I need some Agony Aunts to keep me in their prayers!
Q. Hi, I'm one of your agony aunts, but this time I need your help. I would just ask you all send me love, strength and support for what I'm about to go through. My husband's viza has not been granted, and we have to go for interview next week. You ...
A. 29 September 2008: Wonderful news, future's so bright you'll both need shades!... (read in full...)
How can I tease my boyfriend?
Q. i need your help on this one, how can i tease my bf, i am new at this...and at this, he always finds a way to tease me by pulling my hair or pinching me slightly, but i can never seem to do so myself, i mean i return a pinch,, but what more else can ...
A. 9 September 2008: I don't know about the other aunts but pulling my hair or pinching me sure doesn't make me "feel sexual", just pisses me off. Try rubbing the inside of his thigh.... (read in full...)
Not bleeding after first time sex, is this normal?
Q. Having sex for the first time and not bleeding is that normal????...
A. 9 September 2008: Absolutely, totally normal.... (read in full...)
Hubby complains that I am not active during sex! What can I do?
Q. My husband of 5 years and I have a good sex life. BUT, he complains that i don't ever do anything during sex. He just gives me my oral and he gets on top then we're done. Honestly, I feel like I put some motion in it, but, he says "i love it, I just ...
A. 9 September 2008: How about you jump on top next time! Gives a whole other perspective on things. Have fun!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend just wants to be friends now. How do I get her back?
Q. i had a girlfreind who just wants to be freinds now. i wana be more then that what should i do ...
A. 9 September 2008: You should settle on being her friend, it's better than nothing. However most guys your age would prefer a friend that can throw a football.... (read in full...)
I need tips on how to make friends. I don't want to be friendless my whole life!
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and I was wondering how to make friends, because I don't have any and I really don't know how to make some, and I don't want to be friendless all my life and I don't know how to go about it. Any tips? Thank you xxx...
A. 8 September 2008: Lots and lots of clubs and school activities, they are the best for meeting new people and making friends with the added bonus of looking good on college applications and resumes.... (read in full...)
Is he telling the truth? Should I trust him? He refused to let me see the cell phone bill!
Q. My husband of 5 years had an affair while I was out of the country for 2 weeks. He said it was over(after 3months). I asked to see the cell phone bill. He refused and I needed to trust him. He gets so angry when I ask. Is he telling me the truth. ...
A. 8 September 2008: HE gets angry at YOU? I agree with Tish, he should willing to cough up anything that would show that he has nothing to hide. Very fishy.... (read in full...)
How to survive an affair? I still feel betrayed and don't know what to do.
Q. How to survive an affair? My husband and I have been married for 16 years. About one year ago, after a very tough period together, I found out he was having an affair and had been for atleast a year with a woman who had worked for him previous...
A. 8 September 2008: Of course you feel betrayed...YOU WERE. Sure he's sorry, sorry he's was caught, he didn't fess up on his own he was turned in. Maybe a marriage counselor can help you with this awful situation. What was he doing during the 5 month separation while ... (read in full...)
I slept with a former classmate and regret it, and now I haven't heard from him. Do I have a chance or have I blown it?
Q. A month ago I attended my 20th high school reunion and hooked-up with one of my former classmates. Unfortunately, I called him later that night because we were kind of friends - as we had been sporadically emailing each other before the reunion - ...
A. 8 September 2008: I still wouldn't contact him. He'll call if he is interested. I think if you do you'll really blow it if you haven't already. Maybe he just needs some time, you can only hope.... (read in full...)
Lacking passion in my relationship!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, and I love him very much..But I am not in love with him, and I never was, since the beginning...but we just click on every level except physical attraction and passion, so the relationship grew..I am just ...
A. 8 September 2008: Sounds like more of a close friendship than a romantic relationship. Especially since you have never felt passionate towards him from the get go. Hopefully after the break up you can be able to keep the friendship but he may feel differently. Time ... (read in full...)
Breaking up with a long time lover - did you keep in touch as friends? How did you manage?
Q. To all those out there. I have a question about being friends after a breakup. I have just split from a long term lover, because we could not be together due to external circumstances. We were a fantastic match and broke amicably due to this ...
A. 8 September 2008: What exactly were these "external circumstances"? He wasn't married was he?... (read in full...)
I slept with a former classmate and regret it, and now I haven't heard from him. Do I have a chance or have I blown it?
Q. A month ago I attended my 20th high school reunion and hooked-up with one of my former classmates. Unfortunately, I called him later that night because we were kind of friends - as we had been sporadically emailing each other before the reunion - ...
A. 8 September 2008: If it's only about a phone call and a couple texts then I guess the ball is in his court and he'll get back to you if he is interested. I wouldn't contact him again or you'll come across as needy and desperate. Wait and see.... (read in full...)
Does it sound like he is in a serious relationship?
Q. if a man is using adultfinder a site in which the people on it are looking for sexual encounters does it sound like he is in a serious relationship or is a man probably single? ps he is not my boyfreind....
A. 8 September 2008: Ahhh the Internet...where anybody can be anything. So fascinating, so entertaining, so dangerous...... (read in full...)
I slept with a former classmate and regret it, and now I haven't heard from him. Do I have a chance or have I blown it?
Q. A month ago I attended my 20th high school reunion and hooked-up with one of my former classmates. Unfortunately, I called him later that night because we were kind of friends - as we had been sporadically emailing each other before the reunion - ...
A. 8 September 2008: The title says you slept with him but your post just mentions a phone call, which is it? Makes a difference.... (read in full...)
Why after I told him we should only stay friends because I saw him with no interest did he go back to flirting?
Q. Met this guy went on a great date talked about two to three times a week then the phone calls and texts just stop (we were seeing eachother for a couple of months). After a week of no contact i called it off and he said it would be a shame if we ...
A. 8 September 2008: Well I guess he realized that he might lose you and decided he best straighten up and fly right. If he starts getting flakey again then dump him for real.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to change his mind?
Q. The man i'm dating although he is caring for me and he shows his feelings he constantly refuses that there will be a serious commitment for us in the future. When we discuss this subject always he refuses a future for us. Is there a possibility to ...
A. 8 September 2008: Well at least he is honest with you. If you enjoy dating him, then do it. But if you are looking for a committed relationship, I wouldn't date him exclusively, date other men as well, keep all your options open.... (read in full...)
He doesn't want kids - EVER!
Q. I'm only 20 years old and I don't plan on having children any time soon as I want a career and to focus on myself for the next ten or fifteen years. I'm getting married to an old friend who I've cared very much about for years now and we tragical...
A. 8 September 2008: Do not get married on the hopes he'll change his mind about children. You will look back on your marriage as wasted years and the bitterness will be very hard to swallow. Postpone the marriage until you have truely worked this issue out.... (read in full...)
Faced with the dilemma of abandoning my 30 year marriage or losing the lost (and found) love I yearned for so much!
Q. I love my lover so much but find it so difficult to leave my wife and daughter. Two years ago, over 30 years on, the love of my life contacted me. I always felt it only was a matter of time before we were in touch again. Since then we have formed a...
A. 5 September 2008: Don't you think that after 30 years your wife deserves to have the truth? ... (read in full...)
Do men who don't watch porn exist or should I give up and stay single?...
Q. when I commit to a special man I hope to be his only and for him to get his sexual arousal from my body alone...is this too much to ask.....I cant imagine ever needing to look at another mans body for arousal once commited....and I cant imagine ever ...
A. 5 September 2008: They do exist but I'll bet you'll have a devil of a time finding one. I guess if this is such a huge issue for you, you'd best get used to being single.... (read in full...)
Does he want a baby with me or was this an accident?
Q. I need help. I have a sex buddy who Im falling in love with, and we usually use condoms, but has gradually changed. Now we don't use condoms and occassionally he doesn't "pull out". Last night he didn't pull out. I'm wondering does he want a baby by ...
A. 4 September 2008: Why would you want to have a baby by a guy who doesn't care enough about you to dump his girlfriend for you?... (read in full...)
Does he want a baby with me or was this an accident?
Q. I need help. I have a sex buddy who Im falling in love with, and we usually use condoms, but has gradually changed. Now we don't use condoms and occassionally he doesn't "pull out". Last night he didn't pull out. I'm wondering does he want a baby by ...
A. 4 September 2008: You are playing with fire by not being on the pill, having unprotected sex, and on top of that, with a guy who's already taken. Yikes. Unplanned pregnancy, STD's, and heartbreak all come to mind. What on earth are you thinking?... (read in full...)
Is it good for the relationship if they hang out every day?
Q. should a boyfriend and a girlfriend hang out everyday is it good for there replashionship????...
A. 4 September 2008: It can be dangerous as far as friendships go. If the couple excludes their friends and only hang out together then when and if the day comes when they break up, they will have no support group to fall back on. Friends are so very important and ... (read in full...)
How can I get my 20 month old son to nap during the day?
Q. Hello i wonder if anyne can give me some advice. Our son is 20 months old and up until about a week ago he had a nap from 11:00 in the morning until 12:00, was then up for the rest of the day until 6:30 when he would go to bed and wakes up at about ...
A. 3 September 2008: Maybe you could give him some fresh air and exercise just before lunch time, then feed him and then lie down with him and tell a nice quiet story and hopefully he'll drift off for you. I did everything I could to make sure my kids had a nap in the ... (read in full...)
It was my birthday a couple of weeks ago, and he didn't even get me a card. How do I breach this subject maturely?
Q. Ok, so I'd like some advice on how to sit down and talk to my boyfriend about his recent behaviour... It was my birthday a couple of weeks ago, and he didn't even get me a card. I questioned him about this, calmly, and all he had to say was that ...
A. 3 September 2008: When his birthday comes around buy a really nice present....for yourself. That ought to learn him!... (read in full...)
How could she be so careless with birth control?
Q. Hi, im 25 and my girlfirend 23. i am a college student with one more year to go. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. I took her virginity and we never use condoms. at first we used pull-out method, but after a few pregnancy scares, ...
A. 3 September 2008: Yea I get to use the line I stole...NO BALLOON NO PARTY. You're a big boy, take responsibility for your own actions.... (read in full...)
I always hear women should understand men's preference for porn. But no one seems to expect men to understand women's feelings on the matter?
Q. a quick question about porn From the many questions I read on here many women are uncomfortable with their partners using porn. I know how they feel because personally it makes me feel inadequate and hurt that my husband wants to look at other ...
A. 3 September 2008: Let's all just blame Bill Gates and move on, shall we?... (read in full...)
Is Sarah Palin a suitable candidate for VP?
Q. [Part of a DearCupid series on the forthcoming Nov 08 presidential election] Sarah Palin, John McCain's choice for vice-president, is a strict anti-abortionist, pro-guns and against sex-education. Her 17 year old daughter is now pregnant. ...
A. 3 September 2008: Exactly.... (read in full...)
Is Sarah Palin a suitable candidate for VP?
Q. [Part of a DearCupid series on the forthcoming Nov 08 presidential election] Sarah Palin, John McCain's choice for vice-president, is a strict anti-abortionist, pro-guns and against sex-education. Her 17 year old daughter is now pregnant. ...
A. 3 September 2008: More like "Hamburg".... (read in full...)
I asked him what we were and of course I wasn't surprised when he said friends with benefits. I want more and don't know what to do.
Q. About a year and a half ago I got out of a marriage that lasted less than a year with a guy I was with for 5 years beforehand. Just after a few months of single status I was at the club with a friend when I ran into this guy that I used to go to ...
A. 3 September 2008: I'd listen to my head on this one. If you allow your heart to rule the roost I'm afraid you'll just end up even more heartbroken. Don't waste anymore of your time on this guy. Pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Good luck, I'm sure the right guy ... (read in full...)
Is Sarah Palin a suitable candidate for VP?
Q. [Part of a DearCupid series on the forthcoming Nov 08 presidential election] Sarah Palin, John McCain's choice for vice-president, is a strict anti-abortionist, pro-guns and against sex-education. Her 17 year old daughter is now pregnant. ...
A. 3 September 2008: I heard she was in some kind of beauty pageant.... (read in full...)
I am 16 and madly in love with a married woman! She also told me she's pregnant with my child...
Q. I am a 16 year old student from central India. I am having sex for the last 2 months with a 24 year old married lady who is my neighbour. She is very pretty and looks as if in teens.Her husband 28 is a very rich man most of the days on business ...
A. 3 September 2008: Don't worry about it affecting your growth or studies, but rather your HEALTH when her husband finds out.... (read in full...)
I need some Agony Aunts to keep me in their prayers!
Q. Hi, I'm one of your agony aunts, but this time I need your help. I would just ask you all send me love, strength and support for what I'm about to go through. My husband's viza has not been granted, and we have to go for interview next week. You ...
A. 3 September 2008: You got it chickie! Chin up!... (read in full...)
Is Sarah Palin a suitable candidate for VP?
Q. [Part of a DearCupid series on the forthcoming Nov 08 presidential election] Sarah Palin, John McCain's choice for vice-president, is a strict anti-abortionist, pro-guns and against sex-education. Her 17 year old daughter is now pregnant. ...
A. 2 September 2008: I'm with you Trouble, and after I cast my votes all over the board, I usually go home and get tight.... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?
Q. should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????...
A. 2 September 2008: Well I for one have 56 years of experience under my belt, not with cheating mind you, but I can spot bad behavior when I see it. You are going to be the one who loses this battle. If he was ever going to leave his girlfriend, he would have already. ... (read in full...)
The guy who broke my heart came back into my life. Should I take him back?
Q. i went out with a guy last year and really fell for him..but he ended up hurting me real badly..i never forgot him.. and i still love him.. the thing is that he came back into my life again.. asking for a second chance and telling me that he has c...
A. 2 September 2008: It's up to you whether you want to risk heartbreak again on the chance that what he says is true. You could give it a try and see how things go, because this time you are forewarned. You don't say what it was that he did before to hurt you but if ... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend tell me I was too young to get married?
Q. I don't know where this question will fit in. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything seems to be going pretty good. He seems very happy, I'm very happy. I'm not expecting a marriage proposal anytime soon, he's looking ...
A. 2 September 2008: All you can do is give this some time. If he loses his interest then you'll know it's not meant to be. Marriage is a pretty damn serious step and nobody but the foolish rush into it. Just relax and enjoy your time together.... (read in full...)
I'm incredibly afraid of my abusive husband...
Q. I have a problem i'm 22 years old and have been married for over 2 year. I have recently become awary of my husband abusive nature. We fight alot and i dont know what to do i have told my family and they are trying to help but it seem to be getting ...
A. 2 September 2008: Sorry to say but this kind of situation usually gets worse not better if the abuser shows no responsibility for his actions. He'll soon or later start using his fists. I'm afraid you need to take the baby and leave. Is there family you could stay ... (read in full...)
Why am I so terrified of actually having a baby?
Q. hi, i'm 27 years old and since always i've been absolutely terrified of having a baby, and really quite scared of being pregnant- and nobody understands the way i feel. i don't know when it started, but i know that my birth was tramatic for my ...
A. 2 September 2008: Ladies, ladies, it's not like your body wasn't designed properly for all this! The baby doesn't come ripping and tearing out of you like some alien. However this poster's fears are quite off the board and should definitely be addressed by a ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he say "I love you" in public, only privately? Why does he not invite me to visit his family?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about one year two months, now; he has been using the "L" word for a while, now. I can't remember who started it. At first, it was, "you know I love you". Since he would always say such a thing, I stopped ...
A. 2 September 2008: My husband never says announces he loves me in a public place. It would embarrass both of us. The most public show of affection is to walk arm in arm. So I don't think that is any big deal for you to worry about. As far as the family thing, have you ... (read in full...)
I'm newlywed and thinking to confront my husband about an inappropriate mail sent to his ex?
Q. I am a newlywed. My husband had left his personal email account open last night, and i read a recent email from an ex girlfriend og his from years ago who he never slept with. He said in the email that he had really wanted to sleep with her, ...
A. 2 September 2008: Excellent advice from Annalisa! I'd follow it to the letter if I were you.... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?
Q. should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????...
A. 2 September 2008: Look at my answer to your other question you posted about your boyfriend with his erectile problem. You are being played like a violin, I hope you know it.... (read in full...)
What should I say about his lack of wood?
Q. my friend shared with me that when he attempts to have sex with his girlfriend of 15 years, he doesn't get an erection. What should I say???...
A. 2 September 2008: Cheating is cheating no matter how you sugar coat it. I feel very sorry for his girlfriend.... (read in full...)
What should I say about his lack of wood?
Q. my friend shared with me that when he attempts to have sex with his girlfriend of 15 years, he doesn't get an erection. What should I say???...
A. 2 September 2008: Yeah the the married guys claim their wives are more like roomates and they sleep on the couch. It's all a crock don't buy it. If he was really into you (other than the sexually into you) he wouldn't have to worry about his penis problems with his ... (read in full...)
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