 2011: IF you (ever) figure out this guy... then write a book about it, then sit back and wait for ZILLIONS of women to buy it in the mistaken hope that then THEY will also know your secret of why men behave in the manner that they (we) do.....
Meanw... (read in full...)
How do I make sure my husband doesn't cheat again?
Q. i am married for 2 years now. my husband has been cheating me.when i confront him he seems remorseful.what do i do to make sure he doesnt cheat again?...
A. 22 November 2011: There's not a darn thing you can "do" to "... make sure he doesn't cheat again."
What you CAN do is remind him that the NEXT TIME that he cheats on you will be the LAST TIME that he cheats on you... then stand by that statement.....
Good lu... (read in full...)
If my friend never pays heed to my advice, then why does she ask?? She hangs out with me when her B/f dumps her, and ignores me when they get back together!
Q. I have a female friend, whose boyfriend is best friends with my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have a healthier relationship than they do in that we give eachother loads of space. They dont go to college so they are together everyday, practically ...
A. 22 November 2011: Basically, you're ENABLING her to lead this yo-yo relationship with her so-called "boyufriend".... insofar as she knows that she can hang with you when "B/F" dumps her.....
IF you want to break the cycle, then simply stay distant from her the ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about my boyfriend's response or am I nitpicking?
Q. I have read on a few websites that the direction that someone's eyes move in tells whether or not they are telling the truth. It says when they move their eyes up and to their right it means they are constructing a response (lying) and when they ...
A. 22 November 2011: You're nitpicking....... (read in full...)
Does he love me if he calls rarely and never tells me he loves me on the phone?
Q. When we're together he seems like he's crazy about me and always tells me he loves me... We've been together for two months and he really seems to care about me... I don't think he's only thinking about having sex with me, since he really seems ...
A. 22 November 2011: I think you ought to forget trying to figure out what is "normal".....
This guy sounds like he is doing a great job keeping YOUR interest alive... AND, he's doing just about all the right things that lead to him getting you to believe that it'... (read in full...)
Is she playing games or not interested?
Q. I met this girl who I really like. We went out and had a great time. She even planned out a second date for us to go watch a hockey game and then later our alma maters football game. I picked her up and she told me about her friends breakup and how ...
A. 22 November 2011: I'm still trying to figure out what is your "question." BUT, I'm convinced that the answer is "forty-seven." Good luck........ (read in full...)
He says "I need you" meaning????
Q. Hi all, what does it mean when a guy says he needs you? is it a sign of co dependancy, or does it mean he loves you or what? !! Thanks - x...
A. 21 November 2011: Best prospect is that he wants ("needs") to have sex with you.... All of us guys use that catch-phrase. It usually works (Keeps a woman interested....)
Good luck... (read in full...)
He's 15 years older than me and from another country so his English is not great....should I ask him out anyway?
Q. Ok so im 21 and live in the UK....as most of us know the UK is full of people well not from here and I happen to work in a place where there is more non-UK workers than UK workers. I love my job and my old department was great as I had such a lau...
A. 21 November 2011: Once the lights go out, most communication is by Braille, anyway... so what difference does it make?????... (read in full...)
My sex drive is too high! How do I stop it?
Q. I have a severe problem that I can't seem to get rid of. I have a very high sex drive and I hate it! It seems as though no matter how much me and my husband fool around, or how much I masturbate that I always feel like I'm horny and need to get off ...
A. 21 November 2011: Sounds to me like you have ADHD: Always Desparately Horny, Darling........ (read in full...)
He took part in a golf tournament with another woman because I'm not good enough! Now we cant stop rowing about this, what should I do?
Q. My husband and I both play golf. He has been a member for years and plays regularly, but I am a beginner and only get chance to play occasionally. At the weekend the club were holding an Open Doubles Competition which he wanted to play in. All ...
A. 21 November 2011: This is a non-issue. Stop rowing and find other things to talk about........ (read in full...)
Is he only interested in sex? This guy has confused me.
Q. Me and this guy work together and have known each other for a while. The night we were out with co workers he admits to having his eye on me for a long time. (this wasnt the first he told me that a few months ago but I was on the rebound and wasnt ...
A. 21 November 2011: I think this guy is SMMoooooth as velvet.... AND he's got you 'way more than 1/2-way to putting out........ (read in full...)
Extremely insecure about my small breasts! I want to go out with my friends and not feel inferior, because they get more attention than I do. I want to feel like a sexy woman!
Q. I have small breasts and this makes me feel insecure, especially because my ex was more into bigger ones. I have also noticed that most men prefer big ones. I know looks supposedly don’t matter, but men, even other women, seem to make such a big ...
A. 21 November 2011: Large breasts to ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to make or enhance a woman's sexuality.... Better to work on your smile and personality (if they need any help)....
ANY guy who is fixated on your (or others') breasts isn't worth your time or effort to get t... (read in full...)
This girl who my fiance works with, thinks its her responsibility to wake him up every morning for work! If he doesn't answer she will keep calling like 5-6 times!
Q. My fiance and I are both 20 and well he has this girl that is his friend who also works with him and she calls my fiance every morning like an hour before he has to go to work and tells him not to be late.If he doesn't answer she will keep calling ...
A. 21 November 2011: Well... You COULD tell your B/F to go over to her house to spend the night.... then, all she'll have to do to rouse him is to give him a nudge......
Of course, if she's been rousing him all night, then he might not "rouse" well in the AM.... b... (read in full...)
Should I report my sister for fraud?
Q. My sister is claiming child benefit for a child that my mother is raising. She still lives at home and pays for no rent or and living cost for herself or her child and she is also claiming single mother's allowance. my mother minds her child while ...
A. 20 November 2011: You sound like a terrific sister.... I wish you were mine....... (read in full...)
I want to ask her to marry me - but not for 2 years. Is this acceptalbe?
Q. Hi, i've been into this relationship for over two years now and am planing to engage her with a ring and marry her like next 2years.i realy love her and am ready to settle down with her.But am not yet ready to get married now until next 2years,but i ...
A. 19 November 2011: What's going to be different in 2 years?... (read in full...)
How can a relationship possibly be happy when it seems like the other doesn't want to be in it anymore.
Q. Me and my fiance have been together almost two years. For the most part, everything is good, but lately things have been starting to fall apart. Any time he gets angry, he storms off, goes home, calls the next day and apologizes, but never actually ...
A. 19 November 2011: It can't. You have to have TWO (or more!) people participating in a "relationship" in order for it to be successful..... Good luck....... (read in full...)
I just don't want to be treated differently because of my gender
Q. hey all those who are there... im having a little issue with my partner at the moment... all my life i've been treated differently because i'm female and it really bugs me, i don't understand why all women are put under the same category like...
A. 19 November 2011: P.S. Are you saying that he doesn't walk his boyfriends home???????... (read in full...)
I just don't want to be treated differently because of my gender
Q. hey all those who are there... im having a little issue with my partner at the moment... all my life i've been treated differently because i'm female and it really bugs me, i don't understand why all women are put under the same category like...
A. 19 November 2011: If you polled, you'd likely find that almost 100% of the women on this site would be ecstatic to find a B/F who cared enough about them to assure that they got home safely. Count your blessings....... (read in full...)
He doesn't take care of me when I'm sick
Q. Something is bothering me a bit. I am currently very sick, and yesterday I was much worse. I was at my boyfriend's house when suddenly my symptoms got really bad. I begged him to drive to the winn dixie right next to his house to get me some ...
A. 19 November 2011: THIS is your "Boyfriend"????? ... and he treats you like THAT??????? I'd hate to learn how people who DON'T like you treat you!!!!... Get a better B/F..... Good luck...... (read in full...)
Is this normal behaviour?
Q. If a man knows a woman is not attracted to them (as in she has repeated many times that she just does not like him in that way) and when she is drunk, he persists in asking her to sleep with him and argues with her reasons for not wanting to (and ...
A. 18 November 2011: Don't bother projecting YOUR feelings on to men.... we are completely different animals......
AND, don't drink and hang around idjits who you KNOW are going to keep on pestering you to put out. WHY BOTHER???? There are many other young men - ni... (read in full...)
In 10 months we have never been out anywhere together and only his brother knows about me, should I leave him?
Q. Hi I was just wondering why men always have to play games when they know a woman likes them? I met a man nearly 10 months ago now we live close by he asked me out and I have a three year old son from a previous relationship. anyway I couldn't get a ...
A. 18 November 2011: EVERY testosterone-bubbling guy is ecstatic if/when he finds a girl like you... who will put out and not ask for anything in return....
NOW, the issue is: When are you going to wake up and ASK FOR SOMETHING in return????
Good luck...... (read in full...)
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