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Sex, and then runaway? Is he cheating on me?

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Question - (8 January 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, *dvicecupid writes:

ok, so. I was with my boyfriend at a romantic lake. We there talking and making out. When suddenly I see him running towards the lake and tells me to join him skinny dippin. So i did. We were about to start having sex, when he suddenly ran off. Is he cheating on me or something? Please help!!

Desperate

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008):

Oh! Yes, A cold lake would dampen any man's sexual arousal,Buuuuur,I just lost mine.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (9 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntI don't think he was cheating on you . There could be several reasons which we can only deduce.

1) Suddenly , he could not have a hard on to have sex with you and he would feel disgraceful or disappoint you.The cold water may have affected his libido.

2)He is afraid to let you see , he has a small penis.

3) He saw a ghost or somebody and afraid that he would be exposed.

4) It could dawned on him that he does not want to have sex for fear of the repercussions .

If you want to know the truth , ask from the horse mouth.

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (9 January 2008):

xapathyxrebornx agony aunthun becaus ehe ran off i doubt that means hes cheating on you! Uncle Phil may be right, maybe due to the cold water his penis shrank and was scared ffo your reaction.

Talk to him hun, thats the best you can do

without more info it just seems like it was the wrong place at the wrong time =] x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008):

Without more info it's difficult to say.

Perhaps when his nuts hit the water his tackle disappeared somewhere inside his abdomen and he thought you'd laugh at him because of his deficiency. Cold water has that effect on a man.

Phil

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