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It seems that everything I do is pointless

Q.   I am not okay with myself. I've been told to be positive and that the situation I am in is not the end of the world by many people but it doesn't help. My Mother and family tear me down at every chance about how much of a failure I am and ask how am ...

A.   8 January 2015: I know how you are feeling as I have beenin that ssituation my self. First of all STOP looking at what others are doing and focus on what your doing. Use how you're feeling now as motivation to move forward. Set goals for your self start small than ... (read in full...)

I want to separate but b/f keeps calling me!

Q.   Hi, my problem is my boyfriend. I want to go our separate ways but he keeps calling me and i don`t want to be rude so i answer. The reason i want to spilt is because he gets angry over little things, is controlling and borrows money and never gives ...

A.   2 January 2015: Being firm isn't being rude but YOU have to come first here, and if you have to be harsh to do so, then so be it. This guy obviously had no qualms about being an angry dick to you so why worry about his feelings over your own because it doesn't ... (read in full...)

He will not commit but have I put up with this for too long? Should I stay or go?

Q.   I have been friends with this guy for years I have met his mom and sisters they all know about me. He practically shares everything with me even personal stuff like his habits bank details etc. I literally am his first point of call whenever...

A.   31 December 2014: You need to block him on your phone, Facebook etc. He's not going to change he has no Reason to nor does he want to. If you go back to him you will live a life of misery and its not worth it. You need to get your self a journal and write down all ... (read in full...)

I need help - I feel like a fool

Q.   Hi. Need help! I really liked this friend of mine and he knew about it. We met a couple of times but he started behaving strangely later on. Stopped responding to my texts and every time it was me initiating a conversation and ending up feeling like ...

A.   29 December 2014: Drop all contact with him. You are NOT the loser hun, he is! And you really don't need some one who is that spineless in your life and most if all you don't need any one who makes you feel this terrible in your life! I know that we have ALL (all of ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's mother dominates our relationship. What should I do?

Q.   (Sorry, this ended up being a long question. It's a few issues, that all stem from the same issue. I think. I hope the below makes sense!) So I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months and for the most part our relationship is happy and health...

A.   28 December 2014: You need to t ell him to grow a pair and make you a priority or the relationship isn't going to work. You seem to take the relationship between you two more seriously than he does. I can guarantee you though that's its only going to get worse. If I ... (read in full...)

Is her mother being disrespectful for seeking too much information about any sexual relations and of intimacy in our relationship? Why is her Mom asking?

Q.   This girl I’m in a relationship with for a year and a half, her mom always asks her if we were having sex. I mean we are two grown adults so why would her mom want to know that information, that’s private. She would tell me how her mom would sa...

A.   27 December 2014: I went through this with my boyfriend his mother was asking me stuff like "is he good in bed" (she wanted to know this about her own son!) An all these inappropriate and disrespectful questions and comments. What I did was every time she asked me I ... (read in full...)

She's been flirting with another girl. What are my options? I don't think I can cope with her actions and threats.

Q.   I honestly don't know what to do. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and we've lived together for the last year. I pay all the bills as she works part time and i work full time and everything has been going great. Last month she...

A.   24 December 2014: I agree with Seagreen leave her and blockher from your phone, ssocial media, etc. I will be honest with you my ex pulled this one on me when I said I wouldn't get back with him (he did some horrible things to me and it was him who dumped me) and my ... (read in full...)

Would you change something that you hated about yourself, even if family and friends were against it?

Q.   So recently I have been thinking about having a my breasts lifted and possibly made a little bigger. I have spent the past three years getting into shape after years of feeling bad about my body and my body went from a size 18 (uk) to a size 8-10. ...

A.   24 December 2014: Remember hun this is YOUR body not any one else's. Never let any ones thoughts or judgments interfere with what you feel is right for you. If you feel it would boost your self esteem then that's your right. I think you should give it some thought ... (read in full...)

My husband had the following conversation with the woman he slept with behind my back. Please tell me what you think of it

Q.   I'm writing this post because i found something which has concerned me a bit. I have been married for a little over a year and things have been going fine, at least, i thought so. Before we got married my husband slept with another woman be...

A.   23 December 2014: Hun you should confront him don't take this kind of stuff you deserve better! Its time to move on because he will never change and waiting longer will only make it harder. He's intending on having an affair if he isn't already and he shows no ... (read in full...)

EVERYTHING IS GREAT!! ................ except for our sex life.

Q.   Let me just start by saying I LOVE my partner very very much. All I want is to make him happy and NEVER hurt him. He is 21, I am almost 23. We have been together for 3 years and have lived together for 2. He is my best friend in the whole world ...

A.   23 December 2014: It could be that he has low self esteem I know for a fact (as I have gone through this my self) that if a person has low self-esteem it can effect their appearance in either a major way or in the slightest way but it can and will effect it. My ... (read in full...)

I am supposed to visit my BF for Christmas, but he is not responding to me!

Q.   Dear Cupid I'm in LDR with my bf for past 1 year. We r in a relationship for.past 4 years. He went abroad for his work. Earlier he used to call me everyday and we used to talk everyday or text me. Nowadays he is not calling me and if I do.he is no...

A.   23 December 2014: I hate to say it but I think he may have lost interest as no communication is not a good sign. I think you should text or email him asking him if he wants you to come out or be in a relationship with you any more because if not, leaving you hanging ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong to feel hurt that she let her exes give her oral sex but not me?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been together getting on for five months now and at some point we have had a chat about the sexual experiences we've both had in our pasts. My girlfriend has openly talked about how she enjoyed oral sex when her ex's have ...

A.   23 December 2014: Take the advice of Chigirl because she makes a point a very vaild point. If you want to be able to have the joy of performing on her perhaps give her time, show your self to be a true gentlemen. Let her know she can trust you instead of trying to ... (read in full...)

If he's not happy why doesn't he just leave?

Q.   Hi, I'm really new to this site, hopefully you guys can help me with some good advice. I have been with the same man for almost 5 years now and we have a child together who is 4. When I first got with him I was so happy, I fell in...

A.   23 December 2014: If you choose to leave please seek legal advice as you have a right to your home just as much as he does. You also have the right to be treated with respect. Please don't second guess or doubt your decisions or wishes as it will only Make it harder ... (read in full...)

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