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-single but not really
-california
-longest relationship = 2 years, second place = 6 months (over a year if you count the new unofficial developments)
-has had a one night stand
-outgoing to the point of extremism
-well known party girl
-quite popular (humbly stated)
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Is my friend spiking my drinks and manipulating me?
Q. Hey, I Had this friend that I could really relate to, even though I was in denial about that. We went outto China White and other beautiful clubs... We fell out at as I felt she was always jealous of me and allowed her friends that fancied...
A. 11 August 2008: are you sure her friends spiked your drinks? maybe you are just a light weight who cannot handle alcohol, if they were alcoholic beverages... you didn't specify.
the way you describe her, you aren't a fan. so just allow the friendship to dwindle.... (read in full...)
Are you still a virgin if the guy uses a condom?
Q. ok so i have a question about condoms. If i have sex with a guy and he uses a condom, am i still a virgin or does his bare skin and sperm have to be inside of me ?...
A. 11 August 2008: penis inside vagina = sex.
therefore, since you have had his penis inside of you, condom or not, you are not a virgin.... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with the guy I don't like as much?
Q. Dear Cupid, I really like this guy(j) but i also like his best friend(joe). Joe asked me to have sex with him but i dont like him as much as j. I want to have sex with joe but im afraid that it will hurt my relationship with j. i know i should...
A. 11 August 2008: he just wants to have sex with you randomly as a one time hook up? can you just say you are not that type of girl and that you are interested in someone else?
a simple "no" should suffice... with a smile so he doesn't get his feelings hurt!... (read in full...)
We were just a fling--is it still just physical for him?
Q. hey i need some help and im hoping someone can advise me about my situation... i recently got together with this guy after a being unoffical with him for 8 months... we started off just as a fling, just fooling around and enjoying each others comp...
A. 11 August 2008: it sounds like there are mutual feelings and mutual interests if you two have been together for a while and are in a somewhat substantial relationship.
that being said, you're in the 18-21 age range, which to me says college. i'm good friends ... (read in full...)
Does he even remotely feel my pain? Do guys hurt like girls in a break up?
Q. I have been a relationship for 2 years with a guy that I thought I would marry. We have been having alot of problems for the past several months. He continued to push the relationship because he wanted a life with me. We tried to work through ...
A. 11 August 2008: he does feel the pain. he was not giving up on the relationship per se. it sounds like he tried very hard, but in the end realized he needs to get his own act together first. he does miss you. don't doubt any of those.
i was in a similar situatio... (read in full...)
I'm madly in love with him, but I know he doesn't feel the same way
Q. Theres this boy at school whos 2 years older than me and i never really took any interest in him before but then about 4-5 months ago my mate told him that i fancied him which was a total lie, but i found it really embarrassing! For the next 2 ...
A. 11 August 2008: ew, i'm not liking the sound of the older guy OR your lying friend. they both seem pretty manipulative, using people for their amusement! my advice is to distance yourself from them both!!
heartbreak is really tough, but everyone goes through ... (read in full...)
My best friend and her ex broke up two weeks ago. I always liked him. Should I go for it?
Q. hi i am in love. he is my best friends old boyfriend. they borke up two weeks ago. i always liked him but now hes available i really want him. should i go for it? how can i tell if he is interested? HELP !...
A. 11 August 2008: don't do it!
2 weeks is too soon, if ever. if your best friend is really your best friend, i say wait until she has to strain her memory to remember this guy. if you still want to go through with it, MAKE SURE YOU ASK. it won't really do anything... (read in full...)
She drives and I can't. What do I do if I were to ask her out for a first date?
Q. Ok she is 17 is around the same age as me but is about 7-8 months older than me. We are both senior highschool students this year. I don't really mind if she's older than me with a gap that small. I send at least 1 txt a day just to keep contact. ...
A. 10 August 2008: if she likes you, she won't care! chances are she probably already knows you don't drive, right? well then ask her if she wants to go on a picnic to the park, and then say you would love to take her out to a movie or dinner but she'd need to drive. ... (read in full...)
How do I get to meet boys when I have no friends living close?
Q. hi there, okay so i am a 15yr old girl. I havnt had a boyfriend or even been kissed yet :( Like you watch films and read books and that with romance and whatever in it, and it just makes you feel you want to have a boyfriend - however sad that...
A. 10 August 2008: i had a sweet sixteen! i think my first kiss was after my 16th birthday. and imagine, i went to an all girls high school... it wasn't easy meeting boys! and although we are a long way off, i just want you to know that the media skews everything. it ... (read in full...)
I feel lonely and depressed and my daughter is also miserable because she's 100% daddy's girl and can't stand to be away from him. Advice?
Q. I've been with Lance for 5 years, we have a 3 year old daughter together but never married. Things were good the first couple of years but I need a change. After I finished college I started my career and gained more independence. I met someone else ...
A. 10 August 2008: it doesn't sound like it was a completely healthy relationship with lance, but at the same time you two seem to really care about each other. you miss him, and his insecurity tells me he cares about you, too, although he doesn't show it in a healthy ... (read in full...)
I need help to cope with my confusing friend!
Q. My friends too confusing. Ive been good friends with my friend for around three years. Recently we have got loads closer and was seeing eachother/phoning/texting each other loads. There wasn't a day go by without half a dozen texts from her or a 2 h...
A. 10 August 2008: if she matters to you, you need to give up your stubbornness and tell her things straight up. say something along the lines of:
"hi... are you okay? we haven't been talking as much lately and i miss you. i feel that you have been avoiding me. i'm ... (read in full...)
I'm losing touch with reality, help me!
Q. I'm 16, but for some reason I always feel like I've lost touch with reality, or like I'm in a dream? Does anyone think this is because I've been having sleeping problems for about a month or so, but just recently, I just feel like nothing is real ...
A. 10 August 2008: maybe you are really tired and there is just a haze on everything? go to the doctor and get some sleeping pills or something! have you tried chamomile before bedtime, warm milk, or other household remedies? when i was your age i never experienced ... (read in full...)
Have I ruined it for me and him?
Q. well ive known this boy for around 4 years and he is like my best friend and always calls me names messing about teases me and we have a good laugh. and the other day someone told him how i feel about him and since then the teasing has gone down and...
A. 10 August 2008: i definitely don't think you ruined anything! so stop thinking that way! he may just be confused with his feelings towards you, since going from friends to something more might have never crossed his mind. i think he likes you just because ... (read in full...)
Where is it best to find bisexual women for intimate encounters?
Q. I have always been bi-curious and have always wanted to experiment sexually with women. Experimenting with female friends or friends of friends is out of the question as I would like to do this in secret without all the unnecessary judgment and ...
A. 10 August 2008: if you want to do it in secret, avoid friends of friends. i say clubs or bars are your best bet. if you don't have anyone you trust enough to bring with you, it could be intimidating to go alone, but just walk in with a smile on your face and i'm ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I've damaged myself
Q. I just read about a girl on this that stuck a hairbrush into her vagina.. And other people saying she could turn sterile etc and its really worrying me as about a year and a half ago i read that you should practise sex with a carrot so that sex ...
A. 10 August 2008: you need to see a doctor. they've seen and heard it all, so be honest because it sounds like you could have hurt yourself and you will need help.... (read in full...)
I need to find the courage to leave my boyfriend
Q. I need to find the courage to leave my boyfriend. Can anybody out there relate? We've been together 5 years and lived together for 3. I know I sound absolutely awful, but I keep thinking about how awkward the whole thing will be. We live together...
A. 10 August 2008: is this a definite break up? have you talked to him about it and tried to compromise and work things out first? after 5 years together, maybe you two owe it to yourselves and each other to try and resolve differences?
if you have and nothing ... (read in full...)
I took precautions, but could I be pregnant?
Q. Hey. Just needed some advice on something. I've had protected sex a couple of times in the last few weeks but I'm now late on my period by almost a week and I've had what feels like something hammering in my head for the last few days,I still have ...
A. 10 August 2008: what is protected sex? if you only used condoms, there is always a chance one tore or it was used incorrectly... a year or so ago i had the exact same scare where i was only using condoms and i was late. i ran to the drugstore, bought several ... (read in full...)
Why are guys so sex obsessed?!
Q. I mean its fun and feels really good but girls can live without it. Girls like it a lot too but dont want to sleep with almost ever guy they see, unlike guys. I really dont understand why a guy will also lie or do anything just to get sex. I heard ...
A. 9 August 2008: not every guy is like that, we are generalizing here... i know many girls who need sex more than some of my guy friends do!
that being said, for the most part it does seem as if girls are a little more restrained when it comes to sexual activity... (read in full...)
I go out of my way for guys I like and then they just dump me! It's happened 3 times--what is wrong?
Q. I don't seem to be finding the right guy. I'm always going out of my way for any guy I like, mind you they are always the ones chasing me at first, then when I get with them, they act like everything is fine and then just don't ever call again. It's ...
A. 9 August 2008: the chase is the fun part! it seems to me like you are wanting to be with someone too badly and are showing your cards too early! if they show interest, let them! play them a little! act coy, hard to get, let them know that you have other options. ... (read in full...)
It was great before we moved in together..now we fight all the time. What should I do?
Q. ok so ive been with my boy friend for 2 years now and weve been living together for a yr. everything was really great before we moved in together. i dont kno what to do. we fight more than anything. like verbal fighting. for some reason i feel like ...
A. 9 August 2008: this is why i personally feel it is a great idea to live with someone before marrying them. when two people are dating everything can seem harmonious, but the second lives are completely entwined so many little discrepancies can appear!
maybe... (read in full...)
She stuffs her bra!
Q. so my girlfriend and me were making out (going I'm to G rated for you a bit) and other "stuff". I found out she stuffs her bra. She ran out of the room when I say must have somethng imsensitive. Why is she being over sensitive and stuffing her bra ...
A. 9 August 2008: girls get self conscious. chances are she likes you a lot and just wants to impress you and she thought making her chest look bigger would work. sad thing is it backfired, so now instead of you liking her more she is probably humiliated and worried ... (read in full...)
How can I get the love of my life back in my life?? Help!
Q. im jerrold and my girl friend and been knowing each other since pre-k and she broke up wit me for one of my best friends we havent talked for 3 mouths so how can i get the love of my life back in my life....
A. 9 August 2008: focus on yourself. it's rough, but it seems like you aren't the one for her right now. make your life about you, not about her! there are so many other girls out there, when you stop focusing on your ex you might just find someone who cares about ... (read in full...)
I'm not even sure if she really loves me. Am I just being paranoid?
Q. My trust issues are getting the way of my marriage. I'm 22 my wife is 28, she also has a 3 year old from another man.We got married after only a few months of knowing each other. When we met, she was in the biggest hurry to get married: She wanted ...
A. 9 August 2008: have you spoken this openly with her? i think you need to get it all off of your chest and take it from there.... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me more than just a friend?
Q. i've known this guy since kindergarten and we are the best of friends but i liked him since the day we met cos he's so sweet to me. He goes all out of his way to help me. All his friends tease me cos i like him and among his friends is my ex who ...
A. 9 August 2008: i know he deeply cares about you. what we need to figure out is whether it is brotherly love or boyfriend material! if everything is strictly friendly the way you described it with maybe a little bit of flirting i think you two might be in the ... (read in full...)
My girl is about to embark on an arranged marriage to her cousin. Is there anything I can do to stop it happening?
Q. I have been in serious situation right now..I am from asian origin..I used to date this girl for 2 yrs..She is 20 and im 25...we had lil ups and downs..nothin major in our relationship...Last month she went on vacation to california to visit her ...
A. 9 August 2008: it is not fair that you were with her for 2 years and she was married in 2 months. but it seems like her family made the decision for her and she was okay enough with it to go through with it. she is married now, your ex does not have the time to ... (read in full...)
I've loved my brother in law since I was six years old, I don't want to destroy my family - so what should I do?
Q. I was raised without my 3 sisters. My mother had another family before us and left them to be raised with their father and grandmother - then she had us with our father. Then he died. I was not raised with my other siblings. One half sister ...
A. 9 August 2008: you want honesty, and that is what i will give you. i can respect the love you two have for each other, especially because it has lasted over so many decades.
BUT YOU CANNOT DO WHAT YOU ARE DOING.
he is not yours. you are not his. and you are... (read in full...)
I want to fall out of love with my best friend - my other friends would hate me!
Q. i'm attracted to both females and male. i just can't control it. i wished i'm normal. and i kind of fell in love with one of my bestfriend. i wish i could tell someone about it. but in my country if you're a lesbian or a gay. you would be ...
A. 9 August 2008: that's tough, and i'm sorry you have to deal with discrimination. if you are really afraid of the consequences, i think it would be best just to keep your feelings to yourself. it isn't the best, but it doesn't seem like you are prepared to handle ... (read in full...)
Should I believe him when he tells me he's not dating his ex?
Q. My boyfriend use to be in a relationship with this girl from him home country. She talks to him all the time, even when i tell him it bothers me that they still talk. He told me before he use to be in love with this girl, and that they did EVER...
A. 9 August 2008: i think they still have feelings for each other. whether or not they are dating, i am not sure.
but the fact is he is unable to commit to a relationship with you fully because there are still some things that need to be resolved in his arena. i... (read in full...)
How do I know if online guy is interested?
Q. i have been talking this guy online for about a month. we have never met but we have a few mutual friends and study at the same college institute. whilst we have been talking the conversation has been getting better in the conversation we ...
A. 9 August 2008: you are definitely reading wayyy too much into it! guys are simple animals and girls like to overanalyze. it's a fact of life.
he is trying to get to know you so he is asking you what you like to do. he is interested in you as a friend at most fro... (read in full...)
How can I get life back on track and interesting again?
Q. Any ideas how I can get my life back on track and a bit more exciting? Recently life has just sort of ground to a halt. I don't go out as much as I used to primarily because all my friends have moved on, meaning that I hardly have any friends...
A. 9 August 2008: 22-25? you're too young to be sitting at home in a flat all alone! my first instinct is to tell you to go out and party. clubs, house parties... you could throw a flat party...
but if that isn't your scene: volunteer, take classes, reconnec... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is disrespecting me--he says I'm being unreasonable. Help?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. He cheated on me last winter with his ex girlfriend which i have never fully got over. He still wants to meet up with her(just to chat as friends) and often talks to girls in an ...
A. 9 August 2008: you need to lose him, end of story!... (read in full...)
Should I say or should I go?!
Q. I am 21, male, not a virgin but I haven't had sex in a couple years. I have been waiting for this girl, who has had a boyfriend for years and she like me for a while but I didn't want to "steal her" or whatnot. Now she's recently single but already ...
A. 8 August 2008: did you tell her you were into her before she started dating around??? because you didn't say that specifically in your question. i pretty much agree with the anon guy who answered already. it seems like she is just taking advantage of you. gi... (read in full...)
What should I do?! Am I a lesbian or not?!
Q. hi i am 13 years old and i get really really horny alot and i think i mihgt like girls but i like guys to idk if its wrong?but i have a older sister who is 16 and ive seen her naked and shes hott! and i like girl a little but idk if i should tell ...
A. 8 August 2008: honestly, it might just be the hormones that are making you want sex in any way you can have it and that's why you are being attracted to both guys, girls, and your sister! at least that's what i think.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend suffers from depression and is pushing me away. I don't know what to do for the best?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years suffers from depression when things go wrong. He has recently started a new job after beig made redundant but is not happy there. Last week he told me how much he loved me, glad he had me and thought the world of me. This ...
A. 8 August 2008: i think you are in a bad relationship and you need to get out of it as soon as you can. you do not deserve such bipolar treatment. it does seem like he needs you though. my advice is to tell him that you want to be there for him to support and that ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do? I feel I have no friends my age. I am 18.
Q. I dont know what to do? i feel i have no friends my age (18). i live in a small village and i went to the primary school for a few years but halfway through i went to a private school about 20 mins from my village i never really had any friends ...
A. 8 August 2008: honey, the best thing you can do right now is branch out! first, REMEMBER: you are amazing. you deserve the best. you have something to offer to others, and it is your duty to give it to them! those people out there don't know what they are mi... (read in full...)
Why has my ex made me feel guilty for going on a date, when he has been going on dates for months?
Q. Why do I feel guilty for going on a new date? Me and my ex split about 7 months ago. Its been rocky since, he works with a member of my family, and they go in the pub next door to me after work every day. But ive managed to stay friends with him, ...
A. 8 August 2008: bottom line, i think the two of you still have feelings for each other. if his opinion didn't matter to you, you wouldn't be feeling this way. if you didn't matter to him, he wouldn't pay you a second glance. my advice is to either work thin... (read in full...)
What am I?! Am I bi!?
Q. i am sooo confused about my sexuality. i dont know if im bisexual. i have a boyfriend, but the thought of naked women or being with another girl dosent make me cringe. can anyone help me find out who i am?...
A. 8 August 2008: only time will tell. don't freak out and let things take their course! teen years are meant for self-discovery. your thoughts could be simply curiosity. or maybe you are just very liberal when it comes to love and you are accepting of others in ... (read in full...)
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