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After an almost two year relatiuonship, my boyfriend and I broke up, he had commitment problems, and his job required a lot, I am devastated, how do I move on with my life?
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me out of blue 4 weeks ago after a 1 year 9 months relationship. He moved away half a year ago (4 hours drive away) but come to see me every week (his job allows him to fly in or drive over). everything was going great ...
A. 27 August 2008: oh man, they've all lost me and hopefully i stay strong and keep it that way! i thought he was the one but he messed up and i'm not interested in a relationship any time soon. just like you're taking a break and improving yourself, i'm taking a ... (read in full...)
After an almost two year relatiuonship, my boyfriend and I broke up, he had commitment problems, and his job required a lot, I am devastated, how do I move on with my life?
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me out of blue 4 weeks ago after a 1 year 9 months relationship. He moved away half a year ago (4 hours drive away) but come to see me every week (his job allows him to fly in or drive over). everything was going great ...
A. 26 August 2008: to tell you the truth, my own life is such a mess right now i feel like a hypocrite giving advice! i was talking to my super far back ex and he decided to go back to HIS ex so we aren't exactly on good terms... and a guy i dated last year who ... (read in full...)
I still have feeling for him, but he dumped me. I want to get back with him but don't want to sound desperate.
Q. My x boyfriend and I both still like each other and I want to get back together, but don't know the best way to let him know. I am scared to just tell him straight up because he is the one who broke up with me and I don't want to look desperate. ...
A. 25 August 2008: honestly, my best friend is in a similar situation. she loves him and wants to get back together but because he broke up with her i am very firmly keeping her in line.
he broke up with you, HE needs to make the first move. he hurt you first, h... (read in full...)
Is there something still between me and my ex?
Q. I had a conversation with my ex boyfriends friend who i had never met before. He asked me if i still had feelings for him and i admitted that i did. A couple of other of his friends were around at the time, would i be niave to think this ...
A. 25 August 2008: it sounds like you two have a healthy post-relationship relationship.
it sounds strictly friendly to me, though. only time will tell! things might change after you see each other.... (read in full...)
Does he truly love me, or is he with me because I do stuff to him?
Q. this is my 4th bf but his the only guy that actully kiss me...then well we started to play around. taking our clothes off but we just touch each other we don't do more than that is that natural in a relationship he tells me he loves me but ...
A. 25 August 2008: you are so young that i'm not sure anyone knows what love is at those ages! i didn't figure it out until i was 17 or so! boys these days use the words "i love you" pretty easily, and i'm not sure i like it. every once in a while you meet someone who ... (read in full...)
I like my brother's roommate. How do I tell my brother?
Q. This is quite complicated. My brother is 20 and is attending a university four hours away from where i live, and where i will go for college. I met his friend, we got along very well, we've been talking on the phone for two months, everyday. Last ...
A. 25 August 2008: why would your brother be furious? the only reason why i think he could be upset is if he knows things about his roommate that you don't and he wants to protect you. just tell him flat out and see what he says! if he is 20 he should be relatively ... (read in full...)
How should I plan this date?!
Q. i want to ask this girl out to the movies this weekend but i've never been on a date so how would i ask her like what movie is okay to watch on a first date Death race or mirrors also is a short date like burger king to eat before watchi...
A. 25 August 2008: so my recommendation is this: find out what kind of food she likes and what types of movies. do a little research then ask her if she'd like to see a certain movie with maybe an ice cream afterwards. a good night kiss is okay, but i would wait after ... (read in full...)
It'll never happen - I just wanna be his friend
Q. hi there. erm ok this is guna sound really weird but i shall do my best to explain it. i have a rather large crush on tom daley. he is the same age as me and everything. but i know it aint guna happen in like a million years. but why does it affe...
A. 25 August 2008: a lot of girls and women have celebrity crushes. some are affected more than others by it, it just depends on a grasp of reality i guess.
it is fun to love someone who will always be "there" for you, especially if there is no one else around t... (read in full...)
My online friend said he loves me but I fear his love is only platonic and that he does not understand mine!
Q. Okay, well, I met this guy over the internet who is just a year older than me. We met, chatted and had a laugh as friends. We talk on msn all the time and I love him as more than friend. Recently he told me he loved me but I fear his love is only ...
A. 25 August 2008: i am not a big fan of online relationships... is there no way you guys could meet SAFELY and see if you still feel the same way about each other in person first? before you question trying to change the way he "loves" you?... (read in full...)
He gets upset when he can't see me so should I worry that I'm being used for sex? We currently have a relationship without the 'title'....
Q. ive been in and out of relationships with this guy for about a year and 4 months now. At the moment we are seeing eachother practically dating just without the title. and yes we do hav sex. ive talked to him about gettin bakc together and making it ...
A. 25 August 2008: it sounds like he just likes staying in the "fuck buddies" relationship. you are maybe the most convenient person in his life at the moment... he gets the love, support, SEX all without any sort of commitment. is he giving you anything back? are you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is giving her number out to guys at school!
Q. Dear Cupid; I will try to keep this pretty short. Im pretty sure I am overly jealous here, but I dont quite know how to press this situation. My girlfriend and I have recently been dealing with some trust issues. Issues on her part for hiding ...
A. 25 August 2008: the way she is acting doesn't seem normal and i would feel a little curious, too. lying and stammering aren't usually good signs.
at the same time, she's there with you on a sunday night instead of with him. and projects can be importan... (read in full...)
How do I hook a guy up with my mom so she leaves my boyfriend alone?
Q. My mom tries to hide it but likes my boyfriend a LOT. (I don't blame her cause he is one yummy beefcake ;) ). So whenever he comes over she'll do things like make him brownies or tell him what a nice shirt he'd wearing. I've tried talking to her a...
A. 25 August 2008: yikes. sticky situation. has she shown interest in anyone? if not maybe she isn't meeting anyone because she isn't in the right place at the right time... maybe encourage [or force] her to have a girls night. send them off on a man-seeking ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me, I dumped him, but he seems to have really changed. Is forgiveness possible?
Q. Okay, I need some advice... I don't normally come on these asking random people for advice but I'm in a really difficult spot and thought I could hear some people's opinions. My boyfriend of a year and a half just recently cheated on me. It broke me ...
A. 25 August 2008: wow i am so sorry. what a jerk.... (read in full...)
After an almost two year relatiuonship, my boyfriend and I broke up, he had commitment problems, and his job required a lot, I am devastated, how do I move on with my life?
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me out of blue 4 weeks ago after a 1 year 9 months relationship. He moved away half a year ago (4 hours drive away) but come to see me every week (his job allows him to fly in or drive over). everything was going great ...
A. 25 August 2008: well honesty is always best. either he misses you too and showing him you hurt will make him realize there is still hope, or maybe not. and maybe he will realize he cant be such a dbag next time around.
hiding feelings does nothing in my opinion.... (read in full...)
My parents beat me, my fiance is the only one keeping me going. I made her parents angry and I might not see her again. What do I do?
Q. Im lost... Me and my fiance are 18 and 17, she honestly keeps me alive, im beat daily by my parents, and i cant keep going with out her. Ive made her parents rly mad at me cause i snuck over after a huge fight with my parents. I may not see her ...
A. 16 August 2008: glad to hear things worked out... (read in full...)
Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?
Q. ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i...
A. 16 August 2008: didnt you use protection? get a couple pregnancy tests as soon as you can and get them done. call an advice nurse and ask her for her opinion. find out definitely as soon as you can so you can find out what you want to do.... (read in full...)
I warned him that if he doesn't start wising up it will be over... what now?
Q. My boyfriend (whos a few years older then me) is wants go all the way with me but I'm not ready. He been putting a lot of stesse on me. Like the other day were in his car after a date and he was all over me. I didn't like it. Push him off then got ...
A. 15 August 2008: no, i'm proud of you!... (read in full...)
My husband went away for a week claiming that he needed some time alone. I have discovered all kinds of things on Facebook from his 18 yo 'friend.' Guess where he went away.
Q. My husband and I have been having some marriage troubles...he went away for a week claiming that he needed some time alone. I have recently gone onto Facebook and he is on there too. I have discovered all these sexy, love, suggestive bumper ...
A. 15 August 2008: this is no coincidence, and this is not paranoia. you need to dance your way out of his life because i agree with everything happy said. there is something going on!!... (read in full...)
After an almost two year relatiuonship, my boyfriend and I broke up, he had commitment problems, and his job required a lot, I am devastated, how do I move on with my life?
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me out of blue 4 weeks ago after a 1 year 9 months relationship. He moved away half a year ago (4 hours drive away) but come to see me every week (his job allows him to fly in or drive over). everything was going great ...
A. 15 August 2008: he might honestly just want his stuff back.
be strong, but don't be afraid to let him know you're hurting. if he wants to come back he will, if not... it happens to the best of us. again, gl! be nice haha!... (read in full...)
Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?
Q. ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i...
A. 15 August 2008: oh honey =/... (read in full...)
My period is a week late and now I can't get the feeling out of my mind that I'm pregnant. HELP!
Q. i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few weeks ago and i was due for my period a week ago btu havn't yet came on,, i can be irregular but what should i do?,, we did use protection but i can't get the feeling out of my head that i could ...
A. 15 August 2008: i second junebug!... (read in full...)
Is my Boyfriend on the Downlow? (secretly gay).
Q. Hello My name is Natasha and i wanted to know if my boyfriend was on the Downlow? We dated for six months and he waited until i was ready to have sex. Which is Rare in men but we had sex and it was good. What makes me think hes on a Downlow hes ...
A. 15 August 2008: yikes. yup, i did theater for a long time and my gaydar is pretty accurate. just by reading that i sense something a little fishy...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to post naked pictures of me on the net!
Q. Need your help... My boyfriend took a lot pictures of me naked and want to post on the internet. Dont really know if is going to be alright. The pictures dont show my face but shows everything else...I still not sure if is going to ok after we ...
A. 15 August 2008: i personally wouldn't want my naked pictures online... everything can be traced on the internet so not only could you have some creepers trying to stalk you down, but if you happen to get a great job i'm sure they would background check for those ... (read in full...)
I should tell him that my suggestion about having sex was a bad idea?
Q. Please HELP!! I suggested to my b/f that we should have sex, then he acted different towards me like he was pulling away. Several weeks later he's with another girl and having sex with her. For the purpose of bringing closure for myself, and beca...
A. 15 August 2008: don't act bitter or show that you are lingering. it makes the guy feel even more powerful and in control.
just smile, flirt, and show that you are having a great if not better life without him!... (read in full...)
I am depressed. I fool aroung with a married man, I only talk to my ex, they both treat me like crap, I am an a treadmill, going nowhere in life, how do I change all of this?
Q. I dont even know where to start. I have become a needy person. i think everything started with my ex. i was with him 4 1/2 years and for what he cheated, lied and everything else, i met a guy that was an ass after i broke up with him got pregnant ...
A. 15 August 2008: you are 21 with a bright future ahead of you! you just need to do a little life reorganization. first off, i'm sure you will agree with me when i say STOP SEEING the ex and the married man! you are nobody's fool, and nobody's scapegoat. you are a ... (read in full...)
Will he come and look for me? Or will he go to his ex?
Q. Hello, here is my issue. It's little complicated but please bear with me because I really need your insight to my problem. Okay here the issue. 6yrs ago I met a guy who was in the military. He told me he loved me and wanted to married me. I wa...
A. 14 August 2008: so what i gathered from this is that:
1. your exhusband is garbage and i really don't want you going back to a cheater who can't offer you love!
but more importantly:
2. your exboyfriend needs to figure things out on his own. it sounds like ... (read in full...)
My turkish fella didn't have a visa and he's been sent back to Turkey. I don't know what to do.
Q. i met my turkish fella back in january this year. in july i found out that he didnt have a visa to be here and now he has been sent back to turkey. i love him so much and miss him. the only problem is that i have been told the only way he can come ...
A. 14 August 2008: i'm half turkish! and some turkish men are pretty conservative but for the most part i've never met someone who wasn't very nice. the culture is very warm and welcoming, and i'm not saying that just because i grew up with it as part of my life! you ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble getting closer to my girlfriend and communicating with her properly.
Q. My girlfriend of 2 months is great! she's funny, stylish, and is full of energy. Makes me wonder why the hell she would even WANT to date me. The problem I'm having is: it is near impossible for me to talk to her or get close to her. I just wont let ...
A. 14 August 2008: sounds like you're afraid to be with her because you think it isn't going to last! you've put her up on a pedestal and you need to take her down pronto for the relationship to work out. don't think "why is she dating me", think "she is lucky to have ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lied to me big time. Should I break up with him?
Q. so basically my boyfriend lied to me. big time. for starters, i don't want to be with someone that does drugs or drinks. so he told me that he's never going to drink or smoke weed ever again. so i trusted him and believe him. but then his friend ...
A. 14 August 2008: the fact is your boyfriend drinks and does drugs. he is addicted, he likes the person he portrays with a joint in his hand, he likes the feeling... bottom line is he does it.
you might love him, but if you don't want to be with someone who does... (read in full...)
I met this cute, smart guy, had an encounter, a lot of fun and went on my way without a number or any way to contact him, he is constanly on my mind, what do I do to remove these thoughts?
Q. I met this great guy by total chance, and we hit it off right away. He was cute, built, and smart. We talked for hours and ended up doing more than just talking, if you catch my drift. I took off without catching his number or giving him mine, like ...
A. 14 August 2008: sometimes there are those strangers you just meet who touch your life. i've been there, too.... (read in full...)
I like an older guy, how can I make my family and friends see it the way I do?
Q. I like an older guy and I think age is just a number..but how can I make my family and friends see it the way that I do?? I really need help!...
A. 14 August 2008: think** lol sorry.... (read in full...)
I am 17 and I like an older guy..please help me!
Q. Okay so I am 17 and the guy that I like is 30 years old. I dont know what to do. He is the most amazing guy that I have ever met. Hes not immature like the boys my age. I know that there is a huge gap between our age difference but I think age is ...
A. 14 August 2008: i agree with mccool, even though i personally would never let any of my friends date a 30 year old, and we are a couple years older than you. i would set them up with every hot model guy friend in our age range i knew first!
13 years is a humongou... (read in full...)
I'm scared of leaving this controlling guy because of his threats
Q. I have been in this realtionship for 10 years. We have had alot of problems. When I first met him we dated for like 2 years and seem to be the sweetwst guy on earth. When we got married it all seem to change slowly a little at a time. When he was ...
A. 14 August 2008: leave him. if you have good enough evidence you could get him for abuse, and if he scares you you can get a restraining order and protection.
your number one priority should be that you are healthy and happy, and right now this man is all bad for ... (read in full...)
What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin?
Q. What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin. thats my situation. im not ugly or fat....
A. 14 August 2008: honestly, i would find it a turn on. i don't necessarily like boys who have slept around. it means sex doesn't mean the same to them as it does to me, and we have different priorities in relationships!... (read in full...)
The guy I'm seeing tells me that hes not happy with his wife and the marriage is only on paper to him and she is just a roommate?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. He is married and i knew that the day i met him. Ive known him longer than ive been seeing him. I am in love with him and i know for sure he is my future. He was the one to say I love you first and ...
A. 14 August 2008: well tell him a divorce is only paper, too, and he needs to end that relationship before he can properly start one with you!
because as of right now, he is cheating on his wife with you. i am sure if he cares about you, and you care about yourself... (read in full...)
Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?
Q. ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i...
A. 14 August 2008: honestly, i think you are too young. far too young. you're as old as my little sister! i feel like i need to go give her the sex talk now!
i lost my virginity my 1st year of college, and i thought it was perfect timing. i was physically ready fo... (read in full...)
Sometimes I want to be with him forever and other times I'm so mean to him!
Q. hi. so most people would love to have the relationship i have. it's all perfect. minus the fights. but we're so close and stuff. sometimes i feel like i wanna be with him forever but other times i'm so mean to him and i just don't want to be with ...
A. 14 August 2008: is there a reason why there are arguments? are you guys not compatible? you are pushing him away? are you afraid of becoming vulnerable? nitpicking over small things that don't really matter? not accepting him for who he is? pms?
take all of those... (read in full...)
I want to convince her that the distance is something easily overcome, but I don't know what to tell her other than what I already have said!
Q. So i met this girl over the summer at a camp, and we hit it off right from the start, and we've just been talking non-stop for the past month and a half, and she does have a boyfriend, but she says she sees a longer lasting and more fulfilling ...
A. 14 August 2008: you're doing the best you can. my advice is to just make her like you more and more through phone conversations and visits. honestly, 40 minutes is nothing!
what i am worried about is the fact that she is dating someone and is already looking ... (read in full...)
Do I choose my ex or meet my online friend?
Q. recently i have broke up with my boyfriend who i loved and adored sooo much, but i finished him... i bet your wunderin why, well because i started seaking to a guy on the internet and really fell for him the thing is hes older than i am.. my boyfri...
A. 14 August 2008: honestly, i cannot believe you broke up with a guy you love because of an online fling! i definitely say ex over online dude, for sure!
you don't know who that online person is, what they've done, what they like, how old they are... everythi... (read in full...)
I like an older guy, how can I make my family and friends see it the way I do?
Q. I like an older guy and I think age is just a number..but how can I make my family and friends see it the way that I do?? I really need help!...
A. 14 August 2008: first of all, how old is he? parents and loved ones will tend to be cautious about these sorts of things because they KNOW that in most cases the older guy could be too much for the younger, more innocent sweetheart [i don't know if you are, but ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my best friend and now we've stopped talking. Help!
Q. I am 16 and had sex with my best guy friend we we're safe but it hurt at first but after that it was fine. i don't what to do when we we're around 14 we always used to finger eachother.but after we had sex we stoped talking to eachother i don't know ...
A. 14 August 2008: talk to him. maybe he feels unsure about what happened. maybe he wasn't ready. maybe he is afraid you want more. maybe he felt inadequate. maybe he wants to do it again but is keeping away because he doesn't want to change the relationship!
in an... (read in full...)
I don't like being intimate with a guy after sex. Is this normal?
Q. Okay. I have a problem in that I hate being intimate with a guy after the act. But love sex. And I mean seriously love it. But I hate the intimacy afterwards. After I'm done, its rare that I want a cuddle unless I really dig the guy. So when a guy ...
A. 14 August 2008: from what i know, it is normal for guys to behave that way, but not as normal for girls. there are always exceptions, but that seems to be a generality.
i think this because i have many girl friends who all agree we like to be held after sex. i k... (read in full...)
How long do I wait to start dating again?
Q. I recently moved and broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years who I lived with, and thought about marrying. I've been seeing this guy, but I think it's too soon in my life. How long should I wait to date again? and also I'm 20 should I date someone who ...
A. 14 August 2008: 14 years is a pretty big gap, but it's happened before and it will happen again. if you like the man, don't judge the relationship by age. if you were younger i would advise against it, but you are old enough to know who you are and what you can ... (read in full...)
I met this cute, smart guy, had an encounter, a lot of fun and went on my way without a number or any way to contact him, he is constanly on my mind, what do I do to remove these thoughts?
Q. I met this great guy by total chance, and we hit it off right away. He was cute, built, and smart. We talked for hours and ended up doing more than just talking, if you catch my drift. I took off without catching his number or giving him mine, like ...
A. 14 August 2008: where did you meet? if it was at a hotel or activity place, they might have records of him that you might be able to bribe out of some romantic. if not, they might be able to play middleman matchmaker.
if not, sorry hun. ads in the newspape... (read in full...)
My parents beat me, my fiance is the only one keeping me going. I made her parents angry and I might not see her again. What do I do?
Q. Im lost... Me and my fiance are 18 and 17, she honestly keeps me alive, im beat daily by my parents, and i cant keep going with out her. Ive made her parents rly mad at me cause i snuck over after a huge fight with my parents. I may not see her ...
A. 14 August 2008: why did you need to sneak over? i think you need to apologize to the parents and promise that you will be honest from now on. maybe explain that you are going through a tough time [if you don't want to mention exactly what].
in the meantime... (read in full...)
I warned him that if he doesn't start wising up it will be over... what now?
Q. My boyfriend (whos a few years older then me) is wants go all the way with me but I'm not ready. He been putting a lot of stesse on me. Like the other day were in his car after a date and he was all over me. I didn't like it. Push him off then got ...
A. 14 August 2008: it sounds like you have talked to him before but he is getting antsy. give him another shot. if he doesn't keep his paws off, i say break things off with him. he needs to learn how to respect your wishes now, or later on there will be some big ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated on me, I dumped him, but he seems to have really changed. Is forgiveness possible?
Q. Okay, I need some advice... I don't normally come on these asking random people for advice but I'm in a really difficult spot and thought I could hear some people's opinions. My boyfriend of a year and a half just recently cheated on me. It broke me ...
A. 14 August 2008: you are in almost the exact situation i was in with my 2 year relationship. YES people change. from my personal experience: he cheated on me, i was heartbroken. it took me months to stop crying, and years to forgive him. we dated 2 years, it has ... (read in full...)
After an almost two year relatiuonship, my boyfriend and I broke up, he had commitment problems, and his job required a lot, I am devastated, how do I move on with my life?
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me out of blue 4 weeks ago after a 1 year 9 months relationship. He moved away half a year ago (4 hours drive away) but come to see me every week (his job allows him to fly in or drive over). everything was going great ...
A. 12 August 2008: honestly, try not to think about it. it's in the past now. take a couple minutes to give yourself some constructive criticism and then actively forget about the rest. it won't help in any way, only make you linger, only make you sad. and don't blame ... (read in full...)
After an almost two year relatiuonship, my boyfriend and I broke up, he had commitment problems, and his job required a lot, I am devastated, how do I move on with my life?
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me out of blue 4 weeks ago after a 1 year 9 months relationship. He moved away half a year ago (4 hours drive away) but come to see me every week (his job allows him to fly in or drive over). everything was going great ...
A. 12 August 2008: i am very proud of you for letting him go and for not trying to talk with him more than is necessary. those are two things most people have great difficulty with after a rough break up, and you seem to be doing well so far without any help!
you l... (read in full...)
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