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| | *apathyxrebornx's profile:Hi my names Raven. I'm 17 and from a huge family. I've grown helping other people in my life and giving them Advice, Ideas and Suggestions. I came across this website and wanted to see if I could help other people from all over the world. Anyone should feel free to message me for advice, I'll be willing to help and I log on normally everyday.
I am 100% honest and give my opinion easily. It helps to tell the trust instead of lying to people and giving them the wrong idea. I am also 100% confidental, what gets said in both questions and messages is not said to anyone I know. What is written on dear cupid stay on Dear Cupid between the person asking the question and me answering.
A little more about my personal life:
I'm currently in a serious relationship, not exactly engaged yet, but already planning the wedding which will take place in around 2010-2011. We plan to move to birmingham in 2010 as well.
Like i said feel free to message me anytime and I'll reply asap
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Could my cousin be bi and have feelings for me??
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I need people's advice. I think my 17-year old cousin is bi or someting or maybe she has feelings for me. Whenever I sign on msn she always clicks me and says hey or hi. What do you think?...
A. 6 February 2008: saying hi isn't a sign someone is bi or attracted to you..... (read in full...)
Getting rid of excess skin.
Q. Dear cupid I am 17 years of age, 5"10 and would like to know is their any way of getting rid of excess skin or as others call it flabs without the use of surgery? This happen when i lost weight quickly and shows up when i sit down. please help m...
A. 5 February 2008: (go with others advice on the exercise stuff ill give the girl advice) if someone likes you they wont bitch at all =D my boyfriend is neither fat nor thin yet hes great to be able to cuddle with! =D They wont bitch about you if they like you... (read in full...)
Is it bad to fake an orgasim?
Q. is it bad to fake an orgasim... even if doesnt know you are?...
A. 4 February 2008: i personally dont think its fair to fake an orgasm it means to me that your lying to your partner x... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my step-daughter!!! What do I do?
Q. ive fallen in love with my stepdaughter and dont know what to do...
A. 4 February 2008: its wrong, how old is she?
you shouldn't do this or let these feelings develop its WRONG... (read in full...)
I'm 21 and she's 17... Is this okay?
Q. hi ppl i think im in love with a 17 yr old and im 21. do you reckon that its an ok thing or is it too much of a gap for anything to work. its been built on friendship and we've just got closer and closer. please help thanks...
A. 4 February 2008: i think 4 years is fine =D
there like 6 between my parents =]
x... (read in full...)
What are the symptoms of Diabetes?
Q. The other day a friend and I were talking and I said I was always tired and thirsty. She said I might have diabetes because her dad is the same and he has to go ever year for a test to check. Does any body know what the symptoms are?...
A. 4 February 2008: these seeem like symtptoms but i see your in South Africa where it can be hot im guessing so it could be your not drinking enough fluids...make sure you do!
more frequent urinating is also a symptom.
You could get a sugar level test if the leve... (read in full...)
Homeless poor and pregant...should I try and make it alone??
Q. I am 21 and have been in a long term on off relationship with a 29 year old for 3 years. We have broken it off many times but always end up going back or sleeping together. Unfortunately the last time we slept together i fell pregnant. He told my ...
A. 4 February 2008: Hye, with you being in the UK go striaght to the housing declare yourself homeless and tell them your pregnant and they are obliged to help you. they will put you inteo temp accomodation and then get you a flat. i suggest you apply for income ... (read in full...)
Does having a fractured pelvis affect my ability to have children in the future?
Q. This is mostly for doctors. I was 16 when I got into a car crash and suffered and fractured pelvis. Will this affect my ability to have children?...
A. 4 February 2008: i suggest you talk to your GP about this one =] x... (read in full...)
Nasty Ex - How do you get over an ex that won't let you go??
Q. How do you get over an ex that won't let you go?? I have been apart from my ex for just over a year, he dumped me on new years day 2007, we are in a really complicated place, he apparantly doesn't want a relationship, yet he sleeps around with ...
A. 4 February 2008: just cut off completel contact, change your phone number would be a start...hes goign to carry on with this until you make it clear you dont wanna know...
if all else fails go on jeremy kyle....he'll tell him off =D
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My first time wans't god. Did we do it right?
Q. hi im 16 years old ill be 17 shortly ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and recently losy my virginity with him it was his first time to! as we were doing it i relaxed a bit as ive read its beter if we are relaxed but im not too s...
A. 4 February 2008: practice makes perfect hun =D x
if you want to talk message me x... (read in full...)
My husband is having Cyber sex
Q. i have been married 28 years i recently discovered my husband was having internet sex with web cam. he said he was looking at chat line and was very excited by what women would show him he bought a camera because they expected something in return w...
A. 4 February 2008: you need to talk with him and let him know it hurts you and your not happy with it
if you want to talk message me x... (read in full...)
I need a release to move on and forget that I used to allow dogs to lick my intimate area, as I now realise the wrongness of it.
Q. When I was a young girl in grade school, a handful of times I allowed dogs to lick my private parts. My rationalization for this cannot be given, for I cannot explain today why I did it. I stopped doing it, but it deeply disturbs me that I allowed ...
A. 4 February 2008: hun your were just curious thats all...as it was so long ago just forget about it =] x
if you want to talk message me x... (read in full...)
Why is anal so painful? Only once it surprisingly worked by using lubrication.
Q. Whenever we try doggy style, it really hurts. We've tried using lubrication, and one time it surprisingly worked, but all the other times we've tried I've felt ill with the pain. He knows this, so we don't do it, but I know he wants it. I'd love to ...
A. 4 February 2008: Doggy style is not anal sex it is vaginal sex
if you want to do anal then i suggest you use lube everytime! x
xX message me if you wanna talk Xx... (read in full...)
I went off birth control pills (that apparently decreased my libido) and still no improvement. Is this permanent?
Q. I am 18 years old. I had been on birth control about 9 months (during that time the place I went to discontinued a pill and put me on another) before I started to lose my libido. After a while, sex became so painful I couldn't do it at all, didn't ...
A. 4 February 2008: I suggest you go to the doctor for this one, i heard the effects of the pill can take months to go, so if your libido hasn't returned within a month try the doctor.
Also you could try stuff like foreplay or something to make it more fun and mayb... (read in full...)
My bf of 4 years lied to me about his age. How could I trust him again? Should I move on?
Q. I recently found out that my boyfriend who i have been with for 4 years just lied to me about how old he was. I started getting suspicious about his age only a few months ago when he refused to show me his drivers license, i knew something was up. ...
A. 4 February 2008: hes a liar hes not worth it. if he lied to you for 4 years about his age who knows what else he hasn't told you the truth about.
+ plus if he lied about his age on a credit card didn't he commit fraud?....if so hes a criminal too.
xX message ... (read in full...)
How do I let him know how I feel without invading his potential girlfriend?
Q. Hi There, I have a really big dilemma. I have fallen bigtime for my best friends brother, who i've been close to for my whole life. I know my friend and her family would be okay with us going out (his mother especially!) and I know he has liked me ...
A. 4 February 2008: just talk to him, apologise for the fact you rejected him, explain it was because you had just gotten out of a relationship. If you two have been close just tell him how you feel maybe he feels the same =] you never know until you try
xX mess... (read in full...)
Deluded dating vs real dating..friends with benefits...
Q. i met a guy over the internet for sex. it was first name basis, it was midnight, and it was fantastic. i only do one night stands once in a blue moon, and they are rarely so good. and afterwards, he really wanted me to stay the night. i know the ...
A. 4 February 2008: it depends on the person and self respect level tbh
but my expierience me and an old friend thats what we were, until i realised he was only usuing me for sex when i could have gone and had a relationship with someone who actually did care adn told... (read in full...)
Why would he say he loved me and change his mind as soon as I said I love you back?
Q. Guys I really need advice. I seperated from a long term relationship of (8 years) and started dating a new guy within 2 weeks. We were seeing each other all the time and he seemed so keen on me, telling me he loved me wanted to be my boyfriend that ...
A. 4 February 2008: Aww hun im sorry Laura1318 sounds right in this one. Som guys just take girls for granted make them believe they're there for us forever yet when you agree with that some get scared. i think you should leave this guy and give yourself a break fo... (read in full...)
Mothers.. When should I stop breastfeeding my child?
Q. At what age should I stop breast feeding my child? I'm about to be a new mom, and some have told me 3 months, others have told me 3 years. I just want some honest opinions from women who have already had children and weaned them. Thanks for any...
A. 1 February 2008: im not a mum but my plan is to try for at least 6 months
My mum personally tried and lasted 3 months.
my sisters never tried.
i think it would have been more rewarding for them to try as it helps the bonding.
SO i would suggest at least TRY... (read in full...)
When do I start shaving? I'm too embarassed to ask my mum.
Q. my problem is when do i start shaaving im imbarresd to ask my mum...
A. 1 February 2008: try to hold it off until as long as possible like even up until your first date =D
when you start shaving it grows back faster and thicker and darker....
parts of em still wished i didn't shave until i was like 16 lmao x... (read in full...)
She wants to start birth control but her mother wont let her
Q. me and my girlfriend have been having sex for 6 months now and recentley she had to go get the morning after pill due to a split in a condom.i now find it hard to trust a condom in case it splits again, i know the chances are very low but i am ...
A. 1 February 2008: its up to her and you not her mother!
ANyway your from the UK so go to a brook centre or a family planning clinic and maybe consider something like implanon -- a contraceptive rod that goes in the upper arm and prevents pregnancy in 3 ways, it... (read in full...)
I want a baby, but I'm scared of sex, help!
Q. hi everyone, i have a problem.. i really really want and feel ready for a baby, trouble is i wont let myself be close to anyone as i fear sex so much, and as soon as i think things are going to lead that way.. i sort of freeeze! it sounds odd but ...
A. 29 January 2008: First of all, you feel ready for a baby, but if you can't get close to anyone... that means your not. Do you have a boyfriend/fiancee/husband? Without them your not ready, its wrong to bring a baby into a world without a dad.... The fear is a ... (read in full...)
Two weeks later having my period.
Q. I'm over 2 weeks late with my period and i just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated inside of me 3 times, what are my chances of being pregnant?...
A. 29 January 2008: The chances are pretty high, get a test done x... (read in full...)
Why do I smell bad after shower.
Q. Ok me an my boyfriend have been going out for bout 3 weeks now we are sexuly active an dont use protection (im on the pill) but the last week i have started to smell quite bad down there evan after a shower.... why is this??? ...
A. 29 January 2008: You could have an infection. Get a STI test. If it's clear, then it's something else. If it doesn't clear in 2 weeks go to a General Physician x... (read in full...)
Does she like me, to have asked me to the school dance?
Q. I hve had this girl I like for a while now. we have been freinds for years. I couldn't ge the courage to ask her out. the other day she asked me to the school dance, I said yes ofcourse. Does this mean she likes me? o and while I was walking ...
A. 29 January 2008: Sounds like she does Enjoy the dance =D x... (read in full...)
From Friends - to Lovers - to Nothing... but why???
Q. Hi I was really in to this guy I know, and yes we did a sex a few times, both drunk and sober. He told me he liked me, but it has been over 3 months since anything has happend. I find myself getting jealous of him when he speaks to other girls a...
A. 29 January 2008: I know it hurts, but it sounds he's using you...dropp him, find someone who likes you back. This guy seems to only like you when he wants something and it seems he's not considerate to you.. best of luck x ... (read in full...)
I'm 16, I'm LATE, told my boyfriend, he's being mean,help me!
Q. Hey I'm 16. Me and my b/f have been together for almost 2 yrs. Well we've had sex quite a few times... we're each others 1st and only. We use a condom everytime... but I haven't had my period yet, and since I told him I was late, hes been mean to ...
A. 29 January 2008: It could be anything, you could be stressed, your diet or pregnant...you could have even gotten your mind to think you are pregnant which can make your period late... get a test done soon and tell your boyfriend he should love you and support you.... (read in full...)
How can I get sex?
Q. I'm a 15 year old boy who needs sex, and I don't know how to get it. Any Suggestions?...
A. 29 January 2008: Saying you NEED sex aint going to give you a good start. You dont NEED it at all, you can survive without it... Take your time WAIT until your 16 so its legal, and in between now and then use your hands! x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to remain jobless, but I want to work. How do I get past this?
Q. Hey I was wondering if I could get some help from some people to help me solve my problem. My Boyfriend and I want to get married. We aren't getting married anytime soon and know mostly everything we want. He wants to graduate and be a lawyer....
A. 29 January 2008: if he instist ask for some money to goo out and buy clothes or things you need. If he says no say "well i'll get a job then so i can do it myself if your not willing to provide"
so either way you win, you get to either get a job or you get as much... (read in full...)
I have an attraction to large and older women. Why is this?
Q. I have a huge attraction to Large women and Older Women. I masturbate 5-6 times daily and its always to Big or Older women. Why is this? ...
A. 28 January 2008: personal preference thats all =] x... (read in full...)
I'm 9 weeks pregnant..and I'm so happy about it. But I'm booked for an abortion!! ! Help!
Q. i am 9 weeks pregnant and to be honest im really happy about it. unfortunately my boyfriend is not so happy. this isnt because he doesnt want it but the cost of trying to support our baby. we are both in our 20's do not have a stable home to live ...
A. 28 January 2008: here in the uk we get alot of help as a single mother. do not go through with this abortion you cannot be forced into it. it will scarr you for the rest of your life. please think about this, go to the doctor tell the situation and ask for advice on ... (read in full...)
Need options other than abortion
Q. i have a problem i had sex with my bf last sunday and i did some thing foolish we forgot to use protection and now i think i am pregnant i'm not sure if i am but i've been having pre menstral discomfort but my period hasn't started yet it's not ...
A. 28 January 2008: first of all it seems your planning too far ahead take a test if you miss a period if your negative learn how to use protection, if your positive then if dont want an abortion yours goign to have to go through with the pregnancy.
to be honest y... (read in full...)
Are condoms foolproof
Q. can u get pregnant from cum alraedy bein in the condom?...
A. 28 January 2008: it depends on what you mean, do you mean coming in the cindom then using it or using it, coming and carrying on during sex?
well if its the first half then dont re use a condom thats just stupid and dangerous as your at higher risk
if its ... (read in full...)
Odds of her being pregnant
Q. I fingered my girlfriend a few weeks ago before i did I masterbated a bit bit i did not come before i fingered her we tickled each other for about an hour then i did it its almost time for her period and she is nervous that she is pregant. This may ...
A. 27 January 2008: ANYTIME that semen comes in contact with the vagina, you are at risk for pregnancy. Precum or not, there is still a chance. Next time i suggest you wash your hands after getting cum or pre cum on them before fingering (you should wash your hands ... (read in full...)
Are these signs indicators of my period? When should I expect it?
Q. I'm really worried about when my periods start and ive been having like a white discharge for about 1 year and I also have bad cramps any Idea when my periods will start?...
A. 24 January 2008: your periods will start when your body wants them too, its nothing we can control or bring on.
the discharge sounds like a yeast infection, i suggest you tell your mum and your doctor and WAIT for your period....trust me once they start thats it... (read in full...)
He's got a low sperm count and I'm finding it difficult to concieve. Is there no easy way out?
Q. Hello i was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on my situation. Well i will try to keep it short. I have been with my partner for 6 years and married 2. I have a 5 year old daughter from previous relationship and we are currently trying ...
A. 24 January 2008: Hi hunny, its hard for the both of you at the monent, although he has low sperm count keep trying it only takes one!
I also suggest you two talk you can still have children, maybe talk about invitro fertilisation and talk to a doctor about it... (read in full...)
I'm calm one minute and then I snap at people! What's wrong?
Q. hi im always snapping at people and i dont no why and it upsets me but then i can suddaly be hyper then calm it really upsets me dose any1 no why this might be? thanks bye...
A. 23 January 2008: Its horomones hun at this age it happens, just when you do it apologise and say you didn't mean it...if worst comes to worse explain "my hormones are just getting to me" people should understand...especcially other females =] ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be pregnant, after just fooling around?
Q. I'm worried that i could be pregnant. At the weekend i stayed over my boyfriends and were messing around during the night and some sperm went onto my vaginal area. I asked a close friend weather you could get pregnant this way and she said no it ha...
A. 23 January 2008: ok in school i was taught if any seman went onto my vaginal area and is not washed off immedietly i can get pregnant, you dont have to be fully penetrated at all.
Try to take this off your mind, book an appointment with a doctor if you miss a p... (read in full...)
Pregnancy concern!
Q. hy i had sex on the 10th and 11th and ovulated on the 13th and i wanted to know seen as im 20. how likley it would be if i would be pregnant. thanks 4 reading and thanks 4 helping....
A. 23 January 2008: no offense annalisa your wrong about the morning after pill she had sex 13-12 days ago, the morning after pill works up to 3 days after.
Okay hun, i suggest you get a test done next week as there is quite a risk you are pregnant. Your british ... (read in full...)
Bf is due back and I gained weight! I'm nervous as to hoow he'll react..any advice!
Q. My bf of 2 years has been away for over a month with work He is back this week but im nervous as iv put on weight over the holiday period and feel podgy He is really into keep fit and im sure he will notice I also feel down about it but am working ...
A. 21 January 2008: If he loves you he wont care you've put ona few pounds,m he will support you and help you loose the weight if you really want to =] x
message me if you want to talk x... (read in full...)
HAd sex a couple days ago...is it too soon to have pregnancy symptoms?
Q. I'm 15 and i had sex for the first time a couple of days ago. We stupidly didnt use a condom and so theres a chance i could be pregnant. I cant tell anyone as it is a secret relationship. I am way too scared to go to the doctors to get the morning ...
A. 21 January 2008: it takes a few weeks to begind having symptoms.
I suggest in three-four weeks or if you miss your next period have a pregnancy test
AND an STI test by the way asap!
message me if you want to talk x... (read in full...)
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