I thought getting married would fix her insecurities, but she is still acting abnormal and crazy on a daily basis. Do I let her file for divorce or stay and try to work it out?
Q. Its been a while agony aunts since I wrote in. Same or similar story, same girl. This time I really did it though. I went and married her on December 21st, 2013. Didn't take the advice, I tried, unplugged for a whopping 4 weeks, thought I was doing ...
A. 4 April 2014: So you DID live together and it was dysfunctional and abusive, so you solution is to marry her?
Then I HOPE for your sake (and for that of your child) that you IMMEDIATELY seek some kind of counseling.
We here at DC can give all the well mea... (read in full...)
I made a mistake. Now how do I choose between my pregnant wife and unborn child, and the love of my life?
Q. Between 2006 to 2009, I was dating this amazing and wonderful girl, due to the long distance of our relationship, she suggested we take a break from our relationship to finish our education, I was so hurt but I agreed. During this period, an old ...
A. 4 April 2014: I can't say it better then Auntie YouWish.
I feel sorry for your poor wife. She must feel like a TOTAL moron for having married a guy who didn't give a flying fart about her. Well, he obviously liked to have SEX with her and CREATE a child.
... (read in full...)
I thought getting married would fix her insecurities, but she is still acting abnormal and crazy on a daily basis. Do I let her file for divorce or stay and try to work it out?
Q. Its been a while agony aunts since I wrote in. Same or similar story, same girl. This time I really did it though. I went and married her on December 21st, 2013. Didn't take the advice, I tried, unplugged for a whopping 4 weeks, thought I was doing ...
A. 4 April 2014: Wow, you REALLY stepped on your dick (sorry to sounds crude here, but BOY.... WHAT were you thinking?)
Since when does a ring on the finger, some vows and spending BIG money on a girl, change her attitude 180 degrees? You shouldn't have married ... (read in full...)
Neither one of us is prepared to make the first move
Q. Dear friends, There is a colleague at work to whom I have been attracted to but I have never showed any interest in him because he,s 7 years younger than me. We went together to a business trip and we had a really good time without any explicit...
A. 4 April 2014: Oh man!
Ell GLAD you found out now.
I would minimize the contact you have with him, not tell him ANYTHING of significance, and like WiseOwlE STAY professional.
I hope you confiding in him didn't start some drama for you.... (read in full...)
Can a man control his arousal?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have decided to get married before sex. This is his decision. I am divorced on my mid thirties and he is on his mid twenties and saids to be a virgin. Well turns out he's religious aswell. When we kiss and fondle heavily , ...
A. 4 April 2014: First you need to stop blaming yourself, that isn't helping.
Secondly, I think YOU need to slow down in your dating "game" you were ready to marry this guy and had no idea about his religion/faith and how you would fit in.
I think you are so... (read in full...)
I was hospitalised for 10 days, and my LDR boyfriend sent nasty emails! Should I even bother to contact him?
Q. Hello to all on the site. I am so hurt and confused. I took ill around 10 days ago and had to be hospitalised. I am now back home and doing ok but am a bit shell shocked to discover that while I was on the ward, my boyfriend (who lives in France)...
A. 3 April 2014: As you TRIED to (yet again) give him the benefit of the doubt (which I don't blame you for, wanting to give him a chance is not something to "beat yourself" up about.)
So what's your plan now? To give him a few days to come up with somethin... (read in full...)
As I haven't heard from my boyfriend in over a month, does that mean I'm single?
Q. It's been about 4 or 5 weeks since I've spoken or even remotely heard from my boyfriend. About this time last month he asked me to pay his phone bill. I politely declined because I thought it was too early in the relationship to be asking to pay one ...
A. 2 April 2014: So you dated less then a week, call still call him BF after not hearing from him for 4/5 weeks?
Yes, I would say you are most definitely single. Why even worry about this guy? All he wanted was someone to pay his phone bill and since you didn't h... (read in full...)
I found out my boyfriend has been talking to another girl!
Q. Hey everyone so i've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year and we live together. back in February we was fighting a lot. It was every single day all day. it got to the point where we really hated each other. In march we fought a lot as ...
A. 2 April 2014: You BOTH reached out to other people because of fighting. INSTEAD OF working out whatever problems that CAUSED all this fighting. THAT is your biggest problem.
Did he "date" her or not? It's hard to say, my guess is YES - because she seemed h... (read in full...)
Has any woman here suffered from PMS and been able to 'manage' it without taking anti-depressants?
Q. Has any woman here suffered from PMS and been able to 'manage' it without taking anti-depressants? I start to feel extremely weak and depressed about 5-7 days before my period. Often I feel nausea and for about 5 days before my sleep pattern is...
A. 2 April 2014: I don't have severe PMS, but I do have PMS and the older I get, the more I "feel" it. And it IS annoying. I have found that with exercise and yoga it seems much milder.
Caffeine DOES play into it. I drink decaff the week before and during my perio... (read in full...)
I'm worried that I won't be enough for him and I panic every time I put on a little weight!
Q. I'm an ex-chubby girl who's a major nerd and kinda antisocial. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. At the beginning I thought he adored me and i felt really confident and comfortable with myself. I'd also just lost weight, which helped. A few ...
A. 2 April 2014: Well, this advice might sound easy, but it will be hard work for you (still it's doable).
YOU need to find ways to be happy about yourself and your looks. If you BF strays or look at other girls IT DOESN'T mean you are not good enough, pretty e... (read in full...)
Can we stay friends? We dated and were intimate.
Q. I met this guy online 3 months ago, We have been dating off and on during that time period. We have been intimate and that has been a major problem during our "relationship" I have called it off several times because he didn't want to be exclusively ...
A. 2 April 2014: If I were you, I'd let this one go. I'd not try and stay friends AT ALL.
In 3 SHORT months you two dated and became intimate and YOU broke up SEVERAL times due to whatever reason. THAT IS a sign - a freaking HUGE "can see from the highway"... (read in full...)
What do people think? I'm 21 and he's my 40 year old lecturer. I'm falling for him. What should I do?
Q. Ok, so i've some how developed a lot of strong feelings for my male lecturer. He's definitely hitting the 40's and I'm 21. There's something about him I love, we've talked a lot on a personal level too, we just ... click. I've pretty much fin...
A. 2 April 2014: Well, is he married? Have you EVEN considered that me might be? Or is your libido more important?
He is a teacher, you have a crush. It's PRETTY standard for young people (men and women) to develop crushes on their teachers... (read in full...)
Neither one of us is prepared to make the first move
Q. Dear friends, There is a colleague at work to whom I have been attracted to but I have never showed any interest in him because he,s 7 years younger than me. We went together to a business trip and we had a really good time without any explicit...
A. 2 April 2014: Well, FIRST he is a work colleague - which isn't the greatest thing for a romance ( I mean if it doesn't work out you still have to see him 5 days a week and on business trips and THAT can be tiresome).
Then secondly, he tells 3 OTHER people h... (read in full...)
Don't we all smell the same?
Q. Hey guys.I've got a very weird question to ask..first off,I've been friends with this UK lady for 4yrs.cyber_friendship.we've shared a lot.she recently had a baby born.and she used to tell me she doesn't bath sometimes,they I'd ask y and she'd say ...
A. 2 April 2014: No one HAS to have a bath/shower daily.
Go back a 150 years and weekly baths were the norm, go back some further and it was monthly or even seasonal.
Depending on WHAT you do (physically), how much you sweat and even your diet can alter how yo... (read in full...)
My parents are not as excited as I am. Their reaction has dampened my sense of achievement. Are Internships in Italy easy to get?
Q. Are internships easy to get? I applied for one in Italy and a few days after having the interview I got a call saying I've got it. However, my parents and a few my friends weren't as excited about it as I was, they just simply said it's great ...
A. 2 April 2014: Eh if you are excited to go and work in Italy, then BE excited. So what if it's not a one in a million chance internship? Does that really matter?
If you like the company you hired with and Italy, I think... it's a win-win.
And If you do... (read in full...)
He made one comment that upset me and now I'm not very attracted to him
Q. How is it possible that last month I was very attracted to this guy, I thought he was this incredibly good looking person and I was really excited to out with him, i was like a little a teenage girl always checking my phone and feeling really happy ...
A. 1 April 2014: I think when you first met a guy you are attracted to you get that "buzz" and you build him up to be this "perfect person" and when they show you a glimpse of something you don't like, the poor fella starts to slide down from the pedestal.
Becau... (read in full...)
I like him but he's 11 years younger then me
Q. So there's this guy I have been talking to and seeing for 8 months now. My mother says I should not date him or even think about it cause he's younger then me and that a relationship with him won't last. He say's he's interested in me, wants to be ...
A. 1 April 2014: You are 32 and your mom is telling your BF to back off? That makes you sound like a 16 year old, not a WOMAN of 32.
I agree with Auntie Oldbag!
Honestly it seems like a silly question, but what do YOU want? DO you want to get to know him bett... (read in full...)
Why do guys ask for my number but never call?
Q. Everytime i go out dancing with my friend (girl), I meet a really cool guy we have a good time, and at the end of the night they ask for my number. I give it to the ones I like, and they always end up not calling/ messaging. I'm sick and tired o...
A. 1 April 2014: My guess is that if they ask for your number, YOU will think they are interested.
Some guy (and girls too) play games when they go out. Some are not even single, yet might still ask a girl for her number, just to see if "he/she" still got it.
M... (read in full...)
Can a man control his arousal?
Q. Ok so my boyfriend and I have decided to get married before sex. This is his decision. I am divorced on my mid thirties and he is on his mid twenties and saids to be a virgin. Well turns out he's religious aswell. When we kiss and fondle heavily , ...
A. 1 April 2014: I think your best bet is to find out what the two of you have in common first. Before considering marriage and sex.
You said, and I quote:"
***Well turns out he's religious aswell. ***
Turns out? Like OOOPS I'm a Jehova's Witness, or OPPS I'm... (read in full...)
He broke things off since he was falling for me and now I might be pregnant! How do I handle this?
Q. Hey so I'm 19 and I recently lost my virginity to a 28 year old anyway we were sort of together with no labels for two and a half months. He decided to block and delete me out of his life as he was "falling" for me I know I was used worst thing is ...
A. 1 April 2014: You go down and buy a pregnancy test. If it tests positive, you tell him, if it tests negative, you go see your doctor and get a blood test done (pee on a stick are these days pretty accurate, but not infallible - blood tests are pretty much fool ... (read in full...)
I think my vulnerable friend is being taken advantage of
Q. This woman was previously abused in a very long term marriage. (slapped around then forcibly Raped on her wedding night by her husband.) He abused her in many other ways as well. He made her feel guilty and took great advantage of her. She is n...
A. 31 March 2014: Vulnerable or not, IF she is OK with the fondling, then she is OK with it.
But I don't think kissing and getting your boobs fondled is something that relates to a "friendship". Friends don't do that.
Did she discuss it with you because she wasn... (read in full...)
How did my close friend manage to keep all this to herself?
Q. I can't understand what happened on saturday night with this girl i'm friends with, i've known her three years and never seen this side of her!! She's always been a confident, talkative and happy girl. We're on the same course at university and I...
A. 31 March 2014: Though us of the female persuasion are supposed to be more "sensitive" and "emotional" then men or the average bear, it doesn't mean we wear our emotions on our sleeves.
A person who has gone through a bad break up, can either mope around and thro... (read in full...)
How much are you expected to spend on your girlfriend?
Q. Hi, I need an opinion and an advice, it's a bit long but I would really appreciate your help! First of all some details: I'm in a long relationship, we are about 6 years together (from age about 20), I love her but not sure how much she loves m...
A. 31 March 2014: I think your GF has some rather unrealistic expectations of you.
And I think she sets you up for failure in order for you to "show" how much you love her. Like she mentioned she liked flowers - so because you love her, YOU bought her flowers.... (read in full...)
Is this normal male behavior or is this just bad behavior?
Q. I am a newlywed. I have always known my hubbie is a friendly guy, especially to women but I think he has really crossed a line with his behavior this last week. He says his behavior is normal for men and I need to get over it. This is the second ...
A. 31 March 2014: A douche flirts with OTHER women to make his wife/girlfriend/partner jealous... a GENTLEMAN makes ALL the other women JEALOUS of the wife/GF/partner.
Bad behavior. Calling you names? Yea so not OK and sorry, but counseling won't help at all. He ... (read in full...)
He treats me like his girlfriend but then says he doesn't want a serious relationship. I'm not sure where I stand!
Q. I have been seeing a guy for 2 months now. When we first started seeing each other I asked him if he was just in it for sex as I don't want a relationship like that, and he told me no. I have also been honest with him and told him that I have had ...
A. 31 March 2014: When a guy says I DON'T WANT anything serious, he is being honest, but he is also "giving" himself an out, JUST in case you TRY and get too serious for his taste. Like Auntie Ciar said, it's become such a CLICHE for some men to use.
Basic... (read in full...)
I was hospitalised for 10 days, and my LDR boyfriend sent nasty emails! Should I even bother to contact him?
Q. Hello to all on the site. I am so hurt and confused. I took ill around 10 days ago and had to be hospitalised. I am now back home and doing ok but am a bit shell shocked to discover that while I was on the ward, my boyfriend (who lives in France)...
A. 31 March 2014: There is nothing wrong with your brain. Insulting you isn't your fault.
And good for you for recognizing that you don't need or deserve that kind of treatment.
The thing with LDR is that when there is distance there is also active imaginati... (read in full...)
Do you my find it appropriate for a woman to sit on your husband's lap?
Q. My husband and I were with friends last night. We were playing a party game and my husband drew a card which made him "Santa Claus." Two of our male friends sat on his lap as a joke and I also sat on my husband's lap. But then one of our friends ...
A. 31 March 2014: No I wouldn't be upset if it was part of the game and EVERYONE else sat on his lap.
If you can't handle that, you need to stop playing these games. IT was meant as fun. Not for her to seduce him.
I think your husband was talking about he... (read in full...)
Is it time for me to leave these friends behind?
Q. My closest girlfriends and I are a group of four. A couple weeks ago, girlfriend "A" messaged us asking to hang out that upcoming Saturday. "B" said OK and I asked "when and where?" However Saturday came and gone with A and B both having both seen ...
A. 31 March 2014: I would call or make arrangement over text NOT over FB. And I can tell you why, FB IS NOT WORKING for you.
And I agree if B is the only one who seems to want to met up, then WHY not met up with B? Isn't she good enough to hang out with? Why woul... (read in full...)
We've hooked up twice but have yet to make it past second base, and now I'm wondering if she's not that into me!
Q. So I'm in college as is the girl I've been very interested in for over a year. I've been working hard at getting on her good side, texting her almost every day "randomly" running into her between classes. If I had to guess it's been pretty obvious ...
A. 31 March 2014: I agree with Cindy.
She is trying to protect herself from being "used" sexually.
If you CARE about her and isn't just wanting sex, ASK her out on a date. A SOBER let's get to know one another date.
And then DATE her a while, she might be a ... (read in full...)
Fallen in love with a guy who told me he is not ready to commit from the start.
Q. This is not my first broken heart. I've had worst. I just seem to not being able to let this one go. Scenario: I work in a healthcare industry as an Administrator, met an owner of a pharmacy who is 9 years older than me. He told me from the star...
A. 30 March 2014: Walk away.
And LEARN from this. It seems to be such a common mistake women make these days. They think they can "change" a guys mind by giving sex or living them.
These guys go INTO it with the "out" already accepted. They tell you from the get... (read in full...)
Will alcohol make you have sex with someone of the same gender?
Q. Will alcohol make you have sex with someone of the same gender? Will you completely forget or not realize it happened the next day? I feel guilty a tipsy friend came on to me hard. I had zero intentions of having sex with her but it happened. I felt ...
A. 30 March 2014: I don't think she decided to try a little walk on the "gay" side because she was drunk. I think it was more of a "liquid courage" thing for her. It was something she had wanted to do for a while and she felt it was easier to do it being drunk.
... (read in full...)
After no training, and lack of support I feel I have been unfairly dismissed. I am left with absolutely nothing including no income, what can I do?
Q. Hi guys, I posted last weekend about beng made to feel like I'm thick since starting my new job, heres the link - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/since-starting-my-new-job-i-feel-like.html. Well I appreicate that everyone I spoke to in pers...
A. 30 March 2014: Yikes, I am sorry.
That is quite a blow.
Here are my thoughts though. They will go through a LOT of staff if they assume that anyone (with a uni degree) can just waltz in and take over a job. It's an unrealistic view from their perspective. Thi... (read in full...)
Her new hair colour makes a radical difference!
Q. This is probably a very unusual question to ask, but I'm just curious. My girlfriend has always had very dark black hair in the time that I've known her and we've been together. In fact, her dark features are what I found very attractive and b...
A. 30 March 2014: She is the same girl she just changed her hair color :) Good for her that she can be both a black haired beauty and a blond one.
She even went for the "right" blond that fits her complexion.
I can dye my hair red & brown and if I find the right... (read in full...)
Is he playing games or is it all in my head? Does he like me or is he being EXTREMELY nice?? IDK. Help!!
Q. Im female, 19, and a college freshman. I have an issue with teacher crushes that i never acted on until this year. My drum instructor and I didnt have much of a relationship at the beginning of this year. Lets just say he was a cocky jerk. He a...
A. 30 March 2014: He is 42? He sounds 12!
Honestly, unless he start to be inappropriate I would ignore it. And I would without a doubt NOT reply to his text is a "fast" manner. If the things he is asking about is on the FB page, refer him to the page instead ... (read in full...)
Condom wrapper and girl's scarf found in my boyfriend's car… I'm having trouble trusting him! Any advice?
Q. I'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend of a year and a half . I have been burned in the past (cheated on) and am a naturally suspicious person. Here's my dilemma. 1) I found a ripped open condom wrapper in my boyfriends car. Near the drivers...
A. 30 March 2014: I think he is finally realizing that you no longer accept his word as the gospel. That you doubt his sincerity and his honesty. His response... is to punish you. By doing something you can not be included in for his birthday.
Who goes on a cruise... (read in full...)
We moved too fast -- is this saveable?
Q. Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt ...
A. 30 March 2014: Kids are resilient. They takes thing is stride, it's always harder for us grown up to move on.
However, when you are ready to date the next guy I would wait a good 6-12 months before introducing them (your daughter and your date) to void that in ... (read in full...)
Full court press, then he backs off?
Q. I'm 21 years old and during my year at school I became friends with an individual, I'll refer to him as Frank. When I met Frank, he was very quiet and in general his demeanor was quite insecure. He was very nice and we became good friends but I ...
A. 29 March 2014: He liked the fantasy of having you as his GF. In reality he knew you weren't datable yet.
You were FRESH out of a relationship and he was recently out of one. You went on dated with him, you kissed and help hands, he thought the two of you were... (read in full...)
It's only been a week but I'm feeling a bit smothered
Q. I've recently started dating a guy. It's been a week since the first date and although I told him I want to take things slow and just date for a bit he keeps trying to get me to meet his friends and family and I think he thinks we are a couple. He ...
A. 29 March 2014: I would just be honest.
Tell him I want to met your family and friends when we have been dating a good 3-6 month (whatever suits you).
Tell him you two are in the dating phase so it's about getting to know one another. Tell him YOU NEED to move... (read in full...)
We moved too fast -- is this saveable?
Q. Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt ...
A. 29 March 2014: He knows he messed up a good thing, that is why he dropped of the radar (my guess).
And I think it's OK to miss him and to wish things had been different, but after a while you have to accept that HE wasn't IT for you. And that it DOESN'T reflect ... (read in full...)
I know if I talk to him I'll take him back ...
Q. Dear Cupid I am with my bf for almost 4 years. We never really talked about marriage as he has some commitment issues. We had our ups and downs, but for past 2 months relationship is going downhill, he often talks about his boss (lady) with whom...
A. 29 March 2014: If you two live together, now is the time to cut and move. If you share bills remove yourself (or him) from them. If you two rent and only one person is on the lease, then you need either find a new place or ask him to move.
Get support. Have a f... (read in full...)
Condom wrapper and girl's scarf found in my boyfriend's car… I'm having trouble trusting him! Any advice?
Q. I'm having trouble trusting my boyfriend of a year and a half . I have been burned in the past (cheated on) and am a naturally suspicious person. Here's my dilemma. 1) I found a ripped open condom wrapper in my boyfriends car. Near the drivers...
A. 29 March 2014: Sorry, it's just all a "little" to coincidental to me. OK, the wrapper might not have been his, the scarf might have been one he found - but the fact that he can't remember where he found and that he doesn't show you the DAY he found it - no he ... (read in full...)
We moved too fast -- is this saveable?
Q. Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt ...
A. 29 March 2014:
He doesn't seem capable of relationships.
I would tell him that you want no further contact. Because being IN contact with him DOES NOTHING for you, other then remind you that it didn't work out. And as much as you seem to blame yourself (an... (read in full...)
I was hospitalised for 10 days, and my LDR boyfriend sent nasty emails! Should I even bother to contact him?
Q. Hello to all on the site. I am so hurt and confused. I took ill around 10 days ago and had to be hospitalised. I am now back home and doing ok but am a bit shell shocked to discover that while I was on the ward, my boyfriend (who lives in France)...
A. 29 March 2014: Never accept that someone treats you badly, no matter what excuse THEY or you make up for it. (he was stressed, we haven't seen each other in a long time.. blah blah).
The first time it happens you stand up for yourself and if the excuse isn't a ... (read in full...)
I was hospitalised for 10 days, and my LDR boyfriend sent nasty emails! Should I even bother to contact him?
Q. Hello to all on the site. I am so hurt and confused. I took ill around 10 days ago and had to be hospitalised. I am now back home and doing ok but am a bit shell shocked to discover that while I was on the ward, my boyfriend (who lives in France)...
A. 26 March 2014: Yes, it possible.
Obviously you are game to him. He tries to control you by first being on the attack and then switching gears.
He will mostly think that you have forgotten all about his previous behavior and that you are grateful for his... (read in full...)
Is he playing games or is it all in my head? Does he like me or is he being EXTREMELY nice?? IDK. Help!!
Q. Im female, 19, and a college freshman. I have an issue with teacher crushes that i never acted on until this year. My drum instructor and I didnt have much of a relationship at the beginning of this year. Lets just say he was a cocky jerk. He a...
A. 24 March 2014: What does it make you?
Cautious?
If you think he could have a interest in you, I would just "play" ignorant. Like you have NO clue. My guess (again guessing is all I can do) he does this with one or two female students each year HOPING to b... (read in full...)
Is he playing games or is it all in my head? Does he like me or is he being EXTREMELY nice?? IDK. Help!!
Q. Im female, 19, and a college freshman. I have an issue with teacher crushes that i never acted on until this year. My drum instructor and I didnt have much of a relationship at the beginning of this year. Lets just say he was a cocky jerk. He a...
A. 24 March 2014: Yikes... My guess.... Your drum teacher is one of those ETERNAL teenagers. The ones who think being a GROWN UP is something evil and bad. So he tries to ACT like he is the coolest guy on the planet because he ACTUALLY want to be worshiped by his ... (read in full...)
I was hospitalised for 10 days, and my LDR boyfriend sent nasty emails! Should I even bother to contact him?
Q. Hello to all on the site. I am so hurt and confused. I took ill around 10 days ago and had to be hospitalised. I am now back home and doing ok but am a bit shell shocked to discover that while I was on the ward, my boyfriend (who lives in France)...
A. 20 March 2014: What do you do?
YOU get on your knees and THANK the stars that you are now better and that you had to go into the hospital because NOW you can CLEARLY see him for WHO he is. He doesn't trust you. AT ALL.
Then LET is e-mails go into the spam/tr... (read in full...)
We moved too fast -- is this saveable?
Q. Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt ...
A. 10 February 2014: I get that you nagged about the drinking, I mean what MOTHER wouldn't?
I also get that you feel responsible for what happened and maybe you had part blame in it, but you DIDN'T make him depressed, you DIDN'T make him turn to drinking. My guess is... (read in full...)
We moved too fast -- is this saveable?
Q. Rewind to a year and a half ago. I met a really great man when I went out with a friend who was in town. I am a teacher and am in the process of adopting my foster daughter who I have had since birth. Before I met him, we were happy and I felt ...
A. 10 February 2014: I don't think it was too fast. He KNEW you had a child, I ASSUME he had seem your place and knew how little it was. He JUST wasn't able to commit to the whole "family" thing outside of occasionally.
Do I think he could do better if you tried ag... (read in full...)
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