Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 9 March 2010: In answer to your follow up, if she says she's orgasmed, then I guess you'll just have to take her word for it. Usually, though, you can tell if someone is having a orgasm. Does she make any sounds? Does she moan or sigh? Does her body tense and ... (read in full...)
Is it true - DO big shoes mean a big penis?
Q. hey guys im just a bit curious if this is correct, but is true that guys with a big shoe size have a big ding dong? like for example if a guy had a 12 inch and a half shoe size would his penis be larger than a guy with a 5 inch shoe? is this true?? ...
A. 7 March 2010: No. Shoe size is not correlated with penis size. ... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 7 March 2010: Erm... "cumming" and "orgasming" are the same thing, in answer to your follow up question. ... (read in full...)
I worry my penis wont measure up
Q. i just wanted 2 ask any girls out there that have had a guy or more in the past that had a gigantic dick, what happens in the future when u find someone u fall in love with that just has a 6 or 7 incher? does it mean that since u already had ...
A. 7 March 2010: "Just" a 6 or 7 incher? Ha, that's above average in terms of size. Generally, really big penises can hurt. I personally don't care much for size, unless they are very small, but most men aren't very small. Most fall into the 5 inch range. Whic... (read in full...)
He wants to have a baby and forced me to have unprotected sex
Q. hello, im writing here because i have a problem with my boyfriend. i am about to turn 16 in a few weeks and he will be 20 in a few months. everything started off great,we`ve been together 4 months, but last night we were talking about our futures ...
A. 7 March 2010: This is definitely rape. If not forced rape, then it is possibly statutory rape depending on your part of the world (considering you're 15).
You need to tell someone, anyone. A parent, friend, go to authorities.
He sounds like a nasty pie... (read in full...)
Can all women cum?
Q. Hey everyone me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now but i have some questions. For any women out there, can ALL women cum? and if so, is an orgasm more exhilirating or just as with or with out cumming... ...
A. 7 March 2010: Generally, yes - all women can have an orgasm. Some women just have a harder time reaching orgasm than others do.
What's exhilarating depends on the girl. I personally love the feel of an orgasm, but other women might be satisfied otherwis... (read in full...)
He asked for my number, but we are total opposites
Q. I know this sounds a bit retarded but I work with this guy and he asked me for my number a week ago and we have talked pretty much every night. He seems sweet and funny and pretty much everything i would want in a guy however he is wild like he ...
A. 7 March 2010: Just because you seem like opposites it doesn't mean something can't work out between you. It's not a question of "do guys like that like girls like me?", it's about what he individually likes in girls. He obviously sees something (or a lot of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends keeping asking him when he's going to 'try something' with me
Q. My boyfriend always tells me hes not going to pressure me into doing anything I dont wanna do. I know this is wrong in so many ways but I read his texts and some of his stuff on facebook and his friends ask some things like 'did ya 'f**' yet?' and ...
A. 7 March 2010: They're teenagers; for a lot of them sex and losing virginity is a Big Deal (girls and guys alike).
They could be jealous, who knows. Do any of them have girlfriends to have sex with? They may just want to know the details because they're sexually... (read in full...)
Do you always have an orgasm during sex
Q. plz what did my friend (boy) mean when he says that when he has sex sometimes he cums sometimes he doesnt i am a virgin and always thought that sex ended when the man came???????????...
A. 7 March 2010: Correction: BAD SEX ends when only the man comes. Actual fulfilling sex is when both partners are sexually satisfied.
However, not everybody orgasms from sex - men or women. So it's actually normal and there's nothing wrong with him. ... (read in full...)
We went too far and feel guilty
Q. Today was my boyfriend and i 4 months anniversary and we indeed spend the day together.Today was the day we actually kiss so long and so deep,well whiles we were kissing he touched me alot,and he sucked my breast and afterwards we both felt bad,his ...
A. 7 March 2010: First of all, you need to understand that you do not have feel guilty about sexually expressing yourself.
However, if you felt he went too far and he feels he went too far, then you both need to talk and figure out sexual boundaries so the line... (read in full...)
What should I do with my flirting boyfriend?
Q. I need advice on what to do in this situation. I love my boyfriend and he's a great guy in many ways. The only thing is when he hangs out with his friends, they always go to the bar. I go with them most of the time. What upsets me is seeing gir...
A. 7 March 2010: I'm betting the reason you feel like this is because deep down you're afraid that he might flirt a bit *too* much, and there's a possibility he might go further than flirting.
In my opinion, there are two main different types of flirting... (read in full...)
I don't understand many things about sex yet.
Q. im 13 and i dont understand many things about sex yet. i havent had the talk yet and i really dont wanna have it. i would rather ask on the internet so i am. 1st question is it normal for someone my age to masturbate? because i do all the tim...
A. 7 March 2010: 1. Yes, it's normal for someone your age to masturbate.
2. Only you can come to conclusion of your sexuality. I, personally, identify as straight but in the past I've thought about females sexually. It doesn't necessarily mean you're gay, som... (read in full...)
I love him and want to believe this is all a "joke" but it has gone too far
Q. So i have a really complex situation, and don't know what to do.. The problem is my boyfriend has been talking to another girl on skype and facebook. He tells me when he talks to her and what is said. But thats not exactly the truth. See, h...
A. 7 March 2010: Oookay.
First off, saying he loves you and *actually* loving you are two different things. He may say he loves you and blah blah blah, but SURELY these messages are a big, fat red flag for you?
This guy is not worth the time you're spending ... (read in full...)
My friend envies anyone around her that has a child or gets pregnant how do I stop her from feeling sorry for herself?
Q. my friend has pcos(doesnt have periods so chances of her getting pregnant are slim) she gets jealous of anyone who has a child or if she finds out someone is pregnant she goes on self destruct feeling sorry for herself. She's recently found o...
A. 6 March 2010: First of all, you need to have some understanding. At first glance it may seem selfish of her to think negatively every time she hears of someone becoming pregnant - but you need to understand the pain she's going through. The mental pain. In her ... (read in full...)
He used to be so passionate! Why is he resisting me now?
Q. I was wondering if you could help. I have been seeing my other half for 5 months, but it is recently i have noticed he dosent kiss me the same anymore. Its like he always pulls away first and does not use tongues anymore and there is no passion. I ...
A. 6 March 2010: Perhaps he feels the spark has just gone? Usually couples fall into a routine where the passion dies down, but it's often more after the two year mark - not 5 months. The realist in me says he's not as interested in you as he once was, but I would ... (read in full...)
Shaven or not?
Q. A simple question to ask, for both males and females if you please: Shaven pubic region or unshaven pubic region? I myself find shaven definitely more preferable, and don't say you like both, because you are bound to like one at least sligh...
A. 6 March 2010: I prefer trimmed, actually. I don't particularly like it when guys shave all of the hair off, but I also don't like masses of hair. If he's a hairy individual, trimming it occasionally is nice. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont indulge me in my fetishes
Q. My Girlfriend of three months just recently expressed her absolute displeasure and unwillingness to engauge with my fettish for wearing overalls, before and sometimes during sex. Initially she expressed willingness to explore my preference, yet the ...
A. 4 March 2010: I wouldn't call her selfish as such, more like she's not interested in your fetishes. The fetishes are *your* fetishes after all, not hers - and although I generally advocate being open minded in the bedroom, people also shouldn't be pushed into ... (read in full...)
Friends need to catch up in maturity. What can I do?
Q. This is going to sound so rude but its driving me insane all my friends act the way I did when I was 14 and I can just see them making all these same mistakes although were all 16. I, and I don't mean this in a boasty way, get on much better with ...
A. 4 March 2010: Why, exactly, do you need or want them to "grow up" and become more mature? That's the first question I have. Why is it necessary?
16 year olds are not, generally, renowned for their maturity. In fact, I know some people my age (21) who act like... (read in full...)
Anal Intercourse...what to do to avoid pain and weird things from happening?
Q. Hi yall the name nessa. Anywho I have a slight problem. So my bf's been asking and complaing...he wants to have his noodle doodle up my a*s and to me that's just going over the limit... I don't know what to do I want to satisfy him anyway I can but ...
A. 3 March 2010: Just because he's been asking it doesn't mean you have to give it to him.
If you're not wholly comfortable with it, don't do it. If he gets annoyed or starts complaining, ask him how he would like it if someone stuck a penis up his ass.
You ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with masturbating
Q. Ok recently i have been masturbating more frequently than i normally would. I have been doing it every day sometimes twice. I feel like im becoming obsessed with it and its worrying me. Is this normal? Please Help!...
A. 3 March 2010: Once or twice a day is normal. Masturbating generally doesn't cause any harm, and if your sex drive increases you shouldn't worry. Most people's sex drives fluctuates anyway. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is prone to anger so we can't discuss our sex problem
Q. My boyfriend and I have recently started having sex without a condom. I'm on birth control and have been for a while. Sometimes we still use a condom as well. Sometimes while we're going at it without a condom, he can pull out and "let" loose in a ...
A. 3 March 2010: He sounds like a baby. I'm inclined to think his little anger problem is part of an existing controlling behavioural trait he has, because as you illustrated, he gets angry and blames you and acts like it's your fault, so you then think it's your ... (read in full...)
Is my partner an addict and can he change?
Q. My partner of almost 7 years seems to have a drug/alcohol abuse syndrome. He doesn't do any hard drugs solely weed and alcohol. However, weed, he smokes every day usually under control. When he does too much and I get mad about it, either he was ...
A. 3 March 2010: The whole "is weed addictive" debate has many sides. I personally believe people can become dependent on weed, but not get addicted in the sense that they *need* it to function and develop a physical dependency on it.
It sounds like he does it ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't understand that women can "get off" through other means!
Q. Ok so my bf and I have been having sex for almost 2 months now. We've done it about a dozen times, I have orgasmed once out of the 12 times. While I realize that I'm lucky enough to be able to get that point since I know some girls never orgasm from ...
A. 27 February 2010: He's a selfish lover, and that's not a good thing.
Show him how you like to be touched, and perhaps ask him to go down on you before you two have sex. It's not okay for sex to be one-sided, and he needs to understand this. This can really only com... (read in full...)
Am I making a mistake liking this high school dropout?
Q. I met someone recently..i was unsure if i liked him but i knew if i was totally turned off i would have ended the date sooner (we met from online)..the first night we met at a bar and then he offered to get dinner and then we went to get another ...
A. 26 February 2010: Why would you be making a mistake? Just because he's a high school drop out it doesn't mean you're "settling". A person is a person. If you truly like him then how can it be a mistake?
You need to stop thinking that just because he dropped ... (read in full...)
I love "IT" he literally hates "IT"
Q. okay i'm 19 and i married a 30 year old.(yea i know i'm crazy). but as a child i was sexually abused for 10 years strait and now i can't go a day with out getting off at least once. now here is the problem my husband has literally told me that he ...
A. 26 February 2010: This doesn't seem like it will work out at all. It will probably only get worse. He seems either uninterested in you sexually, or he just as a low sex drive. If you two have mismatched sex drives it will only create more problems in the future.
... (read in full...)
Do all girls only care about themselves?
Q. Ok i need some answers please. I have this girl that is my friend, but she only talks about herself, in 3 years that i know her, she has only asked me how i was 2 times. I mean i know women need attention, i always put attention and care for her, ...
A. 23 February 2010: Why would you think all women are like this just from this girl's behaviour? Of course not all women are like this. You just happen to know someone who's self centered and probably an attention seeker. But just because she is, it doesn't mean every ... (read in full...)
Can I wear the same jeans again for a third date or will it look bad?
Q. I am seeing a guy i met online for a 3rd time..he seems really open and interested..we met saturday night for a drink and then he offered to go to dinner and then we got another drink afterwards at a different place and then he drove me home..and he ...
A. 23 February 2010: I really don't think it will matter that much. Black jeans don't really stand out, so you can get away with it and chances are he won't remember or care.
Personally, if I was out on a date with someone I really liked, it wouldn't matter what the... (read in full...)
He said he could feel the same way about me, but now he is with my new best friend!
Q. Hello, I'm Jodie and I'm fifteen. I moved schools at the start of January and I've started to chalk into my friendship groups. But there is a boy there that I would say I am now very fond of, and maybe even love if I thought about it enough. I to...
A. 23 February 2010: To be honest - I think he was just saying that to protect your feelings (which is silly, because it didn't work). That doesn't mean what he did was right. He should have been honest about his feelings.
If I were you, I'd tell him that how he b... (read in full...)
Should I tell a female know about my problem, first..before we have sex
Q. I am 27 and have never had a girlfriend and my only sexual experience equates to a string of infrequent one night stands over the last 8 years. Recently I have noticed that I have become premature to a worrying extent. My question is this, when I ...
A. 23 February 2010: I'd personally prefer it if a boyfriend told me instead of having me just find out.
I would say a the best time to talk about it is when you two feel like you want to have sex for the first time with each other. If she gets scared off because ... (read in full...)
Three questions about sex!
Q. (Mod note: 3 postings from this same OP) Women....where do you find the most appealing and exciting place to have sex? i.e - on the plane, car, field? --------------------- Do women like it when their man is in "charge" in the bedroom? what ...
A. 23 February 2010: This is all personal opinion, I can't speak for all women.
1. I like sex outside, but discreetly, not blatantly out in the open somewhere ;)
2. I like to be dominated... I can't pinpoint what exactly about it turns me on, but I just like him to... (read in full...)
He wants a naked picture, I am so nervous I feel I am going to puke!
Q. Okay, So this guy i have known for a couple of years, me and him have started talking... just today. and he said i had a nice body and wants a pic of me naked. i told him he probably wouldnt get it but he says that it would make him happy. should i...
A. 21 February 2010: Um, you're 13-15 years old. No matter how old this guy is, he shouldn't have a naked picture of you (for obvious reasons - you're underage), and if you feel uncomfortable then you should just tell him "NO". You may care about him, but in all ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend seems fixated on a mate of mine
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over a month. But was was friends for a few months previously. The question is, as soon as i mention a certain good mate she talks about him. And it seems she talks to him on facebook alot aswell. As ...
A. 21 February 2010: It sounds like she may have a little crush on him. Generally, I don't see crushes as bad, as long as they don't hinder anything between a couple. I think it's fine to find others attractive in relationship as long as feelings aren't acted upon.
... (read in full...)
I am uncomfortable with the recent increase in porn by boyfriend watches
Q. Whats the opinion on boyfriends watching porn now and again? My bf and i have been together for three years now, live together. one day last year i found in our computers history that he had searched for some porn. not just for a porn site however ...
A. 21 February 2010: If he's watching it increasingly more and more often, then that could be a sign of porn addiction, or he isn't interested in the relationship anymore. I always take it as a bad sign if someone watches porn more and more as time goes on in a ... (read in full...)
Would you consider what I did rape?
Q. The night began with a party and was all good fun , I ended up in bed with a girl that I know quite well and we were both naked and fooling around with fore play . Naturally I was extremely aroused and wanted sex ..she said NO , I stuck by that ...
A. 21 February 2010: Even if she was "wet and moaned with pleasure", it could have well been an involuntary act on her part, because she was sleeping - and when you sleep you are in an altered state of awareness. There are a lot of things you do while you sleep that you ... (read in full...)
Would you consider what I did rape?
Q. The night began with a party and was all good fun , I ended up in bed with a girl that I know quite well and we were both naked and fooling around with fore play . Naturally I was extremely aroused and wanted sex ..she said NO , I stuck by that ...
A. 21 February 2010: I would say yes. Because she said "no" and then later you physically had sex with her when she was sleeping. Technically she never consented. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is insecure. How do I reassure her?
Q. I'm in a cool thing with a girl, but she's so insecure about what I'm doing when I'm not around her. She's always asking did I sleep with her friend, or what I was doing at such and such a time. Or those little word traps they do, like, "do you ...
A. 20 February 2010: Talk to her about WHY she's insecure instead of just telling her "not be insecure". If you get to the root of the issue, it's much easier to solve.
She may have been in a relationship prior to yours where her BF cheated on her or gave her a re... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 17 February 2010: I don't understand why you keep on making excuses for your behaviour. If you don't think what you're doing is strange, then why are you on here asking for advice?
I'm not defending the people who were a little "too personal" in their comments... (read in full...)
Is this appropriate, and should I be concerned?
Q. My b/f and his ex wife text or call each other every single day. They do not have children together. She treated him poorly when she left him for another man, and even stole money from him. Recently they started talking because she convinced him ...
A. 16 February 2010: It isn't appropriate. Mainly because they are ex husband and ex wife who broke up on - I'm presuming - bad terms and they're still talking. They both need to move on. He was right in divorcing her and now he has to stop talking to her too, because ... (read in full...)
Mad over a hickey my boyfriend gave me
Q. I've been with my boyfriend 5 and a half years. we used to give each other hickeys when we were young, as we grew older, I hate getting them and I've told him not. but recently he made 3 huge mark on my neck when we were making out. i got so mad at ...
A. 16 February 2010: If you've told him previously that you hate hickeys and he didn't listen to you and gave you one anyway, then you technically didn't overreact.
A lot of people see hickeys as being harmless, but if it really bothers you then you need to let him ... (read in full...)
Any tips on flirting...?
Q. Hey all, ive been single for quite some time now and i'm looking for a boyfriend. any flirting tips girls? thanks...
A. 16 February 2010: If you see a guy you like, eye contact and being all smiles is a good thing. Talk to him, laugh, be happy, be interested in what he's saying. If you're in the right context and you know him a bit better, then maybe even some light touching like on ... (read in full...)
Smelly problem!
Q. So I'm with this guy and I really like him. I've been with him for 5 months but recently he has started asking me to do stuff with him. I don't mind as I feel ready I'm just really nervous about doing anything as it will be my first time (for ...
A. 16 February 2010: If it smells unusual "down there" then you could have an infection, like a yeast infection or thrush or something. Just go to the doctor. If the smell is really strong, just washing it probably won't make it go away. ... (read in full...)
Why have I not got a promise ring???
Q. hey everyone , ive posted quite a few relationship questions on here my lastest one has nothing to do with what im about to ask im just looking for a male perspective on my situation. okay so me and my boyfirend have a group of 2 other couples ...
A. 16 February 2010: Well, not everyone:
a) knows what a promise ring is
b) likes the idea behind promise rings
Just because he hasn't given you one it doesn't mean he cares for you any less, and it doesn't mean he doesn't care about your and his future. My paren... (read in full...)
Do any other girls out there withold sex from their partners when they have done something wrong?
Q. Please Help .... I have a problem . When my boyfriend does something wrong , like out late with his mates , or comes home intoxicated , I without Sex for a period of time . I tell him the set penalty time and he signs a form ..eg : 1 week , 1 ...
A. 14 February 2010: Don't use sex as a weapon. In my opinion, it's immature and fuels resentment. If you have an issue with him, you need to partake in some good old fashioned communication - lack of sex shouldn't be used as a punishment. In fact, the whole idea of ... (read in full...)
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