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What is the difference between loving someone and being in love?

Q.   What is the difference between just loving someone and being in love?...

A.   16 September 2008: being in love means that you really really care about that person and you would do anythin for them. if u are in love then u will just know. lovin someone is the same as lovin ya mum or dad they are just there and u dont think bout them all time. ... (read in full...)

His actions are telling me he really like me...what do you think?

Q.   hi i'm really confused i really want to know if this lad likes me i really like him! we first saw each other at this fitness class that we go to and he is always staring at me and when we first met i smiled at him when he was staring and he went ...

A.   12 September 2008: well that is very obvious that he does like you. dont forget boys are alot more shier than girls you would not believe. just pluck up the courage, go over to him and start chatting face to face. what the worst that can happen. good luck... (read in full...)

I'm kinda scared of getting hurt or rejected because I haven't felt this way about a girl since my ex and I broke up .

Q.   I'm 18 and havent dated for a long time since january when me and my ex broke up, and ever since i've been doing my own thing not giving myself time for girls. i've seen girls but it didnt really work out because i never put in time for them because ...

A.   12 September 2008: ok you needs to get out this rut. tell her exactly how you feel, you have not known her for long so the worst thing that she can say is no. doubtfully though concidering you two were supposed to meet each other. she must be interested. buy a ... (read in full...)

I'm going crazy! I can't help but think that my boyfriend is going to cheat on me!

Q.   Okay, so I can't help but think my boyfriend is going to cheat on me! And in all reality, there is absolutly NO reason for me to be feeling that way. He has never done it before, and he always tells me how much he loves me and how I am the best ...

A.   12 September 2008: ok it seams you are struggling with self confidence. you need to lighyen up a bit else he is going to do exactly that! maybe some councelling might help with self asteem and confidence in yourself. ... (read in full...)

I hurt my soulmate because of talking to my ex. How do I get him to trust me again?

Q.   I'm having a problem with my boyfriend whom i really love and at one time we felt like soul mates we would finish each others sentences, he made my heart skip a beat every time he called me or came around my heart would race. but like a dickhead i ...

A.   12 September 2008: hey, it seams like u too are a bit 'too close' ok well firstly you need to explain that you didnt mean any harm in it. if there is no trust then the relationship will not work. talking to ex boyfriends whilst seeing somebody is usually a no-go. give ... (read in full...)

She has a boyfriend but says she would rather be with me. Why doesn't she break up with him and should I wait?

Q.   I have known this girl for about 5 years. and we are really good friends. She has had boyfriends on and off in the time that i've known her but i've never thought to ask her out. I have been spending alot of time with her lately and we've been ...

A.   12 September 2008: at the moment concidering she is still with another bloke i think u should just wait. but dont dwell on it there are other girls out there too. if she wants u serioustly then she will end it. just wait and see what happens. good luck bab... (read in full...)

I have below average boobs....what can I do?

Q.   i got this problem with my boobs. they are not like really small but they are below average. i have never taken my top off 4 any bloke and my boyfriend always asked me why. im so concious that if i do it might put him off. even though he knows what ...

A.   11 September 2008: thankyou you both helped ... (read in full...)

What are the symptoms of depression?

Q.   How do you know if you are depressed? and how do you go about getting help? I feel that I could have mild depression but I am not sure, I used to be happy the majority of the time but now I just feel like "what's the point" and I basically just s...

A.   11 September 2008: you need to look deep inside yourself and ask yourself questions. you could have mild depression. there is so much help out there though dont leave it too long you better getting it sorted sooner rather than later. no one has to know if u dont want.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated on me, and my family thought we broke up because of his cheating, I am still secretly still dating him, how do I keep my family from finding out about him?

Q.   So i dont care what you say about me but i would like advice please.. but yeah im dating this guy and we've been dating for awhile and yeah hes cheated on my once and the family knows...but me and him are secretly dating...none of my family knows,...

A.   11 September 2008: well has it got anythin to do wit ya family? no so just come clean and tell them. there is not alot that can do apart from give u advice and maybe critasise... (read in full...)

We've been together forever, so should I stay because of that?

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years. I'm 18 years old and he's 20. Lately I'm starting to realise just how long that is. I mean, 5 years! That was my whole teenage life! Anyway, I keep having doubts like this about our relationship, ...

A.   11 September 2008: well first of all u need to let him know either way how u are feeling. he is going to be hurt but he will be even more hurt if he finds out that u are seeing somebody else. it is your life and he will be fine! if you feel this unhappy then you are ... (read in full...)

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