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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over a month. But was was friends for a few months previously. The question is, as soon as i mention a certain good mate she talks about him. And it seems she talks to him on facebook alot aswell. As soon as she see's his name appear she sometimes say's something but not all the time. I dont mind her talking to other lads its just this certain mate she seem to talks to alot and hes a good looking guy which worrys me abit more. She says she loves me alot and it seems it. She always compliments me and never says nothing hurtful. We spend most of our time together and we both enjoy it.
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (21 February 2010):
My perspective... Two questions -- did she meet him thru you? Does she have a lot of other guy friends?
You two have only been together for a month. As a single woman she may be used to chatting up all sorts of men as friends. She may simply not realize that it makes you uncomfortable and insecure.
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reader, Honeii +, writes (21 February 2010):
You should tell her how you feel. I think maybe your girlfriend and her Ex are Just friends. But I think you shouldn't worry at all. She loves you and thats all that Matters.
"Love is all about trust"
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reader, veronika  +, writes (21 February 2010):
 It sounds like she may have a little crush on him. Generally, I don't see crushes as bad, as long as they don't hinder anything between a couple. I think it's fine to find others attractive in relationship as long as feelings aren't acted upon.
Having said that, it's harder when your SO's crush is a mate of yours. My gut instinct says that you should just ask her about it, but that could be awkward and she could get defensive and weird, she might think you're accusing her of cheating or something if she gets the wrong idea. You may just have to see if it passes.
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