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writes:plz what did my friend (boy) mean when he says that when he has sex sometimes he cums sometimes he doesnt i am a virgin and always thought that sex ended when the man came???????????
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reader, lovetokissyou  +, writes (9 March 2010):
no you can have fun sex what ever you want to call it and not allways will you have a orgasam, but it will still feel great, buy the way your just starting out so take it slow and be careful. read as much info as u can about sexual health. we can never know to much..
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): He's not finishing what he started, but in what way, I'm not sure.. He could mean that sometimes no cum comes out, or that sometimes he stops or runs out of breath before gizzing..why he would stop, I don't know, because it would be better to die of a heart attack on the train than to stop before you reach the station. Maybe this guy is out of shape and therefore runs out of steam and loses his ability, at times, to reach the end of the song.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): http://www.dearcupid.org/question/15-with-a-10-month-old-baby-i.html
Here read this question by a 15 year old...food for thought
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): Boys this age say a lot of things about sex, most of them lies...He probably is a virgin too.
You are too young to be examining his "bits" or to be thinking about having sexual intercourse.
Better to be focused on being the best you that you can be, finish school, go to college, fall in love, get married all that stuff. You have to be both emotionally and physically mature to have sex, and you would be best to be prepared, well protected, in a safe loving relationship and be financially able to support a life should you end up pregnant.
Talk about ending your high school years not to mention your future. Why don't you think about that "ending" for a bit..
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reader, veronika  +, writes (7 March 2010):
 Correction: BAD SEX ends when only the man comes. Actual fulfilling sex is when both partners are sexually satisfied.
However, not everybody orgasms from sex - men or women. So it's actually normal and there's nothing wrong with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2010): Sex ends when one of the partners quits. Most guys, particularly if they are not in tune with their partner's needs, quit after orgasm. Men, particularly if it's a second effort, sometimes run out of energy before they can climax. It happens, there's nothing wrong with it.
Start by teaching him about your needs, and what he can do to please you. Have him put two fingers in you while you masturbate to orgasm, so that he will know what he's aiming for. Show him where your clitoris is and how it works. If you know where it is, show him your "G" spot. If you don't know, find out. He can hit your "G" spot during intercourse, it's a rush. If he truly has feelings for you, he will be happy to please you.
Now it's your turn. Take the time to learn about him. Ask a question or two. Examine his erect penis, learn what parts are sensitive. Men's bodies are much more complex than you might think. He will be delighted to know you care that much about him.
Take some time, be patient, and you can have a wonderful and satisfying relationship. Above all, have fun.
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