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| | *apathyxrebornx's profile:Hi my names Raven. I'm 17 and from a huge family. I've grown helping other people in my life and giving them Advice, Ideas and Suggestions. I came across this website and wanted to see if I could help other people from all over the world. Anyone should feel free to message me for advice, I'll be willing to help and I log on normally everyday.
I am 100% honest and give my opinion easily. It helps to tell the trust instead of lying to people and giving them the wrong idea. I am also 100% confidental, what gets said in both questions and messages is not said to anyone I know. What is written on dear cupid stay on Dear Cupid between the person asking the question and me answering.
A little more about my personal life:
I'm currently in a serious relationship, not exactly engaged yet, but already planning the wedding which will take place in around 2010-2011. We plan to move to birmingham in 2010 as well.
Like i said feel free to message me anytime and I'll reply asap
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How do you have sex?
Q. how do u have sex?...
A. 27 December 2007: Hun
The answer to this one for you is simple, go to your mum and ask how babies are made. EXACTLY how and say
"the stork story' (or whatever she used) "wont cut it anymore" and then ask what do you do and like what if you want to have sex and notm... (read in full...)
I'm 16, we used protection but I'm nevertheless scared by the idea of an unwanted pregnancy. What can I do?
Q. I a 16 year old Christian. i just had sex with my boyfriend last week. we were protected but i'm still scared of getting pregnant. i'm not on the pill, but he did use the condom. i just have all these thoughts running through my mind.."WHAT IF!?" ...
A. 23 December 2007: Hun i doubt your pregnant, especcialy if you used a condom and especially if nothing went wrong with it (i.e broke/split) and no semen got near your vagina. Give it two more weeks and take a test to ease your mind a little bit. Message me for... (read in full...)
14, I performed oral sex on him without a condom. He didn't ejaculate, could I have gotten any disease?
Q. I am going out with this guy who is 2 years older than me. The other day we told each other that we loved each other and that we never want to lose each other. because he made me happy, i gave him a blowjob, 3 times. He said that i was really g...
A. 23 December 2007: Blowjob: Although he didn't come he could have 'leaked' a little bit, Hun i would get checked out maybe in case you'r unsure, cant hurt. About him pushing your head, tell him not to do that. He should respect you and make it enjoyable for bo... (read in full...)
Could I get in trouble with the police?
Q. Okay, I'm 15 y/o My mom is okay with me dating a 20 y/o we've been dating for 1year and I'm pregnat, my mother knows , could I get into trouble with the police if anyone else finds out besides these three ppl?...
A. 21 December 2007: Hun your 15 and your mother LET you date this 20 year old? Anyway you're underage your partner even with you consenting, had performed statory Rape on you. You boyfriend can get into trouble up until you turn 16 good luck hun xxx... (read in full...)
Do I have nice boobs?
Q. I have 30G/32G boobs i have slight stretch marks that are pretty visible as I have very pale ivory skin do i have "nice boobs" or not because I feel ashamed of them? pls help...
A. 21 December 2007: Hey hun, well being small rounded and big cupped hun your well endowed there =] being in the UK a good way to get rid of stretch marks if you're ashamed of them is using bio oil. you can buy it and its amazing, works fanasticly for me =] x a... (read in full...)
I'm confused as what women really want from a man?
Q. Hi there, i think i am a bit confused on what you women do really want in a MAN, i mean do you prioritize being physically mascular or having a good personality? i am not physically mascular but people told me i have a good personality, i havn't had ...
A. 21 December 2007: Hmm well personally I always look for someone who can be himself and actually have a conversation with. Looks are great an all, but they're not everything, most girl even if they dont act it they think "what if spend the rest of my life with this ... (read in full...)
My gf is violent when she has her period. She even punched me in the face! What should I do?
Q. i have been with my girlfriend now for 2 years. We have a good relationship the majority of the time but things go a bit ugly when she has her period. I know that may seem a stupid reason but I think this may be an exception. Since we started ...
A. 21 December 2007: I would suggest you wont take her hitting you at all (well done for not retaliating btw) Tell ehr you're there for her, but if she pounches you again you're ending it. in the meantime she needs to learn to control it x... (read in full...)
Please help, pregnancy scare...!
Q. The first of December was the day I was ovulating. Im not on BC and I had unprotected sex that day(12/01/07). I always get my period the 16th of everymonth...I haven't gotten it yet making it 4 almost 5 days late. Today (12/19/07) I took a first ...
A. 21 December 2007: Hun i suggest you take another test in a few weeks because there is a chance that you are pregnant, but try to relax and not be anxious theres still a chance your not hun,
just relax and wait for two weeks takes some testa dn if they're negative... (read in full...)
Is it normal to bleed after first time sex?
Q. hey there people in dear cupid land... me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months yesterday :) and we decided to have sex ( he's 18 and im 17) it was a fantastic end to the eveining but... is it normal to bleed a little bit after sex im ...
A. 21 December 2007: Yes bleding is perfectly normaly, its the hymen breaking :) x
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Could a tampon take your virginity?
Q. Out of curiosity, If you have never had sex but you use a tampon and your hyman breaks, would you be considered not a virgen?...
A. 21 December 2007: Hun people were only answering you question with the facts, they weren't talking to you like a child at all.
Anyway you cant lose your virginity to a tampon hun, only by having a penis pentrate your vagina x... (read in full...)
He forced himself on me but it didn't hurt. Does that mean I am still a Virgin?
Q. I don't know what happened here. My boyfriend and I were making out when he removed my clothes and told put his penis down there, he said he wouldn't penetrate that we are just playing. Before I knew it he was using force though I didn't feel any ...
A. 21 December 2007: Hun ok first thing, if he came anywhere near you vagina you at risk of pregnancy.
Secondly, it sound like you aren't a virgin any more. You might not have felt anything being lost in the moment.
If what you say is right the bleeding WAS you... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to my best friend, or wait for that special man to come into my life?
Q. My best guy friend and I are both 16 and have been friends for almost two years now.These past 5 months or so we have been very touchy feely,we've done everything except for sex.We are both virgins,and he always plays around saying that some day ...
A. 21 December 2007: Aww hun this is a typical 'friends with benifits' situation. I went through exactly the same thing recently, my guy friend i known for two years became touchly feely and then we became friends with benifits but i was virgin and decided i wanted to ... (read in full...)
I like a girl at school, but I barely talk to her. Also, she has a boyfriend. What should I do?
Q. There is this girl at my shool that I like...i talk to her but bearly, Porbably the reason I liek her is becasue she noticed me...by that i mean one time she saw me at the park and told me the next day at school...this was when we didnt knwo each ...
A. 21 December 2007: Hun i suggest you wait until her and her boyfriend finish
also if they ARE deepply in love and shes looking at you and 'having eyes' for someoen else should make you think
what if everything goes and well, you and her hit it off and after so man... (read in full...)
16, My parents aren't speaking to eachother because of me. Can I get a place of my own?
Q. dear cupid im currently having problems with my parents as they are not speaking to each other because of me. this started today when they made me go college and i didnt want to, so i ended up shouting and screaming at them and saying stuff i d...
A. 21 December 2007: Hun i dont knwo what country you are from, but here in the UK the minmum age we can move out if 16.
Its VERY helpful to get a job first so you can pay your rent and bills, if you are english i suggest you go to your local connexions centre a... (read in full...)
Help! I'm 14 and my girlfriend is pregnant!
Q. Hi ,i am 14 years old and i am concerned that my girlfriendis pregnant. she was a virgin as i had sex before. We dident use protection and now she is 3 months pregnant. Web dont know how to tell our parents as they will both go mad with us. She has ...
A. 21 December 2007: First of all (please I'm not trying to get at you, you and your gf are way to young to be even having sex and even then you're proving it by not using protection -i'm not trying to get at you, its just be prepared for that. Both of your parents are ... (read in full...)
My friend is really irritating me, and I can't take her crap anymore. What should I do?
Q. I have a friend who lies about basically everything. She even made up a rumour about one of our other friends having a backstreet abortion. To be honest I think that's sick. She's aparently been pregnant twice, once she had an abortion (she would ...
A. 21 December 2007: tbh hun birdynumnums had quite an awesome idea i agree witht aht method, it might be a good way to do it :) x... (read in full...)
I still love my pregnant ex, but she has a new boyfriend. Do I tell her?
Q. My ex girl friend is pregnant and im still in love with her. but she also has a boy friend to. what do i do??...
A. 19 December 2007: Hun i know its hard, but it looks liek she moved on and I suggest all you can do is move on yourself hun, she might be happy with her new boyfriend and the fact she has a child on teh way i dont think it would help if her head gets messed up, hun ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, pregnant and scared
Q. Please help, I'm 18 weeks 3 days pregnant. I've always thought that if ever I fell pregnant I would have an abortion. I found out I was pregant last tuesday. I'm 17, and have split up from my ex as he cheated on me. I can't even say I was in love ...
A. 19 December 2007: I'm sorry you feel that way hun, it can be very stressful. Hopefully things may not be as bad as you might think they might, hun if you go through with this pregnancy (which I hope you do as I am also against abortion) and when you give birth to ... (read in full...)
Messed up big time, and I may be pregnant now! Please help!
Q. hi........i need help,big time..im 16 years old living in greece but im english,got a boyfriend for 1 year.hes 17 and finishing school now.he really cares about me and i really care about him to i am in-love with him,anyway we made love one night ...
A. 18 December 2007: the morning after pill is effective for up to 72 hours get there now! x... (read in full...)
How do I tell if I am bisexual?
Q. ummm Hi. so, im kinda confused about my sexuality. I think I might be bisexual. And if that's the case, i like a girl i know. It seems like she's always flirting with me. She told me she is not bisexual, though. But Im thinking she's confuse...
A. 18 December 2007: Hun if she flirts back then that should be a sign she likes you, all you can do is try and see what happens be sensitive to her feelings though cause liek you said she might be confused too. If shes a close friend then talk to her, even say your ... (read in full...)
My discharge is starting to worry me...
Q. Hi My discharge is starting to get me worried. It's as if there's lots of it all the time and it's sort of clear but comes out a light brownish colour on my nickers. Also it smells really bad like a public loo smell. Any ideas as to whats ...
A. 17 December 2007: sort of clear is normaly, but the lightbrownish one maybe your period is due. Or it might be an infection (not nessesarily an STI hun) anywya go to the doctor or a clinic and ask.
Message me if you need more info :) ... (read in full...)
I slept with her, and now she's dumped me. How could she do this?
Q. im a guy and im quite sensitive when it comes to how i feel bout someone. i got with a girl and lost my virginity with her early ( too early) and she suddenly stoped replyin to my my textes. she dumped me soon after and makes out im messed up in the ...
A. 17 December 2007: Hun I wouldn't say your messed up in the head, but on that not I don't know you. It's perfectly natural to want the answer why but dont let what she said get to you.
I dont know why she dumped you, i doubt many can give you the answer, but ther... (read in full...)
My period is irregular but I'm not on the pill or having sex, what's happening?
Q. I missed my period for 3 months then i came on 4 2 days!! im not on the pill or haing sex WTF is going on...
A. 27 November 2007: Hey, you have to think of whats been happening around you that could make them irregular.
stress adn diet are main causes for irregular periods as well as weight gain/loss.
There is also the possiblilty you are pregnant. I suggest you get a home p... (read in full...)
How do anorexic people exercise?
Q. hi. Im doing a school project on eating disorders, and i was just wondering, how much do anerexic people usually exersise? thankyouxxx...
A. 27 November 2007: It depends on how active the sufferer is. Like anyone else they will just do normal sports and excises and sometimes overdo them.
Try renting the film called Perfect Body. Its story of a teen gymnast who develops annorecia nervosa.
It might he... (read in full...)
Scared my bi best friend will make a move on me...
Q. Me and 2 of my bestmates strongly think that our other bestmate is a bi-sexual but what im worried about is they they both say she fancies me. I'm fine with gays but its different when its your friend. At the moment her voice is just pissing me off. ...
A. 27 November 2007: Hun tbh if shes bi you should support her through it not be worried she'll make a ove, if she does then just tell her your not interested. It would be the same if it was a guy who fancied you and you didn't like him back.
Theres nothing wrong with... (read in full...)
We have been intimate for 4 yrs yet he is awful to me in public and denies we have a relation. Why?
Q. I have been sleepin with this boy for 4 years but hes awful to me infront of people and denies sleeping with me?...
A. 27 November 2007: It might hurt but he sounds like he's using you hun. I suggest you talk to him and find out if you mean anything more to him.... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant by this?
Q. Hi. Although i should know this im really not that sure. Me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night when we finished we relised some of his cum and dripped out the bottom of the condom and may have touched just the inside of my vagina, ca...
A. 23 October 2007: Yes this can. Honey i suggest you get the morning after pill asap.
if not, wait until your period is due and take a pregancy test if your period is late. ... (read in full...)
I was raped 10 months ago, and now I stand out to people at school, and this makes me feel very insecure. Can you help?
Q. 10 months ago i was raped while walking through the park with a friend of mine, i told my mum at the time and the police where involved and it kind of got sorted the man got 6 months and it kind of got forgot but we had to go ive a statement over ...
A. 18 October 2007: Oh sweatheart its not your fault AT ALL.
Everyone takes thing in different ways so ignore the people who do that to you. They just don't understand.
Just know to yourself that you have done a good thing getting that guy done and personally I am so ... (read in full...)
How do I work up the courage to ask my friend out?
Q. How do I work up the courage to ask my friend out? She is so hot. Wow! HOT!...
A. 18 October 2007: Honey your like 10-12...
Just go to the girl
say 'i really like you'
act a lil older and she might like you more
and then just like...help eachother at school, homework and stuff x
~Rosanna ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and shy. I'm too young for bars, so can anyone recommend where I can got to meet women?
Q. Hi there i'm 17 year old male looking for a raltionship... the problem is as i'm only 17 i can't go to bars to meet women. I'm a really shy guy so i was wondering if anyone could recommend any places i can meet girls? also i have a full time job wo...
A. 18 October 2007: Okay places to meet girls..
In work? Depends where you work though tbh..
You could go into your city center with some friends on a saturday =D
Here in Manchester...if your like..alternative... we go a place called the urbis gardens =D
Uhm..If ... (read in full...)
What do I say when we're both shy?
Q. hi im really quite shy around guys and cant really talk to them. all my mates are girls and ive never reall had a proper bf. im inexperienced too. im 16. now i relly like this guy in the year above. he's pretty shy too. wev'e made eye contact...
A. 18 October 2007: Hello there.
Ah the old 'both shy' problem
Okay uhm *thinks of some scenarios*
Okay on the bus, if you go to the same college and get off at the same stop just walk by or something.
Next ask him what classes he's in and just GET TALKING
I know ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, and a 20 year old on MSN keeps asking to see me. What do you think?
Q. theres this guy i know. hes 20 i am only 15 and i dont like him in that way. he is too old, not my type and copletely the wrong guy for me but he seems to of took a liking to me. everytime i see him or talk to him he smiles at me and winks at me and ...
A. 18 October 2007: Honey okay heres the steps..
have a convo or two (dont if your not happy to) and SAVE everything he says to you..there's your evidence.
then tell an adult about it.
Also you could try the police maybe and also tell them about the incidint on ... (read in full...)
Do I tell him I know I wasn't his first, or just let it go?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and he is the only person I have slept with. However, before we started dating, he was in a relationship with a girl I knew from school, who I have now became good friends with. My boyfriend is ...
A. 18 October 2007: be care fult his friend may indeed be lying...
same thing happened to me and my boyfriedn got quite pissed off i didn't go to him straight away...
but anyway if you do ask your boyfriend just like tread steadily like.
Also with him saying you w... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity (next Saturday) what should I expect?
Q. Im losing my virginity next saturday with my long term partner. We have everything ready. My mates hosue will be free so we're using hers. She said she'd leave the master bedroom done up perfect for us like silk sheets, dimmer lights, oils, slow son...
A. 16 October 2007: Woo hun yay well through through babe.
Okay what to expect...
Sex is different for everyone. The first time hurts a little bit and if your hymen isn't already broken (it can already be broen due to sports like horseriding) there may be some blee... (read in full...)
Who should make the first move - and how?
Q. Hi everyone I got such nice responses last time, I need some more advice and feel I can turn to you guys so here goes. I have been with my boyfriend now for 6 weeks and he told me for the first time on saturday that he is a virgin and while I ...
A. 16 October 2007: Yay I love questions like this.
Mainly because I just expierienced this myself
Okay im a big girl like, im like english size 16 and not toned like.
And the guy i really like is quite thinner then mean and so damn sexy
I stayed with him at his ... (read in full...)
Bullies and really confused.
Q. hello im 15 and at school i am always bullied mentally/verbal. i dont know what to do because they are starting to get to me and it really depressing i want to move or switch school but my parents push it away when i bring the topic up. how should i ...
A. 16 October 2007: Hey
I was bullied too and I left school because of it and moved to a new one. But no matter what and wherever yo go in life there will always be bullies there.
You have two options.
Fight or flight
basic human instinct.
You want to fly...but do... (read in full...)
Want to feel worth of proper relationship
Q. right my dilema is... basically i got to know this guy right and he seemed to proper like me until today i found out that he dont like me 'in that way' and he was just horny. to be honest i think i'm coping well even though i was upset a bit earl...
A. 15 October 2007: This might not help much but I know what your going through.
You WILL find someone okay. Everyone has someone out there waiting for them.
Don't let this get your confidence down either and keep on coping well.
Just be yourself and take a while... (read in full...)
I'm a teen and have cellulite on my legs.
Q. help im a teen and have cellulite on my legs what should i do? im not fat i just have it on my legs. does anyone have any ideas on what to do?...
A. 15 October 2007: Hey im 16 I have it too..but what helps me is exercise.
Also a healthy diet is good as well.
Also there are products...i dont suggest buying them
But one called Bio Oil is really good...it also fades strechmarks, Scars and Acne
I hope this helped... (read in full...)
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