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Is my Boyfriend on the Downlow? (secretly gay).

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Question - (15 August 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello My name is Natasha and i wanted to know if my boyfriend was on the Downlow? We dated for six months and he waited until i was ready to have sex. Which is Rare in men but we had sex and it was good. What makes me think hes on a Downlow hes always checking out guys starring at them hard. He has a Male friend that always comes over and they are always down the basement together and hes always in a good mood when his friend leaves. He told me when we first dated that he used to do hair and make up etc. He spends more time then me in the bathroom he has a lot of female friends and a couple of gay male friends We went dancing a couple of months ago and he was dancing with his butt in the air poping it and making his booty shake and hes always wearing the color pink. Please help me and let me know if the man of my dreams is gay?

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A female reader, xXemieXemieXx United States +, writes (31 May 2009):

he isnt gay he likes you a lot but he is scared to tell you that he is bi sexual

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008):

He may be and may not be. Just confront him and ask if anything is okay.

If he is Gay the best thing you can do is support him in this.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (15 August 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

I thought this was probably a joke post. But we do see quite a lot of these ( especially from our American friends) , so yes he is gay, and most likely needs a girlfriend for social acceptance with family/work etc.

It's your choice, are you happy dating a gay man? probably not, so let him fool someone else.

good luck.

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A female reader, superrrshawna United States +, writes (15 August 2008):

superrrshawna agony auntyikes. yup, i did theater for a long time and my gaydar is pretty accurate. just by reading that i sense something a little fishy...

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A female reader, °Ale° Colombia +, writes (15 August 2008):

°Ale° agony auntOoops!

At first I thought he could just be metro sexual. But the "booty shake" and the circle of friends, plus the hair and make up. Hmm... that's a little pink flag going on. Perhaps he's Bi? Why don't you try talking to him?

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