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anonymous
writes:Help i know people will think im stupid for doing it but last nite me and b/f where doing stuff,and after when he was inside me he said he thought i was a virgin which i was at the time but never told him,Anyway when he was going further in it did hurt but also felt good in that way to,After we had finished i was a bit worried about bleeding but thought we never went that far, but then he said if you where a virgin i wasnt anylonger as he popped my cherry.But so far ive had no bleeding at all even tho it did look like a bit of blood it looked watered down im not sure it was?I was expecting blood from like your period Im i a virgin or not amymore? should i expect more blood nxt time? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2008): u could have lost ur virginity, not all grls bleed their first time But it depends
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 No I doubt you are a virgin. You might bleed some more next time, since this time looked watered down. And no I don't think that you are stupid for losing your virginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2008): i never bled and ihave been havin sex for 4yr now ,ur not a virgin n e more xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): I agree with other poster, please make sure you take precautions. On the matter of how much blood, I think that nowadays this is a misconception as the hymen (the skin inside you) gets broken from any matter of exercises, sports, activities that this is not always the case at the time of sex. So dont worry about this part. Just make sure you have fun and enjoy it but be safe.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (4 March 2008):
 Well, sweetness, congratulations. You are no longer a virgin! I am just concerned because no where in your letter to us did you suggest that you used protection. I hope you did! If you did, wonderful, hooray. If not, BEFORE YOU HAVE SEX AGAIN GO GET YOURSELF PROTECTED! You can (and may) get pregnant ANYTIME a penis is near your vagina without a barricade between the two (be it physical or chemical). Also, you can get STI's ANYTIME.
So be safe, please be careful and enjoy. Congratulations on becoming a sexually active adult! Hooray!
xx India
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reader, grumpy1359 +, writes (4 March 2008):
 your no longer a virgin. so next time just enjoy it
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (4 March 2008):
 your no longer a virgin - full stop. not everyone bleeds for their first time - i didn't. first times feel different for everyone. but i think that you need to talk to your boyf - he should have asked you first before just going straight in and 'popping you cherry' . he should have had a little more respect.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (4 March 2008):
 You are no longer a virgin =] x
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reader, lovehate +, writes (4 March 2008):
 Congrats, your no longer a virgin.
x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): Simply - no. You have had sex therefore you have lost your virginity.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 March 2008):
 Some women will not bleed at all from the first penetration by a penis, either because the hymen had already been breached via masturbation, fondling and fingering by a male, tampons, toys or dildos, sports, bicycle or horseback riding or other causes, OR there was never much of a hymen at all (for some females). It is probably correct to say that the average hymen would bleed little when breached, and some actually remain somewhat intact anyway, more like being pushed aside or partial to begin with. But once penetrated, no more virginity.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (4 March 2008):
 Blood is a common side affect of losing your virginity, but it has nothing to do with whether you are or are not a virgin. If a penis has entered your vagina you are no longer a virgin. It is a physical act that once done, even if it is only once in and quickly out, means you have lost your virginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2008): It sounds like that you are no longer a virgin. Not every female bleeds or has pain when losing her virginity.
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