I'm fed up with waiting for someone to find me - what do I do?!??
Q. Lately, i've completley given up on guys and everything to do with them. I haven't been in a relationship since october, and i've had a few crushes which have turned out to hurt me. I've been hurt by guys so many times, I don't know what to do ...
A. 16 June 2008: I think that you should stop worrying about meeting someone and relax a little bit. So your friends have guys interested in them at the moment, so what, your time will come.
Ok so you have had a couple of relationships that have not worked out and ... (read in full...)
Age gaps, can they work??
Q. ok so i think some people have already asked this question but i can't find them at the mo so i'll ask it my self... Basically do people think that an age diffrence of 20 years is to much. I'm 18 and the guy i like is 37/38. We get on really w...
A. 11 June 2008: At the end of the day age is only a number, how a couple feel about one another and the love that is shared far supersedes how many numbers are between them. If you like him then give it a go and see what happens, the most important thing is your ... (read in full...)
Can intense eye contact signal something?
Q. Hey guys I was just wondering if you could help me with something I,ve noticed for a while now. In school there is this guy who makes a LOT of eye contact with me and I cant help but make eye contact myself until one of us gets embarassed and looks ...
A. 9 June 2008: Eye contact is one in the most powerful flitatious tools that we can use to let someone we know that we fancy them. The duration of the eye contact that he is giving you is a sure sign that he well interested in you. If i like a girl i try to get ... (read in full...)
This guy won't leave me alone!!
Q. Hello everyone, My problem is that there is a guy who won't stop texting me, when I don't reply, he emails me. He changes his MSN names and facebook statuses to the EXACT same as mine for instance I had a quote from my favourite TV show - Black Bo...
A. 9 June 2008: It sounds like he really does like you alot, which is why he probably does not realise he is being so clingy to you. The next time you see him be upfront and honest and just tell him to lay off the text's & Emails for abit. Stress that you don't ... (read in full...)
Is he messing with me or just scared?
Q. been flirting with a guy at work for a few weeks and last week we went out on a date and it was really nice. we had a laugh and had enjoyed eachothers company. we kissed and hugged and we decided that we wud take things slowly and we wudnt pull ne1 ...
A. 9 June 2008: Yes i think he likes you, he would not have gone out with you if he diden't. Just be careful of office romances, when things are sweet then alls well. But when/if things turn sour then it can be very arkward having to see that person everyday, also ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her I've been recording our conversations?
Q. recently ive been recording me and my girls conversations without her knowing. i do this so i can play them back later and analyze what she said. should i tell her about this or would that seem sketchy?...
A. 9 June 2008: Personally i would be inclined to refrain from telling her that you are recording your conversations. Although you think you are doing nothing wrong, she could very well think that you were abit of a crank. Stop recording what she says and just try ... (read in full...)
They make fun of me because I don't share their vice... is this not childish?
Q. everyone makes fun of me because i dont smoke weed,do you think thats childish?...
A. 6 June 2008: Yes i do think thats is childish, and immature. I admire you for standing up for yourself and not smoking the weed because everyone else is. Don't let them get you down, you are a stronger and better person than they will ever be, and you should be ... (read in full...)
When will she tell me why she left?
Q. when will she tell me why she left. the reson she gave was i have nothing left to give. but that is not a real reson there must be more to it we have 2 kids that i have at home with me. she live with a work mate a man and say that it aint how it ...
A. 28 May 2008: It all sounds abit fishy to me, she has walked out on you without an adequate reason for her leaving, im sorry buti have nothing left to give is just not good enough. And to top it all she is now under the same roof as a man she works with, whether ... (read in full...)
Whats the time span for having sex with someone else, after a break up with a boyfriend?
Q. Whats the time span for having sex with someone else, after a break up with a boyfriend. im curious? thanks! ...
A. 27 May 2008: I guess the time span differs from person to person, and whether you are talking about sex with someone else casualy or in a relationship. If its casualy then ultimately it could be anytime. If it's in relationship terms, and depending on how ... (read in full...)
I'm not really interested in him in that sort of way but I don't want to hurt his feelings. What should I do?
Q. Hi there, I have a problem at the moment, right i recently got together with this guy and he's so sweet and kind and has a great personality and he really cares about me, but the problem is i really don't find him attractive at all! Like, I'm not ...
A. 27 May 2008: Sometimes in this life we have got to be cruel to be kind, i know its hard but you really have got to tell him that you only see him as a friend and no more. You will hurt his feelings more if you lead him on, with him thinking he has a chance with ... (read in full...)
He is ignoring me again but it seems like the logest time ever!!
Q. I have the same problem that many girls seem to have on this site...my BF is ignoring me. We have been together for 3 years. It is the 4th time he has done it but it seems for the longest time this time, nearly 3 weeks. for the first few days I t...
A. 27 May 2008: To be perfectly honest i think that now is the time to move on and start thinking about something else. Three weeks is a long time not to contact a partner, not even a personal visit, a call, an Email, or even a text. He has left you in limbo not ... (read in full...)
Do all males experience pre-cum?
Q. Hey, I'm just wondering... Do all males experience pre-cum?...
A. 27 May 2008: Experiencing pre-cum is very common in all males whether it be during intercourse or just masurbating. Like Peter Pan says the only thing that varies is how much and how soon before ejaculating.
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We know what a 69 is but whats a 35?? Are there any more numbers that mean sexual acts??
Q. me and my friend were wondering whats 35, we know whats a 69...and would there happen to be more of these that mean sexual acts??...
A. 27 May 2008: Hey i have done some checking around, even asked a few people and 69 is really the only position that i have heard of that involves numbers, never heard of a 35.
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What can a girl do to get a guy out of a bad mood?
Q. Hey I was just wondering what a girl is supposed to do to get a guy out of a bad mood and sort of comfort him. Any ideas anyone. Thanks for the answers....
A. 27 May 2008: Arrange to do something that he really enjoys, maybe go to a theme park and spend the day there going on all the cool rides. Go to the cinema, if he likes Indiana Jones take him to see the latest movie. Just find out what he likes doing, but if if ... (read in full...)
I had sex without a condom....could I be pregnant?
Q. I had a terrible night after fighting with a friend and my best guy friend in the world was comforting me. Things got out of hand and we had sex without a condom. Fifteen minutes later, I ask if he is going to cum (I know, I get impatient) and he ...
A. 27 May 2008: Yes you could be pregnant from the first time he ejaculated inside of you. I know you say you don't like taken the morning after pill because it makes you feel sick, but its either a couple hours of sickness or risk falling pregnant. Also you should ... (read in full...)
I want to give my bf a blowjob...but I don't know how to or if he wants one...how can I tell?
Q. I want to give my bf a blowjob but i dont know if he wants to or how to ask and wat if he thinks im weird?...
A. 27 May 2008: I don't think he will think that you are weird, its a perfectly normal thing to do. I would not ask him, normally these thing happen of their own accord. Wait till you are both feeling sexual and maybe kissing amd cuddling etc and just work your way ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 would it be alright for a 20 year old guy to ask me out?
Q. Well I am 17 years old and I am talking to a 19 year old guy who will soon be 20 in a couple of days..at first we were just talking as friends but later we both ended up having feelings towards each other...We haven't hung out or anything like that ...
A. 27 May 2008: At the end of the day age is only a number, how a couple feel about one another should far supersede how many numbers are between them. He sounds like a decent genuine guy saying he wants to wait till you 18 before he asks you out officially, not ... (read in full...)
How long till I'm good to masterbate again!!!
Q. Hey, I've been masterbating a lot lately (porn made me go a little crazy) and now I'm still horny but I feel like the tank is empty / my balls feel a little sore. How long till this feeling goes away and when will my sperm be refilled kinda th...
A. 26 May 2008: Sperm is rejuvenating in the body all the time, once you ejaculate new sperm is being made almost instentaniously. I guess theoretically you could maturbate a couple of minutes later from when you first ejaculated, if you felt the need.
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I am dating a younger guy but worried,,, please help!
Q. Hi i am a 21 yr old women who loves my 17yr old friend. He said he feels the same way and has for 1 year now but i have only got really strong feelings for him over last few months. I am although concerned about his age and what my family and ...
A. 26 May 2008: At the end of the day age is only a number, how a couple feel about one another far supersedes how many years are between them. There is only 4 years between you and he above the legal age of cencent. If you like him then go for it, and stop ... (read in full...)
How can you tell when a boy likes you?
Q. Hello. How can you tell when a boy likes you ? hurtagenn x...
A. 26 May 2008: I guess the truth is all people are different and boys will express their like for you in lots of different ways. For instance a boy who likes you but is very shy will do his best to avoid you, won't be able to look you in the eye, and will blush ... (read in full...)
What's the best food to make you feel horny?
Q. whats the best food to make you horny ?...
A. 26 May 2008: Ultimately the best known food's for making you horny are oysters and strawberries. Shellfish such as oysters are the ultimate aphrodisac latest research has indicated.
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How can I get over my paranoia about my girl going out of of town on a works night out?
Q. my girlfriend is going on a works night out and because she works out of town and the night is at a hotel i said she should get a room. to which she replied "just imagine all the lads from work would be init" this just burnt my head out. i said if ...
A. 26 May 2008: I can see why you are thinking those things, its not very nice thinking of your partner in a room with a load of lads from work, i don't know why she told you that. Really it all boils down to trust at the end of the day, if she loves you she then ... (read in full...)
Do guys think of girls they like when masterbating?
Q. I would like it if a guy answered this. When a guy starts liking somebody, do they masturbate thinking about them? please answer honestly thank you...
A. 26 May 2008: I guess if i harboured a strong physical sexual attraction for somebody then i would think about them while masturbating, otherwise i woulden't. I think what guys think about while masurbating varies from person to person, some might think of the ... (read in full...)
Flirting tips?
Q. Hey does anyone know any good irresistable flirting teachniques a girl could use on say a guy who is a bit older than her. Thanks the answers would be appreciated....
A. 25 May 2008: Probably the most powerful flirting tool that you can use is eye contact. try to catch his gaze and hold eye contact for as long as you possibly can then smile and look away. Second from that is touches, playfully touch him on the arm or the leg, if ... (read in full...)
Saw her in a shop, and want to meet her! What do I do?
Q. I saw this gorgous girl in a shop working. She had an amazing smile n she kept looking me in the eye n smiling. I really want to compliment her and get her number but take it one step at a time. What can I say?please help. Thanks...
A. 25 May 2008: Just be careful because it could just be part of her job to be friendly to customers. Next time you are in there and she is working find a time when she dosen't look to busy and get chatting to her. Maybe ask her how long she has worked there, ask ... (read in full...)
She accepted my lunch invite, does that mean she wants more than friends?
Q. Hello, First i'd like to start off by explaining background. I've liked this one girl (lets call her Annie) for about a year now, and just recently i've been really really into her. A couple days ago i worked up the courage to ask her to a friendl...
A. 25 May 2008: I guess it could either be she fancies you which is why she accepted your lunch date offer, or as you have been friends for ages she thought why not. I think the only way you are going to find out is by going out a few times with her and finding out ... (read in full...)
I am fourteen and haven't had a boyfriend yet
Q. i am ashamed even though i dont have any need to be. but i am fourteen and havnt had a boyfriend yet. I just wanted to know how would you begin the relationship without going too slow or too fast or messin it all up. Adivce needed!...
A. 24 May 2008: I know you are going to hear this alot but you are still so young, and you really have got all the time in the world to meet boys and get a boyfriend. The worst thing you can do is be in a rush to meet someone, take things nice and slow, have fun ... (read in full...)
I fancy a boy in my class who is also one of my friends! Advice please?
Q. Dear Aunt Agony i fancy a boy in my class who is also one of my friends, he does not suspect anything and we often make fun of eachother ( in a funny way ) as i am usually too nervous to ask people out as my last relationship went complete...
A. 24 May 2008: Use some light flirtatious gestures with him to test the water. One of the most powerful is eye contact, try to catch his gaze and hold eye contact with him for as long as you can before smiling and looking away. Touches are good, if you take ... (read in full...)
When do you know you are ready for sex?
Q. When do you know that your ready for sex !???!...
A. 24 May 2008: For starters when you are over the age of 16, which is the legal age to have sex. And also when you have found someone that you love with all your heart, and the feelings are reciprocated both ways.
Take care x... (read in full...)
Do I get pregnant if I finger myself?
Q. do i get pregnat when i finger myself....
A. 24 May 2008: Are you sure you are in the right age bracket for this question?. No you can't get pregnant if you finger yourself, unless maybe if you had live sperm on the end of your finger tip that was under 10 minutes old, which i think is unlikely.
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He keeps pushing me to perform sexual acts I'm not comfortable with, can you help?
Q. I am engaged and have been with my fiance for just over a year. We have a loving relationship and things are mostly amazing. Recently tho he has been pushing me to perform sexual acts I am not comfortable doing. For example, right now he keeps ...
A. 24 May 2008: Never be pushed in to doing something that you are not comfortable doing. He should not be expecting you to carry out these acts knowing your traumatic experience 2 years ago. Maybe you should find the right time and have another word with him, tell ... (read in full...)
He doesn't answer my messages... should I dump him?
Q. i havent seen my boyfriend in a week.he doesnt answer calls or texts or get bk to me when he says he will.is he cheating and should i get rid off him ?...
A. 23 May 2008: I would give him another week, and if you still do not get any response in this time span then just leave it and walk away. Ok so he may be busy but at the end of the day how long does it take out of a hectic schedule to prepare a quick text or ... (read in full...)
Obsessed with a man who is not my husband. Is my marriage going down?
Q. Heres the deal.. i am married and obsessed with a different man i barely know think of him all the time Is there something wrong with my marriage?...
A. 20 May 2008: I think that you have got to stop this obsession with this guy and consentrate on your current marriage. Only you know if your marriage is working, so its hard to say from what you have mentioned if there is something wrong with it. Just try your ... (read in full...)
Should I make the next move?
Q. Hi again i have had one reply to my question but i still dont know what do do you think that i should talk to him . I did go there saturday night, but my mum was with me that night, because her friends cancelled on her, so she came out with m...
A. 19 May 2008: You are old enough to be making you own decisions, don't be inluenced by what others think about the situation, the only thing that matters is what you think about him. If you like him and feel that you want to make the next move then do so, like ... (read in full...)
If you haven't had sex for several years, will it hurt over again like the first time?
Q. Hello,i am a 30 year old woman and i have a question and hopefully u can answer it for me I havent had sex in about 3 years i would like to know if it would hurt all over again ...
A. 19 May 2008: I would not have thought it will hurt all over again to be honest, your hyman will have already be broken from the first time you had sex. Just take it nice and slow and maybe perform some forplay before you make love to loosen you up abit.
All t... (read in full...)
What is spooning??
Q. What is spooning, and why do people seem to make such a big deal out of it?...
A. 19 May 2008: Spooning is where two partners lay side side with the woman facing away from the male, the male penetrates the female in this position, normally with this spooning position there is normally some overlapping on legs. Not sure why people make a big ... (read in full...)
What do boys think of girls that get horney?
Q. do boys think it is good if girls get horney ? i am embarresed to ask that question. ...
A. 19 May 2008: Of course everyone is different and has different outlooks on things, but i would think that the majority of boys/men would thinks its good if a girl gets horny.
Good luck x... (read in full...)
He said he likes me, and I like him, what should I do?
Q. i meet this guy he said he like me i have feelings for him what should i do...
A. 17 May 2008: Maybe just ask him out to do something casual first, like maybe going out for a coffee and a chat and see how it goes. If that goes well arrange to go out to dinner or to the movies or something.
Hope it all goes well for you x... (read in full...)
We have dated on and off over two years, help me - I am scared of him
Q. Every time I go round to my Boyfriends he always tries to have sex with me - we broke up because he found someone else but we are now back together again and the first time we met he demanded sex again. I also think hes cheating on me as he has a ...
A. 17 May 2008: If he does all these things to you, you suspect he is cheating, and you are scared of him, then why on earth are you with him?. The likellhood is things are not going to change, so i would be inlined to take a head strong approach and walk away from ... (read in full...)
I'm head over heels but hes just got a girlfriend!
Q. I really need help, I like this boy who i met on a ski trip a couple of months ago, with a couple of friends, we did games like 21 truth and then he was asked who if he had to who to go out with etc. he chose me me n another girl both said him. I ...
A. 17 May 2008: At the moment you have got to respect the fact that he currently has a girlfriend. If you were his girlfriend you would not be happy that some other girl was trying to take him off you would you. You are still really young, you have got all the time ... (read in full...)
Why can't I ever get a boyfriend?
Q. why cant i ever get a boyfriend am i not doing somthing right? i wear gasses i have blonde hair i have paley skin ...
A. 15 May 2008: You are doing nothing wrong atal, stop thinking that its odd that you have not got a boyfriend yet, because its perfectly natural. You are so young, you have got all the time in the world for boyfriends. relax, enyoy the joys that being 10-12 ... (read in full...)
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