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My boyfriend wants to post naked pictures of me on the net!

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Question - (15 August 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *ylviarodrigues writes:

Need your help... My boyfriend took a lot pictures of me naked and want to post on the internet. Dont really know if is going to be alright. The pictures dont show my face but shows everything else...I still not sure if is going to ok after we post... Give me some advice...

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A male reader, DocBroc555 United Kingdom +, writes (12 June 2009):

It's natural for men to want to show off their girlfriend - although I've never taken naked photos of my partner or ever considered posting something like that in the public domain - I can assure you that he finds you very atttractive...it's just his way of telling you that he thinks you're uber-hot and wants to show you off.

Personally, I'd accomplish the above by taking you to a decent clothes shop and get you a classy coctail dress.

Your boyfriend just has a more 'exhibitionist' and 'digital' approach. Does he play video games a lot? That might explain it...

Don't let it get to you - roll with it... take some naked pictures of him as collateral (;p heh!)

Good luck anyhow!

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A male reader, sum1fun Canada +, writes (5 October 2008):

I have posted tons of pics, it's a personal decision is all. I personally find it to be a huge turn on and will send pics to anyone who wants them but I do it in a safe manner so it is only seen by people who want to see it and hey, if your proud of your body why not show it and feel good about yourself. Be careful about the background etc. it can give you away.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2008):

Why would he want to do that???

It can get back to u. And once those pics are out there abd downloaded on other guys' computers, you ain't never getting it back!!!

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (15 August 2008):

Yos agony auntDon't let him.

I knew someone who let her boyfriend post naked pictures of her online, without her face showing. She thought it was anonymous...

It took about 30 seconds to see who had uploaded them, and see his other pictures, and for people to but 1 + 1 together and see who she was. He had of course, at another time, uploaded pictures of him and her together, with both their faces showing.

Besides, what possible reason could you have for wanting naked pictures of you online?

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A male reader, BlowinUPinMIA United States +, writes (15 August 2008):

sorry if you take this answers the wrong way..but u don't have respect for yourself and your boyfriend dont have respect for you.....why would you let him do that. thats something that should be share between yall only...dont be surprised if all his friends has seen dem by the way.

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A female reader, superrrshawna United States +, writes (15 August 2008):

superrrshawna agony aunti personally wouldn't want my naked pictures online... everything can be traced on the internet so not only could you have some creepers trying to stalk you down, but if you happen to get a great job i'm sure they would background check for those things first...

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