I love a married man! I don't expect him to leave his wife, but I suffer so much when not being with him, what can I do??
Q. hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have ben seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...
A. 8 December 2008: I just can't believe how many of these homewreckers say nothing about the pain they are causing the innocent wives and children involved in their trysts with married men! All they talk about is their own pain which they have brought on themselves. ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live together.
Q. Hi, I've been friends with this girl for 5 months who has a boyfriend. She moved from the east coast out here in the West to be with him for his new job. She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live togethe...
A. 25 November 2008: Does her boyfriend know about you? If she told him about you then maybe he told her never to speak to you again or they are finished and she's listening to him. But if he doesn't know about you I guess she has stopped communication with you on her ... (read in full...)
I love a married man! I don't expect him to leave his wife, but I suffer so much when not being with him, what can I do??
Q. hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have ben seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...
A. 24 November 2008: You are never going to find happiness with this guy, just misery, and I think you know it. I also think you know exactly what you need to do, for yourself and for his family. He may be truthful to you but he certainly is behaving despicably towards ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm pregnant, I got a positive and a negative result! Which one is correct??
Q. PLEASE READ I NEED HELP well im 18 and ive missed my period by nearly a week.. i did a pregnancy test today and one of them was positive and the other one i did was negative so which one is it can i tell i havent had unprotected sex but im n...
A. 24 November 2008: Get a third one and do two out of three. Or you can have your doctor run the test for you. It just may be too early to tell.... (read in full...)
Can a threesome really rekindle lost passion?
Q. Can a threesome really rekindle lost passion? Even if one of the partners isn't into that kinda thing? I've been with my boyfriend for a while and in order to get things up again, he wants a threesome. I'm not into that and of course, he found...
A. 24 November 2008: Whatever you do, DON'T do the threesome. Threesomes can
create problems even when all parties are gung-ho on the idea. Only a few relationships can handle them. Besides if it will take a threesome "in order to get things up again" I think your rela... (read in full...)
Will my true feelings interfere with us being "friends with benefits"?
Q. Just recently my best friend had suggested we have a friends with benefits with her and I accepted. We're both 16 and know about safe sex and everything but there's one problem, I've always liked her more than just a friend but never told her.... ...
A. 24 November 2008: I think this is a very bad idea, but if you go ahead with it just make sure you wear a condom, sounds like she's pretty damn easy and you don't want any "gifts" she may give you. Friends with benefits is just a nice sounding way to say fuck buddies ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a 13 yr old to date a 19 yr old?
Q. Is it wrong for a 13yo girl to be dating a 19yo guy that lives over seas? I love him to death, but i want other peoples point of view. No my parents dont know about him-im not supposed to date. I have been with some one that was 14....it didnt work ...
A. 24 November 2008: As long as he STAYS overseas then "date" all you want. He's probably a potbellied 42 year old pervert anyway.... (read in full...)
I know you will give me the best suggestion.
Q. Helloooooo dear Auntyzeeeeeeeeee Hope you are in best of your health and wealth, so that to answer my question. Naaw the story begainzzz like this. I was having an relationship with a married women for 4 years. We have seen many ups and downs to...
A. 21 November 2008: Tell her husband what you just told us, I'll bet he'll settled it down for you (whatever "it" is).... (read in full...)
We've broken up because we're different religions and she wants me to change...
Q. hello.._ im win.im a half japanese phil. im from japan.. im not good speaking english sorry if i will miss_ i need help;_; i have a problem right now.. and i dont know what to do... im very very sad... because of my girlfriend.. today we...
A. 21 November 2008: There is a huge difference between your religion and her religion. That can be a real obstacle in any relationship even when both people are willing to try to work it out. Since she isn't even willing to do that I think your relationship is doomed, ... (read in full...)
Is there any chance for us in the future?
Q. I am a girl of 17 and I have a brother in law who is 8 years elder to me, he really likes me and I too like him, is the age difference between us too big. By the time he finishes medicine and settles down as a doctor he would be around 30 and I ...
A. 21 November 2008: You are being ridiculous...what does your sister say about this!?... (read in full...)
Would you call it cheating on his partner when we are only phoning?
Q. Guys:- Why does a guy say he'll ring on a certain day or time and then not? I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore(who has a partner who he says he doesn't get along with) so he only rings me as and when. For obvious reasons I can't re...
A. 21 November 2008: patsy = sucker, gutton for punishment... (read in full...)
Married spiritually but not legally and his ex won't leave!
Q. Hey everyone, this may make me sound like a bad person, but belive me I'm not! I have dated a married man for about 5 years on and off, he was having trouble with his marriage as he said but it was true and the last 2 years he had seperated from his ...
A. 20 November 2008: The only thing I would change about my first reply is about the children. It sounds like a cat is a better mother than she is. However her wrath towards you is very understandable and you brought upon yourself by hooking up with a married man. I'd ... (read in full...)
Would you call it cheating on his partner when we are only phoning?
Q. Guys:- Why does a guy say he'll ring on a certain day or time and then not? I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore(who has a partner who he says he doesn't get along with) so he only rings me as and when. For obvious reasons I can't re...
A. 20 November 2008: I don't see why that would change anything except that it makes you even more of a patsy.... (read in full...)
Should I believe him that he has finally given her up and he will never cheat on me again?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend (now husband) for 6 years, there were always signs that he was cheating but, he always had and answer for everything. I caught him with lipstick on his underwear last April, we fought for several weeks, he then proposed ...
A. 20 November 2008: Oh he'll cheat on you again, you can bet the farm on that one.... (read in full...)
Is it possible for a man to not like sex?
Q. I'm confused. I started things a little late, but since I've reached 30, I've been with three women one time each. The first time, even though the girl I was with was attractive, I didn't feel turned on. I couldn't finish, and the whole ...
A. 20 November 2008: Maybe nothing. If you are sure you are into women and not men, you just may not like sex. If i were you I'd get checked out physically and you want to tell your doctor what you just told us. ... (read in full...)
Married spiritually but not legally and his ex won't leave!
Q. Hey everyone, this may make me sound like a bad person, but belive me I'm not! I have dated a married man for about 5 years on and off, he was having trouble with his marriage as he said but it was true and the last 2 years he had seperated from his ...
A. 20 November 2008: If he really wanted to divorce his wife then he would do it, and she couldn't stop him. I don't blame her for making things difficult, he cheated on her with YOU. I'm surprised she even allowed her children to be around you at all, let alone for 4 ... (read in full...)
How do I get over this teacher of mine?
Q. I've just transfered to a new school, because my school closed down. I am still very upset about it, and there's not a day that goes by when I am dressing in my uniform thinking about what school I am going to, and how the uniform I'm wearing isn't ...
A. 20 November 2008: Well it really sounds like you are enjoying your crushes so I guess you aren't truly looking for any advice are you?... (read in full...)
Would you call it cheating on his partner when we are only phoning?
Q. Guys:- Why does a guy say he'll ring on a certain day or time and then not? I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore(who has a partner who he says he doesn't get along with) so he only rings me as and when. For obvious reasons I can't re...
A. 19 November 2008: Then yes I would consider what you are doing is cheating, and you are going to get the raw deal I'm afraid. And it's a big no duh on whether you can trust him.... (read in full...)
Would you call it cheating on his partner when we are only phoning?
Q. Guys:- Why does a guy say he'll ring on a certain day or time and then not? I am keeping in touch with a guy I adore(who has a partner who he says he doesn't get along with) so he only rings me as and when. For obvious reasons I can't re...
A. 19 November 2008: What's in this for you? You just like chatting on the phone?... (read in full...)
My hubby is swapping nude pictures with his friend... help!
Q. I was checking our email the other day and was surprised to receive this message: "Thank you for the nude pictures. I was glad you enjoyed my nude pictures, I'll send you some more emails of them next week. You'll cum over these. You are HOT!! ...
A. 19 November 2008: You posted this yesterday and got many responses...what's up with the repost?... (read in full...)
Is it morally wrong that part of my attraction to him is the lifestyle he can provide me with?
Q. A few months ago met a man who seems to be very attracted to me.. And I'm considering dating him. The problem is that I have trouble believing that he is really interested in me. He is a partner in an oil trading company, rich, good-looking, and ...
A. 19 November 2008: It is just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is with a poor man. I say go for it and see what develops.... (read in full...)
How do I get over this teacher of mine?
Q. I've just transfered to a new school, because my school closed down. I am still very upset about it, and there's not a day that goes by when I am dressing in my uniform thinking about what school I am going to, and how the uniform I'm wearing isn't ...
A. 19 November 2008: So you are pretty much going from one crush to another. I think as your crush on your new teacher grows the one on your former teacher will dissipate. Perhaps if you get involved at your new school you will meet a guy you can actually have a ... (read in full...)
After sports showering shows guys with bigger packages than me, am I normal?
Q. I'll just cut to the chase.. I have a small penis erect i think its roughly 3-4 inches. Is the small or around average. Im 16 so im still growing but i'm a bit concerned. This is gonna sound really perverted but I play rugby so we shower together ...
A. 19 November 2008: It's the same guy, trust me. I've been on this site for years and this young man has posted this question for over a year now. He gets constant reassurance but apparently it doesn't help, either that or he really isn't looking for it, which I think ... (read in full...)
Did I ruin it for good?
Q. I am extremely confused.. My girlfriend and I met in high school and have been dating since senior year. We have now been dating for over 3 years and are both in our third years of college, but go to different colleges miles away. I visit her almost ...
A. 19 November 2008: Rebuilding broken trust is a long road. And you're right there is no cut and dried time frame. If she is a very forgiving person it will be shorter. I guess you'll just have to plug along, one day at a time. I know you'd like to be able to circle a ... (read in full...)
After sports showering shows guys with bigger packages than me, am I normal?
Q. I'll just cut to the chase.. I have a small penis erect i think its roughly 3-4 inches. Is the small or around average. Im 16 so im still growing but i'm a bit concerned. This is gonna sound really perverted but I play rugby so we shower together ...
A. 18 November 2008: Jeese Louise Dude, just how many ways and variations are you going to use to keep posting this question? And don't send me anymore private messages either. It's been the better part of a year that you been told you are perfectly normal. I think you ... (read in full...)
My husband's friend keeps sending him nude pictures and it upsets me!
Q. Hey there, My husband's friend keeps sending him nude pictures on his email. I talked to him about how it makes me feel but he is still looking at these and tells me "he's just a guy" how do I make him stop? ...
A. 18 November 2008: What are you saying, Is this friend sending porn of unknown women to your husband or does your husband actually know the women in the pictures? Huge difference. Is the friend a man or woman?... (read in full...)
Did I ruin it for good?
Q. I am extremely confused.. My girlfriend and I met in high school and have been dating since senior year. We have now been dating for over 3 years and are both in our third years of college, but go to different colleges miles away. I visit her almost ...
A. 18 November 2008: Well best of luck, I can tell you really love her and that is a very good motivator.... (read in full...)
Does his e-wink ; ) mean anything?
Q. I sent a message to someone i like on a social networking site, and told him i thought he was attractive and funny, and he replied saying thanks, kiddo and put a wink symbol like this - ; ). what do you think his response means ?....
A. 18 November 2008: It means he appreciated the fact that you think he is attractive and funny. Be careful not to read anything more into it, I think if he was interested he would have written more.... (read in full...)
Men: why do you ask about a woman's past if you're just going to judge her for it?
Q. Men: Why do you ask about a woman's sexual past if you are going to (intentionally or otherwise) judge her for it and hold it against her? ...even when she has never been unfaithful, she has always been honest with you, she is with you and doesn't ...
A. 18 November 2008: Good question, I'm not a guy but I just wanted to add my two cents. I think the military has the right idea: "Don't ask and don't tell".... (read in full...)
My husband's friend keeps sending him nude pictures and it upsets me!
Q. Hey there, My husband's friend keeps sending him nude pictures on his email. I talked to him about how it makes me feel but he is still looking at these and tells me "he's just a guy" how do I make him stop? ...
A. 18 November 2008: Tell him to knock this crap off immediately, whether it's a man or a woman sending these pictures it's way out of line. If he refuses tell him to pack his bags.... (read in full...)
I don't stand out or look special on my wedding pictures and I'm upset about it.
Q. Would appreciate views and advice. I have come back from honeymoon and have been looking at my wedding photos. My wedding day was a bit mixed and not easy going at times due to family pressures and nasty comments. However I have become upset ...
A. 18 November 2008: I forgot, make sure you pick a really putrid color for that mother in law. ... (read in full...)
I don't stand out or look special on my wedding pictures and I'm upset about it.
Q. Would appreciate views and advice. I have come back from honeymoon and have been looking at my wedding photos. My wedding day was a bit mixed and not easy going at times due to family pressures and nasty comments. However I have become upset ...
A. 18 November 2008: Go to a photographer and have him digitally change everybodies' outfits to a different color. Can be done. While in the past it was kind of a social rule to never wear white to a wedding, these days not so much.... (read in full...)
Does he love me? Will he ever?
Q. Hey guys, I have been in a relationship for almost 7 months now. before I entered this relationship I was dealing with rejection from another guy and was kind of depressed so I was trying to focus on school and stuff. So this guy I am with came ...
A. 18 November 2008: At your age some guys just like the pursuit rather than a committed relationship. Relax and whatever you do NEVER come across as clingy and dependant. Do as he says, be together and have some fun, try to not take things so seriously. If your ... (read in full...)
Lies about email address and talking with her
Q. Help my I have been married 31 years next month to the same man. He worked over sea for 7 years so we could get ahead . We have a cute 5 year old grandson. I would send him pictures all the time of the family through email. This women Named Julie ...
A. 18 November 2008: Have you seen the content of any of these emails?... (read in full...)
Does size matter?? I want to be a porn star!
Q. Hey everybody, Im a 16 year old,latino And im measuring at 7 1/4 Umm well I have a lot of questions to ask well I want to know if im "big" enough to be in porn? Also my penis has been growing rapidly I was a 5 1/2 just 6 months ago is this normal?...
A. 18 November 2008: Your parents must be so proud.... (read in full...)
Did I ruin it for good?
Q. I am extremely confused.. My girlfriend and I met in high school and have been dating since senior year. We have now been dating for over 3 years and are both in our third years of college, but go to different colleges miles away. I visit her almost ...
A. 18 November 2008: Give it time. One week off drugs and booze isn't anything more than a baby step. You'll need more than a few of those to convince you truly mean to stay clean. Once she sees you mean what you say then I think you will have a definite chance to win ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live together.
Q. Hi, I've been friends with this girl for 5 months who has a boyfriend. She moved from the east coast out here in the West to be with him for his new job. She doesn't want to be with him, but doesn't know how to end it because they live togethe...
A. 18 November 2008: I think she knows where to find you if she wants to. Just sit back and let her sort this out. It really doesn't seem like she knows what she wants at this point. I think you need to give her some space and time. Wait for her to contact you.... (read in full...)
How can he say he loves me but not want to continue it?
Q. I'm the other woman. I know and heard every comment known to man about this. I am not one to just do something like this. It all started in high school. We both was seeing other people and we started out as friends and then it went from there. We ...
A. 18 November 2008: Wow what perfect opportunity to turn your life around and start behaving like a woman with honor and integrity. Yippeee now you can focus on your family! Hurray, now you can be a class act and be a role model for your child!... (read in full...)
How can I get my mother to accept that I'm making myself miserable by staying with my husband?
Q. Hi - about 3 years ago I moved out from living with my husband as I was very unhappy (verbal abuse and undermining, some physical violence). It came as a shock to my parents in particular as I had hid my unhappiness from them but I told them of ...
A. 17 November 2008: I agree with Emily, your mother doesn't seem quite right in the head. It also sounds like getting her approval will be an never ending job if you allow it to have any kind of priority in your life. Leave your husband and make it permanent this time. ... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid I need help badly..
Q. Dear Cupid, I need help. I have meet this man whom I thought I could have a relationship with, how very wrong I was... after 3 weeks into the relationship he told me he was married with 3 children, he told me he plans to leave his wife after xmas,...
A. 17 November 2008: Look at the disrespect he's already shown you and know this, it's just the tip of the iceberg. Unless you are into pain, you better run.... (read in full...)
I would like advice about how to go about my teacher being attracted to me, and do you think he is?
Q. i know everyone is sick of hearing about teenage girls and their crushes on their teachers. Whenever a girl writes about that kind of stuff, the reply is usually, "you're reading too far into it, or its wrong and you'll get over it soon, and that he ...
A. 17 November 2008: I don't think you sound particularly mature, a school girl crush on a teacher who also happens to be married sounds pretty adolescent to me. "forget about him, your just over reacting and just like every other teen who falls in love with their ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been masturbating to his ex's photos...
Q. I just found out my BF of 2 years has been masterbating to his EX these 2 years. I came out and asked him and since he told me. She has huge boobs...he is a boob guy...I have great boobs 34D but they are not gigantor. I am very hurt about t...
A. 17 November 2008: The title says that he's looking at photos but you didn't say there were pictures involved. Are there?... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, I've been seeing him for the past 3 years, but lately contacts are rare. Should I leave it at that? He has a family.
Q. I guess i already know the answer to this question, but i need to hear it from someone else really. I have been seeing a guy for the last 3 years, we met online, chatted, then met, and ever since we have been really good friends, he is/was my bes...
A. 14 November 2008: Do not contact him in any form. You make your own closure and move on. It's over and whether you know it or not...that's a good thing.... (read in full...)
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