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writes: I have been using tampons for about 6 months now. No one has fingered me, or given me oral and i have not had sex.So many people say that you are sensitive in your vagina. If this is so, why doesn't it feel "nice" when you move a tampon in or out?If I dont feel any pleasure from a tampon... will i not feel pleasure if i have sex or am fingered?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): Of course you're not going to feel any sexual pleasure when you insert tampons.
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reader, Crisy  +, writes (10 January 2008):
 No, I dont think anyone gets pleasure from a tampon, its not just the sex that makes it feel good, its the little things like kisses and touching so dont worry huni x
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reader, Stevethehonist(ish) +, writes (10 January 2008):
it will, if i put my willy in the middle of a tolet roll it wouldnt feel good ether. Emotion plays a huge part.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (10 January 2008):
 hun a tampon wont give you any feeling , its mainly the fact in sex or a sexual act that somethign SEXUAL is happening. thats what gives alot of pleasure!
A tampon is just a bit of cotton and when your moody, hormonal, getting cramps and bleeding and inserting a tampon i have a feeling its not sex you are thinking about =]
dont worry =] x
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reader, daletom  +, writes (9 January 2008):
Actually, many people believe (and my own unscientific observations support the idea) that you are NOT very sensitive inside your vagina. Only the first inch or two actually feels very much.
Do you masturbate? It's quite OK if you don't - and equally OK if you do. But if so, pay a little attention to how you stimulate yourself. Do you stick things way up inside, or concentrate more around the opening?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): birdy gave u a brilliant answer!
before i read it i was going to say something similar.
you feel like shit, u dont want to be on your period, your wearing boring un sexy pants, u dont feel sexy and your moody as hell whilst shoving a piece of fabric up ther, not exactly hot ;)
she's exactly right!
argh men have it easy!! :P
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): thank you very much those were both helpful and kind answers
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 I can't imagine that sticking a dry wad of cotton up inside your vagina when you are already in a bad mood, having cramps and bleeding Would feel anything like sex and NO, of course Not, You are absolutely right! Tampons aren't a sexual thing, they are just a band-aid type of device for your period, and it IS uncomfortable to put them in and remove them. I can assure you, sex doesn't feel like that. I'm sure that when you do have sex a few years down the road, your vagina will respond with normal sensitivity and that you will be able to have just as much pleasure as other women do. Cheers!
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reader, fishdish +, writes (9 January 2008):
 i'm not sure if you still mean in the inserter or just post-insertion, cause tampons are pretty dry, it's probably like rubbing straight cardboard up there, sorry for being graphic! you can experiment if you're feeling comfortable, and feel the difference between the finger and a tampon.
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reader, Sandman +, writes (9 January 2008):
 Good question.
Many psychologists will tell you that the biggest and most important sexual organ in the human body is the......BRAIN! That's right. The brain.
Sexual activity begins with thoughts of sexual desire. Hormones that are regulated by the central nervous system play a big part in this. The hormones 'tell' your body it is ready for sexual activity by doing a number of things. Increased heart rate, increased respiration rate, increased tactile (touch) and olfactory (smell) sensations - as well as 'sexual' signs of sexual arousal like erections, labial engorgement, increased clitoral sensitivity, and increased vaginal lubrication to name a few. So you see, sex doesn't start with the genitals, it starts in the brain.
So when you're inserting a tampon in or out, which isn't too sexually appealing (I don't think) you won't get the same feeling as if the fingers or penis of your lover were inserted into you when you feel "horny" (the colloquial term for sexually aroused).
So don't worry about it. By the time your ready for sex, it will be as pleasurable as you desire it to be. Continue to learn more about your body and what turns you on so when the time comes, you'll be ready to guide yourself and your husband to sexual fulfillment.
Hope this helps.
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reader, lovecrazed mamma  +, writes (9 January 2008):
your tampon doesnt make the moves a penis or finger do. therefore you won't/shouldnt feel pleasure. plus your focus isn't on sex when you insert or extract it. so you wont feel sexual.if you dont feel anything when using a tampon, DONT WORRY!!!!!!!!! nothing is wrong with you. i use tampons but i dont feel any pleasure. only when im with my man do i get them. if youre abnormal then that makes the two of us. :-)
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