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writes:I'm in love with my best friend and it's soooo good. I'm not very sexually experienced though, and I want to take our relationship (we've been seeing eachother for a few months now)to the next level. This is something which i'm understandably nervous about. I am aware of the whole "if your not comfortable with him you shouldn't be having sex with him" arguement - i am. Does any one have any useful advice/ insights to share?Thanks :)
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 Hi,
First, just let nature take its course. You will know when its right. Tell him to be gentle as it will hurt a little the first time, but not too much if you go easy.
The most important thing is to buy some condoms and keep them hidden away in your purse, preferably some that are lubricated so entry will be a lot easier. It is easy to let the passion take you away and you don't want to end up pregnant.
It will take a while before you guys are in tune with each other, but keep an open mind and you will be fine.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (6 February 2008):
 Hey, just relax. Start to cuddle and flirt and kiss him let him know your interested and turned on (if you are)
believe it or not instincts take over, just try to just relax and let instincts take over.
Expect to fumble around the first time, its not like magic it doesn't just happen perfectly. You learn. x
You may bleed the first time and it may hurt, just try to stay relaxed tell him what you like as well.
if he isn't sexually expierienced either expect it to be quick, guy cum quicker at first for a while but as you both PRACTICE and get your own rhythm going it WILL get better.
Dont expect to orgasm EVERYTIME cause us females dont orgasm much during intercourse, that has more chance of happening if foreplay happens.
But yeah, relax adn go with the flow, you'll get it in time x
message me for more advice x
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 There is always the first time for everyone. Just relax and enjoy. It is like dancing.You keep on practicing until you get the right moves and rhythm.If you want to learn more , you need to watch some porn DVD's.
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 I think you should give things some more time but thats just me i cant make that decision for you. But the best tip i can give you is what worked for me. Well beleive it or not guys can be nervous about sex to. I reasearched a lot about what to do and what not to do during sex. And what to expect. Your a virgin so you need to know what to expect considering you will bleed some and it may hurt the first few times. So yeah just research sex and a good ideas for the virgins having sex. It will make you more comfortable and make things run smootherAfter all you fear what you dont understand!
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