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| | *apathyxrebornx's profile:Hi my names Raven. I'm 17 and from a huge family. I've grown helping other people in my life and giving them Advice, Ideas and Suggestions. I came across this website and wanted to see if I could help other people from all over the world. Anyone should feel free to message me for advice, I'll be willing to help and I log on normally everyday.
I am 100% honest and give my opinion easily. It helps to tell the trust instead of lying to people and giving them the wrong idea. I am also 100% confidental, what gets said in both questions and messages is not said to anyone I know. What is written on dear cupid stay on Dear Cupid between the person asking the question and me answering.
A little more about my personal life:
I'm currently in a serious relationship, not exactly engaged yet, but already planning the wedding which will take place in around 2010-2011. We plan to move to birmingham in 2010 as well.
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Could I be pregnant even though I got my period?
Q. i had unprotected sex on the 9th and 10th of febuary,but i had a period on the 12th which was lighter than my other periods and only lasted four days. i've had a pain lately in the lower part of my stomach and my mouth has baeen tasty funny but no ...
A. 26 February 2008: Yes there is a chance you could be pregnant in at least 4 weeks go and get a pregnancy test done keep us updated =] x... (read in full...)
I'm 13 years old. Am I still classified as a 'little girl'?
Q. I'm a 13 year old and I need people's opinions. If your a 13 year old girl, are u still a little girl? ...
A. 25 February 2008: i'd say on the border of being a little girl, you are a maturing girl but have at least 3 years to go before your a young adult x... (read in full...)
Any suggestions for a good contraceptive pill??
Q. I'm going to visit my boyfriend next weekend and I want stop my period for this month I'm not taking any contraceptive may I have the name of a contraceptive pill?...
A. 25 February 2008: go to your doctor and tell him your going on a holiday and do not want your period during it, he will give you what you need x... (read in full...)
We've said "hi"... Where do we go from here?
Q. Hi. Bit of a stupid question I suppose but I met this girl on facebook on an application called "Are you interested?". I sent her the auto message which basically says "I saw you on are you interested and just wanted to say hi." To sound less ...
A. 25 February 2008: ask how she is and what shes up to =] x... (read in full...)
I am straight but only blowjobs turn me on, people think I am gay!
Q. some freinds think im gay bcoz only blowjobs turn me on. im straight though but i dont know why only bj`s work 4 me....
A. 25 February 2008: whoever said that just ignore them, they're being immature x... (read in full...)
He asked me over the phone if I wanted him. What does this mean?
Q. What does he mean when he asked me if i wanted him? Thats what the guy im kinda seeing asked me over the phone yesterday i said yes i do,but im not sure what he ment, im new to the dating thing and never been asked that before ...
A. 23 February 2008: I think he means do you want him in a sexual way =] x... (read in full...)
Embarassing to date a fat person?
Q. is it embarassing to date a fat guy? what do you think when you see a fat couple? give me your own honest opinion pls....
A. 23 February 2008: Honestly, i don't have a problem. I wouldn't be embarrased to be with a 'fat guy' lol. He might be really nice =D ... (read in full...)
This thing kinda creeped me out...
Q. I don't know if this prblem got posted already because i'm not sure if i actually posted it the first time. i'm having my half-term holidays now and on the last week of last term, i went to a history class. And we had the lesson as usual, there's...
A. 23 February 2008: I suggest you ignore this teacher, if anything happens inform a friend/parent or teacher x ... (read in full...)
I'm gay, how do I get the confidence to even start to show someone I like them?
Q. I have no confidence with my self. I had a girlfriend for years. Went i turned 16 i started to let my ture feelings show. I came out to my friends and sister also my girlfriend and now my dad and family. I am now 19 and have not had a relationsh...
A. 23 February 2008: Ok for the guy who likes you you could try getting some contact with him via phone or internet. You could write him a letter and reassure him you have no issues with your sexuality adn inform him you are why and not very confident.
As for the show... (read in full...)
Are my guy and I too alike to last?
Q. Does anyone have the same personality or humor as the g/f or b/fs? me and my new bf noticed yesterday that we are very alike and im worried that we wont last very long together,he was messing around saying that we wont but now its really bugging ...
A. 23 February 2008: Right me and my boyfriend are VERY similar and have alot in common adn have similar interests and dislikes.
I suggest you keep going and dont worry about it. Just try to prevent being stubborn or arguementative and relax a little and i think th... (read in full...)
My friends say he will let me down again. Was I wrong to give him a second chance?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship with this guy we'll call him H. We met a week before he went to uni 5 hours away from where i live but carried on speaking on msn everynight- webcamming, video calling etc. He was due home for christmas in which ...
A. 23 February 2008: All i can say is everyone deserves a second chance but be prepared incase the worst does happen.
I suggest you could try once more but if he lets you down again then hes had his chance. good luck x
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Is there a chance I could get pregnant?
Q. Yesterday, my boyfriend was on top of me and he put his hand down his trousers and started wanking, he then had a little bit of cum on his hand and then a few minutes later he put his hand down my knickers and was going to finger me but didn't, he ...
A. 18 February 2008: yes there is a chance you could be pregnanct, i suggest you do a test ina few weeks =] x... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf I want a baby at 13?
Q. Ohkay.I am 13 years old.I have done everything with a guy.The first time though I didn't use protection hoping I would get pregnant.But I am dating this guy right and I really love him.I want to have a baby with him but how do I tell him?I am young ...
A. 18 February 2008: The other aunts said it alot.
1. He will run a mile.
2. you're 13, you're not even old enough to get a full time job to look after a baby. It is also illegal for you to even have sex. Your boyfriend can get done for statutory rape.
3. ... (read in full...)
I've never been pregnant before, is this possibly pregnancy?
Q. I had sex the day after my period ended, took Plan B. 1wk later; lower abdom. cramps, brwn dischrg; pink spotting, NO appetite,emotional,couldn't sleep. preg test-Neg. Wk2 cramps, no appetite nausea after eating, slept more, fatigue. 2 Preg ...
A. 18 February 2008: for one week you got symptoms early =/
Give it about 3 more weeks and take a test aagain. x... (read in full...)
Do you think I am finally pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex for a month now. And I'm supposed to start my period in 3 days and he went in me. Do you think I could finally get pregnant?...
A. 18 February 2008: its possible , wait another week and take a test and keep trying, try not to think about getting pregnant, if you do it apparent;y reduces the chances. x... (read in full...)
The test came up negative but I still think I might be! Help please
Q. I took a test about 4 days ago but it said you have to take it like a day before to see if you pregnant. Well it came up neg. But i feel very sick in the morning or anytime i eat something. I have sharp pain in my uterus. I'm wondering if I should ...
A. 18 February 2008: wait until after your period is due, if you miss it longer then a week take another test x... (read in full...)
I want a baby after I was forced into an abortion by my family. Will I feel this emptiness forever?
Q. in november i found out i was pregnant, i told my bf and he was sooooo happy, he was ready to be a man, look after me and the baby, this is something we had talked about for a long time, just felt we were too young. but then i became pregnant and we ...
A. 12 February 2008: Danielepew hit the nail on the head there 5* answer to be honest. he is right in all the advice he gave =] x... (read in full...)
Any advice on how I can get this contraceptive implant removed??
Q. My mum forced me to have a contraceptive implant, and i now am desperate to have a baby with the love of my life. I want it removed, how do i go about this, i dont want to be judged since i recently had an abortion(against my wishes). I really r...
A. 12 February 2008: hi as your from the uk this is easy (i got mine removed yesterday) Okay to your local family planning clinic. there is usualyl a brook service or a family planning clinic local to you usually....go here http://www.multi... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my pubic hair to spread up to to my belly button??
Q. I'm going through puberty and my pubic hair is growing up by my belly button. i find this so embarrassing! I also have armpit leg and nipple hair and this is also so embarrassing. I try to avoid getting my shirt of at school and on holiday because ...
A. 11 February 2008: Hey, i agree with LJ001 haha. Look for the diet coke advert with the man in the lift and look at his abdomen as he comes down from teh hatch im like ooooh yesss lol it's pretty sexy tbh. its perfectly normal and fine to be growing hair anywhere on... (read in full...)
How to avoid a mess after sex?
Q. my boyfriend and I have always used a condom for intercourse-but I now fancy feeling the rush of semen into my vagina.My boyfriend's not keen on the possible mess afterwards so is there a way of keeping as much in as possible?...
A. 11 February 2008: keep a towel handy or tissues or make sure you change the sheets. Also be careful of pregnancy and sti's, so make sure your on the pill or have the morning after pill taken the next day... (read in full...)
Will he or won't he propose, and if so when??
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 15 months and we moved in together a few months ago. We've never really argued. He let slip that hed been thinking of proposing to me but said he deff wouldn't propose Valentines but maybe in the next few...
A. 11 February 2008: I suggest you leave it, try to stop thinking about it. It may annoy him and put him off you if you do nag about it. Just drop it and carry on and if he proposes in a few days or if he proposes in a few months be happy with that x... (read in full...)
How can I ask my mom's opinion on sexual health?
Q. about 3 weeks ago i went to the cinema with my friends and i needed the toilet really really bad, but because there were a few minuets left of the film i held it in and when i went to the toilet it hurt. ever since then somtimes (about once a day ) ...
A. 11 February 2008: Go to your GP tell him it hurts when you pee sometimes and you think it may be a urine infection, he will ask you to do a urine sample, he will send that off to a lab and get your results within 2 weeks usually.
in the meantime drink plenty of wate... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend laugh when we snog? It is really annoying me.
Q. Im 14 and Have a Boyfriend. Its Going Great but When we start to snog , He just bursts out Laughing. I really Dont know why because Im serious about it. It Starts off Great but As soon as the Tongues are in , He just laughs. Its really Starting to ...
A. 11 February 2008: it can be a number of things.
Maybe he is shy or nervous
Maybe hes giddy?
Maybe hes just plain immature
or maybe he has a tickilish tongue.
Maybe you should ask him about it. Sit him down adn talk but remember its still early days so it mig... (read in full...)
Is there any way to get pregant without having sex??
Q. Is there anyway that you can get pregnant without having sex? I've heard you can get pregnant if you were suppose to be a twin cause there egg some how got inside of you is this true please help i really want to know........
A. 11 February 2008: uhm if sperm get on or into your vagina you can get pregnant (such as sperm being on his fingers adn him fingering you) ect. the whole twins thing is nonsense x... (read in full...)
I think I may have caught a sexually transmitted disease. What now?
Q. i like having sex, but after i have it i feel really bad, i have it with my cosins and i am afaid i might have cought a dissease .what do i do? tell my my mum and get cheaked out or leave it and keep it too myself . by the way don't think im a...
A. 7 February 2008: frist you hould stop having sex
secondly go to brook adn get tested you can find their website by googleing 'Brook'
hope this helps x... (read in full...)
Does he fancy me because I look like his sister?
Q. Hey, so.. i found out this guy called (A) fancies me a while back and i was a bit suprised but it never really bothered me and i still get people coming up to me today saying i think (A) has a thing for you. I don't really find him attractive so ...
A. 7 February 2008: uhm well if your not interested does it matter?
Get on with life lovie x
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How can I approach my gf on our anniversery even though we are on a break??
Q. Hey everyone. I am 19 years old, and I been with my girlfriend for almost four years now. We have our occasional "breaks" and all. We love each other very much, but right now we are having another break. Too much going on in my life right now and ...
A. 7 February 2008: i agree with ther advice the other two people have given but let her know you still love her, send her a valentines card only, that may be the start of sorting this out x
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My close friend has come out as gay, and now another close friend of mine is picking on him. How can I sort out our friendship?
Q. one of my closest friends just came out that he is gay. and another of my closest friends is now picking on him because of it. before he came out they were like brothers. but now they hate each other. how can i help stop the fighting between them. ...
A. 7 February 2008: tell the other friend whos being mean to grow up. Hes immature and doesn't understand. If he doesn't learn to appreciate the FRIENDship then hes not a tre friend. Also take into consideration he may be a lil worried this friend may develop feeling ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be in a serious relationship? (12)
Q. Am I too young to be in a serious relationship with my boyfriend (12 years old)???...
A. 7 February 2008: i think 12 is still young yet, you should be out and having fun and going to the park, when your about 16 would proba be the earliest to START getting into one x... (read in full...)
Is this a strange habit of my boyfriend's?
Q. My boyfriend masturbates whilst playing on his xbox360. several times i have walked in on hhim holding the controller in one hand and his penis in the other. he does it with many different games, from racing games to war games. i've tried to ignore ...
A. 7 February 2008: Hey maybe he was watching porn....
Maybe he was playing the game (doing something he enjoys) and making the most of the vibration setting on the controller...
Maybe you should ask him what is he doing next time with an oblivious or humourou... (read in full...)
My foreskin hurts sometimes when pulled back during sex, need I worry? Also, any information about gaining long-lasting erections naturally?
Q. hey people, I just wanted to ask a few questions regarding sex. First of all, when having sex does the foreskin get pulled back so that u cn see more ove the flesh on the penis? mine gets pulled back n it really hurts sumtimes when having sex! ...
A. 7 February 2008: ok lets see.. i cant give perfect advice but i can help with the girly bits. The foreskin bit sounds like its too tight if it gets hurt, ask the doctor about this. I dont know if it gets pulled back or not lol but im guessing it does depending o... (read in full...)
What shall I do about the four guys I like??
Q. Hey,I like these 4 guy at my skool. (G,A,D,and S) D-Doesn't likelike me but ALWAYS flirts with me. G-Knows I like him but didn't say anything about.Me and him talk EVERYDAY at skool and we laugh and joke around with each other. A-Does't kno...
A. 7 February 2008: ok wow lets see and break this down.Ill give my personal opionion thatsa ll i can do.
G- This one seems sweet you can laugh with eachother. Maybe you could try flirting to get the ball rolling
A- I think is a no no. He likes another girl and you... (read in full...)
Is it right to date my step sister by blood?
Q. is it legal to date my step sister by blood...
A. 7 February 2008: if its STEP then i wouldn't see a problem the family would be a little annoyed but theres no problem. if its half where you share a parent from blood. (i.e have the same mother of father) then its incest x... (read in full...)
Too wet!!! Please help!!
Q. When I have sex with my boyfriend I get really wet. I'm serious.... really wet but I usually don't even cum!! I just get very wet. My boyfriend says not to worry but I think it bugs him. How can I not get so wet during sex??? ...
A. 7 February 2008: you cant i dont think its a natural thing. Theres nothing wrong with being really wet, it helps the penis enter the vagina with less pain to either =] x... (read in full...)
Am I being used or does he secretly like me?
Q. Me and this guy have been friends for a while and I'm very attracted to him. I used to try and get it across that I like him. I asked him on a date, and thought it went well, but he never asked me to go on a date after that and I stopped pursuing ...
A. 7 February 2008: your not bewing used....YET
exactly the same thing happened with me. Just dont go there. he'll take your heart and hurt it.
also if hes in a serious relationship with another girl and hes doing that to you what makes him say he wont if hes in one o... (read in full...)
I'm scared, whats going to happen when my 'cherry pops'?
Q. Ok so im 16 years old and im still a virgin. Im going out with this guy that i have known forever, but have been dating for only about 3 weeks. I have had plenty of chances to have sex with him but i get scared and stop him from going all the way. ...
A. 6 February 2008: ok frist reason the naked bit -- try maybe at night or in the dark, you dont HAVE to be naked to have sex the first time, being completly nude can be introduced later on.
second reason: being embarrased -- ok every girl is different. Some ble... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with my best friend, we are going out now, but I'm very inexperienced, how do we move on to home base?
Q. I'm in love with my best friend and it's soooo good. I'm not very sexually experienced though, and I want to take our relationship (we've been seeing eachother for a few months now)to the next level. This is something which i'm understandably ...
A. 6 February 2008: Hey, just relax. Start to cuddle and flirt and kiss him let him know your interested and turned on (if you are)
believe it or not instincts take over, just try to just relax and let instincts take over.
Expect to fumble around the first time, it... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and they refuse to help me around the house....
Q. my mum has recently started suffering from depression, and its getting me down too. I live with just my mum, dad and younger sister. all three work except me because im expecting a baby soon as im 20 weeks pregnant. My mum is taking some time off ...
A. 6 February 2008: Hey, I suggest you make a roster maybe, even it out a little bit and make it fairer, if they continue to refuse to clean then just dont do their stuff, put it to one side, clear your mess and stuff, mop and hoover like once or twice a week and if ... (read in full...)
Seven weeks pregnant-should I get an abortion?
Q. hi, i am really looking for some advice. I am 21 years old a single parent of 1 little girl aged 21 months, I have recently found out that i am 7 weeks pregnant i have only been with my partner for 3 months and i dont think the relationship is going ...
A. 6 February 2008: may i add something no one had asked.
Have you spoke to your partner about this? What does he say, does he even know about the pregnancy. That's his baby too.
I am pro life, its your choice but heres my opinion. Look at your little girl and try... (read in full...)
What to get him for Valentines Day...
Q. valentines day is around the corner and i have absolutely no idea what to get my boyfriend!! I'm not confident enough to do anything kinky, i really can't bring myself to do it and even if i could he'd probably not like it anyway. Then i thought...
A. 6 February 2008: your ideas seem good.
im getting my bf a picture of either the both of us, or a picture of me in a frame and a card cause i cant afford much ...x
message me if you wanna talk x... (read in full...)
Could my cousin be bi and have feelings for me??
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I need people's advice. I think my 17-year old cousin is bi or someting or maybe she has feelings for me. Whenever I sign on msn she always clicks me and says hey or hi. What do you think?...
A. 6 February 2008: saying hi isn't a sign someone is bi or attracted to you..... (read in full...)
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