Should I be happy that even though he goes out and he gets female attention it's me he wants?
Q. My boyfriend is gorgeous. He has the charm to go with it that's why I love him so much. Thing is he has lots of friends, female ones too! And I seem to have a problem with this. I know that they fancy him and would love to be with him he gets a lot ...
A. 23 March 2009: You should be happy and get a handle on the jealousy issue, it's a realtionship time bomb.... (read in full...)
Is 30 years old, OLD?
Q. is 30 years old ,old? because i think its old. ...
A. 23 March 2009: I just turned 57 and I wouldn't be 30 again if you paid me, well maybe if you paid me...... (read in full...)
I told him once, should I tell him again 2 years later?
Q. Hi, I don't know what to do. I'm 14 and I really like this guy, the thing is please don't say you're too young because I'm sure when you were my age you were interested in boys. Okay he's in loads of my classes at school, they always make fun of ...
A. 23 March 2009: You just have to wait it out. Sooner or later the boys will start to come around . Be friendly, get involved in school activities, enjoy yourself. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be intimate with him, and he is upset about this
Q. We've been married for 17 years, and I thought I am the one and only in his life. He had recently started a new job that requires really long hours, he practically disappeared from my life and our son's life, it affected our relationship, but I neve...
A. 23 March 2009: Of course you can't believe a word he says, he has betrayed and disrespected you in the worst way possible. I don't blame you for not wanting sex with him at this point in time and he should be able to understand this as well. I think you both need ... (read in full...)
Do female bosses really invite male workers to meetings at bars on Friday night?
Q. Most of my boyfriend's friends are from work. I know he had a crush on at least one woman at work, and doesn't include me in social events related to work. Yesterday he told me he has a meeting with "his boss" for "happy hour" at a bar tonight. ...
A. 20 March 2009: Find out what bar and show up.... (read in full...)
Can I make him love me again?
Q. hi im 14 my my crush loves girls boobs and i love him a lot but i think his not mine now i waited him about 6 month his just keep kidding me like i love you i hate you sometimes he said a really bad things to me he always trying to hug my friend she ...
A. 20 March 2009: In total agreement with the Starfish...say what??? I was able to construct better sentences at age eight...I blame texting.... (read in full...)
I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female.
Q. Ok, the short end of the story is that I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female. I didn't realise she was 14 when I met her, I honestly thought she was 18 because she could easily have passed for a university stu...
A. 19 March 2009: This is coming from a parent, while a 6 year age difference is no big deal when the parties concerned are in their 20's, there's a heap of difference between a 14 year old and a 20 year old, even when the 20 year is slightly inexperienced. That is ... (read in full...)
Cheating on my wife of 27 years..is it lust? Or love?
Q. I am 50 year old man self employed married to a beautiful lady since 27 year father of 3 daughters doing MBA in my orginization a 25 year young beautiful lady made advances towards me and made friendship with me on mobile and SMS this was 3 years ba...
A. 17 March 2009: I vote "lust". Now you be a big boy and let your little friend move on with her young life.... (read in full...)
His friend is such a bad influence on him and I have fears he could wreck our marriage.
Q. Dear Cupid, We have been married for almost 5 years and we have a 20 months darling boy. I love my husband very much and I am sure that he loves me. However, recently I have been facing two major problems: 1. When my husband drinks a little ...
A. 17 March 2009: Your husband has a drinking problem. When people's personalities changed after they have been drinking,they have a serious problem metabolizing alcohol. The fact that he also has blackouts is very much another symptom of alcoholism. However HE has ... (read in full...)
What compliments do guys like to receive?
Q. I've been talking to this guy who lives on the other side of the world, i think i'm falling in love with him... he's falled in love with me, when we are at uni we plan to meet up, i think he could be 'the one', i'm not being silly and immature, but ...
A. 17 March 2009: My husband is pleased when I compliment him on his being able to match his socks.... (read in full...)
Moral Dilemma - should I have an affair with a married man?
Q. I've been thinking about having an affair with a 50 year old married man. He has made it very clear to me that he is married, has children and is not going to leave his family. I honestly do not care because I'm not looking for a relationship with ...
A. 17 March 2009: Get yourself a nice dildo and you'll save even more time than hooking up with this married man PLUS you can keep your self-respect and live guilt-free because you wouldn't have destroyed a family for a few brief twinges of pleasure.... (read in full...)
I'm 14, want to date an 18 year old. How to tell my mom?
Q. hey guys. thing is there is this guy I like, he's 18 and I'm 14, he sed he likes me and I like him too and he asked me if i'd go out with him. I said yes, he also said that he would push me into anything and would respect me, (I would let him pu...
A. 17 March 2009: First off you don't TELL your mother you ASK your mother. And if she has any sense she will tell you NO not until you are older. I don't think 14 year olds should be dating period and certainly not an adult.... (read in full...)
She's so up herself at times!
Q. hi, i got this friend, she can get any guy she wants like but when she does she treats them badly, recently she had a guy he was lovely although he was in a relationship before her and he is expecting a child and she got with him but then they had ...
A. 17 March 2009: I'd back away from them both. Let them sort themselves out. Just tell them you are tired of being stuck in the middle, you aren't really helping anyway. Sometimes it's just best to mind one's own business.... (read in full...)
I had the flu and now I have unusually large amount of discharge
Q. I would really like some help. Lately I've had an unusually large amount of discharge. And I mean A LOT of discharge. It has started soaking through my jeans and I've never had it this bad. It looks like normal discharge and doesn't have a bad ...
A. 17 March 2009: You may have a yeast infection. Were you taking antibiotics when you were sick? They can cause an imbalance in the yeast which is normal in a certain level in the vagina. Talk to your Mom. There is over the counter medicine that will clear it up if ... (read in full...)
I had an affair and now my 15 year old daughter doesn't trust me
Q. About 2 years ago my marriage broke up, essentially I left my wife for another woman. It was a really bad situation where I felt deeply unhappy in my marriage, but instead of just leaving I started an affair, was found out and this bought everything ...
A. 17 March 2009: Everything has a price, this one was pretty costly wasn't it!?... (read in full...)
I don't think my relationship with family will be the same now
Q. We were open and honest with our families about our relationsip and now I fear they will hate me forever. My mom cried and told me she thought she raised me better, my dad well he will just say he was pissed. Before leaving their house everything ...
A. 17 March 2009: As the mother of adult children I can say that if presented with a situation like yours, I pretty much would have reacted like your mother did. You have disappointed your parents. They probably will get passed it but I doubt if they will ever be ... (read in full...)
In my forties and lost my sex drive
Q. I don't know what is wrong with me sexually. I'm in my forties, and I totally lost my sexual desire. I went to the doctor and evrything looks fine. Heart, hormons,ok... But I don't have a normal erection few years ago. Or sexual desire. My erecti...
A. 16 March 2009: Go back to the doctor and get a prescription for Cialis or Viagra, either one will help sustain your erections. I'd give it a try, what have you got to lose?... (read in full...)
I texted my boss after work to tell him I really like him
Q. I texted my boss after work to tell him I really like him and was attracted to him, now he has arranged a disciplinary with me for texting him - I feel embarrassed and betrayed - what do you guys think out there???...
A. 13 March 2009: How were you betrayed? Did your boss come on to you first? If not, then he's simply putting you in your place. Consider yourself lucky this happened, love affairs with the boss usually end in disaster anyway.... (read in full...)
Do you think he still wants me?
Q. Okay I have a huge question. Does he still like me? or does he honestly only think of me as a friend? There's this guy that I dated back in the beginning of november. We tried casual dates for like two weeks and then he told me he didn't think ...
A. 13 March 2009: Yes he still wants you, for sex. Is that enough for you?... (read in full...)
Can a girl get back their virginity back?
Q. can a girl get back their virgin after she stop having sex for 3 yr? i had sex my ex bf, and i about to marry with other man after 3 yr. can he know that i am not virgin?...
A. 12 March 2009: Nope you can't get it back and no he won't be able to tell for sure that you aren't a virgin because not all women bleed their first time.... (read in full...)
My feelings for him fluxuate
Q. Me and my bf of 2 years are both 25 years old. I see him about 2 times a week due to our busy schedule. At times I feel like I'm completely in love with him, while other times I feel completely indifferent to our relationship and feel like I don't ...
A. 12 March 2009: It's normal in relationships that are almost perfect but miss the mark. In other words your boyfriend is so close to being the right guy for you but just doesn't cut it. I think you'd be better off getting out of this relationship and start looking ... (read in full...)
Surprise in the bedroom!
Q. Hey everyone...=] Me and my boyfriends 1 year anniversary is coming up next month. We've agreed to not buy each other anything ( We are saving for holidays which will be soon after!)So instead were gonna get a take away, movie, the usual.. Howe...
A. 12 March 2009: How about you hide behind the bedroom door and then jump out at him when he comes in?! That's always fun...... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant from sperm in the mouth?
Q. Well im a little nervous. I usually have a 29 day cycle, ive had it for 4 months now. my last period was Febuary 8 2009. I had oral sex with my boyfriend last feb 26, 3 days after my calculated ovulation time of feb 23. Now im around 3 days la...
A. 11 March 2009: Strangely enough you can get pregnant this way, but only in the Philippines.... (read in full...)
Help Trying to get pregnant
Q. Dear whomever, I'm 18 years old and me and my boyfriend has been together for 1year and 2months and we have been trying to get pregnant since we ...
A. 11 March 2009: See you doubters...God does exist.... (read in full...)
What is meant by this?
Q. What is meant by 'mind and heart tease eachother'? I have been trying to work it out but with no avail. Any insight to this would be great. ...
A. 11 March 2009: Your mind is telling you one thing while your heart is telling you something else????... (read in full...)
What should I make of his remarks and what would you do about them?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together over a year now. I asked my boyfriend if he was serious about me. Our circumstances have not changed. He still has no job, still drinks a lot and has not hinted around any about marriage. His answer to my ...
A. 10 March 2009: Not sure what you should make about the comments but I AM SURE I wouldn't marry the guy until he decides to pull his weight and gets gainfully employed.... (read in full...)
Unfortunately I don't think HE think's I'm the one...
Q. Alright, I have been dating a great guy for the last year and four months, unfortunately I have have a feeling that he already knows that I am not the one. First of all he has never said I love you, only that "you are my best friend" and "I care ...
A. 9 March 2009: You don't mention how YOU feel about him. I guess I'd figure that he is CLOSE to being the guy for you but no cigar. So yeah I think you should leave him but then I think you already came to that conclusion, didn't you?... (read in full...)
The different "other woman" wants to know what this guy is going to do!
Q. I've known this man for six years now. We have always had a connection from day one, but one of was always in a relationship when the other was available. We would reconnect through the years just to talk and spend hours on the phone (we would ...
A. 6 March 2009: You have no choice BUT to move on. Trust me, if he truly wanted to be with you, he would. Since you know that being someone's bit on the side isn't for you, you just have to bite the bullet and move forward. Good luck, you'll be just fine.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend? OR FWB guy?
Q. I can't choose between my boyfriend, who loves me a lot and a friend who wants to be sex buddies. I love my friend more than I do my boyfriend. What should I do?...
A. 5 March 2009: You shouldn't have to setle for either one. If you don't love your boyfriend then get out of the relationship, it won't make you happy. As far a your friend looking for just sex, that's just a heartache waiting to happen. Time to start fresh and ... (read in full...)
When do you draw a line when it comes to cheating?
Q. What constitues cheating? Some friends of ours got into a heated argument with my wife and I about what is cheating. Besides the obvious physical sexual contact, or emotional attachment to someone other than your spouse, what is cheating? 2 e...
A. 4 March 2009: That's between a husband and wife. I think if you do anything that you have to hide from your significant other you probably are cheating. If you do something that you can't do in front of your wife/husband or at least with their knowledge, you are ... (read in full...)
First Date Sex.... Now he's backed off?
Q. hey everyone...well i am 18 years old and i have met a 38 year old man who i am rather besotted with ....i've only met him once in real life but have been talking to him on the net for a few months now ..but we spent the whole day together and he ...
A. 3 March 2009: He got what he wanted, pure and simple. If (and that's a BIG "if") he does come sniffing around again DO NOT HAVE SEX. If he stays interested without the sex then maybe you have a glimmer of hope.... (read in full...)
I don't know if I still love him, or if he ever loved me...
Q. I found out last year my husband was seeing another woman, through his text messages, when I confronted him he refused to discuss it with me and text the woman to let her know I had read the texts and to expect me to ring, he told me he was doing ...
A. 3 March 2009: Get a lawyer and SUE his ass for divorce, you don't need to know where he is, he'll surface sooner or later. Make sure you get every single cent that's coming to you and your kids. The guy sounds like a certifiable jerk. I think in the long run you ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but am falling for another guy!
Q. Hi. I'm in love with another guy whose totally different from my bf... He listens when i talk, offers his opinions on things we discuss, always makes me feel good when i'm down, we laugh about the same things etc... Talking to him is just amazing, ...
A. 3 March 2009: That's why young people need to date lots of people. Each relationship shows you what personalities push your buttons and which leave you cold. It's a learning experience. Your current boyfriend was close to being a perfect match but now you've met ... (read in full...)
Could sex be used as a way to celebrate friendship?
Q. I have been working as an English teacher here in Poland. In about a month I am going to leave Poland and return to my home country. My issue involves two women. One woman is also an English teacher at the same language school that I teach at....
A. 27 February 2009: You may be risking your friendships with these women by asking them for sex. Have either of them shown you any indications that they might be receptive to the idea? If so go ahead and ask but be aware of the risks involved, you might end up with one ... (read in full...)
He wants to go on a trip without me and I don't feel comfortable about it!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have just 6 months ago taken my husband back after a few years apart. We separated somewhat ammicably after he started seeing another woman (which only lasted a few months). It was hard but I got over it and we became friends a...
A. 27 February 2009: Tell him you want a nice vaction in the Greek Islands too and if he balks show him the door because then for sure I would think he's up to no good. He should have no problem with you coming along.... (read in full...)
She can't show me any love and doesnt' want any
Q. I am 41 and was in a serious relationship with a 24 year old woman for over a year. She split with me 6 months ago, said she loved me but couldn't be with me. We had no contact for a few days then she called me in tears saying she loved me and ...
A. 26 February 2009: Not to be mean but I have to ask, Do you have lots of money? Does she depend on you financially?... (read in full...)
I'm scared to death to let him go...
Q. Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...
A. 25 February 2009: Let him go. As hard as that may seem I think you'll be much happier in the long run. Open relationships that truly work are very very rare, but usually someone is always on the the short end of the stick. Let him go.... (read in full...)
I want to protect my single insecure parent but don't know how...
Q. ok, gonna try 2 b straight to the point, I met a guy in phych ward (u may of read my 1st question, in troubled relationships) we stay in touch after we get up, meet up, move into gether, and have a rocky relationship, i was such a drunk and so was ...
A. 25 February 2009: Any male can father a child but not every male can be a DAD. Raigan's biological father sounds like a grade A loser and can hardly give his child a positive male role model. She will be better off not having a lot of contact with him if you want my ... (read in full...)
Are there still feelings between us? What could this mean?
Q. Well it's been a month since my ex broke up with me and I haven't been seeing him or talking to him for about 3 weeks so today was kinda hard to tell. Today me and my friend walk to class this morning and I walk past my ex. I decide to give him the ...
A. 25 February 2009: Not sure what or if it means anything, you obviously caught him off guard. If he's truly interested I'm sure he will follow up and try to talk to you. Wait and see.... (read in full...)
She can't get over that I cheated on her
Q. I had a texting fling with a younger woman and my wife seems to class it as 'cheating' even though it was a daft game which has all finished now. I stupidly left some of the texts on my phone and she found them (should she have been snooping?). It ...
A. 24 February 2009: damluvaam's right, what may have seemed like a harmless game to you was devastating to your wife. That fact that you don't want to talk about it, because you feel so guilty, also makes me think you knew it was wrong while you were doing it, so ... (read in full...)
Are they just being friendly? Or could there be more?
Q. I work as a part time cashier in a little shop. There's a new guy that works there and a few other guys I have served who seem rather nice. They are all similar ages to me and most of the time we 'meet', we have a good chat (even though it's short)! ...
A. 24 February 2009: Ask one of them out for coffee.... (read in full...)
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