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| | *apathyxrebornx's profile:Hi my names Raven. I'm 17 and from a huge family. I've grown helping other people in my life and giving them Advice, Ideas and Suggestions. I came across this website and wanted to see if I could help other people from all over the world. Anyone should feel free to message me for advice, I'll be willing to help and I log on normally everyday.
I am 100% honest and give my opinion easily. It helps to tell the trust instead of lying to people and giving them the wrong idea. I am also 100% confidental, what gets said in both questions and messages is not said to anyone I know. What is written on dear cupid stay on Dear Cupid between the person asking the question and me answering.
A little more about my personal life:
I'm currently in a serious relationship, not exactly engaged yet, but already planning the wedding which will take place in around 2010-2011. We plan to move to birmingham in 2010 as well.
Like i said feel free to message me anytime and I'll reply asap
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I've been married for three years and my wife is two months pregnent. Can we have sex during this period?
Q. I've been married for three years and my wife is two months pregnent. Can we have sex during this period?...
A. 18 March 2008: first of all congratulations
secondly yes you can =] just be a little weary x... (read in full...)
He's telling me to take it easy.
Q. Dear Cupid I've been good friends with this guy for almost two years already. We got really close the past 6 months because he was having problems with his girlfriend (cheating on him) and wanted someone there for him. These past six months i...
A. 18 March 2008: He means to slow things downa dn relax and take it a day at a time cause it seems he doesn't want to hurt you.
So hu take things a day at a time, build the trust and give it time =] x... (read in full...)
A week ago I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and had a short period for a day the day after, could I be pregnant?
Q. hi there I was wondering if anyone out there can tell me what I need to do Well about a week ago I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and had a short period for a day the day after what can I do ?...
A. 18 March 2008: Hey, theres is a chance you could be pregnant. All you can do is wait until your NEXT period and see if it comes, if it doesn't then take a test, if you cant wait then take a test in three weeks.
Or you could go to your doctor and ask for a blood ... (read in full...)
Is it best to wait forever to lose my virginity with someone important to me or just go for it within the next 6 months...?
Q. I'm 16 I'd like detailed answers to this question please: Is it best to wait forever to lose my virginity with someone important to me and therefore probably never lose it as I am so unattractive, OR just go for it within the next 6 months even...
A. 18 March 2008: Hey hun,
first of all it is best to wait until your with someone special. Lossing your virginity is scary but thats made easier if its with someone you know and trust, even love.
Secondly you say your unattractive. Maybe thats your own percept... (read in full...)
Could his smoking weed be contributing to the fact I'm not falling pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 years now we have always had unprotected sex. I have never been pregnant. He always smokes weed, do you think that has something to do with it?...
A. 18 March 2008: Ok first of all it will effect his fertility. second of all why are you planning or even wanting to bring a baby into a world with drugs into it. i suggest you get him of the drugs, and tested and then if hes off it for about 6 months to a y... (read in full...)
I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I am having nightmares.
Q. I'm 17 weeks pregnant and I am having nightmares, not scary ones just creepy funky unbelievable ones, every hour on the hour I wake up, I'm so tired I feel like I could pass out all through the day. I've read that it's my hormones but I'm worried ...
A. 17 March 2008: hun its just your hormones it seems. I dont have any sugggestions on easing it though x... (read in full...)
I was thinking about waiting 3 months before telling him of my pregnancy!... Is this right? What should I do?
Q. Im 29 and i've just found out on 6 weeks pregnant! The problem is i've only been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we haven't even told each other that we love each other! He's going to move into a new house in a month and i'm scared he will t...
A. 17 March 2008: tbh if you dont trust him you shouldn't have been sleeping with him. Also if you were worried of the what ifs you would have used protection
anyway you should tell him he would find out anyway and ask why you didn't tell him sooner and open up ... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for my college lecturer, does this mean I'm bisexual?
Q. For about 3 months now i have had these feelings for one of my lecturers at college but the thing is she is the same sex as me. Dont get me wrong, i still like boys but am worried that I might be bisexual? I know that nothing can happen between us ...
A. 14 March 2008: why are you worried you're bisexual? if you are its perfectly normal thing.
Ok this lecturerer you're gonna have to hold you feelings off and look elsewhere lovie =]
i cant suggest much but its something
message me if you wanan talk x... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: lmao these answers are way to funny! Honey no you cannot get pregnant from swallowing semen. It goes to your stomach and is then digested and KILLED. Ok secondly you should not even be doing stuff like that if you dont know about it Thridy ... (read in full...)
What is BAD sex to you?
Q. What, to you, constitutes "lackluster" sex?...
A. 11 March 2008: hmmm well from a woman's point of view probs not initiating anything really...that can be annoying, it's nice to be seduced. x... (read in full...)
I always get guys worked up about having sex. But when it comes down to having sex. I chicken out. Any tips?
Q. I always get guys worked up about having sex. But when it comes down to having sex. I chicken out. Any tips?...
A. 11 March 2008: ok do you mean you lead them on and when it comes to the result of that and what they think you want give you change your mind? If so i suggest you stop leading them on, its unfair to them. How would you feel if a guy majorly turned you on an... (read in full...)
I'm going to take the test!
Q. I had sex with my boyfriend about 2 months ago, we were kind of stupid and didn't use a condom... my period came fine that month but then 4 days late and really light the month after. During those 2 months I've had cramps like never before, I've had ...
A. 11 March 2008: you could be, good luck on your desired result on your test and let us know how it goes message me if you need anything x... (read in full...)
Why does he smell his fingers???
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year, and we have had sex. I have given oral but not received it, which was more of my choice because of me being worried about smelling bad (even though I don't think I do). Lately, I've noticed that after ...
A. 11 March 2008: Hmm honey, some men like to smell their woman. I dunno why but some do. As long as you wash regularly, im sure your fine. Every girl thinks she smells bad and is worried but try not to worry. Regards your boyfriend maybe you should talk to h... (read in full...)
Is there any way I can stop this happening again??
Q. I had sex last night with my boyfriend ..im not looking to be reprimanded for that so please none of those comments. But the thing is after we did it..we were laying there kissing and i queefed..like a little one but i know he heard it..i just acted ...
A. 10 March 2008: Try to get over it and forget about it. I'm sure he didn't mind or care =] your a human your aloud to make sounds hun it normal x... (read in full...)
How long before I could tell if I was pregnant?
Q. Last nite me and my guy had sex but I hate to say we didn't use any protection and I know it was really stupid of us to do but we've done it before without one and everything was fine as he usually pulls out before he cums, anyway last nite we did ...
A. 9 March 2008: get the morning after pill....give it about 4 weeks before taking a test if you dont, try to wait until you have missed a period...x
message me if you wanna talk Xx... (read in full...)
I missed a pill. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Hello, I've been on the Pill for almost 4 months. I take 21 pill packs. I started this months pack last friday. I took every Pill regularly, except on wednesday. That day I forgot it. Sadly, on Thursday I took my pill a few hours later than u...
A. 9 March 2008: there is a risk if even just missing one pill. x... (read in full...)
How likely is it that I am pregnant, despite of the precautions?
Q. I was recently married. My husband and I are not financially ready for children just yet, so we have been using the following methods: condoms with spermicidal lubricant, birth control pills, and withdrawal before ejaculation. However, I have become ...
A. 9 March 2008: Hey it doubt your pregnant using so much precaution but take a test just in case x... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant, but torn between two men. Which do I choose?
Q. (Well first of all I have to mention that I am pregnant with my first child and this makes this issue so much hardier. ) I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and we always have problems and bicker at eachother constantly. When we moved in ...
A. 9 March 2008: tbh i personally think you should leave him.......if he beats you that is. Think of your child. ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant although we were both clothed?...
Q. Three days ago...i went to a dance party..and i had been drinking...and i think i got pretty tipsy...and i flirted and dirty danced with a guy...we were pretty much humping and grinding....and i was wearing a dress and very thin underwear..and i did ...
A. 9 March 2008: first of all its NOT LIKELY you will be pregnant from this =/
Secondly you would not get symptoms after a few days.
Its not IMPOSSIBLE but its not likely if you are unsire wiat for about 4 weeks, if you dont have a period from now until then t... (read in full...)
Why have my periods suddenly stopped?
Q. i havnt had a period for 4 months and i dont know why, normally i come on around the 3rd. 4th. of every month, but i havnt been on, march will is now the 5th month!! my last one was november which was normal. my boyfriend thought i was pregnant :S ...
A. 9 March 2008: Get a test took hun. Just to confirm your not, if your not go to your doctor and tell him the problem. It could be when you started it, it would be stress, diet, weight. It could be many things. x... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and trying for a baby. When is the best time to take a pregnancy test after having sex?
Q. Hello, I'm 19 and I'm trying for a baby. I've been trying for about 2 weeks now. I took a test on Friday, and it said 'Not Pregnant' Is it too soon to be testing? When should I do another test again? I'm due for my period soon too, if I co...
A. 9 March 2008: Hey you should wait until your period is due and if it doesn't come, take it a week or so after the missed one (so you know you definatly missed it)
good luck with your desired result =] x... (read in full...)
He used a condom but I'm panicking in case I'm pregnant!!!
Q. Hi. I'm seventeen, nearly eighteen and my boyfriend and I just started having sex about three weeks ago (it was my first time). I am not on the pill, but he has been using condoms (100% properly). I was worried about pregnancy so on February 29th I ...
A. 5 March 2008: if you stress and/or think you're pregnant, it WILL cause your body to make your period late and even give you symptoms. x... (read in full...)
Love of my life might have to leave.
Q. Hi everyone I really need some advice, I am nearly 19 my girlfriend is 20 we both live in the UK. I am part of the EU but she is here under a student visa from Peru, we have been going out for 5 months now and they have been the best we have ever ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hey, you can still become a pilot if you get married =S a ring on your ringer wont stop you going to work or training! x
Get a job, at part time on at least its a start work it from there, if you want to marry this woman go for it x... (read in full...)
I'm I a virgin or not anymore?
Q. Help i know people will think im stupid for doing it but last nite me and b/f where doing stuff,and after when he was inside me he said he thought i was a virgin which i was at the time but never told him, Anyway when he was going further in it di...
A. 4 March 2008: You are no longer a virgin =] x... (read in full...)
How can I accept my pregnancy and the idea of adoption? Is there any other option?
Q. i'm celeste...i'm 13 going on 14 and i'm 7 months pregnant. i found out way too late. me and my boyfriend used a condom but it must have split without us realising. the first thing i said was i wanted an abortion. but they wouldn't give me ...
A. 4 March 2008: please stop punching yourself, its to late now you have to get on with it. Once you give birth you will see your beautiful baby in your arms and you will feel the love....
Message me if you wanna talk x-x-x... (read in full...)
I have a very high libido, would having sex with my boss be a good idea? Do my desires make me... easy?
Q. Omg I really need help I broke up with my bf about a month ago...thats another story. basically i have a really REALLY high sex drive and i need sex!!!! no amount of "self pleaseing" is working!! and theres this guy at work and me...
A. 4 March 2008: Sex with the boss and in work is not a good idea!
He could use you and then fire you if you do adn hes had his fill...follows mandys advice and find someoene...=]
message me if you want to talk x... (read in full...)
I dunno what to think, am I being used? Am I right not to give up on him?
Q. Hi Well, for about 3 years I've been talking to a guy on msn. We got on so well, and he told me he liked me but I was wrapped up with other boys and I overlooked him. But we started talking again, and we got to the point where both of us told ea...
A. 4 March 2008: I think you should be careful and take things slow =]
I cant tell if hes using you from this though. It depends, is he selfish towards you. Does he not let you get what you want and only want what he wants from you?
thats how you think about it... (read in full...)
What does celeste mean?
Q. Simply, what does celeste mean? I feel stupid but I have absolutely no idea lol....
A. 4 March 2008: Hye, it can mean the contraceptive pill. Or the moon, or even the Marie Celeste (a boat wiki it)
It can mean Heavenly in Latin
and it italian for sky blue =D well Celestial.
Theres also a musical instrument =] - sounds quite pretty
message me... (read in full...)
Is Sex in a relationship important?
Q. I was wondering this because recently my girlfriend said she wanted to wait until marriage (which is fine by me I guess) I just didn't know if that included all types of sex or sexual contact....
A. 4 March 2008: You have to talk to her about that and find out what she wants and is comfortable with and what you are as well x... (read in full...)
Could my baby be affected seeing as I conceived while taking the pill?
Q. I have been taking the contraceptive pill celeste 4 about 1 year. I've just found out I am pregnant, is there any chance that my baby could be affected because I was still taking before I found out?...
A. 3 March 2008: I'mnot sure, I doubt it would, you should go to your doctor and talk about this though x... (read in full...)
Will these marks on my vagina go away?
Q. Hi, this is an awkward question so I'd prefer women to answer it. Thank you. When I was younger (around 4-5 I think) I used to pull and twist the sort of inner lips of my vagina. I stopped doing this in about 6 mounths (I can't remember WHY I d...
A. 3 March 2008: I think once your fully frown it will be fine, you have a long way to go yet x... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mum I don't want to take "the pill"?
Q. hi I'm 13 and my mum recently put me on the pill but I don't want to take it. I was wondering does anyone know how I could tell my mum I don't want to take it without shouting or fighting please???...
A. 2 March 2008: we need more details WHY did she put you on the pill in the first place. x... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant without intercourse?
Q. Me and my boyfriend had a bit of sexual fun the other day. Well not the other day, bout 2 weeks ago now. He came, but his penis was not in side me as i am not ready to have full on sex yet. He fingered me about 10 minutes after he came but his penis ...
A. 2 March 2008: Hey hun, its not likely but go and get a test in about 2 weeks =] message me if you want x... (read in full...)
Do you still get your periods if you are pregnant?
Q. Will u still get your period if you are pregnant?...
A. 2 March 2008: You can get periods but they're not common x... (read in full...)
Had sex for the first time and did not use a condom. Now I'm worried about pregnancy!
Q. Hi..me and my boyfriend had sex for the 1st time....i didn't bleed either and i know that you dont always bleed after the 1st time but another things is that we didn't use a condom and i'm worried of getting pregnant now..what shall i do? my periods ...
A. 2 March 2008: Hey all you can do is get a test done in the next 3-4 weeks =] try not to think of it in between then x... (read in full...)
I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met and I don't know how to take this...
Q. I have just found out that my boyfriend of 3 years kissed a guy before we met but I have just discovered that he is on a swingers site and his profile is very detailed about him wanting a threesome and he wants to be in the middle. It also said he's ...
A. 26 February 2008: I think you need to sit down and talk to him, dont be annoyed at his past. think of your future, tell him what you are adn not comfortable with and TALK x... (read in full...)
After having intercourse, I get very dry
Q. This is a rather private problem I've been having and I'm not sure what's causing it. After the first time I have sex in one night, my vaginal area becomes very dry. I'm not sure what is causing this problem. I'm emotionally ready for sex the ...
A. 26 February 2008: This does seem like a side effect. Go to your GP tell him the problem and see what can be done
if your too embarrased there always lube =] x... (read in full...)
HEEELLLLPPPPPP!!! 19 year old guy!
Q. Heeeellllppppppp hi, I am a 19 year old guy. There is this girl I like, she is 16 nearly 17. Well, we met at work a few months ago but she had a boyfriend at the time. We never used to text much, but lately we have text each other loads. ...
A. 26 February 2008: Noooo its not she doesn't like you, shes just come out of a relationship and needs some time, be a friend and be there for her and something may bloom...give her at least 2 weeks =] x... (read in full...)
Tips to compensate for smaller than usual size?...
Q. Hey i have a smaller than usually penis (4 in. irrect approx.) and wondering if anyone has a tip or two that would give me an edge in bed. I'm willing to try almost anything (not going to have "it" anytime soon but would enjoy some prior knowledge). ...
A. 26 February 2008: Hey, remember your still young and growing yet =] Secondly foreplay is the key anyway women dont generally tend to orgasm during sex =] Try fingering her and giving her oral (when your legally old enough!) Remember when thet day eventually comes... (read in full...)
Can anything be done to help my partner maintain an erection??
Q. Can anything be done to help a man who is unable to maintain an erection long enough to have intercourse. My new partner is unable to complete sex because his erection doesnt last, is this a common problem and how do we sort it? It is very ...
A. 26 February 2008: You could go to the doctor and tell the problem...you could go on viagra... to maintain an erection blood needs to be in the penis or rushed into there.... I find tickling testicles does this easily =D x... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant even though I got my period?
Q. i had unprotected sex on the 9th and 10th of febuary,but i had a period on the 12th which was lighter than my other periods and only lasted four days. i've had a pain lately in the lower part of my stomach and my mouth has baeen tasty funny but no ...
A. 26 February 2008: Yes there is a chance you could be pregnant in at least 4 weeks go and get a pregnancy test done keep us updated =] x... (read in full...)
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