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writes: My boyfriend (whos a few years older then me) is wants go all the way with me but I'm not ready. He been putting a lot of stesse on me. Like the other day were in his car after a date and he was all over me. I didn't like it. Push him off then got out of his car. I did talked to him before saying he if doesnt start wising up it will be over. My question is: Should I dump him or talk to him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy boyfriend wants me back. Hes "sorry" about last night. im not going to him because he had a chance to wise up. But he wont leave me alone.
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (15 August 2008):
 no, i'm proud of you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso talked my bf about the car incident telling him about why I didnt like it. Then later week that we had a date and he was all over me... again. This time I had enough, I pushed him off dump with him on the spot. Was that too harsh?
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Well first up, good on your for sticking to your guns.
As superrrshawna mentioned, it sounds as though you've already mentioned it to him, which is good.
I'd say sit him down once more and tell him exactly what your issue is - let him know that you don't want to go all the way, and that he can't make you. But also try and get his point of view on the subject - perhaps your idea of him being 'all over you' is just a bit of making out to him. You may have different ideas about what constitutes 'going to far', so make sure you are both on the same wavelength.
And after that, if he doesn't stop, then by all means dump his sorry ass. A man who can't respect girlfriend's boundaries is not much of a man at all.
Take care. =)
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reader, superrrshawna +, writes (14 August 2008):
it sounds like you have talked to him before but he is getting antsy. give him another shot. if he doesn't keep his paws off, i say break things off with him. he needs to learn how to respect your wishes now, or later on there will be some big problems!
good luck!
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