Is my ex confused? He's blowing hot and cold all the time...
Q. I call my ex sometimes,and When he picks up the phone we talk. When we first broke up he would never answer my phone calls AT ALL!!! The last time I spoke to him, I was tearful and upset, because he said that he was with someone else and that he was ...
A. 5 October 2008: I know its hard, what with him being your first love and everything, but i feel its time for you to move on from this guy. He is blowing hot and cold with you, one minute he with someone else and getting married, then you are not sure whether he is ... (read in full...)
I am really getting confused what does the look he gave me mean?
Q. hello PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!! i would really like some advice on my sutuation. theres this boy who i have a big crush.he does have a girlfreind but yesterday i saw him with her i kind treid to ignore them so i turned away and spoke to my fr...
A. 16 September 2008: It could very well mean that he does like you, however i would refrain from making a move on him as he has a girlfriend at the moment. If in the next couple of weeks you find out that they have split up then by all means make a move on him, if he ... (read in full...)
How do you make love to a very large guy?
Q. This may sound so stupid but...........I need to know, my boyfriend is overweight a very large tummy and I'm thin. Oh my gosh I'm so embarresed to ask but how do you make love to a very large guy, his tummy gets in the way. And he's not very well ...
A. 16 September 2008: Probably the best position taking into consideration his size would be with you on top and him underneath. Also doggy style may also work as again his weight is not actually on you.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
What are some examples of playful banter?
Q. what is some examples of playful banter? i ask this because this girl that i like alot says the playful banter is a huge turn on. i dont want to ask her what it means because then i would sound like an idiot. please help me...
A. 16 September 2008: Playful banter is just a form of flirting with another person, normally with people with have an attraction to. It could include eye contact with lots of smiles, playful touches, pokes, prods, hugs or kisses.
Good luck ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that if I choose one of them, the other one will get hurt! What can I do?
Q. This boy says he realy likes me and i realy like him but this other says he likes me and i like him aswell i dont know what to do!!! if i go out with one boy its going to hurt the other boys feelings!!!! what shall i do??...
A. 9 September 2008: Just do what your heart tells you to do, i think that you know deep down the one that you prefer the most don't you. You can't go out with both of them at the same time so you have to choose one. Don't worry about the one you choose being to hurt, ... (read in full...)
I'm always the bridesmaid but never the bride!
Q. i am in high school and i have never had a boyfriend, i have lots of guys who are friends, but i am always the friend and nothing more. please help..thanks....
A. 8 September 2008: I know you are going to hear this alot, but the truth is you are still so young, you have got all the time in the world to meet someone. I bet that there are alot of guys out there that like you and would want to be with you. Relax, enjoy the fun ... (read in full...)
I fear that he will leave me and find someone else! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now. he has started an aprentaship and goes to collage 3 times a week but soon it will only be once a week. I love him so much and as he is two years older than me i am scared he wwill find some1 ...
A. 8 September 2008: Stop worrying and thinking negative things that may never happen. You have been with him for a year now, if he did not want to be with you he would leave. Just because he is 2 years older than you does not mean he is going to find someone better, ... (read in full...)
Do men really like large breasts, I am endowed and I am embarrassed about my chest, do men like them better than small breasts??
Q. one more question... do guys like girls with big boobs? i mean honestly because i have a set and sometimes i get slmost self concious about them....
A. 25 August 2008: Each person is different, some like large breasts, some like small breasts. Personally if i really liked a girl and thought that this was the one for me then it would not matter what she had to be honest.
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I broke up with my boyfriend, have a mad crush on this guy who has a girfriend, do I wait for them to break up, or tell him I like him, I need help?
Q. i have this crush on this wicked awesome dude i broke up with my other boyfreind (huh so sad) so how do i tell that i like like him do i right and the worst part is he has a girlfreind well do i wait until they break up or do i tell him now ? ...
A. 25 August 2008: At this stage the correct thing to do would be to wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. The reason i say this is because if you were going out with him you would not want some other girl asking him out would you. Anyway at your sort of age ... (read in full...)
I need to know if it meant something by me having sex with another man.
Q. I had sex with another man, how do i know if it meant something? He's married with 2 children, i've got a boy friend and 2 kids. But the feelings i have seem more then just sex and he was really loving. Please help....
A. 25 August 2008: As honey girl says all that it means is that you cheated on the people you love. My advice would be not to act upon what you did and go doing it again, treat this a a pure one off incedent. To many people will get hurt and lives jeopodised were you ... (read in full...)
Do men release sperm without coming into contact with anyone and without feeling it?
Q. Do men release sperms without even coming into contact with anyone and they do not even feel it coming out. ...
A. 25 August 2008: Sperm just does not come out, like say whan a guy is walking down the road or something. The only time when some come's out unexpected is during sex or masurbation we get what is know as pre-cum, and no i suppose you don't feel this coming out.
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Premature ejaculation? How do I prevent it?
Q. I cum really fast, how can i prevent that?...
A. 25 August 2008: Are you talking about cumming fast during masurbation, or actually during sex?. I going to assume its the latter, and say when you are having sex and you feel you are about to ejaculate, withdraw and do some forplay until the feeling subsides, then ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might lose my boyfriend because his father objects to our gay relationship.
Q. Hi Im 18 year old guy im gay and ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year i really love him and we decided to come out my parents were ok they were happy but his father hasnt really accepted it he went right off and after that my boyfrien...
A. 25 August 2008: I think that at the end of the day his father has got to come to terms with the fact that his son is gay and that is his chosen path in life. There is no reason why you should split up from him, you love each other and want to be together, so don't ... (read in full...)
My older boyfriend thinks I'm too young to settle down with, but I wasn't too young for sex. Is that just an excuse?
Q. I've always dated older guys but now my family think i should date guys my age. They usually are 10 years older than me. Do you really think age ain't nothing but a number? I'm currently dating a guy that has a girlfriend but now i want more but he ...
A. 22 August 2008: Personally i don't think that age matter's a great deal, and the end of the day its only a number. In a relationship how a couple feel about one another far supersedes how many number are between them. However i really don't think you should be ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that my bf spent half an hour on the phone with my sister?
Q. ok recently i found out that my boyfriend had called the house asking for me and because i wasnt there my sister answered. When i returned home she told me that she had talked to him on the phone. I later found out it was for half an hour. I asked ...
A. 21 August 2008: to be honest i would not read to much into it, maybe he just thought as it was your sister it might be rude to get off the phone straight away so he tried to make conversation. Also i feel if there was anything to hide you would have been kept in ... (read in full...)
Double whammy...I need advice!
Q. I need help,im almost 16 an my boyfriend is almost 14.We dont go to same school anymore but,we reallyyy like eachother, yet we've been a couple for only a week now.And,he wants to have sex with me badly.I'm not sure if i'm ready an if i am ready,i ...
A. 21 August 2008: First off you should never do anything that you are are uncomfortable doing, or be pressured into doing something. By the sounds of it you are not ready to have sex at this stage, and he most certainly in not. I would reject his advances to be ... (read in full...)
Is the foreskin supposed to pull back during sex?
Q. when having sex my foreskin gets pulled back as soon as i insert it, is this meant to happen? I find it very when I start rubbing wot can I do about this? Thank you for your help. ...
A. 20 August 2008: Yes don't worry, this is a natural occurrence when male's have sex with a woman, its also happen's when masturbating too.
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Would my social worker be allowed to have a relationship with me?
Q. I fancy a social worker that has been assigned to myself and my 3 year old daughter, i am single, so is he, we are the same age and he is just the most amazing and intriguing man i have ever met; he is soon to finish on my case and is being moved on ...
A. 20 August 2008: I don't think that he would be allowed to have a relationship with you while he is still assigned to you as your social worker, i think if he did he could get into alot of trouble. However as he is moving onto another case i would think it would be ... (read in full...)
Will I be judged for being scared to sleep with the guy?
Q. the furtherest i have gone with a guy is sexual contact... will i be judged for being scared to sleep with the guy... will i be judged if i get pregnant... will i be judged if i go on the pill...? the frightening thing is if the condom sp...
A. 19 August 2008: The only thing that matters is what you think, what others think is completely irrelevant. Never ever feel pressured into doing something that you are not comfortable doing, and if a guy does push you or pressure you then get rid of him because you ... (read in full...)
We met in a bar and kissed! Why is he not responding to me now?
Q. A guy who is a couple of years younger than me chatted me up in a bar a few days ago.He told me he lives in the same town as me but is going away to another town soon to study.It's the town he's originally from.We spoke abit and later he said to me ...
A. 19 August 2008: I think that you should forget about this one, he was drunk, and even had trouble standing up. He probably got up in the morning and forgot all about it, or maybe he took the number down wrong, of lost it, who know's. If you can't forget about this ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend betray me by masturbating? I want to end it!
Q. Dear Cupid , I just caught my boyfriend masterbating I feel like if he has betrayed me. I ask him if he doesnt like our sex but he answers that he does. So why does he do it. It makes me feel like i dont mean nothing to him. do you think that its...
A. 19 August 2008: Masturbation is not just for the single, it is something a vast majority of the population do whether they are in a relationship or not. He has already said that he is happy with your sex life, surely him masturbating to himself is better than him ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend but he loves me more!
Q. A few years ago i fell for this guy who is my friend and i love him. He is a year older and for a while i thought he liked me too. He started to ignore me when he found out i liked him and in May my friend * Hannah sorted things out between us. ...
A. 19 August 2008: I think until you hear it from the horses mouth, i mean actually hear it from him himself then you will never know. All this someone telling someone, then someone telling you could be a classic case of chinese whisper, like things getting added on ... (read in full...)
I'm older than the girl I met, is that bad?
Q. I am a 29 year old male from the UK. Two months ago, I met this lovely 21 year old young lady. I have fallen head over heels for her; we are very much in love. But, the age gap bothers me. Does it really matter that my girlfriend is many years yo...
A. 18 August 2008: Age gaps invariably only ever become a problem if either of the people in question have got issues with it. If you are both ok with an 8 year age gap then there is no reason whatsoever why this should not work. At end of the day the age gap between ... (read in full...)
How do you get that spark back in a relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. He recently told me that he lost that magically spark for me. He is still in love with me but, he just misses the way things used to be when we first met.Is there anyway to get that spark ...
A. 18 August 2008: A few months is rather a short time to have lost the spark, if you had of said a few years then i would have understood a little better. Why don't you try some role play, arrange to meet where you met for the first time, and really act it out like ... (read in full...)
Am I just a convenience? What should I think?
Q. My live in boyfriend told me that he thought that he could do better than me one night when he was drinking. The next day he said he didnt mean it and that he was jealous because so many people came up to me when we were out the night before to say ...
A. 18 August 2008: I have got to say that your live in boyfriend is not excatly full of compliments is he. I think the things that he has said, like to last month like he is bored, and that you were a convienience is out of order. For him to say he was jealous because ... (read in full...)
A Threesome. Should I do it anyway and hate it or what?
Q. my fiance and i have been together for over a year and a half and engaged for ten months. we also have a baby due in less then a month. he is wanting to have a threesome with an old friend of mine he considers hot. I told him no immediatly but he ...
A. 18 August 2008: You should never do anything you are not comfortable doing just to please someone else. And a three some is a pretty big step to take, and by proceding with this will either make or break your relationship. I think if you have told him no then he ... (read in full...)
Please give me your theories on why girls fall for their teachers!
Q. There are many posts on here about teens in love with their teachers. Unfortunately i happen to be one of them, and it is indeed painful having such strong feelings for someone who you're never gonna be with. However, i'm not writing this to ...
A. 18 August 2008: I think it is the fact that they are in a position of authority, a position os seniority over their pupil's. I think is is the same reasoning behind why alot of girls/woman would fall for a doctor or someone of this stature. Also invarible we nearly ... (read in full...)
How can I help him get over it?
Q. My fiance is having trouble getting over the fact that 3 years ago when we broke up i had a one night stand, how can i help him get over it?...
A. 18 August 2008: Well it is not like you went behind his back or was unfaithful to him, you had this one night stand after you had broken up. I think that all you can do is enphasise that this was purely a one off, a stupid mistake that will never ever happen again. ... (read in full...)
How can I get this girls attention?
Q. hi, I am in love with just this wonderful girl. I recently moved to New jersey and am going to mkhs. I'm in this class with this girl named ayla. she doesn't know i exist but i hope that she will. shes taking this class called sociology and i pu...
A. 18 August 2008: I think that the best thing that you can do is make a friend out of her for starters. You will both be attending the same class so you will have something in common right away. Use the class as an initial ice breaker then maybe after you could ... (read in full...)
I no longer see a future with him. What should I do?
Q. I have been with my fiancee for almost 3 years. He is 27 I am almost 20. I love him, but no longer see a future with him. Every little thing he does gets on my nerves now. The only thing he ever wants is sex. He grabs my boobs or my butt in public, ...
A. 18 August 2008: Personally i think that the best thing that you can do is break it off, and soon, ultimately the longer you leave it the harder it is going to get, so do it as soon as possible. I don't think that things are going to get any better than this, he has ... (read in full...)
Is he interested, and are relationships a good thing to start at work if you keep it outside work hours?
Q. I have fallen for this guy at work, who is single. I think he like me and I thought he was quite shy, however, I have recently heard a few things about him, like he is a bit of a player, he can't be trusted etc. He has started talking to me on the ...
A. 18 August 2008: Personally i don't think that office relationships are a good thing to get into. The problem is that when things are sweet then all's well and good. But when/if things turn sour things can get very arkward for you, for him, and for your co-workers. ... (read in full...)
Should I dump my boyfriend for a summer fling?
Q. I feel bad coz I have a boyfriend which is avoiding me but when I went on holliday I fell in love with a guy that likes me but does'nt want a girlfriend until future. We'v been flirting alot and I even have his no. but we'r not offically going out ...
A. 16 August 2008: I think that if things are not really working out with your boyfriend at the moment and you are having feelings for this boy from holiday then maybe the best thing to do would be to finish with your boyfriend. Just be open and honest and make it a ... (read in full...)
Should I lie about my age to this older woman?
Q. i met this AMAZING girl about a week ago but theres a little problem,actually it's pretty big see i found out she was 20 and i know that somewhere along the line she's gonna ask my age im only 13(i know it's bad but i mean im very tall and i got a...
A. 16 August 2008: You have ultimately got to start as you mean to go on, if you start a lie at the start of something then you have got to continue that lie for as long as you know that particular person, and that is extremely hard work. You have got to be upfront ... (read in full...)
I am 20 and he is 16 is this ok???
Q. Ok, so im nearly 20 and i was wondering if it was wrong for me to date a guy that is 16 who will be turning 17 in december?(i live in california)....
A. 16 August 2008: Ok so in december he is going to be 17 and you will be 20, personally i don't think that this is to much of an age gap to be honest, its only a little over 3 years. If you are both ok with this small age gap then i don't see any reason why you both ... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant?
Q. I am two weeks late. i should have gotten my period on the first of Aug. and now its the 16. i have been having dull cramping and i keep thinking that my period is coming but it hasnt. i dont have any other symptoms of pregnancy though.....
A. 16 August 2008: You should go to the chemist and obtain a pregnancy test kit, and do it as soon as possible. If anything it will give you peace of mind and you will feel better for doing so as you will know where you are.
Take care x... (read in full...)
Help me understand why he keeps coming and going...
Q. ok so were do i start i want to know why he does what he does we have been together 8 years when ever a argument happens he packs and leaves for a few weeks its always over stupid things ie washing up or someother trivial thing i have stood by him ...
A. 16 August 2008: I think this guy is acting like a spoilt child, chucking his things out of the pram and the first argument, then running away for a considerable amount of time. You say he does not have many friends, and does not go out on his own, so where does he ... (read in full...)
Should I just forget her because she lies to me with such ease and doesn't care about me...?
Q. i have this really pretty mate but she is already taken but she confides in me and i know that her relationship is on the rocks. I have had a crush on her since day 1 but never told her but now i feel that i should make my move but my mates tell me ...
A. 16 August 2008: I would be inclined to to take the advice of your friends, they seem to have her summed up pretty good. At the end of the day your friends don't what to see you get hurt, which is what they think will happen if you make your move on this girl. This ... (read in full...)
He's 19 years older! I know I've "my whole life ahead of me" and someone else could come along but I love this man! What to do???
Q. Im in love with an older man,we have recently decided to split as we want different things at the moment but one evening a few weeks ago he said i was the one for him,he wants a future with me,wanted to make me his wife and is "waiting for the kids ...
A. 16 August 2008: Age gaps invarible only ever become a problem is either of the people concerned have got issues over it. If you are both fine with a 19 year age gap than there is no reason why this relationship can't work. At the end of the day age is only a ... (read in full...)
Do you think therapy can help my cheating boyfriend change?
Q. My boyfriend has cheated on me twice now in our relationship. I love him dearly and because of this I forgave him the first time with the understanding that he would never do it again. Now he has. After I found out I immediately broke up with him ...
A. 15 August 2008: Im with Kinky Boots on the Leopards never change their spots thing. I think that if he cheated on you once then the likellhood is he is going to do it again, the question is are you going to stick around and let hit happen again. My advice would be ... (read in full...)
He cancelled a date in the last moment without explanation, he doesn't talk to me when others are around... so confused by his inconsequence!
Q. Hi, I am looking for advice on a guy I work with, we have both worked in the same office for about 3 years, we didn't really speak for the first year and then all of a sudden he started to chat away, we then decided to go to a gig together and at ...
A. 15 August 2008: There are 2 reason's why you should not go out with this guy, the first is because he has seriously messed you around in the past with no explanation's or apologies. Because you are shy he thinks he can pick you up & put you down when he likes. the ... (read in full...)
When I'm finally over the break up, he comes back and breaks my heart again, how can I stop feeling this hurt?
Q. i got dumped today. I was only seein him for 3 months but he finished it 2day sayin i wasnt the one for him. Ive been out with him before a few years back and he dumped me for someone else, so I shouol of know better and steered clear when he came ...
A. 15 August 2008: As the old saying goes Love Is Blind. That statement is so true, When we really like someone invarible we can't see any faults in them, the only one's that can see it are people outside, like family and friends. If i had listened to my family & ... (read in full...)
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