I want to have sex, my boyfriend only wants, to have blow jobs, how do I tell him, that I want more sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two months now and a couple of weeks ago we had sex for the first time. It was my first time ever but not his. But now it seems like all he wants to do is get blowjobs! how do i tell him without being ...
A. 30 July 2008: Hey glad it went well for you and things worked out great.
All the best x... (read in full...)
Do men find strectch marks a turn off in women?
Q. Hi, This is one for the guys: Do you find stretch marks a turn off on a woman?...
A. 30 July 2008: Personally i don't mind, if i really liked a girl and thought this was the one, i would not be turned off by a few stretch marks.
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He hasn't said he loves me the last couple times we said goodbye. Is he out of love with me?
Q. Okay I know you may think I'm a stupid school girl, but I'm a stupid school girl that'd rip her heart out if it would mean not letting him get hurt. My problem is I think I'm over re-acting, my boyfriend usually tells me he loves me when he says ...
A. 30 July 2008: I think you could get a pretty good idea if he still loves you by his body language in other areas of your relationship. Is he cold and despondant, or is he still loving and caring to you. Why don't you try talking to him and just ask him if he ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers when you're only 13?
Q. Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers? I am 13 and I have quite a few friends who are teachers, I sometimes have lunch with them, I have some of their e-mail addresses and even get hugs off them. They joke around with me and they...
A. 30 July 2008: I don't see anything wrong atal with being good friends with the teacher's, infact its a good thing. But as wiccan wonder says if it becomes anything more than friends there there would be a problem. But just joking around & having lunch with them ... (read in full...)
My ex cheated on me and we broke up, but I still can't stop think about her.
Q. I recently finished with my girlfriend who was cheating on me with another boy. She denied it all and we are still apart because of this. I have met a couple of girls since we have finished but I feel nothing for them and all i can think about is my ...
A. 30 July 2008: Over time your feelings for her will slowly diminish and you can move on, time really is the healer of all pain. Its never easy splitting up from someone espessially when you were cheated on, but things will get easier. You could look at it that you ... (read in full...)
My ex had the opportunity to break up from his GF as promised, but he did not do so! Can I trust that he will?
Q. hiya well i told my ex i still loved him and he told me he did too. but he hasn't dumped his gf yet. but he says he will.then his mate told his gf that she was dumped she asked him and said that it wasn't true. that was his perfect oppurtun...
A. 29 July 2008: I think you are right, he had the perfect opportunity to finish the relationship but he did not. I don't think its fair that you have to hang on waiting for him to finish with his girlfriend, ultimately you could be waiting for ages, thats if he has ... (read in full...)
How do I set up the right situation to get more intimate with a boy I like?
Q. Hi, basically i like this boy. I got off with him a couple of weeks ago at a party and we've been talking loads ever since. i'm meeting up with him soon -- i really want to go further (ie fingering handjob etc) and so does he. but i don't know how...
A. 28 July 2008: I agree with Uncle phil, i think you are too young to be contemplating carrying out these sort of sexual acts. Stick to kissing for the time being and leave the sexual stuff till later on in you life.
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He didn't believe me when I told him "no". How can I trust him again?
Q. I split up with my ex about 3 months ago but he wont 'give up on me' he insists that it would still work and that i should give him another chance. he is nice enough and i kind of believe him when he tells me he loves me. but i cant trust him. i t...
A. 28 July 2008: Trust is Probally one of the most important factors which hold a relationship togeher. A relationship without trust is like building a house without digging the foundations, it will sooner or later fall down. This guy betrayed your trust, you said ... (read in full...)
We're together, but he's not ready to be serious. Should I stick with him?
Q. Which do you go by, actions or words. I have been dating a guy for about 3 months. His actions towards me shows he cares, and does like me. He even says "we have a great time together" "loves what we have" and "loves the way I treat him." Well, ...
A. 28 July 2008: To be honest its quite early days, its still only been three months. It sounds like he really likes you, the way he treats you, wanting to meet your family etc. I think if he did not want anything serious out of this he would not really have been ... (read in full...)
What do I do so that I do not hurt anyone?
Q. I can't decide! there's this girl in my school that I really like, but there's this other girl who likes me, I don't wanna hurt anyone.What should I do?...
A. 27 July 2008: To be honest there is no reason why anyone should get hurt. Why don't you ask the girl out that you really like and see what happens. She may be keen on you also and accept your offer. But if she say's no then go for the girl who really likes you.
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I cheated on my boyfriend. Should I tell him?
Q. i cheated on my boyfriend, whom i have been going out with for 2 months. With someone that i kissed about a year ago, it was totally out of the blue and i really regret it now. Should i tell him or not ...?!...
A. 27 July 2008: If you really love your boyfriend and see this relationship going on for a long time then the right thing would be to lay all your cards on the table and tell him what happened. Its better than continuing the relationship with skeletons in the ... (read in full...)
Is our age gap really such a big deal if I'm 23 and she's 16?
Q. Hi, I'm a 23yo male who has just started dating a 16yo female. We both really like each other and she isn't bothered about the age gap so is it ok???...
A. 21 July 2008: At the end of the day age is only a number, how a couple feel about one another far supersedes how many numbers come between them. If you are both totally fine with this age gap then there is no reason why it should not work. Ok so the age gap ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex, my boyfriend only wants, to have blow jobs, how do I tell him, that I want more sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two months now and a couple of weeks ago we had sex for the first time. It was my first time ever but not his. But now it seems like all he wants to do is get blowjobs! how do i tell him without being ...
A. 21 July 2008: Just find a good time, preferably when you are both relaxed and express your concerns. Tell him that you feel a little neglected in the bedroom department as you feel he is getting all the pleasure. Give him a chance to change, but if after talking ... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my sister and want to have a sexual relationship, how do I seduce my sister?
Q. Me and my sister are really close and only a year apart. but i am atracted to her more than most girls. does anyone have any idea as to how i can seduce my sister to have a sexual relationship?...
A. 21 July 2008: I would be inclined to leave this at a fantasy and nothing else. It would be so so wrong if you had sex with your sister and could make things very arkward for you, your Sister and your family were they to find out. Save yourself all the aggrevation ... (read in full...)
Wanted to share this joke with everyone, does anyone find it as funny as I do?
Q. A duck walks into a bar and says to the barman, "Got any bread?" Barman says: "No" Duck says: "Got any Bread?" Barman says: "No" Duck says: "Got any Bread?" Barman says: "No, we have no bread." Duck says: "Got any bread" Barman says: "No, ...
A. 17 July 2008: Just come on line and read your joke, think its brilliant!!!... (read in full...)
I want to be a bridesmaid!
Q. When I got married my sister was my bridesmaid, now she is getting married and she has asked all her friends and half sister in law, but not me. She says because I have children I cannot be her bridesmaid because I'll be looking after them at the r...
A. 7 July 2008: Yes i can see that this would upset you, after all she was bridesmaid at your wedding. Im sure that if you were bridesmaid then there are members of your close family that would look after your children while you were doing this. Have you spoken to ... (read in full...)
I had trouble in my marriage and began chatting to someone else, he gave me emotional abuse for the following 17 months, telling me he hoped I get cancer, how do I report him?
Q. i have no idea where to start,i was married 22 years was in the middle of a divorce,srtarted chatting to this fellow online,we got really close decided we were going to meet, just befour we did, we had an argument,he said he cancelled his flight i ...
A. 6 July 2008: This is one of the things about internet dating, we never really know who we are talking too, ultimately people can dress themselves up to be whatever they want to be. This guy sounds like a real nut and you are lucky something more serious did not ... (read in full...)
A married man has said he is interested in me, and I am interested in him...
Q. Hi All A married man wants me to have an affair with him. He told me he was married straight away and that the decison was mine to make. I really liked him instantly and thats never happend to me before. I know that it's wrong but i dont think i c...
A. 6 July 2008: Personally i would steer well clear, nothing good will ever come of having an affair with a married man. He gets his cake and eat it, he gets to have you on the side, then creep back to the marital bed when he has had enough. Invariably married men ... (read in full...)
I received a mysterious phone call to say that a collegue who I have never spoken to doesn't like me...!
Q. This is not a love question but are needing advice. I travel 3 days a week on a train to my job, some times i see the same employee called simon may be twice in 2 weeks i have never spoken to him and he has never spoken to me,the other day i rece...
A. 6 July 2008: Thats really odd, maybe this collegue, simon has mentioned you and maybe said some nice things about you. It could be that that this lady that called you has got a thing for Simon and was warning you off by saying that he does not like you. ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my partner that its my time of the month??
Q. I am a very private and personal person. The dilema is that I'm not sure how to tell my lover when its that time of the month. I usually just avoid him for those few days but he's recently been away for a month and wants to be intimate but I ...
A. 1 July 2008: Just be open and honest and say what probably most woman say, and thats simply, " not tonight its my time of the month ". If he respects and loves you he will understand and respect your decision.
All the best x... (read in full...)
I just found out that he cheated on me...do we still have a chance of being together?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 14month now and we have set a date to get married wich is next year but i recently found out he cheated on me with my best friends little sister i feel so disapointed and let down do you think we still have a chance ...
A. 1 July 2008: That all depends on whether you are willing to forgive and forget, are you strong enough to brush it under the carpet and pretend it never happened. If you are then yes you still both have a chance together. If you can't forget about it then your ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over 600,000 visitors last month!
Q. Just a quickie We broke the 600,000 unique users/month (i.e. people!) last month. According to google analytics we had 638,310 visitors from June 1st to June 30th. Doesn't seem that long ago we passed the half a million mark. Thanks to all t...
A. 1 July 2008: Congratulations Andrew those stats are amazing. This is a truly fabulous site. The next step is the big million. All the best as well to all the Aunts & uncles that answer on this site and make it all possible.
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What if he has a girlfriend? Should I step back?
Q. Hi! I like a guy. He doesn't talk a lot about past or current relationships and stuff like that so, I don't know if he has a girlfriend or if he likes someone. I'm trying to find out about that. But if he does have a girlfriend, should I step ba...
A. 21 June 2008: Next time you are around him do some light flirtatious gestures, like eye contact, or some touches and see if its reciprocated atal. Also like Flirty says drop it in conversation somewhere that you are single and therer is this guy you like. If you ... (read in full...)
My female friend asked me out, but I'm not gay!
Q. i think my best mate (whose also a girl) fancies me, shes asked me out but i dont feel the same way, and im not gay. help!...
A. 21 June 2008: Really all you can do in this situation is express your honesty and tell her you are not interested in woman, that you like guys. Im sure she will understand, and probally respect you being upfront and honest with how you feel.
All the best x... (read in full...)
Can a relationship with a much older guy work?
Q. i have a very deep attraction towards a boy. and i feel he too have an attraction for me. but i am 14 and he may be 24-26.is this relation possible?...
A. 21 June 2008: Normally i would go with age does not matter, that at the end of the day age is only a number, which generaly speaking is true. But as you fall under the legal age of consent that gap between the pair of you becomes gargantuan. Personally i think ... (read in full...)
How do you go about finding someone...?
Q. How does one go about finding someone? I know I'm ready to find someone but I don't know how. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Like where can I meet people and how do I go about talking to them?...
A. 20 June 2008: Essentially i would recommend places that are not alcohol fuelled, such as bars and clubs, i know people meet in these places all the time, but people are not the same when they have been drinking.
Evening classes, college courses, or starting a ho... (read in full...)
Should I wait untill after his birthday to break up with him?
Q. I want to break up with my boyfriend. We have been together over a year. His birthday is in 5 days. Should i wait until after? What is the best thing to say? I would really like to stay friends....
A. 20 June 2008: No i would say if you want to break up with him do it as soon as possible. Ultimately the longer you leave it the harder it will get, i don't really see any great benefit to wait till after his birthday. Just be open and honest with how you feel, ... (read in full...)
Is he a player or is he just not the guy for me?
Q. hey, well i met this guy a while ago and we've just started going out,he's 18 and im 13 and we live quite far apart from each other,he treats me really well and everything, but sometimes he tells me that girls at his college come on to him sit on h...
A. 18 June 2008: Normally i would go with age gaps are not a big deal, that age is only a number, that five years is nothing, and strictly speaking thats true. However you are three years under the legal age of consent and the age gap between the pair of you becomes ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks badly of me... how do I make things right?
Q. my boyfriend and i have a good relationship till recently. theres a few things from my past that bother him. he feels as though im a slut. there were only two guys i had done things with, i never slept with anyone until him. i love him so much but ...
A. 18 June 2008: Personally i think that your boyfriend has got to get over his own insecurities, otherwise he is going to risk pushing you away.
I mean you only did things with two other guys and you never slept with anyone until him, in my book that makes you ... (read in full...)
He stares, but he never smiles. What is he trying to do?
Q. i really like this guy but i can't undrestand wether he like me too. for somedays i looked at himhe noticed it but didn't react to it. After some days i notice he has begun to stare at me. But he never smile . we both just look at eah other like an ...
A. 17 June 2008: Eye contact is probably the most powerful flirtaious tool that one can use to let someone know of our interest in them. My hunch is that he likes you, which is why you are getting the looks, but i feel he is maybe to shy to do anything about it.
F... (read in full...)
He stares, but he never smiles. What is he trying to do?
Q. i really like this guy but i can't undrestand wether he like me too. for somedays i looked at himhe noticed it but didn't react to it. After some days i notice he has begun to stare at me. But he never smile . we both just look at eah other like an ...
A. 17 June 2008: Eye contact is probably the most powerful flirtaious tool that one can use to let someone know of our interest in them. My hunch is that he likes you, which is why you are getting the looks, but i feel he is maybe to shy to do anything about it.
F... (read in full...)
What is the possibility that I can get pregnant in the pool?
Q. I had sex in the pool. We used condoms when we were in the bedroom. My question is: Does sperm die in the pool and since he was inside me, what is the percentage rate on possibilities of me getting pregnant??? I am very fertile and I get pregnant ...
A. 17 June 2008: There is as much chance that you could fall pregnant having sex in a swimming pool, than there is making love on a bed, or where ever for that matter. The penis is still inside you, penetrating you, and ejaculating inside you. Just because you were ... (read in full...)
WHy did I sleep with the ex bf?
Q. I did a stupid thing last weekend. I was visiting my old city for a fest and stayed with my ex boyfriend and slept with him. I feel so stupid now. I am disappointed that to him it really was only a one night stand. He cheated on me many many times ...
A. 17 June 2008: There is nothing wrong with you atal, far from it. Ok so you made a mistake, so what, at the end of the day we all do silly things that we are not proud of. Its good that you recognise that it was stupid thing to do, now you have the benefit of ... (read in full...)
She says the affair "just happened" what does it mean?
Q. My wife had an affair. We have tried to talk about it, and she said 'it just happened'. What does this mean. Is she putting it down to the hand of God. I've pressed her on the point but she maintains it just happened. Explain please....
A. 17 June 2008: There is really not alot you can say about what she said. All i can make out of someone saying this is two people having an affair with one thing leading to another. She knows it was wrong, so ultimately the only thing she can say to cover herself ... (read in full...)
I'm online cheating - what should I do?
Q. hey all i have a really big problem and the longer i leave it the worse its going to get. i started dating my current bf bout a yr ago, we soon fell in love and started a serious relationship i had been hurt in the past so i was warey but he mad...
A. 17 June 2008: I think that if you truly love your boyfriend, and value your relationship with him then i would stop talking to this J. Like you say the longer you leave it the harder it will get. Ultimately you have got to make a decision, its out of order going ... (read in full...)
I'm confused!! What does he mean by this??
Q. me and my boyfriend of 10 months the other day split up. we were at a party, and both had drunk way too much, he said he didnt feel for me the way he used to. i shared a bed with him and he kissed me. I said that was a friends kiss right and he w...
A. 16 June 2008: I guess it means that he has thought about the situation and would like to give it another shot, like have another go at a relationship and see how it goes. When he rang you the other day and said can we go on a break, i assume that he meant maybe ... (read in full...)
How do men or women prefer to see the pubic area on their partners??
Q. How do men or women prefer to see the pubic area on their partners: shaved, trimed or with some sort of design?...
A. 16 June 2008: You are going to get alot of varied answers to this question as every one is different. Myself i don't like to much pubic hair on woman, then again i don't like it bald, somewhere in the middle i guess, maybe a brazillian or something.
K x... (read in full...)
I just can't get over him - what should I do?!?
Q. I really love this guy, but he doesn't love me. I told him a while back how i felt, but he just told his mates who still take the mickey out of me. He then asked another girl out! But she rejected him. Anyhow, its been months and i just can't seem ...
A. 16 June 2008: I think that you were brave to step up to the plate and tell him how you felt about him, that took courage to do and good on you for that. Ok so his feelings for you were not reciprocated, but at the end of the day you tried. He sounds abit immature ... (read in full...)
I don't believe that I'm pretty, is there something wrong with me?
Q. im a slim light skinned girl,and everyone comments on how pretty i am but although i know they arent lying i myself dont believe i am.my boyfriend also says that im gorgeous and pretty but i still dont fink i am.is there somethibg wrong with me?...
A. 16 June 2008: I think that you just need to work on building your confidence and selfesteem abit. Believe people when they tell you that you are georgeous and pretty and really take it on board. Look in the mirror and really love yourself, tell yourself that you ... (read in full...)
How many people actually stay with their high school lovers?
Q. i have a very straight foward question. Basically does anybody here think that somebody my age (18)can actually keep with their bf from school? im out of school both of us are at uni....what are the chances of it happening? how many people do u know ...
A. 16 June 2008: I thinks its varies for everyone, my relationships have not really worked out. But my parents have been together since they were in their teens, the same with my grandparents too, and are still together to this day. Also my brother and his wife met ... (read in full...)
I'm fed up with waiting for someone to find me - what do I do?!??
Q. Lately, i've completley given up on guys and everything to do with them. I haven't been in a relationship since october, and i've had a few crushes which have turned out to hurt me. I've been hurt by guys so many times, I don't know what to do ...
A. 16 June 2008: I think that you should stop worrying about meeting someone and relax a little bit. So your friends have guys interested in them at the moment, so what, your time will come.
Ok so you have had a couple of relationships that have not worked out and ... (read in full...)
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