Why can't I ever get a boyfriend?
Q. why cant i ever get a boyfriend am i not doing somthing right? i wear gasses i have blonde hair i have paley skin ...
A. 15 May 2008: You are doing nothing wrong atal, stop thinking that its odd that you have not got a boyfriend yet, because its perfectly natural. You are so young, you have got all the time in the world for boyfriends. relax, enyoy the joys that being 10-12 ... (read in full...)
What can you do if you like someone but they don't like you back?
Q. well am really confused what would you do if you liked someone (a boy) but they didnt like you back...
A. 15 May 2008: Unfortunately that is just the way it goes sometimes, i know it hurts, but it is something that has happened to everyone at some point in their lives. You are only young, sooner or later you will meet a boy that you like, and he will like you back ... (read in full...)
I met a girl and got her number, but now she won't respond
Q. I met this girl at a gig about 10 days ago. we start talking and after 20min chatting i asked her for her number and she said yes but only if you give me yours too. two days later i called but she didnt pick up the phone so i send a txt asking her ...
A. 15 May 2008: Im have been going through a similar sort of thing, i have been seeing someone, that like yourself is the first person i have liked in ages. We have been out a few times then she just disapeared, she stopped replying to my texts. What i did was left ... (read in full...)
Shaven or Hairy?
Q. I have been trimming my pubic hair regularly. But am not sure its what guys like. The guy I was planning to have sex with likes it shaven. Should I continue shaving or do guys prefer hairy?...
A. 15 May 2008: I think it varies really from person to person, some guys will go for hairy, while some guys will opt for smooth. Myself i like somewhere in the middle, not to hairy, but more hair than none atal. Just go for what you feel comfortable with.
All t... (read in full...)
How can I stop my Husband beating me?
Q. How do I stop my husband from beating me all the time? ...
A. 30 April 2008: Walk away from the whole thing before he does some damage you may not walk away from. Go to stay with family of friends, and while you are at it report him to the authorities. I think that any man who raises a hand to a woman is just a plain coward. ... (read in full...)
I am 18 and he is 27 and we're in love. Could problems arise with this age difference between us?
Q. Hello all, I recently got involved with a man a fair bit older than I. We both new that it was probably not a good idea, but we just fell in love. I am 18 and he is 27. He is very kind and polite, he does not rush me in anything. Are there proble...
A. 27 April 2008: At the end of the day age is only a number, how a couple feels about one another far supersedes the amount of numbers that are between them. If you like this guy and feel he is right for you then go for it, life is to short to be worrying about ... (read in full...)
Any tips to get rid of bags under eyes?
Q. Hi i'm just wondering does anybody have any tips to get rid of bags under your eyes? i'm only 13 and i've had them for ages, even though i get enough sleep! ...
A. 27 April 2008: I some times get bags under my eyes, even though i get enough sleep. If i find that they are getting abit puffy i get 2 ice cubes and hold them under my eyes for as long as i can, then 10 seconds later do it again. Or put two table spoons in the ... (read in full...)
I want to get back in to dating, and was wondering where to go to meet guys?
Q. I'm really close to my male best friend and we usually od everything together. We're not a couple and we don't view eachother in that way but we are really close. We spends hours on the phone every night just talking about things. Anyways, ...
A. 27 April 2008: There are alot of places to meet guy's, bars, at the gym, a college course or evening class, or even walking aroung the local supermarket. Speed dating is a fast effective way of meeting new people also, also they do a speed dating quiz night which ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know how to make my skinny legs bigger? I need to gain weight!
Q. Hiya Everyone Just a quick question!! Does anyone no the best foods to eat to help me put on weight, i eat everything and anything all day long i have 3 meals a day and snack big time inbetween, but it doesnt go anywhere and i desperatly wan...
A. 23 April 2008: Try adding protein shakes to you diet, one in the morning, one around lunch time, and one in the evening. Probably the best excersise's to make you legs bigger are sqats and lunges, and seated leg extentions. If you belong to a gym seek the advice ... (read in full...)
Is he just shy or not interested? I catch him looking at me!
Q. Theres this guy i like and im not sure whether he likes me too, the problem is that apparently today he fancies my close friend and that she likes him back. He has known for months that she likes him and hasnt done anything about it, is he just shy ...
A. 23 April 2008: It could very well be that he has a thing for you, which is why he looks at you. Eye contact is one of the most powerful flirtatious tools that we can use to let someone know of our interest in them. Next time you catch him looking at you catch his ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: New feature, "watched questions" list
Q. I've added a new feature that lets you add questions to your "watched questions" page. It's just an easy way to make a list of questions that interest you and that you want to keep track of. It's easy to remove items from the list or clear it. ...
A. 17 April 2008: Think this is a brilliant idea, it will certainly make looking for questions more easier.
Nice one!!... (read in full...)
I fantasise about my teacher... should I tell him?...
Q. hiii well i'm a student and im 15 taking my GCSEs and im going to be leaving school in june and going to a diff college. Anyways i really like my english teacher but i'm not sure what to do, i really do like him ive even had dreams which repeat the...
A. 16 April 2008: I don't think that you should tell him, if you do it could make things vary arkward between the pair of you. I would just admire him from afar, over time the feelings you are having will get weaker, time really is the healer of everything. Just ride ... (read in full...)
Everyday clothes that guys find attractive?
Q. im just wondering.. what type of clothing would you all say that lads founs attractive and sexy.. like for everyday wear...????...
A. 15 April 2008: I think that everyone has got different likes and tastes in what they find sexy or attractive. I think the most important thing is that you feel comfortable in yourself, if you are confident and love yourself you will shine out to others no matter ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking of having anal sex with a man so I can experience what my GF feels with me...
Q. I'm thinking of having anal sex with a guy so i can experience what my gf does with me .will i get the same sensation?...
A. 15 April 2008: The decision is yours to make, you are obviously having gay tendencies otherwise you would not even be contemplating doing this act with another man. I think if you value your relationship with your girlfriend i would do what Misskin says and get a ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over half a million visitors in March!
Q. I'm pleased to say that according to Google Analytics, March 08 was the busiest month ever for Dear Cupid! We had 519,747 unique visitors (i.e. people!) visit the site from 1st March 08 to 31st March 08 inclusive. Over HALF A MILLION people.... ...
A. 2 April 2008: Congratulations Andrew, and well done for creating a site that has been a real inspiration to me and many people all over the world. I hope Dear cupid continues to thrive for many many good years to come.
Well done Andrew, and all the Aunts & ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's gross to like me?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl, well I'm almost 14. Recently since I've been on msn, someone added me on their list. I accepted them because I might know the person. I asked them who they were. He said his name and that he was 26. I told him I was 13. Don't ...
A. 25 March 2008: Personally i would block him and avoid contact with this man at all costs. You say he is not a perv, but how do you know this?. There is something very very wrong when a 26 year old man says that he has got feelings for a 13 year old child. Cut him ... (read in full...)
He told me I had bad breath and I am sooo embarassed!
Q. I got told the other night when I kissed someone that I had bad breath but then he was fine after, he was just like joking about and making it funny, but it so wasnt! I want to speak to him again but am so imbarressed as it was the 1st time we had ...
A. 25 March 2008: I think he sounds abit immature to me, i think he was out of order telling you that, espessially as you had just met. I think he wanted to make you feel small, and he certainly acomplished that. You should have followed it up with he has got really ... (read in full...)
How do I know if the baby his exgirlfriend is having is his?
Q. Hiya .. Well I have been seeing this boy for over 3 months now and I am crazy about him !! Its just that his ex-girlfriend is pregant? And shes almost 6 months pregant and they both finished the end of july start of august. I just want to know is ...
A. 25 March 2008: I think the only certain way you are ever going to know for sure is if he get's a DNA test done to prove who the father really is. Whether she will go along with that is anybody's guess, but its worth him asking her.
All the best x... (read in full...)
I need a boyfriend and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hey I am 13 and I have never had a boyfriend. I don't know what to do. Please help me....
A. 25 March 2008: You are only 13, there is absolutely no rush for you to get a boyfriend, you have all the time in the world. Calm down abit and take things in your stride, enjoy being young, have a laugh with your mates and have a good time. I am a great believer ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if someone likes you? Apart from the obvious, Is there any body language to look out for?
Q. How can you tell if someone likes you? I don't mean ovious things like asking you out on a date or physical contact but body language. Do they display signals when they are not talking to you? say, they are in the same room as you. could you ...
A. 25 March 2008: There are alot of body language signs to look out for, and probably one of the most strongest signs of all is direct eye contact. If someone gives you lots of direct eye contact with smiles it is a sure sign that they like you. Touches are a good ... (read in full...)
I feel like he is cheating and we are always arguing?? What can I do??
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 4 months, he tells me he loves me all the time, but im still paranoid hes going to cheat on me. Recently hes been more argumentative, and when we have sex the pleasure is all on his side and when i ...
A. 24 March 2008: Persoanlly i think your boyfriend is being really selfish torwards you, and i think that the problem lies with him and not yourself. Don't blame yourself with things like if you were more beautiful, or more skinnier because im sure you are lovely as ... (read in full...)
What do I do If I love my girlfriend, but don't like to be seen with her?
Q. I have been going out with my girl friend for sometime but the problem is that I love her alot but when I'm around other people I don't like to hold her hand, hug her or anything. I just don't like to be seen with her, although she is beautifu...
A. 24 March 2008: Are you sure your feeling's are totally all there for her?. I ask this because when we really like/love someone we want to hug them, kiss them, hold hands with them no matter where we are. I would take some time out and have a good long think to ... (read in full...)
She's cheating with me but now she is ignorning me...what can I do??
Q. I have a girlfriend who's cheating on her boyfriend with me, first I thought it would work out but now problems are coming up, she's ignoring me and not calling. What do I do?...
A. 24 March 2008: Personally i would treat this as a lucky escape, things could have ultimately got alot more messy than her ignoring you and not calling. If she is cheating on her boyfriend with you then she is more than capable of cheating on you with someone else. ... (read in full...)
Is heartburn a sign of pregnancy
Q. is heartburn a sign of pregnancy...
A. 18 February 2008: Like O connor says i would be a bit worried if it was too, every one has had heart burn at some point in their lives, and the answer to your question is not it is not a sign of pregnancy.
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Is Heartbreak An Illness?
Q. is heartbreak an illness because i have a lot of health probs at the moment and i think it could be to do with stress and heartbreak. i am in love with a teacher at my school (who i have NO chance with) and thinking that i will never be with him is ...
A. 18 February 2008: I would not say that a broken heart is an illness, it is something that we all go through at some point in our lives. At least in this situation you are looking at the reality, the reality that you will never be with him. I know its hard, and at the ... (read in full...)
Is sex wrong at young age?
Q. is sex a wrong thing at young age i need help because a girl wants to do it with me but i don't know help me please!!!!!...
A. 17 February 2008: Yes sex at this tender age is very very wrong, as Waterloo Sunset says you body and minds have not developed properly yet. Decline this girls offer and enjoy your young life, you have all the time when you are older to be thinking about these sort ... (read in full...)
My bf is somewhat ugly and I'm not sure I fancy him. What to do?
Q. hello i am having a boyfriend problem.see i like him but hes a bit ugly i don't want to hurt his feelings but i don't think i fancy him ?? what shall i do?? ...
A. 17 February 2008: I think that you have got to be honest with this guy and tell him that you just don't fancy him. Ultimately you are leading on which is not fair on the guy, tell him how you feel soner rather than later, the longer you leave it the harder it will ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf I want a baby at 13?
Q. Ohkay.I am 13 years old.I have done everything with a guy.The first time though I didn't use protection hoping I would get pregnant.But I am dating this guy right and I really love him.I want to have a baby with him but how do I tell him?I am young ...
A. 17 February 2008: I think you have pretty much heard it all from the other aunts, which i must say is good advice. You are way way to young to even be thinking about having sex, let alone having a child. It is such a big commitment having a baby, a commitment you are ... (read in full...)
What should I do? My husband never offers me oral.
Q. Hi, my husband and i have been together for 2 years. I give him oral sex every night sometimes even twice a night. He never gives me oral. He will tell me that he will do it one night and then finds an exscuse like i'm to tired, or he tried and i ...
A. 17 February 2008: Like all the other aunts have said you really do have to talk to him about this. I think it is somewhat selfish of him, ultimately you are giving him pleasure and you are getting nothing in return. Broach the subject sooner rather than later, i feel ... (read in full...)
Met a new guy but I can't stop thinking of my ex...
Q. I've met this new guy and I do like him a lot and he really really likes me, we are taking it slow to get used to each other first, but the only problem is I can't get over my ex, even though it only lasted a few weeks. My ex was a bit better ...
A. 17 February 2008: I know its hard but i think you have got to put your ex to the back of your mind and move on. It only lasted a few weeks, so put it down do experience, a chapter in your life that has happened, now pull the curtains on it and move on. I know its not ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to "get" a girl!
Q. I need help to get a girl between the age of 11 to 12 but I don't know how to get one, can you please help me?...
A. 17 February 2008: Just don't be in to much of a mad panic to meet a girl, you are still extemely young and you have all the time in the world to meet a girl. The best advice i can offer is to just be yourself, never pretend to be something you are not. Be charismatic ... (read in full...)
Any exercise ideas to get flat abs quick??
Q. hi... I'm a 15yr old girl and am wondering on the best way to get flat abs quick, i know the basics. Just want some exercise ideas. please x...
A. 17 February 2008: There are a few factors which contribute to obtaining a flat stomach, the main one being eating the right foods. Consume carbourhydrate foods during the day for you energy, and a protein based meal for your dinner. For targeting the abs i normally ... (read in full...)
Does he love me?
Q. I feel that there is no flame with my fiancé and I and I want to know if he really love me. What can I do? ...
A. 16 February 2008: With the limited amount of information provided in this question all i can really say is if you feel there is no flame between the pair of you then are you sure that this is the guy that you want to marry. And if you really want to know if he love's ... (read in full...)
I have a small penis,,how can I satisfy a female?
Q. Hi im a guy in my late teens and im really embarrassed ive got a very small penis just on 2 inches fully erect ive never had a girlfriend im to embarrassed what can i do can i even satisfy a girl?...
A. 16 February 2008: If a girl does not want to go out with you because of the size of your manhood then she is simply shallow and not worth being with in the first place. Its not the size that matters, more importantly i think alot of woman will tell you its how you ... (read in full...)
I can't get our family friend out of my mind. Please help.
Q. Is it possible to be in love with 2 people? I'm in my early twenties, married with three kids and i love my husband more than anything but i also have strong feelings for our friend , he does allot of family things with us, e.g putting kids toys ...
A. 13 February 2008: I guess it is possible to be in love with two people at the same time, but be careful that you are not mistaking this feeling as love when in actual fact it is lust. Love tends to be more longer term, and lust is more short lived and fades away over ... (read in full...)
What to buy him for Valentine's Day?
Q. Ok i need help.........ive been dating this guy for about 3 weeks.......and valentines day is 2 morrow!!!! his name is travis............he has a band called blue tornado and i dont no what to get him for valentines day!!! he likes heavy metal ...
A. 13 February 2008: You have only been with him three weeks, so maybe something like a card and some chocolates in the shape of hearts, or maybe a silk pair of boxer shorts, or maybe a mug with a heart on it. What ever you decide to get its not about how much you ... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 13 February 2008: Congratulations once again to Andrew for giving us such a magnificent site, and may dear cupid continue to thrive for many many years to come.
All the best ... (read in full...)
How to make sperm thicker naturally by food?
Q. HI Guys, Does any one really know exactly, which/what food can make the men sperm thicker? I heard egg white can. What else??? I want to know what is the natural way to make it thicker then artificial medicines. Thanks. ...
A. 12 February 2008: I can't honestly say there is anything that will make it thicker, all i can advise for healthy normal sperm is to stick to a healthy diet, limit your alcohol intake, and don't smoke, and excersise.
Take care... (read in full...)
My ex won't leave us alone and now I feel bad and can't snog my bf.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months nearly and my ex wont leave me alone even though it was 3 years ago i last went with him. He made me feel really bad, tonight my boyfriend tried to snog me but i can't, what can i do, i am nervous?...
A. 12 February 2008: I think its ridiculous that your ex still won't leave you alone, espessially after 3 years. And he still keeps coming even though he see's you with another partner. I really think you have got to be cruel to be kind, otherwise he is going to be ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart or not??
Q. hello all, Theres this really nice lad at college and we get on so well, we flirt a bit and kiss and cuddle only as friends. He says he wants more than just friendship from us, i like him loads and don't want to loose him in any way but, i have a b...
A. 7 February 2008: Your friends are right you should follow your heart. But what i would say is if you really like this guy the the decent thing to do would be to finish your current relationship first. Don't lead your boyfriend on, or two time him, be open and tell ... (read in full...)
Should I take what she said in a bad way??
Q. i have a some pictures on my myspace and my friend said you look really nice and pretty on them she also said "you look so different", should i take that in a good way or a bad way?...
A. 7 February 2008: I don't think it was meant as anything bad torwards you, they said you look nice and pretty, so focus your attention on the positive things that were said, and stop looking for negatives.
All the best x... (read in full...)
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