What does it mean if a man says a woman is a bit ripe?
Q. What does it mean if a man says you are a bit ripe?I overheard this man I just met, on the phone talking about me and he told the person my age and then said "she a bit ripe,still"I think he mustve meant shes a bit old,but I only just turned 23!and ...
A. 1 January 2011: To be honest of have never reffered to a member of the opposite sex as being abit ripe, and have not heard it before either. I don't think it would be aimed at your age as you are only 23, but feel it may be more torward someone being abit of ... (read in full...)
Does the crying means he does love me?
Q. My boyfriend of six months, never once saw him cry, Told me how much he loves me and tears rolled down his face. He said I'm the only good thing in his life and he would take a bullet for me. I'm only 15 and he's 16. Is it possible he really loves ...
A. 1 January 2011: Some people bottle up all their emotions and never show how they are truly feeling, its like alot of guy's put a tough macho image. I think that he let himself go and revealed his true self to you, and i think that is really great. So believe he ... (read in full...)
I'm a 40 year old virgin!!
Q. I think I may have blown it, so to speak. I am dealing with and trying to conquer social anxiety and other social challenges. Though through these challenges, I have remained a virgin and I am 40! I am worried that when I do start a relation...
A. 1 January 2011: I know that your pals are saying lie about it, but personally i would be upfront and honest about it. Otherwise ultimately you are starting a new relationship based on a lie, and that not a good way to start any sort of new romance.
If the woma... (read in full...)
What did he mean by 'don't expect much' ?
Q. I have known this bloke for 18 years we used to go out when i was 18 but i wasnt very nice to him and split on bad terms, didnt speak for many years. Now we have been in contact and we have started seeing each other again. I live 1o hours away so ...
A. 1 January 2011: It seems an odd thing to write to someone really, was it quite a lenthy email, and he finished it off with this sentence?. Maybe he has got on his mind how the relationship last time ended between the two of you, and was just saying don't expect ... (read in full...)
Stories of first loves?
Q. Do you ever think about your first love? It's almost been anyway since we last split and during the time we did split, there was still intense stuff going on such as the continuation of the blame game, ex sex and so much more. He really has moved on ...
A. 1 January 2011: I think that nobody ever really forgets their first love, after all, we shared our first embrace, our first proper kiss, and many other things that are associated with your first romance.
I do still remember my first love, sarah, i was 16, and she ... (read in full...)
I've been love sick for 14 months should I crash the wedding?
Q. How do I get myself out of the dumps of my gloating selfpity for passing the love of my life by? This is doomsday for me but the wedding day for her? Should I crash the wedding and vow my love to her to be my wife. It's been 14 mos that I was a ...
A. 1 January 2011: Ok so you had commitment issues and told her you diden't love her. So she was more than likely quite upset by this and took abit of time to get over it. But over the natural course of time she has got over you and fallen in love again, and has found ... (read in full...)
Found out boyfriend is on dating sites, what now?
Q. Been going out with my fella for 6 months thought things were going well, he is supposed to be coming to see me tomm night, my friend has just seen him sign up today for a dating site saying same old me back for another crack at it. if he turns up...
A. 1 January 2011: If your friend had not visited this dating site and saw him on there you would have never have known. And he would have been seeing you, while at the same time hooking up with other women too, so ultimately having his cake and eat it.
You know in y... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel guilty after masturbating?
Q. Im a 14 year old male and masturbate around once or twice a day and when im dobe i feel guilty is that normal? any way to over come it...
A. 1 January 2011: Masturbating is a perfectly normal and natural thing to do, and you should not feel guilty for doing it, whether you do it once a day, or ten times a day.... (read in full...)
What does love feel like to you? How do you know when you are in love? Is love at first sight possible?
Q. What does love feel like to you? How do you know when you are in love? Is love at first sight possible? I'm not talkin about lust, but seeing someone and conversing with them, and just knowing they are someone special....
A. 31 December 2010: Being in love brings with it one of the most sensational feelings one can describe. Its a warm glow that eminates from within, a feeling that this special person was put on earth just for you. Its loving the person more than you have ever dared to ... (read in full...)
He's double my age! Will people judge because of this?
Q. Okay well I'm 19, my boyfriend is 38. We've been together since August and I love him a lot. He says he feels the same way and we can really see ourselves being with each other for a long time. I never really cared about what people thought but ...
A. 30 December 2010: At the end of the day age is only a number, you both love each other alot, so what other people think should not be a problem. You are above the age of consent, you are both adults at the end of the day. Ok so there are 19 years between you, people ... (read in full...)
How can you tell when the guy is in it just for sex?
Q. How do you tell when a guy is only in it for the sex? How can you tell? I just want some advise on things that guys might do if they are only in it for the sex. ...
A. 30 December 2010: If he is only it it for the sex then he would generally not want to do the normal relationship things with you, such as a nice walk, and he will always want to push things further that just kissing and cuddling, such as wondering hands. After sex ... (read in full...)
When he drinks, my best friend tells me he loves me
Q. Okay, I'm a 16 year old girl, so there's guy that I've been best friends with since I was 11, never saw him as more than a brother, told him everything... He's helped me through all my relationship problems.... But recently, I've seens him as more, ...
A. 30 December 2010: Its a tricky one, because as you say you have known him since you were 11 and you certainly would not want to ruin the good freindship that you both have. Alcohol affects people very diffently, some people get more head strong, aggresive, talkative, ... (read in full...)
He met someone else and broke my heart
Q. How can I fall out of love with someone when I have been in love with him for years and was willing to move overseas just to be with him. Now he has met someone else and I am left broken hearted and lost. What should I do? ...
A. 30 December 2010: I know it is hard and you feel really let down and broken hearted, but things will most certainly get better for you, time is the healer of all things. You need to be strong, pick yourself up, dust yourself down and move on. Get in touch with some ... (read in full...)
I really feel neglected and don't know what to do!
Q. My boyfriend and I are together for about one year now. Many a times I felt neglected by him because he is someone who prefers to have his personal time. I am not a very sticky person I think... I hope to meet up more times in a week rather than ...
A. 30 December 2010: I think that you both need to sit down and have a good chat about where you think this relationship is heading, i do think that as you have been together for a year you should be seeing each other more than once a week. I am a beliver is personal ... (read in full...)
This has gone on too long. How can I get him to ask me out?
Q. This guy and I obviously like each other, because both our group of friends can see it. I've told him many times before that i've liked him and at some point i asked if he liked me. Every time i asked, he said yes, but this whole thing between us i...
A. 29 December 2010: Maybe he is a little shy, or fearful of a rejection if he plucks up the courage, then you turn him down. Maybe he just needs a gentle shove in the right direction. Maybe you could suggest doing something that just involves the two of you, like a ... (read in full...)
What can I do to keep a girlfriend happy?
Q. i have a girlfriend and am scared that she may not want to go ahead in this relationship, so i want to keep her happy what can i do to keep my girlfriend happy? ...
A. 27 December 2010: i think that you have got to relax abit and stop being scared that she might not want to proceed in this relationship. Your best bet would be to concentrate on your own happiness first, then one you have done this and you have raised your own ... (read in full...)
Why he didn't call me back after spending a great time together?
Q. I'm a very attractive girl and I've been texting with this guy for a while. last week we went out and had a great time together. I know he liked me. We kissed, hugged but when he drove me home I didn't invite him in. After kissing inside the car I ...
A. 27 December 2010: It could be that he really likes you and is just playing it abit cool and does not want to appear too keen. You said it all went very well on the date, you had a great time, hugged, kissed, and thats good. Relax about the whole thing, maybe give it ... (read in full...)
One of my breasts is bigger than the other, will this affect my relationships?
Q. dear cupids, This question has been botherin me for a long time now. I have unequal breasts. One is half the size of the other. Will it affect my relationship in any way?? Do men give too much attention only to your outer appearence? Bcoz of this ...
A. 21 December 2010: Like dirtball say's only a shallow guy might care. Its not a big deal really, and i would not really be bothered by this.
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Is he referring to oral sex?
Q. Hi, This is a question for the guys. If a guy says to a woman he wants to touch and lick you until you scream.Is he referring to oral sex? ...
A. 21 December 2010: Yes i would say he was referring to oral sex for sure.... (read in full...)
How can I make it in life?
Q. i have lost all hope, joy , happiness...what can i do? i have failed to get a job, or get into another relationship..more so i have no one i can tell about my challenges...so am all alone, scared..infact terrified...so what can a simple gal like...
A. 21 December 2010: I know it does not seem like it now as it seems like things keep going wrong and failing you, but things can, and will get better, but you have got to want to more than anything. You have a heart of gold, which is a fantastic start. I think alot of ... (read in full...)
I KNOW my husband's cheating... what do I do now?
Q. I have just found out about the affair of my husband which has been going on for ove 3 years now. I have caught him many times but he always managed to convince me that it was not him but it is for his friend until i read all the messages on his ...
A. 17 December 2010: Personally i think that you should leave him, he has been betraying you for the last three years lying and cheating and blaming it on his friend. I don't believe that leaopards change their spots, so if you forgave him the likellhood is in a few ... (read in full...)
He's not in love with me any more but still loves me romantically... What gives???
Q. My ex once said that he wasn't in love with me anymore but that he still loves me romantically and more than just a friend. I'm confused. What does this mean? I thought if you aren't "in love" with someone, you're loving them as a friend ... ...
A. 17 December 2010: To say that you are not in love with someone, then say you are in love with them romantically is somewhat odd, reading that left me abit confused too. I would have thought that if you loved someone romantically you would still be madly in love with ... (read in full...)
He told me I was pretty then he ran off?
Q. So i have liked this guy for awhile now. And my friends say he likes me but idk. I want other people advice too. This is what he USE TO DO he used to talk 2 me all the time and tease me. But then one day he said i think your pretty and then ran off. ...
A. 16 December 2010: How old is this guy?. Its just a really odd thing to do, tell a girl that they are pretty then leg it. Maybe if he told you that you were pretty then blushed would be understandable. He is obviously really unsure of himself and by the sounds of it ... (read in full...)
He didn't tell me he has baggage!
Q. dear cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for 4years now. i recently found out that he has a 6year old child who he didnot tell me about from the start. i actually asked him on our first date 4years ago if he had a child and he said no. he only...
A. 16 December 2010: That is quite a long duration to keep from you the fact that he had a child. Its not like you found out after 6 or 7 months, which is not ideal, but 4 years is an awful long time to keep something like this.
I would be somewhat curious as to whet... (read in full...)
A rose for my rose...
Q. I'm in a Long distance relationsip (1 year and 5 days, 123 miles away) I've seen her 3 times, I gave her a rose when we met the 3rd time, We're going to meet up every 2 weeks from next year, is it over the top to give her a rose EVERY time I see ...
A. 14 December 2010: I think its fantastic that you both have got feelings for each other that are strong enough to withstand a long distance relationship. And to answer your question i don't think it is over the top atal to give her a rose everytime you see her, i am ... (read in full...)
Men, would you date a girl with a tattoo?
Q. Not a relationship question and i'm quite sure its probably been asked before but was just wondering what guys think of girls with tattoos, not the big sleeves and manish tattoos just dainty ones and ones that have meaning to the individual? Would ...
A. 14 December 2010: I would be abit turned off if she was covered in tats, like all down the arms, but a few small dainty ones here and there would be fine.
As a few have said who woulden't date Angelina Jolie. I believe in the early day's she had Billy Bob Thornton... (read in full...)
Broken-hearted girl!
Q. heey i am a 14 year old girl who has been split up from her ex boyfriend for about 8 months now i was with him for about 8 months and i just cant get over him he treats me like crap all the time says he loves me then says he dont then has a go at me ...
A. 14 December 2010: I know it is hard at the moment beacuse you still carry quite a strong infatuation for him. But the truth is you are still very young, and although it dosen't seem like it now you will get over this boy. Give it time, do some things to take your ... (read in full...)
How to stop arguing and save our family?
Q. I have been with the same amazing man for almost 18 months now and engaged for almost 16 of the months. We have a 6 month old daughter and just got our own place in a new state. We have been in this new house for almost 3 months, but we have been ...
A. 13 December 2010: Hi, sorry to hear that you are having a tough time at the moment. Like Harleygirl say's you both need to sit down and talk this through. Is there a family member that can look after your baby while you go to work? Or maybe consider working from ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure why I can't leave him!
Q. hi, i'm in a relationship with a guy, who most of the time, is very affectionate and loving, but whenever we argue, he becomes quite aggressive, i.e. pulling my hair, choking me, kicking slapping etc. Despite this, I love him so much, that I cannot ...
A. 13 December 2010: Take Dirtballs advice and walk away from this relationship before he gets out of hand and serously hurts you. Pulling your hair and kicking you is bad enough, but choking you is absoltely dangerous and could be fatal. You are worth so much more than ... (read in full...)
Should I send him an anonymous Valentine's card or not?
Q. i went out with this lad for a couple of dates, never saw him for a couple of weeks but saw him at weekend. I was shaking thinking hes really fit but not sure if he knows that i like him. Should i send him an anonymous valentines card or not? A...
A. 12 February 2009: I think if you really like this guy then sand him a valentines card, however i would give some sort of clue somewhere in there thats its from you. The reason i say this is because it may prompt him to get back in touch and arrange another date. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's ex has moved in with him, what do you think?
Q. My boyfriends ex girlfiend has moved in to his flat because she got no where else to go.he says everything is fine between us but he seems distant.what should i do?...
A. 12 February 2009: To be perfectly honest i would not be very happy atal with my partner living with an ex, and whats more i don't think that there are many people that would be to be brutally honest. He is ultimately sharing a flat with someone he has been passionate ... (read in full...)
I grew two inches in two weeks. What's happening to me?
Q. HI! this is crazy ok, im 14 and at school they measured us last month. they measured me at 5'5 1/2. well now im 5'7 1/2 a month later. whats going on?!...
A. 10 November 2008: Its all perfectly normal and nothing to worry about.you are just a growing lad, and some grow quicker than others.
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If I can't get a hooker, how can I stop being horny?
Q. im constantly horny, and im not 18, i cant just go and get a prostitute. what should i do?...
A. 10 November 2008: Probably not a good idea to go and get a prostitute at any age to be honest. Just do what most normal teenager's do when they feel this way and that is just simply masturbate.
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Do I dare telling him again that I really like him? Last time he didn't speak to me for a year!
Q. Okay. 1st of all i'm 14 and their is this guy who i've liked for a few years now and he is 15. Last year he found out i liked him and he stopped talking to me and things were really difficult for a while. In September my year and his went to see ...
A. 4 November 2008: Alot can can happen in a whole year, he may have changed how he feels about you in this time. Its good that you are both getting along and being friendly torwards each other. Keep it going like this and take it one step at a time, don't rush ... (read in full...)
If your boyfriend thinks you are cheating while you're not, how do you make him believe you??
Q. how do you tell your boyfriend that your not cheating on him,when he thinks you are?...
A. 4 November 2008: All you can do is simply say to him " Look i am not cheating on you, and never will ". If he still does not believe you then he obviously has got some big issues with trust, and you may want to consider if you want to keep dating someone who ... (read in full...)
He blew me off the first time... should I give him another chance?
Q. This is a bit long, but here goes, A guy at my work arranged to go out with me but he blew me out at the last minute, I have never asked why, I just pretended that it never happened because I thought it was easy, my mother thinks I should have had ...
A. 4 November 2008: I think that generally yo have to be careful where dating people you work with in concerned. The thing is when things are sweet then all well and good. But when/if things turn sour things can then become very arkward when you have to see them every ... (read in full...)
"He doesn't want to cut in on his grass"
Q. I was chatting to a guy at work today and he used a phrase, "he doesn't want to cut in on his grass" when we were chatting about another guy I work with. Has anyone heard this before and if so what does it mean....
A. 30 October 2008: I guess it could be interpreted a number of ways really, he could have been talking about grass in the garden. Also could have mean't grass as in the drug, as cannabis is sometimes called this. Or grass as someone who tell's on people. But as ... (read in full...)
It's always me who rings.
Q. It's always me who rings!! I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore who is pretty down on his luck - his girlfriend has split with him temporarilly, he is out of work and hence does not have much cash!! This guy knows I love him and is happy fo...
A. 30 October 2008: I think i would cool it with this guy abit, maybe stop calling and just back away for a while and see what happens. I think its all too close to his split with his previous girlfriend, and i feel that by you giving him money he is taking you for ... (read in full...)
Me and my girlfriend split three days ago, but I want her back...
Q. Hey, I've just broken up with my girlfriend, we was only going out for a short period of time, we broke up because she said we kept argueing. but i still want her back, is there any way to find out wether she likes me still, without out bein...
A. 7 October 2008: I think that it would be a bad idea to use other people as a way of finding out if she still likes you. I feel the best way of finding out would be to just ask her, maybe ask her out for a quiet drink and a chat. If she does not feel the same then ... (read in full...)
I am afraid that people will give me a bad time at school because she's a bit big.
Q. right, there's 2 girls that fancy me. They're both friends. I like one of them but I am afraid that people will give me a bad time at school like people calling me and stuff, (because she's a bit big) and she won't go out with me or doing any thing ...
A. 5 October 2008: Don't be put off by her because she is a little big, she may well be a very caring loving person. And you should not worry about what others think, all that matters is what you think. If you really like her just find a good moment and ask her if she ... (read in full...)
Is my ex confused? He's blowing hot and cold all the time...
Q. I call my ex sometimes,and When he picks up the phone we talk. When we first broke up he would never answer my phone calls AT ALL!!! The last time I spoke to him, I was tearful and upset, because he said that he was with someone else and that he was ...
A. 5 October 2008: I know its hard, what with him being your first love and everything, but i feel its time for you to move on from this guy. He is blowing hot and cold with you, one minute he with someone else and getting married, then you are not sure whether he is ... (read in full...)
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