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| | *apathyxrebornx's profile:Hi my names Raven. I'm 17 and from a huge family. I've grown helping other people in my life and giving them Advice, Ideas and Suggestions. I came across this website and wanted to see if I could help other people from all over the world. Anyone should feel free to message me for advice, I'll be willing to help and I log on normally everyday.
I am 100% honest and give my opinion easily. It helps to tell the trust instead of lying to people and giving them the wrong idea. I am also 100% confidental, what gets said in both questions and messages is not said to anyone I know. What is written on dear cupid stay on Dear Cupid between the person asking the question and me answering.
A little more about my personal life:
I'm currently in a serious relationship, not exactly engaged yet, but already planning the wedding which will take place in around 2010-2011. We plan to move to birmingham in 2010 as well.
Like i said feel free to message me anytime and I'll reply asap
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Want to lose my virginity but uncomfortable with the way I look.
Q. i will be turning 17 in a few months. I am still a vrigin and one of the select few in my school. I kinda want to lose my virginity but i am very uncomfortable with the way i look. I feel totally disgusted wen i look in the mirrors. My friends say i ...
A. 14 January 2008: I think you shou.d wait until you're with someone you love and if they love they they wont care what you look like. They will make you feel comfortable with yourself. (i was the same)
Anyway please dont have sex until your ready. If your like this... (read in full...)
Should I abort or have this baby?
Q. help i just found out that i am 2 months pregnant the thing is that it is a result of rape. my family is pushing me to abord it but i dont think i can. i dont know why but something is pushing me to have this baby. i dont know what to do i need some ...
A. 14 January 2008: Aww hun I am sorry to har about the rape its an awful time to go through.
To terminate or keep your baby is YOUR choice.
I wish you the best of luck, talk with your family and tell them hw you feela nd tell them it's your choice.
RavenXx... (read in full...)
I'm annoyed with my mom. What should I do?
Q. I'm so annoyed. My mum phoned me tonight at half 9pm. I'm 14 and she wouldn't let me stay out any later. She wouldn't let me sleep at my friends house. She has annoyed me so much I'm going to ignore her until she lets me stay out later. All my other ...
A. 14 January 2008: i dont think shes being overprotective to be honest hun. I know you dont want to hear it but shes just setting bounderies its what parents do for their children. Go home, be good, and ask polietly if maybe you can stay next friday or saturday ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I am pregnant do you think? Or is my body playing tricks on me?
Q. Hi, I'm 15 and lost my virginity around 2 weeks with my boyfriend of 5 months, we used contraception (condoms)but with the second time we used them but when he took it off he tried penetrating inside me which he did for about 10 seconds, I told him ...
A. 14 January 2008: hmmm not to sure on this one all i can suggest is take a test in about 2 weeks and find out then =]
(good that your profile btw =]) x... (read in full...)
13 and I feel I maybe pregant...can anybody help with advice on where I can be tested and what to say?
Q. hi, I've had sex twice this month today and last week on Sunday i think or maybe 2 weeks ago Sunday. I have recently been feeling more tired and i've had belly ache nearly everyday and certain smells when i walk into food shops it makes me feel...
A. 14 January 2008: Hey, have you tried going to your nearest Brook centre? or family planning clinic, there are also Kiss clinics and GUM clinics which help with this, try gooling your area and in the search bar type your area and something like family planning or ... (read in full...)
I told my wife if the baby isn't mine I'm leaving her!
Q. ok me and my wife have been together for about 3yrs and a couple of months ago she cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, i forgave her because i love her and i let her know that i'm hurt. but now she is pregnant! i told her i would stay with her and ...
A. 13 January 2008: Aww im sorry you seem to be hurting alot. Its quite a dilemma, I suggest you at least stick it out until the baby is born and get a DNA test to confirm the paternity of the child. In the meantime support your wife. if you 'love her' and have 'fo... (read in full...)
Guys please help me and tell me what turns a guy on.
Q. Hey guys, I really need your advice. What turns guys on? I love giving my boyfriend oral, and having sex with him, but I feel so scared incase I hurt him when I 'explore'. What is it that hurts if someone kicks your testicles? How can I avoid givi...
A. 13 January 2008: Hey hun, i know i'm female but i have a few examples. 1) Whilst lying in bed....or anywhere we are...i start stroking his side, very gently and whisper into his ear, i kiss his neck, i also breathe onto his neck.... by the time we get to this poin... (read in full...)
What can I do about my stretch marks??
Q. I am 15. I have very pale white skin, am only 5ft2 and am a size 8 but very fat and chunky. My boobs are 30G and they wont stop growing so that now they've got these hideous stretch marks. these are the questions: 1. are stretch marks very very ...
A. 13 January 2008: Hiii i'm from england so i have a good way and product i recommend that is sold in the uk. but lemme answer questions first. 1) i wouldn't say stretch marks are ugly at all. they're part of you be proud (especially your bust size i'm jealous!) 2... (read in full...)
My boyfriend left hickeys on my body, that cannot be camouflaged!
Q. Ok heres the thing my bf left 14 hickeys on diffrent parts of my body and all can not be covered and i don't know what to do please help ...
A. 12 January 2008: I use concealer and foundation to cover mine =] also try toothpate mixed with water =] leave it on the love bites for about ten minutes them wash it off, it calms them down alot and they fade faster =] x... (read in full...)
Will we do it wrong?
Q. Hiya, This is two of us speaking we're 15 and 16. =] Okay, we're really confused about some sexual things so wondered if you could help us with our problems. 1. We're both thinking of going further with guys, that we like, but we're worried ...
A. 12 January 2008: 1) i dont know exactly what guy think aboiut hair but uhm its night to trim once in a while. If they want to finger you they have to be prepared of you and respect your human and you're likely to have hair and if they dont like it then they can ... (read in full...)
When I masturbate I always phantasise about homosexual acts, men or women. Sex with my boyfriend is never influenced by these images, but what do they mean?
Q. im in a relationship with a man, have been for four years. but when i masturbate i often think of women kissing each other or just womens bodies. i also fantasize about two men being together. i never fantasize about heterosexual sex acts, always g...
A. 12 January 2008: Hun i always put this type of thing to "guys like seeing two women" and most girls i know love seeing gay guys in acts....
I myself am Bicurious so i imagine such acts. I'd say this is normal and nothing to worry aboout hun, its just your mind =] x... (read in full...)
Should I give my Teenage Romeo a chance?
Q. There's a boy who I sort of like but my family would be against me seeing him. I don't think I'm in love with him but he's in love with me. However he apparently has a girlfriend already and got beaten up for fancying another person's girlfriend. ...
A. 10 January 2008: hun if he has a gf and is liking someone else whats gonna stop him from doing the same to you? be careful i suggest you look elsewhere on this one, you may get hurt
Hope this helped
x... (read in full...)
How can I make him orgasm without actual intercourse? I want to impress my boyfriend!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend over a year now and we've started having sex recently, but I really want to impress him. I want to make him remember me as his best, and not his least experienced. Could you maybe give me some tips, on how to make his ...
A. 10 January 2008: Try exploring his body and finding out what turns him on -alot...then you can use your hands, you could use your mouth....or any other part of your body.
ASK him what he likes and also try to make it enjoyable for youself, im sure he wants yo... (read in full...)
How should I give him oral sex, for the most pleasure?
Q. I really would like to know how to give him the best oral sex I can, so how should this be done? Please help me!...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi, well simple, avoid you teeth at all costs cause hun that will hurt! ask him what he likes, when you start you can stop before he comes you dont have to keep going, start and stop after abit and see if he likes it, then carry on in a way he likes ... (read in full...)
He can I encourage foreplay? My boyfriend never does it.
Q. Whenever me and my bf have sex, we never have foreplay beforehand, which I'd really like to. Sometimes he tries to push himself up me, when I'm not even lubricated.. This is quite painful. How can i encourage foreplay? Please help me! Thankyou....
A. 10 January 2008: hun talk to him about it, sex is very intimate and there should be no secrets! let him know you need to be turned on so both of you can enjoy and suggest maybe him being more adventurous =]
good luck x... (read in full...)
How is sexual pleasure related to using tampons?
Q. I have been using tampons for about 6 months now. No one has fingered me, or given me oral and i have not had sex. So many people say that you are sensitive in your vagina. If this is so, why doesn't it feel "nice" when you move a tampon in or out...
A. 10 January 2008: hun a tampon wont give you any feeling , its mainly the fact in sex or a sexual act that somethign SEXUAL is happening. thats what gives alot of pleasure!
A tampon is just a bit of cotton and when your moody, hormonal, getting cramps and bleeding... (read in full...)
He's given me his number and shown interest, how do I ask him out?
Q. Hey Aunts Ok, theres this guy whos building my next door neighbours kitchen who is amazingly cute. I asked him for his number yesterday found out hes 19 and he stayed behind for an hour after work talking to me today and yesterday. I wan...
A. 10 January 2008: Hey invite him for a drrink or something (like a coffee after work) or maybe a trip into the city centre and go cinema or something =]
good luck =] x... (read in full...)
My girlfriend gets her period and ignores me, why?
Q. i am 14. ive had a gf for 3 months now and shes always been sweet to me. but she had her period yesterday and since then shes just been ignoring me for no reason. and on top of all of that we have our exams next week and her parents hate me so it ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hun its her hormones, focus on your exams, be there for her for when she needs you. Its winter and some girls really hate winter whilst on their period! Shes also young so hormones are everywhere.
If you love her or really like her then just be ... (read in full...)
Why do so few women masturbate?
Q. OK, so I know the question I'm going to ask doesn't apply to all women but... Why do so few women masturbate? I was doing an interveiw on facebook, and with each new question it shows you the answer given by the last 10 participants. The que...
A. 10 January 2008: Hmmm i think women are more ashamed of admiting it its like imagine it in school or a lunch break in college or work, theres three guys and three girls (yes ive been in this situation--Some guys feel they are more open to talk about masturbating ... (read in full...)
What is sex like?
Q. I'm asking this totally out of curiosity i do not have a bf or intend on having sex anytime soon. I just want to know what does the pleasure sort of feel like? What does it feel like when your having sex? Is it a warm feeling or what? What sort of ...
A. 10 January 2008: Well for the answer to this is simple. Sex is different to everyone as everyone is unique =]
As for my personal feeling of sex its not only the feeling that my bodys enjoying it --its very hard to describe but its a very good feeling lol -- and I... (read in full...)
Sex, and then runaway? Is he cheating on me?
Q. ok, so. I was with my boyfriend at a romantic lake. We there talking and making out. When suddenly I see him running towards the lake and tells me to join him skinny dippin. So i did. We were about to start having sex, when he suddenly ran off. Is ...
A. 9 January 2008: hun becaus ehe ran off i doubt that means hes cheating on you! Uncle Phil may be right, maybe due to the cold water his penis shrank and was scared ffo your reaction.
Talk to him hun, thats the best you can do
without more info it just seems l... (read in full...)
She consented to sex but is now crying rape
Q. My friend was telling me this story about him and it has made me a bit confused. He and his girlfriend had sex for the first time a few days ago. He asked her if she wanted to have sex (they were both sober) and asked her every now and then if ...
A. 9 January 2008: Usually after telling the police she has been raped, clothes and samples will be taken, she will be examined as well. Please remember your friend could be lying to save his own skin.
in usualy cases of rape its unplanned so clothes woul still be... (read in full...)
Should I tell my best friend who is homosexual that I'm falling for him? I'm afraid of my confession ruining the friendship.
Q. i have a gay best friend, and i think im starting to fall for him. i know he had previous girlfriends but its men that really interest him. should i tell him that i'm falling for him? but im afraid of being rejected and i dont want to lose our ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hun if he is DEFINATLY just gay then your just going to get hurt.
I suggest next time hes huggin you or being all touchy feely or acting loving just act, sigh and say in a fun/laughing kind of way (as if your enjoying yourself)
"Whyyyyyy... (read in full...)
How can I make him see how good I would be for him?
Q. These past couple months I have come to realize that Im falling in love with my best guy friend.We have been physical before but have never had sex.He refuses to kiss me on the lips though as he says its too intimate.Which confuses me because why ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi hun, ok he says he loves you and stuff but doesn't want to kiss YOU which would mean pleasing YOU yet he wants you to touch HIS penis?
see what im getting at?
Hun to me he sounds like he's using you. I have not to long ago been in that situatio... (read in full...)
If he's so attracted to me, why doesn't he want to get physical?
Q. I've been VERY close with my guy friend for about 5 months(we seen each other EVERY DAY and never tire!). We've talked about dating, or fooling around at least, but when the kiss that I expected NEVER came, I called him on it. (I've tried once ...
A. 9 January 2008: hmmm.
If hes your best friend I think hes scared of treating you as he treats other women, except it would hurt to loose you and therefore he doesn't want to use or hurt you.
I suggest you be there for him as a friend no matter one, one day... (read in full...)
Should I warn my friend about using protection, as I am worried about him?
Q. I'm worried for my freind. He and his girlfreind are both deeply in love with eachother, and they are both underage. They have been very close to having sex, and I'm worried that they're going to do so without protection. I don't know if I should ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi, here in England we have an advert for friend in this position
its basically a guy and a girl, theres two adverts ones is where a young couple used a condom and one is without (ill mainly talk about the guys and how they spoke to each... (read in full...)
Was she preoccupied or embarassed?
Q. Hello. There's this girl who I'm just starting to get to know. I like her a lot, and am hoping she likes me too. Can you tell me if you think she does, or if she's just being freindly. I skied with her for a while, and we rode the lift together ...
A. 9 January 2008: Aww it seems she likes you =] Ask her out to the movies or something and get chatting!
good luck! x... (read in full...)
The guy I like fancies another girl but I overheard her friend saying she doesn't like him, should I do something or just get over him?
Q. There have been rumors about this boy who I like saying he fancies this girl, I over heard her friends talking about it. One of the girls talking about it said she does not even like him, and if he was going to ask her out I wouldnt want him to get ...
A. 9 January 2008: I suggest you sit back and wait, try and become a friend somehow, maybe once he gets set back on this he will appriecate the fact you care (yet dont use this as to go into a relationship because then it wont be for the fact he likes you, it will be ... (read in full...)
I never got an orgasm, what is wrong with me?
Q. rite this is really embarasing im 15. when i masterbate i dont get an orgasim or come, i have never done anything with a boy before, just a kiss. i have never had a proper realtionship either. when i finger myself i dont get any pleasure out of it ...
A. 9 January 2008: Hi, before i had a boyfriend and he fingered me I didn't get much pelasure doing it myself and I never orgasmed that way.
Now im 16 and have tried thing with my boyfriend I have orgasmed so hun take your time and wait for the right moment =... (read in full...)
I he serious or only toying with me? And if serious, how can I get him to make the first move?
Q. Hi, I know Ive talked about this guy before but lets just say since I got ack to school the other day he's acting in a way that I cant figure him out. We flirt all the time and today he slapped my ass and he keeps making gestures with his tongue (I ...
A. 9 January 2008: I like Kenny's Idea, flirt back at him and see what he does. =] Can't hurt x
and yes i know your afraid to make the first move but just try adn relax and im sure everything will be fine =] x... (read in full...)
I found my brother and his business partner making out, they are both married, should I say something?
Q. I just went by my brother house to pick something up of mine, I have a key, so I went on in the house. When I opened the door, he was making out with his female business partner. I played it off like I didn't notice, and I don't think he or she ...
A. 9 January 2008: I would speak to your brother and tell him you saw him and ask him what he plans on doing. This isn't your fault and it isn't a secret you should have to bear. All i can say is sit him down tell him what you saw and go from there =] x... (read in full...)
I thought we were both virgins, but she isnt , can we still have a future?
Q. I am just about to get married, and I am still a virgin. I just found out my future wife has had sex with a couple guys before me. I was hurt when i found this out...and still am...because I was expecting her to be a virgin too... I love her very ...
A. 8 January 2008: If you love her the fact she lost her virginity before you should not matter at all. She didn't know you would come into her life and want her to be virgin, shes still the woman you love remember that x... (read in full...)
His urine has blood in it. What is wrong?
Q. my and my bf just have sex for about 5 minutues and he says he penis herts and he is pissing bloody do you know whats wrong with him?...
A. 7 January 2008: I suggest getting to a hospital as soon as you can or to a clinic or the GP na dhe explains the problem to him, it should get sorted hun but tell him to get treatment asap! x... (read in full...)
Curvy girl lacking confidence, what can you suggest I should wear in the bedroom (apprpriate clothing for my body constitution) and what does a man want in bedroom?
Q. hi not really a problem here i just want to know whays that i can spice up my sex life. i am curvy girl and i lack in confidence A LOT is there any advice on how to help e.g. what i would look good in and what a man wants in the bedroom. any advice ...
A. 7 January 2008: Hey I'm curvy hun dw.
I like wearing french knickewrs (dark ones so mainly black with a rnadom colour lace) and a very of some sort that is just above it, I like the fact my boyfriends doesn't care about the size of my body at all hun and neit... (read in full...)
I'm accidentally pregnant and the baby's father doesn't want to know. What should I do?
Q. I am in a great delimma and need advice. About a month ago I found out that I was expecting. This came to a total surprise for I was on the pill (I recently found out that my taking the Z-Pak for my sinus infection neutralized the birth control). ...
A. 7 January 2008: Hun well i suggest you follow your heart and leave him and seek legal advice too on the insurance thing. Do what you feel is right, being a single parent isn't as hard as people make it out to be these days(its hard but you know what i mean)
L... (read in full...)
Does this mean pregnancy or period?
Q. hello i am ttc. i have been charting dates according to the internet and i tried all of those nights for the month of december. i recently bought a basal thermometer...not so sure how to record that...or read it. (help) so today is the 4th and my l...
A. 7 January 2008: Congrats x... (read in full...)
How can I save this relationship?
Q. I have a problem with my gf she is starving me sexually, she is currently pregnancy but the problem started before that. we live together I have spoken to her several times but she is not improving at all. After several argument we decided to have ...
A. 7 January 2008: hun being pregnant shes very hormonal, so in bed cuddle her and just relax her and make her feel good, its natural she wants to protect the baby and it can be scary, just take you time, dont cheat, it will be both worth it hun x... (read in full...)
Will he react the same as before?
Q. I'm pregnant. He is not my boyfriend, we used to date, he is 29 yrs older than me. He got me pregnant before and he convinced me to have an abortion, he said we could have probably babies in the future but not at that time. I haven't told him yet ...
A. 7 January 2008: I suggest you talk to him, tell him how you feel and do what you want to do, it all depends if YOU want to havea child as well. If you do then if he says to abort say no and give a reason why (like you've been through it before) and tell him you ... (read in full...)
I am 15 and pregnant I need advice how to tell my mom
Q. i am 15 years old and 15 weeks pregnant i dont know how to tell my mom and i told a lady that has been helping me through all this i would tell her within my winter break which will end on the 7th i am scared my mom will hate my boyfiend and there ...
A. 30 December 2007: Hun either
write a letter
or sit her down and tlak to her
but expect her to be upset.
im sure after she calms things will be ok
and see a doctor asap! x... (read in full...)
I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched me there and may have felt my pubic hair. Should I feel embarassed?
Q. I normally shave all the time, but my new boyfriend touched my down there and I think he felt my pubes. I'm so humiliated and I think he is going to tell kids at school. What should I do?...
A. 28 December 2007: Hun first of if you think hes going to tell people at school you obviously dont trust him so why are you letting someone you dont trust touch you down there secondly pubes are natura if he DID say t anyone they'd probs just say "And....?" Pubes... (read in full...)
How do you have sex?
Q. how do u have sex?...
A. 27 December 2007: Hun
The answer to this one for you is simple, go to your mum and ask how babies are made. EXACTLY how and say
"the stork story' (or whatever she used) "wont cut it anymore" and then ask what do you do and like what if you want to have sex and notm... (read in full...)
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