My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...
Q. I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationship...
A. 3 January 2009: Having one heck of a mom beats out having no dad or a sucky dad any day. You can do and thankfully you got a good family behind you. Keep your chin up and don't let him back in your life. He just isn't worthy.
Do what's right for you and it will ... (read in full...)
My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...
Q. I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationship...
A. 2 January 2009: I'm so sorry. I didn't know a guy can "just" sign over his rights. On the other hand, having him out of your life and their life have got to be a blessing.
However he hasn't signed over the rights to your un-born son yet? Specially since he don't... (read in full...)
My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...
Q. I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationship...
A. 1 January 2009: If you have already reminded him and given him a copy of the US, I wouldn't do anything else til the baby is born. When your son is born seek child support.
Does he doubt your daughters paternity as well? If so seek child support for the daughter... (read in full...)
Tried to get through, came back to bite me in the butt
Q. Well, I guess I was wrong. He ended up taking his wife back and it was the Saturday before X-mas eve and I found out on X-mas eve by driving by his house and seeing her car in the drive way, he says he didn't want to hurt me but not only did he hurt ...
A. 30 December 2008: I'm sorry your son got hurt. Though (and I'm sure you have heard this before) getting involved with a married man is never a good idea. Someone always gets hurt. Sometimes it's the wife other times it's the mistress. Married people who engag... (read in full...)
Are forgiving and forgetting the same thing in my case?
Q. I started living with my husband when our daughter was almost 2 years old. He would go to happy hour everynight after work at his favorite bar, he asked me not to come there unless he took me, he said it was his space, so i did what he asked. I ...
A. 30 December 2008: You need to FORGET that man. You need to forgive yourself and move on. He's a serial cheater and no matter what you do he will continue to do so.
Why so little respect for yourself? He gave you gonorrhea and Herpes? You need to move on with you... (read in full...)
I'm not ready to talk sex yet!
Q. I am 23 and have just started University. On my course and around University campus, I have met a few guys who seem friendly. We became friends and I decided to hang out with them but they seem to only want to be in contact with me because they ...
A. 30 December 2008: You already know what you want, stick by it.
I have had male friends all my life and I always been able to maintain a certain decorum when hanging out with the guys. Not that they wouldn't try and hit on me from time to time, but I think if you a... (read in full...)
How can I be more confident sexually?
Q. I have been seeing this amazing guy for about six months, he has been great with me but says he wishes I was more forward in makin moves, I have always let him do the work, lack of confidence I suppose, he wants me to go on top, how can I become ...
A. 29 December 2008: Role playing might be a way for you to go. Read up on some things you might want to try. ( Cosmo may have some ideas you would like) If you feel shy e-mail him the link of what you like. It will be a huge turn on for him. But be ready to actually ... (read in full...)
Do I have an atachment problem?
Q. I have a girlfriend and we have been dating on and off for 2 years; we break up then after 1-3 days we are back to together then it repeats after a week or 2. I am confused about this relationship. I don't know whether this has grown into and ...
A. 29 December 2008: How does she feel? Have you asked? Being together just so you aren't alone is not worth it in the long run. Sit down with her and talk - tell her how you feel, as best as you can.... (read in full...)
Being stalked..what to do?
Q. Is it ok to hit a man or get someone else to hit him if he is stalking you and threatening to harm your child? I've been to the police but they say there is nothing they can do. I'm at my wits end. Help....
A. 28 December 2008: First call the police. Secondly, keep a detailed journal of the episodes with him stalking you (Where you actually see him) date, place and time. Like Chipmonk said, don't get into any altercations with him. He is for whatever reason craving y... (read in full...)
Do I have an atachment problem?
Q. I have a girlfriend and we have been dating on and off for 2 years; we break up then after 1-3 days we are back to together then it repeats after a week or 2. I am confused about this relationship. I don't know whether this has grown into and ...
A. 28 December 2008: Put away the pot, it's not going to cure any of your problems.
When someone cheats in a relationship (or marriage) it screws over the partner. You loose faith and trust and up to a point you lose respect and love for the other person, it's nat... (read in full...)
My husband is a crossdresser, I dislike this and suspect he is gay, any advice?
Q. I need any advice I can get, I realize my situation isn't the norm so it really doesn't matter if you've had personal experience just tell me how you would handle my relationship? I'll try to make my very long story short and to the point but it m...
A. 28 December 2008: Listen to your gut. Many cross-dressers are strictly heterosexuals, but the fact that he wants to add another man to the mix sexually, hints that he is more then curious. He is looking to you, to tell him it's ok to do what he does. And from reading ... (read in full...)
He is a Flirt: how to make him stop?!
Q. I am concerned with my boyfriends flirting. I have never questioned him until now (6 months into the relationship). I recieved a forward from HIS myspace to a girl. And was one line that made me happy and several that just had me heart broken. ...
A. 28 December 2008: I don't think you can "cure" his flirting. As new as your relationship is he should be focused 100% on you, not the could-have-beens.
It might be a bit hard for you to explain to him, just how you know what he has said to this girl. Snooping... (read in full...)
Should I feel bad for being happy that I didn't end up marrying her?
Q. About 8 years ago, I dated a girl who I had known for a couple of years after her divorce. We started out as friends and dated on and off for 3 years. We broke up because I wanted to get married and have children and so on, but she was unable to ...
A. 28 December 2008: ***From what I remember, she didn't treat me well during our relationship*** That right there, is the reason why you should be happy that you aren't her husband. It doesn't mean that if you had married it would have sucked. But it means some of the ... (read in full...)
My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...
Q. I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationship...
A. 28 December 2008: Concentrate on you and the baby because that is all that matters really.
Let him know in an e-mail (again) the due date and tell him that you will request a paternity test for his sake. Don't forget to fill out child support papers. With the DNA ... (read in full...)
Why do guys act so childish, disrespectful?
Q. Ok this may seem messed up, but my whole life consists on that. I caught a girl checking out my guy. He gets so mad like red in the face throwing things and so on if a guy looks at me. But yet i let the b!tch know what i thought of her, and he told ...
A. 28 December 2008: Sounds like he's a insecure and immature guy. He isn't going to improve in his behavior towards you ,unless it actually escalate. Your relationship seems to lack the most basic parts, Love & Trust.
Now what about him do you really like?
I agree... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me understand my reactions?
Q. Ok here is my question. I realise it may offend some people but I am seeking advice for a problem like anyone else. I have feelings too and hope they count as much as the next person. My problem is with gay men, a few years ago my problem was not ...
A. 28 December 2008: I think you are a touch homophobic. Understand that it is not contagious, it's a way of life for many men and women.
We all are who we are and we love whom we love.
If it upsets you then don't look. Look up homophobic, you might learn some... (read in full...)
Is it better to masturbate or to get a girl?
Q. Hi ladies an Gents If you could help me with this, it'd be helpful. I'm 15, 16 in February, I keep thinking of sex a lot more nowadays, I masturbate a lot more too. I just want to do it! I'm still a virgin but I've had a couple of chances, I wasn'...
A. 28 December 2008: Wait. You may not find the "perfect girl", but someone you genuinely have feelings for and who returns those feeling. She might not be The One you will be with for the rest of your life, but it will feel that way :)
Wank all you want.
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Is an affair ever justified
Q. A christmas cracker: Is it ever 'right' to break your marriage vows? I still love my wife, but I don't fully understand why I feel these feelings for my mistress. I know it's wrong, but why does it feel so right? My lover paid me so much attentio...
A. 28 December 2008: Well, you are on the right track at least. So do you plan on telling your wife about the affair?
Having an affair is selfish. And stupid. It's like pissing your pants in winter & frost to get warm. It might give you a warm feeling a second o... (read in full...)
Is an affair ever justified
Q. A christmas cracker: Is it ever 'right' to break your marriage vows? I still love my wife, but I don't fully understand why I feel these feelings for my mistress. I know it's wrong, but why does it feel so right? My lover paid me so much attentio...
A. 26 December 2008: No and maybe you haven't thought if it this way, you are cheating yourself.
All the things you crave from your wife, but seemingly get from the mistress - do you give those back to your wife? You full attention ? You passion? No, you give it ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get someone new that fast?
Q. can some good looking/cute looking guys get any girl they want as a girlfriend? I know one guy he broke up with his 1st girlfriend and found a 2nd new girlfriend a month later! His friend is a bad boy i used like but rejected because I wasn't ...
A. 26 December 2008: I guess it depends on the type of relationships he cultivates. If they are somewhat casual I'm sure it's not hard to find a replacement fast. It's keeping them that will be his problem.
Don't spend more time thinking about him, concentr... (read in full...)
Forgive him?
Q. Back in July I met a man that I gave my heart to. Well things didn't go how I wanted them, I got pregnant in August, and in September, the day after I miscarried, he dumped me. He'd already been seeing someone else. It was very hard to get over, and ...
A. 26 December 2008: He treated you like dirt and cheated on you to boot and you want to forgive him?
He is going to keep treating you like a doormat if you let him.
Forgive him if you want, but don't let him back into your life.
Move on, you deserve better.... (read in full...)
How can my daughters father not make any effort to see her at xmas? Have I made the right decision cutting him out of our life?
Q. my husband and i split up two months ago due to his paranoia and abusive behaviour towards me,we have the odd contact as we share a daughter whom is 8yrs old.i have been trying to rebuild a life for myself and daughter without any financial help ...
A. 26 December 2008: You had a good reason to end your relationship with him, he's not in a good mental stage. As a mother myself, I would do what ever it takes to keep unsafe people away from my children, even if it turned out if was their daddy.
However, he might... (read in full...)
This guy wont go out with me because I'm inexperienced. What should I do?
Q. i got a huge problem theres this guy he likes me n i like him but he wont go out with me cus i havnt had sex or havnt actually kissed a guy yet what should i do??...
A. 26 December 2008: Don't go out with him. If that bothers him that much he isn't that into you. Don't ever feel pressured to do things you aren't ready for, just to please a guy. So you haven't kissed a guy, so what? You will eventually and hopefully you wi... (read in full...)
Is my friendship with this married guy going the wrong way?
Q. Well, I've been having a long distance friendship with this guy I met 2 years ago in a delivery I made at his office (US airbase). He happened to left shortly after that, but I had to contacted him after that and since then emails have been ...
A. 26 December 2008: My hubby is military too and works with a lot of women, don't bother me at all. It's about trust.He takes good care of his men ( and women) under him and that includes helping them with things that aren't really work related. But I don't feel like ... (read in full...)
Why is my friend going all weird on me?
Q. Recently me and my best friend have had an on/off friendship.. he used to fancy me and recently kissed me.. he goes weird and the next minute he wants to kiss me.. I have now met someone new but I still love him. I text him about my graduati...
A. 26 December 2008: He didn't go all weird on you. He just got his dreams of the two of you being a couple shattered, when you started dating someone else. He was pretty clearly into you. Most people don't kiss and fool around with a friend unless they want them t... (read in full...)
What to do to make him last longer in bed?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't last very long when we have sex, a few minutes max! and it's over so quick i don't get anything from it. We are still in the early stages of the relationship and i was wondering if there was anything i could do to make him last ...
A. 26 December 2008: You can order some cock rings and ask him if he's game to try it out. ( just remember don't let them stay on for longer then 30 minutes and don't get metal - they are not for beginners ).
Use 2 condoms ( one on top of the other).
Buy condoms w... (read in full...)
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